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Deschutes County Adopts Ordinance to Allow Permitting of Accessory Dwelling Units (ADU)
On November 1, 2023, the Deschutes County Board of Commissioners enacted an ordinance to allow permitting of accessory dwelling units (also known as ADUs or granny flats) in rural residential areas of Deschutes County. The effective date of the ordinance is December 1, 2023, at which time homeowners and developers can submit applications to add another dwelling unit on their property, provided…
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#accessory buildings#accessory dwelling unit#ADU#extended family living#granny flat#home improvement#intergenerational living#tiny homes
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IAN GALLAGHER + his journey with bipolar disorder
╰┈➤ “At times, being bipolar can be an all-consuming challenge, requiring a lot of stamina and even more courage, so if you’re living with this illness and functioning at all, it’s something to be proud of, not ashamed of." - Carrie Fisher
#happy world bipolar day to all my bp babies#(more thoughts at the end of the tags)#shameless#shamelessnet#shamelessedit#ian gallagher#cameron monaghan#*macygifs#bipolar disorder#hello pals how are we doin#i made this gif set in july of 2023 and never posted it because 1) i was terrified to share it and potentially see Bad Takes in the tags#and 2) because my hyperfixation was waning. and while both of those things are still mostly true (the fixation comes and goes)#i feel like it's really important to share as ian's bipolar storyline was not only so vital to his character it was a bit of representation#that isn't often given to the disorder and those (like myself) who live with it every single day#world bipolar day is a day where we can both celebrate ourselves and our resilience and also raise awareness of the reality of the disorder#which is both terrifying and beautiful at its core. this disease is not a death sentence or a sentence to an unfulfilled and miserable life#while there are challenges galore when it comes to balancing life with this disorder it IS possible to live a full and productive life#and i think it's really important to have representation of that in media - and while shameless dropped the ball on a LOT of storylines#over the years THIS is the one they really fucking nailed and i am incredibly grateful#i first started watching shameless while in the midst of a major depressive episode and i was later (finally) diagnosed during an extended#hypo/manic episode - this show and ian's storyline got me through so much and made me feel so seen and validated in my struggles#world bipolar day is also vincent van gogh's birthday (happy birthday buddy) who was posthumously diagnosed with bipolar disorder#and who experienced both depressive and hypo/manic episodes during his lifetime (and was regularly institutionalized)#it takes a lot of help and support to keep us going. it takes the support of our family and friends and *most* of all#it takes patience and kindness and understanding - which is so so so easy to give if you are willing to love and listen#so please. be willing. listen to our stories. be patient with us. show us love without conditions. support us in any way you can.#we are worth it#i promise#anyway. that's really all i wanted to say. happy world bipolar day to those who celebrate (me) and may all of us living with this disorder#go on to live happy fulfilling beautiful magical lives
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Inspired by this post, a really good discussion about it, and reassurance that life doesn't end after your twenties - quite the opposite in fact. Happy 43rd birthday Kaiba <3
#kaiba seto#seto kaiba#ygo#ygo dm#I KNOW IM LATE AJKSDHJASKF AGAIN#OTP: 'Kaiba x choosing over and over to live and keep going and reach out to the people already there waiting for him'#you can tag any ship you want tho lol#(shhhh in my secret extended brain universe)#(jou and anzu get together in their late 30s and between both of them CANNOT wrap a present)#(honda made the cake)#(yuugi will always answer the phone no matter how late)#(mokuba is family to all of them)#(isono has been offered several generous retirement packages and won't take them)#(he is going to SEE THESE KIDS THROUGH DAMN IT)#(Seto won't let him bodyguard anymore tho so mostly he just hangs around enjoying his seventies)#art tag
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"Clone Force 99 died with Tech"
Oh god, he's thought that the whole time, hasn't he? It's the reason he's convinced he's irredeemable. Because the worst happened while they were trying to rescue him from his choices and there's nothing he can do to make it unhappen. The glass can't be unshattered. His brother is still dead.
#I have to imagine him healing on Pabu with his huge extended family if I'm ever going to feel ok again.#teaching the young clones everything he's ever learned from Tech#watching Omega fly with his goggles on the dash#growing old and seeing his brother's legacy live on#and learning how wrong he was when he said that#the bad batch#the bad batch spoilers#tbb spoilers#tbb season 3 spoilers#the bad batch season 3#tbb season 3#tbb crosshair#sw tbb#tbb tech#tbb s3e15#The Cavalry Has Arrived#ADH-D2's Patented Bullshit#oh this was a bleak one
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At once, Artemis sees Butler as a father figure who must acquiesce to all his whims.
