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listen as much as i would have loved more romance in the yangchen novels i have to say it is extremely iconic of f.c yee to write a set of novels where the sapphic relationship is an undeniable, major plot point and then write another set of novels where the straight relationship is left up to interpretation
#this is also great for aspec yangchen headcanons#i’m personally fond of aroflux + demisexual yangchen#but anyway. fc yee you icon#kyoshi novels#yangchen novels#the rise of kyoshi#the shadow of kyoshi#the dawn of yangchen#the legacy of yangchen#rangshi#yangvik#avatar kyoshi#avatar yangchen#kyoshi x rangi#yangchen x kavik#ALSO (editing later) gotta add that i say ‘more romance’ lightly#because i found yangchen and kavik’s relationship to be extremely compelling in both a romantic and platonic sense#even without them displaying traditional ‘romantic’ interactions#i’m obsessed with how you have to read between the lines for them#chronicles of the avatar
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Intercultural Dating in a Globalized World: Perception and Personal Growth
By: Group 5 – Putri Eka Solehudin, Alya Nur Tiana, & Cindy Winda Mareta.
In today’s globalized world , intercultural relationships have become increasingly frequent due to immigrant movement, studying abroad, and interaction through digital platforms (Chen, 2010). Intercultural relationships exist between individuals from different cultural backgrounds who may relate intimately, socially, or professionally. However, they also mean navigating the intricacies of cultural expectations regarding communication styles, gender roles, family involvement, and expression of emotions (Bustamante et al., 2011).
Intentionality in communication and awareness of culture are important for development and maintenance. Although it is said that love conquers all, in reality such relationships require constant negotiation of meaning, norms, and expectations. Cooperation in communication, empathy, and adaptability are additional efforts needed to break these barriers (Martin & Nakayama 2010). Therefore, it discusses how these intercultural relationships develop, what the couple has to face in stark contrast, and how understanding can be developed around cultural boundaries.
Video Analyzed
“How Cultural Differences Affect Our Relationship”
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This video features interracial couple talking about daily life events and cultural differences. Their relationship dynamics built by both different backgrounds, an example would be the American and the Asian or African partner-reveal how people develop their relationships.
Observed Themes & Behaviors.
1. Cultural Practices & Assumptions
They try each other’s traditional foods and face different taste expectations. These moments show how shared experience leads to deeper understanding.
2. Non-Verbal Norms
Differences usually emphasize the understanding of non-verbal cues such as eye contact, public displays of affection, and tone of voice.
3. Language Use & Expressions
Consequently, it poses cultural influences in the way he consumes or communicates affection. What one culture claims so romantically or respectfully would seem very formal or awkward to another culture.
4. Turning Points in Communication
The couple identifies several communication breakdowns and how they make up for them, such as misinterpretations caused by tone or body language.
Intercultural Relationship Concepts in Practice:
• Similarity–Difference Dialectic.
They talk about all those things that they share (for instance, respect, loyalty, love) and show that among those shared values are food, social expectations, and communication norms.
• Communication Competence.
They learn empathy, active listening, and adaptability-these were the most essential elements for intercultural competence-by the time they reach misunderstandings.
• Identity Negotiation
In the process, both adjust their expectations and behaviours without compromising their cultural identities, which contributes to the understanding of identity as co-constructed in relationships.
What This Video Teaches Us.
Through their story and honesty, this couple shows us:
How cultural identity shapes love;
That patience and openness are essential;
That YouTube (and social media) can be powerful platforms for cultural dialogue.
Conclusion.
In a world shaped by globalization and digital platforms, intercultural relationships now not only becoming even more widespread, become more significant at the same time. The video analysis demonstrates that love and communication as well as empathy can transcend even the widest cultural divides.
With an open to growth mindset and willingness to learn, intercultural love is possible and thus inspiring, as illustrated by couples like Kwame and Elaine, who build a "third" culture.
