#ex proshipper

[lungofthefang]

As an ex-anti, the way that some proshippers act regarding people who left the proship community due to traumatic experiences is honestly very disgusting and some of you really need to grow a heart.

Can you imagine a proshipper talking about their traumatic experiences as an ex-anti and in response, antis laughed at them? You all would be fuming, so why is it magically okay when it’s the reverse of that? “This is funny!” “Lmfao!” “Why seek help?” This isn’t even counting the times I’ve seen proshippers say that ex proshippers are dumb or evil or lacking in morals when being an ex proshipper ≠ being an anti.

Congratulations if you’ve never had a bad experience while in the proship community but a lot of other people, me included, can’t say the same.

[sushiithephoenix]

Hey guys.. 😅👋 I wanna confess something since this has been on my mind for a while now uhhh,

I USED to be a proshipper that would ship the Morty x Rick ship cuz of early Internet access and exposure to 🌽 via an old 'friend' of mine when I was WAY younger..

Y'all can unfollow me if you want, I understand..

[mikurulucky]

OMG! I'm so glad I found you! I recognized your artstyle and I remember liking your art since I was like 13 and you were a huge inspo for me back in the day. To clarify, I had no idea that you used to be THAT kind of shipper (if you know what I mean 🤐) untill I've read your latest journal on DA. Like I said, I was 13 at the time and had no idea what word "proshipper" meant and liked your stuff mainly because I thought your art was cute 😭. The most important thing is that you got out of it and that you're still making cool art 💖. Hope you understand and have a great day ✨

Thanks so much. Time flies, huh? Yeah also glad to not be following the proship blogs I followed back then. Also fandoms in 2013 basically normalized some fucked up shit, I still remember how popular that one ship between a teenager and his adult ghost cousin was in the Dude That's My Ghost fandom back then. :/

Glad to be out of all that and that fandoms aren't as afraid to call out messed up shit when needed.

[crewtawn]

Did your description say you posted loli and shota and whatever at some point? Am I stupid? Please tell me that’s been dropped

God, a long time ago. It's totally been dropped. At that point I had been groomed into thinking it was normal. (Thanks Eddsworld Amino and Black Butler fandom very cool and based. /sarcasm)

When I hit 16 I found out that it wasn't a normal thing. Obviously changed my description. Does it still say it somewhere? I'll actually rip my lungs out and roll over dead if it does. I think anyone under the age of 18 is gross annoying nowadays anyway. Never having kids, those things infuriate me.

Sorry if this freaked anyone out! I am NOT proship, lolisho, or any of that crap. Blech.

[bloodncupcakes]

Intro coming soon . . . 𓉸ྀི

[antipratfaves]

Hi is it alright if I make two requests?

The first is Double Trouble from She-da and the Princessses of Power who is an ex-radqueer, ex-proshipper, anti-prat, Devqueer (link—> here) and a chronosian who reclaims the term “Transage”. 

The second is Alador Blight from the Owl House who is a chronosian, Catqueer (link—> here) with atypical dysphoria who hates PRATS and proshippers!

Double Trouble from She-Ra and the Princesses of Power is an ex-radqueer, ex-proshipper, anti-PRAT, devqueer, and reclaims the term transage!

Alador Blight from the Owl House is a chronosian catqueer with atypical dysphoria who hates PRATs and proshippers

sometimes Billy puts images of the flags both with and without characters when it feels its too obscured by the charactrr to make out all the flags.

[papyrus-please-one-chance-please]

Not my usual content but as much as I'm against abusive ships genuinely if you need help or someone to talk to my dms are open. I used to be a proshipper when I was way younger so I know that sometimes you do stupid shit because of trauma. My dni is for people who aren't willing to get help or who do it for fun or whatever and that's for my own safety but if you're seeking help it's important to reach out

[wildfeather5002]

A couple questions to ex proshippers: What made you leave the proship community? How does proshippers' beliefs & actions affect them? /gen

[allantsukie]

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[proship-culture-is]

A reminder that proship and profic are about fiction, and this community is not about endorsing or enabling those topics in real life.

I say this because occasionally, "MAP bait"/"IRL loli" accounts will pop up in the proship tag. Always report for child abuse material.

I pray they are just bait accounts by adult antishippers trying to "hunt for pedophiles" and prove proshippers are terrible people, and not actual children looking to be groomed.

[lungofthefang]

If it seems like I only call out proshippers despite being neutral is because 1. I was a proshipper longer than I was an anti and 2. Proshippers are the ones who preach about basing their community off of anti-harassment and anti-bullying so I put pressure on them to keep up their end of the deal.

[pumkinbunni]

Being an ex anti is so weird, like I was so unhappy when I was a anti

It was miserable walking on eggshells in every Fandom and literally having to check if a ship was "ok" or not

Such a tiring experience thank God I turned to being a proshipper I'm way happier now :3

[mikurulucky]

The best advice I'd give is to forgive yourself. People may still try to harass you for having been a proshipper in the past, but we're human. We're always growing as a person. Our ideas and beliefs might change.

Just because we stop developing past a certain age does not mean we stop learning and changing.

^^^^

[threeyrslost]

I think the thing that kills me in anti rhetoric is that, to prove their point that "fiction affects reality", they often refrain from ACTUAL self-declared fictional media like cartoons, movies, books, etc., and start listing things like propaganda or common societal misconceptions and try to refer to these as "fiction"

So, in the nicest way possible to whatever anti needs to hear this, Birth of a Nation, the idea that mice like cheese, and SpongeBob SquarePants are all viscerally different at their FUNDAMENTALS, and conflating them for your point does NOT make you look or sound smart, I'm sorry lol

[domesticatedfemcel]

i love you proshippers in spaces you aren't accepted

i love you proshippers who have to pretend you're antis

i love you proshippers in the mogai community

i love you proshippers in the age/petre community

i love you proshippers in the furry community

i love you proshippers in the therian/otherkin community

i love you proshippers in anti heavy fandoms

i love you proshippers with anti friends

you are all so seen and so appreciated. keep being yourself and stick to your morals ❤️

[xx-lun4c3st-xx]

Fiction doest affect reality in the way that Antis think it does.

Fiction can influence the way you think.

it cannot make ppl wanna touch real kids, if u do, thats a psychological issue detached from ur fictional tastes💀

everyone knows that video games dont cause real violence, so why cant the same be applied here?

i like shooting ppl in video games, am i gonna take a gun and shoot a real person? NO!!!!

i like shotas and incest, would i ever look at a little boy or my family in that way?? ALSO NO!!!!!