Yet, it is true that :
1) Butler doesn't see Artemis as a son per se (eg B1 and B5, Butler thinks of Artemis as akin to a little brother or younger close friend - hard to see yourself in a paternal role for someone over whom you have little power)
and 2) Artemis takes up the space in Butler's life that would be occupied by a child.
Relatedly.
Can you even like. imagine. how much of a nightmare Artemis would be if Butler ever had a child
#artemis fowl#taking some of this from my reply on another post hehe#Artemis does not feel replaced or ‘threatened’ by the twins but imo I think uh. that would not be true with Butler’s children#I mean lol Artemis drags Butler with on the Mars trip and Butler is like… close to the age where if he were to want a family and children#(outside of the role he plays in Juliet and Artemis’ lives as a paternal figure)#he’d need to start persuing that goal#even though fairy magic will extend his life ofc
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i find it so cute that piccolo who (1) only needs to drink water to live (2) makes his own clothes (3) makes his own house and lives in the mountains far away where there is no town (4) doesn't really get sick as far as we can tell, technically doesn't need to entail any cost to live and doesn't need to even interact with society, but someone in the DB gang decided that they want to pay him a phone and a phone subscription
someone (most likely gohan and videl) decided that they want to stay connected with piccolo on the regular, even when he's faraway, and decided to do that by giving him a phone and calling him...how did the talks go down? did they discuss with bulma so that she can make capsule corp. ensure network coverage deep down in the valleys where piccolo lives? did they teach him how to charge his phone or does he bring it back to gohan/videl/bulma every time?
also, did piccolo himself not object? he can communicate telepathically with others, but this phone means he wanted to stay connected with videl and gohan enough that he is giving them this mean of reaching him in return? (he did decide to call bulma of his own volition on his phone too so i suspect it's all starting to grow on him - he's so domesticated). there was a process involved. he had to learn how to use a phone
and the thing is, he picks up! piccolo picks up his calls! your local green alien recluse will pick up your calls and pick up your daughter from the kindergarten for you if you ask nicely! he will do this regularly!!! he wants to be reachable!!
#piccolo#dbz#dbs#dbs sh#im so#he wants to be reachable in a way that even goku and vegeta arent??#it always drives me crazy that in dbz people will go extended amounts of time without seeing each other cuz they live far apart#and the story will tell you that#but even though the story makes it a point to show that this is fine. theyre scattered across the globe. it's fine#even so piccolo made the conscious choice to be reachable and *involved* in gohan and videl's family life. and he is#it's just so cute
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Aromantic Jon who doesn't know they're aro who treats romantic relationships like yet another chore they have to do now that they're an adult. They're in their twenties now. They've put it off for long enough but they're going to have to do it eventually, it's just what adults do. They sort of approach every relationship like an obligation they're checking off of their to-do list. People keep breaking up with them for it. They used to think everyone else also felt like being in a romantic relationship was a huge burden, but after a few comments landed weird they now suspect it's just yet another short-coming of theirs (they've never been good at understanding other people anyways).
They don't think about it for most of the plot of the podcast, due to the. Everything. Until maybe around S4. But by that point they've basically decided that that doesn't matter any more. Too much time, effort, and risk for anyone not already involved (and no one who IS involved is an option). It's a massive weight off their shoulders. They draw no larger conclusions from this.
#aro jon#obligatory do not tag this with martin or j//mart please and thank you#tbh one of the reasons i 'just wasn't interested in dating right now'#was that 'i barely have enough energy for my friends let alone an actual PARTNER'#'would i have to text them a lot? see them multiple times a week??'#i remember eating dinner with my extended family about a year or so back#and my cousin was w/ his gf (and maybe her family as well?) instead (he was visiting her like every day)#and someone (i think it was my uncle?) told me that it was normal for people who were in love to want to spend all their time together#which i thought was fucking. Weird As Hell. who has the time?? the energy???? to hang out with the SAME PERSON every day??????#when my family pointed out that my parents see each other all the time i was like#'yeah. they live together. they'd have to go out of their way to avoid that'#and i was so fucking confused. because i sort of thought that the USUAL romantic relationship thing was#you go out with them like once a week#and maybe you stay over at their place occasionally#and then you move in#this was around the time when i was questioning if i was aro. no i did not realize then and there that the answer was YES#fuck it. maintagging this. aro jon rights!!#jonathan sims#jon sims#tma#the magnus archives#also implied autistic jon. that man is so auDHD to me#no i'm not projecting. shut up.