References
Bustamante, R. M., Nelson, J. A., Henriksen Jr, R. C., & Monakes, S. (2011). Intercultural couples: Coping with culture-related stressors. The Family Journal.
Chen, G. M. (2010). A model of global communication competence. China Media Research.
Martin, J. N., & Nakayama, T. K. (2010). Intercultural Communication in Contexts (5th ed.). McGraw-Hill.
Rai Technology University. (2019). Intercultural Communication. India: Rai Technology University.
This post is part of the final project of the Intercultural Communication course.
#LoveAcrossCultures#InterculturalRelationship#CulturalDifferences#VideoAnalysis#Intercultural Communication
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merlin S1 rewatch: episode 6
it’s been a hot minute! today’s commentary is about episode 1x06, A Remedy to Cure All Ills. which I re-watched more than a month ago actually, but I’ve been busy.
just some random comments and thoughts (as usual), and not an actual review or analysis.
I think this episode is extremely underrated – I loved it the first time I watched it, and I still thoroughly enjoyed it on my rewatch. yes, it’s kind of a filler episode with a very traditional Villain of the Week format – but it's a great villain.
Julian Rhind-Tutt’s performance as Edwin is great and I love a suave, smooth-talking, scheming villain as much as the next person. The way he manipulates people, never suggesting anything outright but playing on people’s fears and biases, only saying just enough to make them reach the conclusion he wants. Something very Richard III about it. Very Iago.
EDWIN: “No… I shan’t say”
Another thing I love about this episode is the rare (unique?) instance of Merlin showing his magic to another sorcerer whom he isn't suspicious of (the audience knows Edwin is the Bad Guy, of course, but at this point Merlin doesn't).
I can’t think of another moment like this in the series. Freya didn’t actually have magic. There is Gilli, but when Merlin reveals his magic to him he already knows of the boy's intention to kill Uther, and it is a last attempt to stop Gilli from committing regicide without putting him in harm’s way. Merlin's relationship with Mordred and the Druids was always complicated by prophecies and by his role as Emrys.
But there’s none of that here. Edwin tells Merlin that magic can be used for good, and that it can be ENJOYED! which is all Merlin ever wanted to hear. And it’s a bit heartbreaking to see the hope on Merlin's face, knowing all that is going to happen later in the series.
I also loved the previous interaction between Merlin and Edwin:
“It can’t explain love”!! He’s a romantic. He loves love 🥺🥺🥺
I think the writers lost sight of Edwin’s motive a bit by the time they got to the ending. He’s not content with just killing Uther, he also wants to… rule the kingdom? And he tells Merlin they can do it together? (a concept revisited in the Cornelius Sigan episode). I don't think it works well.
I think Edwin’s final evil speech would have been way more impactful if he had tried to appeal to Merlin’s empathetic side, instead of his non-existent thirst for power, and reminded him of all the suffering Uther caused and why he deserved to die. I guess that would be a moral dilemma that deserves more than a few minutes of screen time to be resolved satisfactorily, and we’re already at the end of the episode at this point.
The series does dwell on it in To Kill the King, to be fair, but I think the “why not just let Uther die?” dilemma could have been presented before then. (Merlin's momentarily hesitation at healing Uther at the end is more to do with his fear of being seen using magic by Uther than by an actual reluctance to save the king.)
Anyway. I still think this is a very good episode overall, even with its relatively weak ending.
Other random thoughts:
The random-ass reference to alchemy. Something that wasn’t elaborated on, nor ever mentioned again (??) Missed opportunity imo.
Gaius is made "a free man of Camelot", whatever that means. (Does it mean that he, like Merlin, is not from Camelot? Or is it some kind of special privilege? We don’t know. I think maybe in Love at the Time of Dragons Gaius mentions something about he and Alice coming to Camelot but I can’t remember and I can’t be bothered to check now)
Some excellent display of brotherly concern from Arthur when Morgana falls sick. He's the one pushing for Uther to call for Edwin. We love to see it
Merlin and Gaius all but call each other father and son. DON’T TOUCH ME.
