#ex lesbian

[judas-isariot]

I admit I would have been surprise to have lesbian sex even implied in Arcane. So when I saw S2.8 and I can only say one thing :

This was clearly storyboarded by a woman who already had lesbian sex and animated by lesbian .

[educating-bimbos]

The Pinned Post 2

new pinned post because tumblr hid my old one from my view so I can't see, edit it, or reblog it to add an addendum. I only have a few things to add, so I am just going to copy and paste it.

Who is Educating Bimbos?

My name is Nicolette. I am a technical artist, musician, and an outdoorsy type of gal. I enjoy the finer things in life, and I fancy myself a traditional woman and a bimbo. I don't really enjoy mindlessly obsessing over labels, but if it helps people gauge where my brain is at, I am pro-patriarchy, in favor of traditional gender roles and dynamics, an ex-feminist, and before all else a believer in one's ability to exercise personal freedoms. My beliefs, mannerisms, and presentation attract the ire of feminists, born-again-religious types, and any number of anti-fun douchebags. At the end of the day, just remember that behind this silly blog is a silly person.

What is Educating Bimbos?

It is a blog and small community of bimbos looking to learn more about and express a traditional lifestyle. It is also about people who may not be familiar with or comfortable around things like BDSM get a nice and soft introduction to it without being exposed immediately to the idea of how people can enjoy things in a pseudo-sexual context. At the end of the day, it is a blog and community where I and other like-minded people can express silly ideas without the fear of being lambasted by people seeking to harm others.

Where is Educating Bimbos?

Educating Bimbos can be found in one of these two places.

Why is Educating Bimbos?

Well for a while I was annoyed by the lack of communities that focused on a kind of "hyper-feminine" aesthetic while also promoting more traditional ideas. There was also the issue of communities that have tried this before of devolving into bigoted and abusive communities that would do everything under the sun to create an insular and ToS breaking community. I spoke with a friend of mine who runs a similar community a while ago and she inspired me to give this a shot. Now - close to 3 years later - I have a steadily growing community that pulls from all corners of ideology, cultural, ethnic, and interest level and the discord has been almost completely drama-free in its whole existence.

When is Educating Bimbos?

I am alive and doing silly stuff all day, every day. Except when it is nap time in which case I will be in the realm of dreams.

What's an ex-lesbian and why do you call yourself that?

For a number of very personal reasons, I have decided to call myself an ex-lesbian. I did this of my own volition, and I was not pressured into doing so. For a long time, I had thought of myself as a lesbian, mostly because of socialization and how all the girls around me were so might as well follow suit. I experienced a number of harmful and traumatic events when I considered myself a lesbian and it effected how I view myself. After a while and talking to some friends who I trust dearly, I came to the realization that I am not a lesbian and that it really isn't a thing I identify with the same way others do. I am still trying to come to grips with that given I only relatively recently had that realization. I also feel that people use that term in bad faith to harm people and to push bad narratives and ideas so I thought "hey might as well try and take back what should be an innocuous phrase."

In short, I think an ex-lesbian is just a way of identifying one's sexuality similar to asexuality or demisexuality. It is not that I am one sexuality or another, it's that my sexuality is defined by my experience and coming of age.

I have had a number of people confront me about this, talk to me about it in sincere curiosity, and even attack me. I welcome anyone who is curious or has a genuine contention to come to me in DMs, I am not a mean person, and I will love to talk honestly and respectfully. I find that disagreement is not grounds to discredit or avoid befriending people, I hope you can do the same.

Further questions for Educating Bimbos?

If you find that these questions are unsatisfactory in any regard, or you wish to try your hand at doing what I do, follow these two links!

Ask me anything!

Ask me anything you want! I have some personal rules with regards to what I can and cannot upload, but this is generally the best way for me to answer any question you may have. I also have anonymous asks enabled just in case you are shy.

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[semenrussellbeale]

Funniest thing about enduring years of being called "manipulative" by my mom and my teachers and my peers for having the audacity to show emotions or pain is, hands down, the fact that I've realized how easy it is to intentionally con people by using raw melodramatic drivel and embraced it. Like oh, it's basic human instinct to respond to a person crying? Wrong! They're all crocodile tears meant to demand your attention, and by God, I will do anything for attention, good or bad! Whatever satisfies the other basic human need for interaction.