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Listening to Ribs by Lorde thinking about a pre breakup Mihawk telling Shanks.
“Your the only friend I need”
And Shanks a man who has always known company and has dedicated his life to having friends/family, doesn’t know how to take that.
Mihawk who intended this as a “flirt” is doing his best looking up through his eyelashes trick.
This does not help. At all
#me further pushing my Shanks is really worried about Mihawk’s loneliness agenda#this was supposed to be serious but I couldn’t help myself. I just think mihawk is so naturally sexy he’d be horrendous at intent flirting#it’s just that Shanks is a social guy he loves having a big and ever extending network of friends and family#Mihawk saying he only needs one friend is so heartbreaking to him#but also the abandonment issues are at war because Mihawk said that him#just him he’s all he needs#but also what if he’s not enough what if he can’t live up to it what if he messes up and mihawk has no one#is he really enough to make people stay?#and then there’s also the little goblin brain that’s cradling mihawk in his hands striking him and going “my precious#Mihawk’s just there like why isn’t the flirt working? why am I not being ravaged. see if I ever do that again 😒.#shanks doesn’t even know what he’s lost 😔#one piece#throwing thoughts to the void#dracule mihawk#op#hawkeye mihawk#mishanks#akagami no shanks#shanks#red haired shanks#akataka#mihawk x shanks
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Grudge Match headcanon:
Messmer owns many, many snakes, but his favorites are two albino reticulated pythons. Their names are Uriel and Tamiel. Both are pushing nine feet long, and both are certified therapy animals. They wear little vests with their certification patches. They help Messmer keep calm by draping around him like a weighted blanket, and they are quite well attuned to his moods. In stressful social situations, Messmer will find a place to sit down and then slowly disappear under his cocoon of snakes.
#grudge match fic#elden ring modern AU#messmer the impaler#kind of want to do a sequel to grudge match#where marika has gone to therapy and started to make amends with the extended family#and miquella decides to invite the brother he just learned he had over for thanksgiving dinner#Miquella: when you meddle in other people's lives it's just so... rewarding! :D#but i have too many WIPs right now#maybe after i finish the maliketh origin story...
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What if, people really didn’t leave the league? like, in fics and comics it’s always ppl sneaking away in the dead of night and then being hunted down. But, what if that wasn’t the case? What if, when you swore in, you (unknowingly or knowingly to you) pledged your soul to Ra’s Al Ghul, to the Al ghuls, and to the League of Assassins.
so you can run, but it always feels wrong, and you always end up back there, bc your soul it tugging you back to where it is pledged, where it’s tethered. And when you die, your soul doesn’t go to heaven or hell, but you continue to serve the al ghuls as ghosts.
Bruce doesn’t count, bc Ra’s let him go; he respected the detective too much to enslave him (he pledged to so as to get trained by the league). Jason and Cass weren’t technically part of the league, since they never formally pledged.
And because of this, the Al ghuls have this weird relationship with the occult. They can actually sense/see all ghosts, but only control the ones who are pledged to them. similar thing with magic and the occult (they have magic in their blood). they have a 6th sense for it, like it almost leaves a residue that they can sense/see.
#IMAGINE THE POSSIBILITIES#damian just being like ‘how do i tell my father his house is hauneted’ on reddit#also#‘am i the asshole for for not wanting to live with all my dads fucking annoying extended family’#(i headcannon that the wayne’s have a crazy and long family line who all lived and died in the manor)#ghosts#damian dc#damain wayne#damian al ghul#al ghuls#ra’s al ghul#talia al ghul#mara al ghul#al ghul family#damian al ghul wayne#nyssa al ghul#dusan al ghul#ra's al ghul#they’re fucking weird as shit ok#mother soul dc#magic user damian wayne#supernatural#dc headcanon
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MiqoMarch Day 02 - Home
"Home is where ever I can find you."
#MiqoMarch#ffxiv#g'raha tia#wolgraha#y'shtola rhul#y'shtola x wol#wolshtola#miqo'te#ffxiv WOL#MiqoMarch2024#Arsay has so many places she's lived and returned too but its not home if her partners arent there with her!#This extends to the scions too they are her family and shes at home where they are but everyone is kinda scattered around so
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it just breaks my heart that palestinian families are raising such insane amounts of money that less than a year ago would’ve transformed their lives for the better, let them pursue their dream degrees, open businesses, pay off their mortgages and various debts, only to travel just a few kilometres and live in precarious penury in egypt. it is so cruel.