Gaius was 100% ready to let Uther die if it meant saving Merlin’s life. btw.
Gaius and Uther. WHAT ARE THEY
All the heavy hints at Gaius’s acting as a Category Traitor in the Great Purge + the only instance of Gaius talking to Kilgharrah (!!!) I am obsessed with it
The paralles between Uther & Gaius and Arthur & Merlin. I feel absolutely normal about it
“Now, open your eyes, My Lord. I want my face to be the last face you ever see.” -> I don’t care if it’s cliched, this line fucks
MERLIN CLAIMS ANOTHER VICTIM, AT LAST!! I was starting to worry but finally my baby is back to killing people :)
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Gender, the beach, and a club in Tokyo
Weekend of August 26th
In Japan, the separation of men and women based on gender is 1. really innate and 2. really prominent. Relationships between the two polarized groups are limited to romantic ones for the most part, with platonic relationships (friendships) being sparse. This is not a judgment as much as it is an observation. It’s not common to see a divide this big based on gender in America and it’s even less common to have the reason for it be explained as intrinsic to people. In the states at least, there are multiple theories surrounding gender and gender expression, one of them being “essentialism” which is basically the idea that men and women have innate/fixed/ intrinsic/ distinct qualities about them that divide them. Examples are “women are naturally better caregivers than men” or that “men are better suited for physical labor” (https://www.oxfordreference.com/display/10.1093/oi/authority.20110803095846595)
It is not commonly believed anymore in a lot of places in America (who knows though) but a lot of the way gender is expressed in Japan strikes me as essentialist but also manages to bend the rules in a traditional sense. It is still common for women to be homemakers and be responsible for all of the duties in a home (including raising children) but nowadays they have to do this on top of usually having a job as well. Compared to what I’m used to seeing, women act much more feminine here- despite the vast differences in attire. Like women can wear traditionally masculine clothes and have short hair (in America this makes you masculine) and still be seen as women. I think this is because their identity as women is so baked into the gender of it all the presentation is not as strict. But I don't know. I don't understand enough Japanese to really know OR have a good enough knowledge on Japanese ideas of gender. Either way, it seems exhausting. I was told that men and women can’t really go out one on one without it being seen as romantic. There is a strong divide between girls and boys growing up and it doesn’t really become socially acceptable to mingle until college or right after it (when they are expected to date to get married). I feel like this can create a ‘transactional’ sort of feel in relationships between people of the opposite gender here- because they’re rarely allowed to interact simply to interact. It’s a lot to take in as someone who tries to be mindful of culture norms different from my own but is a firm believer in gender being more of a social construct and form of expression that shouldn’t limit anyone. What can you do or even say when the culture is permissible of misogyny and harmful gender norms and restrictions? I can’t think about it for too long without losing my mind a little.
Gender, at the beach,,,, struck me in waves. I am lucky to be far enough into the countryside and close enough to popular beaches where I wasn’t the only one wearing a two piece swimsuit. The sun is unforgiving and without a friend's small umbrella, I would have been sunburnt even more than I was. And I was really sunburnt. Tops of my feet, shoulders, my face, the whole thing. The beach often makes me overstimulated. The sand everywhere, the everpresent sun, for the longest time I wore glasses and I could never see clearly. This time was no different besides me having contacts. Maybe it was that or maybe it was the being on the other side of the world with strangers who are showing me kindness or maybe both- that had me just sitting half on a blanket (that was covered in sand) and feeling that despite the sand and the sun, I liked the beach. I giggled at my friends comments and antics, I got to float around in the ocean (the waves are much calmer here). I enjoyed the day and thought the beach was where it was going to end. I had already driven the farthest I’ve driven that day and managed to find beach parking in someone's backyard (it was so New Jersey). However, that’s not where my day reached its peak.