[hes1an1asshole]

https://youtube.com/shorts/1wKgt8odDW0?si=7_65S0LnGmlNLsm1

Me and bf

Everyone: ya know there's a rumor going around

Me: what, that were together?

Matt:...wait..what?

Me: no see im a lesbian but if there was a man I'd marry, it'd be matt

Everyone: how do you feel about that matt?

Matt: it's not helping with the rumors

Me: you said the same thing when I said "I only rember the color of your eyes cuz I look I'm your eyes a lot"

Matt: WELL CUZ ITS TRUE

me: shut up

Matt: * smiles*

Everyone: I think the kiss you two had at the 8th grade recognition isn't helping with the rumors

Matt: heh, I wish

(The time line here went a little skibbidy bibbidy bur ight)

[salem-witch-slut]

Nothing like a sweet, amazing, cute asf trans boy from the UK to make someone realize that uh, hey... you may not be as lesbian as you once thought you were.

[arcanegifs]

ARCANE LEAGUE OF LEGENDS: 2x09 - “The Dirt Under Your Nails.”

[tampire]

Scott Pilgrim VS The World: The Game

[doctorsiren]

Thinking about how (a humanoid) Bill would see Ford be older after those 30 years (because that’s how people work), and so to try and appeal to him again, he makes himself look older too (I mean, he’s WAYYYY older than Ford actually, but I just mean visually)

But then after he’s killed and sent to the Theraprism, he goes back to his original twink look, and I say this because I already did a drawing of my humanoid Bill in prison and I like how that design worked with his pathetic traumatized orange jumpsuit look more than I think I would like it with an older looking version 😁 plus uhh I don’t wanna deem that drawing “not canon” to my brain so yeah

[rhfffas]

rio vidal: i have two hands

rio vidal: one for holding agatha's–

rio vidal: –and one for stabbing agatha

[one-time-i-dreamt]

I was dating some dude (I’m lesbian) and he didn’t have a look but his ex who though they were still dating came with us on a trip to New York.

[countdykulaa]

im rambling on tumblr because i can't quite ramble on twitter but the thing i love most about butches , especially the more hypermasc ones is how gentle they are . everyone always treats them like caricatures with no feelings besides aggression , but they're honestly so nuturing and caring. you feel yourself slip into this princess like state whenever you're with them . you feel their arm around your waist proudly in public and their teeth slightly kiss your neck and you just wanna melt into them . they'll call you the sweetest names and care for you in a way that comes to them like breathing . its honestly such a pleasure to be loved by them and be able to express your own love in turn . not in a way most lesbians deem acceptable which is this mirrored "do for me what i'll do for you exactly" but a "take care of me the best way you know how and i will do the same"

[elainiisms]

that one homoerotic girl friendship that ended horribly is always like, i hate her more than anyone, i will never stop loving her. she made me who i am, i hate the parts of me she helped create. i miss her more than anything, i can't even look her in the eye. i dream about her most nights, i'll cut off my arm before i even consider reaching out to her again. i want us back, i never want to feel that way again.

[educating-bimbos]

You are literally just repressing your sexuality and probably a victim of grooming. Stop making this about some nebulous people in your past that probably did nothing wrong.

This was the anonymous ask I got earlier. Like I said earlier, I have no idea how I can defend myself against this. These people keep coming at me with the same non-arguments and try to psychoanalyze me without ever actually talking to me or anything. There is no bar I could meet where they would be satisfied with me existing.

If this is the kind of treatment I should expect from lesbians I am glad I left that lifestyle behind.

[daisylolezzi]

the man r@ping me rubbing and teasing my clit while his hard dick slams into my cunt over and over so when i cant help but cum, he can gaslight me and say "see? you just came on my cock. you're not a lesbian at all. " and because im so overwhelmed and crying i cant do anything to fight back as he keeps fucking my gold star pussy with his cock and laughing at me as my body does what it was meant to do, especially when he cums inside and fills my womb.

[fujifroot]

she’s deeply bothered by everything ur saying 👍👍👍 (ally and brennan playing gay exes forever and ever . pls)

[youngexwivesclub]