#the economic cost of this is devastating. their entire extended families living outside of Palestine are also losing all of their savings#their retirement funds#money for university and for medical treatment and for housing#and for WHAT#to bribe the fucking egyptian military
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"do you, ribbon of ripple star, swear to protect our sacred crystal and the livelihood of your planet with the entirety of your heart and soul, so long as you are able?"
kirbytober day 18: kirby 64/knight
something a bit different than expected, but i love the idea that ribbon is something like ripple star's appointed knight/guardian :]
#mk and ribbon parallels go#both protectors of extremely important magical artifacts of their planet and was sent by their monarchs to protect it#and both had their lives turned around by kirby and made countless more friends because of it#though that is most kirby characters i will admit#dw i have fifty million ideas for mk and the 64 crew interacting#they are extended family your honor#anyways i love my daughter ribbon she can commit as many war crimes as she wants <3#kirby series#ribbon kirby#kirby 64#kirbytober#kirbytober2023#veves ultra cool art
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A fun little thing between me and @therealslimscreamer! We made our own little AU, since our Tisos are so different, in which both exist and become besties! Screamer's 'Sage' becomes my 'Shield's mentor and brother, since while he can hold his own, he's not actually properly trained in how to use a shield as a weapon.
#hollow knight#hollow knight tiso#Mirror Image AU#this was partly born from a roleplay#and partly born bc the idea of having two entire Tisos who lead wildly different but eerily similar lives ending up in the same place is#SO funny to me#the weird extended family keeps getting weirder and more extended#i am not complaining abt this lmao
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- Why was Ryouga the only one immune to the Trinoid's attack? - Ryo-chan doesn't hate anyone or anything!
#it's scary how many screenshots i have of him. i edited even more caps but decided these are already enough. he's definitely my favorite#imagine you're a 23 year old—young adult who lost all your family except for your niece#so you selflessly decide you will be her dad/guardian. but no one taught you how to take care of a child. you're not sure if you're doing#the right thing for her. oh no mai chan is influenced by a bad TV program. it must be your fault for spending too much time with your#abaranger obligations and not enough time taking care of her. you must be a terrible father for mai chan. but even you are struggling#you picked up so many odd jobs and niche talents growing up just to survive. for the two of you. the apartment you lived? gone#during the bakuryuu attack. so now you're living under someone's shelter. yet you never lose hope patience and kindness for others#that extends to even the evil doctor who always gets in your way because you believe in the goodness in everyone#HAKUA RYOGA I LOVE YOU SO SO MUCH. i saw that poll asking if ryouga is the superior dilf. and while im not sure about the dilf part#no one surpasses ryouga for me! abared all the way!#hakua ryouga#伯亜凌駕#nishi koichiro#西興一朗#bakuryuu sentai abaranger#爆竜戦隊アバレンジャー
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watching the first 2 episodes of frieren last year shook me so bad i still can't get myself to continue it, but between what i remember of it and the nightmares episode of dungeon meshi i can't stop thinking about the ways laios would prepare marcille for his death. what would he leave behind to remind her that he (and by extension all the people she loved and who loved her) are still with her in spirit, even if not in body?
#dungeon meshi#laios touden#marcille donato#i'm a laios & marcille are a secret third thing that can't be defined by language truther but make of this what you will i guess lol#if falin does turn out to have an extended life span due to dungeon shenanigans laios would rest easier but he'd def still worry#dungeon meshi spoilers#she might come across the regenerated kensuke at some point but that one was an accident 😅#i still think he'd train some dogs to accompany her#maybe make a promise w one of the castle staff & their family to keep training dogs through generations so there'll always be a rag for her#would he leave annotations in her magic tomes for her to find years down the road?#oh and he'd rope everyone else in definitely#he'd ask everyone in the party and maybe even kabru et al. & toshiro et al. for good measure#oh and what i meant by frieren shaking me was w each ep i found myself sobbing uncontrollably halfway through#i loved it but it was A Lot for me emotionally#i do remember seeing a post about how one of the reasons himmel had no problem having statues of him made#was bc he was doing it partly in the hope that when frieren sees one she'll remember him & their adventures together#that their time together wasn't just a blip in her life#he may physically be gone but his memory lives on#that really resonated with me#calemonsito notes
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