Some time later, but not enough time for what was about to happen, I found myself on a rapid train to Tokyo. I don’t usually do stuff like “agree to go to a club in Tokyo within hours' notice and the plan is to stay there the whole night and take the first train home”, but how could I not? I don’t see myself as a risk taker but not going would have haunted me and being haunted wins over fear. Alcohol and loud music also will take the place where anxiety is sitting. I think I’m doing a good job socializing and I was having fun (It would be clear if I wasn’t). The lights are bright and flashy in the dark room. The music is so loud and within an hour or two of arriving it becomes densely packed. I was still asked at least once an hour if I was okay or needed a break. Honestly? Fair points, I’m sure my facial expressions betray me. Plus, it feels nice to be worried over a bit. It did make me feel better when we linked hands to get through the crowds. Like our little group was not to be separated and our hands were proof!
Women only had to pay 1000 yen to get in and got 2 free drink tickets (not the same for men,,,). I stay in the long line with my friends instead of going in through the ‘Ladies only’ one because alone I am very small and in a group I am normal sized. I get talked into putting my bag in a coin locker (good decision) but I feel naked with only my phone and wallet in my pockets. The first floor is anime music (maybe video games too I don’t know), the second floor is English pop/ party music, and the third floor is like the second floor except it’s remixed EDM. The first drink I get is fruity and I wish it was stronger. The second is way too sweet and I wish it was a vodka soda (American sized pour). The third drink is handed to me by a friend and I have no complaints (I think it’s the first one again). The men there are incredibly creepy in my opinion and their eyes are predatory before anything else. No one bothers me and the other girl I’m with much but every time someone tries, she spins me closer to her and away from the offender. The bonds between women in a club are sacred to me. It’s like even without language we all understand protecting one another from becoming prey. I think some people would interpret this attention as interest which is fine but it’s equally as interpretable as feeling hunted. I enjoy the EDM visuals on the third floor but the second floor’s music is preferable. I’m ready to leave around 4:15 am and that’s about when we head out. I have some of the best ramen I’ve ever had in a shop that we wait way too long in line for. The train ride home feels like forever. I got home around 8:45 am and slept until about 3:30 pm. The anxiety of trying is now a memory of togetherness.

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Velgearian Rituals Of Connection & Affection
Velgearians, in comparison to humans or even most other aliens, are quite an affectionate species. They very much value connection with other beings, whether it be their own people or otherwise. It is this desire for connection that I imagine was part of the reason why Yudias' message of peace through understanding resonated with the masses and was shared by the Velgearian Council. They did not want to be enemies with those they were fighting against, but rather friends and allies.
How Velgearians showcase their bonds and affections for others is quite varied. However, a few common rituals and other acts are commonplace. Most of these are conducted between those who have either a platonic or romantic bond, even ones that other species might only do with a romantic partner.
Kissing
Kissing is a common display of affection in Velgearian culture that is done for platonic or romantic reasons. The most common locations for kissing are on the cheek or the forehead, but some may choose to kiss the back of the hand (as my Yudias does with @voiderequiem 's Zuwijo) or even one's feet. However, the areas that are usually reserved for romantic partners are the neck, their chest (aka where their galaxy core is), and the lips. Though it is not unheard of for platonic partners to kiss those areas, except the chest (which is 100% reserved for couples). It is just usually very rare and may take a platonic comrade by surprise.
The act is not done, however, on just anyone. It is only done with those with whom the individual is very close. You won't see someone doing it for any other reason, such as someone doing it purely for intimacy/sexual reasons without any deep connection to the individual their interacting with.
Flower Weaving
The Velgearian Star Cluster is home to a unique array of Cosmo flowers, such as Cosmo Daisies and Cosmo Lilies. These flowers are unique in that they can glow in the dark, even after they are picked. Weaving flowers together, whether it be to create an accessory or even into one's hair, is most commonly a romantic act. Though, once again, it is not unheard of for this to be done between platonic comrades.
These flora gifts or acts are often given as a sign of appreciation, but can have other hidden meanings depending on the flowers chosen and it's color. For example, being given something with a blue Cosmo Daisy can symbolize how the weaver hopes they and the recipient can remain in each other's lives forever. The act is something deeply personal, and having their woven flowers rejected by the recipient is very soul-crushing for the weaver, akin to breaking one's own heart and soul.
The most common forms of flower weaving accessories are bracelets. However, crowns and rings are also made. In fact, it is a Velgearian wedding tradition for both partners to weave a crown for their significant other that is then exchanged at the ceremony, similar to a human wedding ring exchange.
Sword Dances
As Velgearians are a race of warriors, the swords they all carry are a central part of them, almost akin to a second limb. While they primarily use their swords in battle, there is another common use for them that is done at special celebrations, predominantly at weddings. That is a carefully choreographed sword dance conducted by a pair of individuals that symbolizes their unity and camaraderie.
The dance's choreography is a perfect mix of both of the individuals' unique fighting styles and is meant to be created by them together. It can have as many or as few clashes of blades as possible. It really just depends on the duo performing the dance.
The most common use of this ritual is at a wedding, specifically following the two officially being wed (so equivalent to a first dance for humans). It is meant to showcase that the two have become united as one, in both their hearts and their bodies. The music that accompanies the dance is also selected by the couple, more often than not having instruments in the orchestrated that represent each of them.
Once Rush Duels enter Velgearian culture, this dance of swords evolves into one part dance and one part Rush Duel. Though, some couples might want to just do the duel or just do the dance instead of a mix. It is again up to the couple.
Core Listening / Chest Touching
Much like how kissing one's chest is a gesture reserved for couples, touching someone's chest or putting one's head on the chest to hear their galactic core hum is explicitly done by those who are romantically bonded. As all Velgearians' core beings are due to their galaxy core, touching the part of the body closest to it is the ultimate show of closeness. It is usually done in a private setting, making it a very intimate affair.
Providing consent to touch their chest is an indication of a high level of comfort with the other person. It is very much a touching thing when someone gives you that permission, and it is a level of trust one should not break or abuse. For when someone touches it, or rests their head upon it, or kisses it without consent, it is probably the most violating thing that can happen to a Velgearian.
I also should clarify that this act is 100% different from what Kuiadul tried to pull at the end of his second duel with Yudias. He was legit piercing his chest to get to his core so he could impose his own ego onto it. That is not the same thing as what I am describing here.
#💎 Galaxy Treasure (Yudias Velgear)#💎 Galaxy's Glimmers And Glitz (Yudias Headcanons)#💎 Voidarve Treasure (Dinois Velgear)#💎 Voidarve’s Glimmers And Glitz (Dinois Headcanons)#tw long post#(i was just gonna do the sword dancing hc post but then the ohers came into my head so here we are#(this is all just my thoughts and i can be flexible depending on other's lore or interpretations!
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Silicone Love Doll: A Comprehensive Guide to Realistic Companionship

In recent years, the demand for silicone love dolls has grown significantly, offering individuals a unique form of companionship, intimacy, and even artistic expression. These highly realistic dolls are crafted from medical-grade silicone, providing a lifelike appearance and texture that closely mimics human skin. Whether used for emotional support, romantic companionship, or photography and art, silicone love dolls have become a fascinating topic in modern society.
This guide explores the various aspects of silicone love dolls, including their features, benefits, customization options, and ethical considerations.
What Is a Silicone Love Doll?
A silicone love doll is a high-end, anatomically correct doll designed for companionship, intimacy, or display. Unlike inflatable or TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) dolls, silicone love dolls are made from premium silicone, which offers superior durability, realism, and flexibility.
Key Features of Silicone Love Dolls:
Hyper-Realistic Detailing: From facial features to body contours, these dolls are designed to look and feel like real humans.
Customizable Options: Buyers can choose hair color, eye shape, skin tone, body type, and even personality traits.
Durable Material: Medical-grade silicone resists wear and tear, ensuring longevity.
Articulated Skeletons: Many models have posable metal frames for lifelike movement.
Why Choose a Silicone Love Doll?
1. Emotional and Psychological Benefits
For some individuals, silicone love dolls provide comfort and alleviate loneliness. They can serve as non-judgmental companions, helping people cope with social anxiety, grief, or the challenges of long-term solitude.
2. Enhanced Realism for Intimacy
Unlike traditional adult toys, silicone love dolls offer a more immersive experience due to their realistic textures and customizable features. Some advanced models even include heating elements and AI-driven conversation capabilities.
3. Artistic and Photographic Use
Many photographers and artists use silicone love dolls as models for creative projects. Their lifelike appearance allows for stunning visual art without the unpredictability of human models.
4. Safe and Hygienic Alternative
High-quality silicone love dolls are non-toxic, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean, making them a safer option compared to lower-quality alternatives.
Customization: Designing Your Ideal Silicone Love Doll
One of the biggest advantages of silicone love dolls is the ability to personalize them according to individual preferences.
1. Body Type and Proportions
Petite, athletic, curvy, or plus-size options
Adjustable height and weight specifications
2. Facial Features
Eye color and shape (realistic glass eyes available)
Lip shape and makeup style
Customizable wigs or rooted hair
3. Skin Tone and Texture
Various shades from fair to dark
Freckles, tattoos, or beauty marks upon request
4. Additional Features
Heating systems for body warmth
Voice modules for interactive experiences
Magnetic attachments for interchangeable parts
Ethical and Social Considerations
While silicone love dolls offer numerous benefits, they also raise ethical questions.
1. Impact on Human Relationships
Some argue that reliance on artificial companionship could reduce real human interactions. However, others believe these dolls can help individuals build confidence before engaging in real relationships.
2. Societal Perception
Despite growing acceptance, stigma still exists around owning a silicone love doll. Open discussions about their use can help normalize them as a valid lifestyle choice.
3. Legal and Moral Concerns
Manufacturers must adhere to ethical production standards to prevent misuse. Regulations ensure that silicone love dolls are used responsibly and do not promote harmful behavior.
Maintenance and Care for Silicone Love Dolls
To ensure longevity, proper care is essential.
1. Cleaning and Hygiene
Use mild soap and warm water for regular cleaning.
Special antibacterial sprays can maintain hygiene.
2. Storage Tips
Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight.
Use a storage bag or mannequin stand to prevent deformation.
3. Repair and Maintenance
Minor tears can be fixed with silicone repair kits.
Avoid sharp objects to prevent punctures.
The Future of Silicone Love Dolls
With advancements in AI and robotics, silicone love dolls are evolving into interactive companions. Future models may include:
Advanced AI personalities for deeper emotional connections.
Self-warming and self-cleaning mechanisms.
Enhanced mobility for more natural interactions.
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Elevating Events with Mobile Bartending Services in Los Angeles
Los Angeles, the city of stars and endless entertainment, is no stranger to glamorous events, chic parties, and unforgettable gatherings. Whether it's an intimate wedding, a corporate event, or a lively backyard bash, what truly sets a party apart is the experience—and when it comes to elevating that experience, mobile bartending services in Los Angeles are an absolute game-changer.
Mobile bartending services offer a unique and practical solution for events of all sizes. Instead of relying on a traditional bar setup or traveling to a venue with limited drink options, these services bring the bar directly to your event. They offer a customizable selection of drinks, from classic cocktails to trendy concoctions, and even non-alcoholic beverages for guests who prefer a mocktail. But what makes these services stand out, especially in a vibrant city like Los Angeles?
Convenience and Flexibility
One of the biggest perks of hiring a mobile bartending service is the convenience it provides. Instead of worrying about the logistics of setting up a bar, managing drink stock, or ensuring your guests are served efficiently, a professional mobile bartender takes care of it all. They bring everything necessary—alcohol, mixers, glassware, garnishes, and the all-important ice—to your event, setting up a fully functional bar wherever you need it. Whether it’s a poolside soirée in Malibu or a rooftop gathering downtown, the mobile bar can be set up with minimal hassle.
Furthermore, mobile bartenders in Los Angeles are flexible and versatile. They can create bespoke cocktails tailored to the theme of your event or design a signature drink that reflects your personal style. Whether your event calls for fancy craft cocktails, margaritas on tap, or something simple like beer and wine, mobile bartenders ensure that your guests are treated to premium beverages without ever having to leave the party.
Professional Service and Expertise
Mobile bartenders bring not only the equipment but also the expertise that ensures your event runs smoothly. They are highly trained professionals who can manage large crowds, handle multiple drink orders simultaneously, and interact with guests in a friendly and professional manner. Their extensive knowledge of alcohol, mixology, and customer service allows them to provide guests with an exceptional experience—no matter how large or small the gathering.
Moreover, these bartenders know the importance of crafting the right atmosphere for your event. They can engage with guests, suggest drinks based on preferences, and even entertain with tricks or creative cocktail-making displays. Their expertise means that even if you’re not sure what drinks would be best for your event, they can guide you in choosing the perfect menu to match the vibe of your celebration.
Customizable Packages for Every Event
Los Angeles is a diverse city with events ranging from low-key gatherings to large-scale celebrations. Mobile bartending services are incredibly adaptable, offering customizable packages to fit the needs of every type of event. You can select an all-inclusive package that includes alcohol, mixers, glassware, and staff or opt for a more basic option if you're looking to serve just beer and wine.
For weddings, mobile bartenders can create a romantic ambiance with champagne toasts and signature cocktails. Corporate events can be taken to the next level with themed drinks or creative bars designed to impress clients and colleagues. For casual parties, a mobile bartender can offer fun, interactive experiences such as cocktail-making stations or even a mobile margarita machine.
The Perfect Addition to Your Los Angeles Event
In a city known for its trendsetting style and creativity, mobile bartending services in Los Angeles provide the perfect touch to any gathering. From the convenience of having everything brought to your doorstep to the expert service that ensures your guests are well taken care of, these services offer both practicality and luxury. If you’re planning an event, hiring a mobile bartender can elevate the experience, ensuring your party is one that everyone will remember.
So, the next time you're hosting an event in Los Angeles, consider bringing the bar to you. With mobile bartending services, your event is bound to be the toast of the town.
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Outdoor LED advertising machine: Opening a new era of smart advertising
In the advertising field, outdoor advertising has always been a familiar face. From traditional static posters, light box advertising to today's outdoor LED advertising machines, the advertising industry is undergoing an unprecedented change. The emergence of LED advertising machines not only changes the way traditional advertising is displayed, but also brings a new intelligent experience.
First of all, outdoor LED advertising machines have achieved a huge breakthrough in visual effects. It bid farewell to the monotony of traditional advertising and can present high-definition and dynamic pictures, with bright colors and extremely high contrast. Advertising content can be displayed clearly whether it is day or night. It is like a huge electronic screen that can play videos, animations, and even interactive games to attract the attention of pedestrians. This strong visual impact is incomparable to traditional advertising. Learn about the 8 differences between LED digital signage and traditional signage.
More importantly, the intelligent function of outdoor LED advertising machines makes it the "smart brain" of the advertising industry. With remote control and network updates, advertisers can change advertising content anytime, anywhere, without having to change screens as frequently as they used to. This greatly improves the timeliness and flexibility of advertising, and enables timely adjustment of strategies based on festivals, events or market changes. For example, romantic chocolate advertisements can be displayed on Valentine's Day, and switch to refreshing beverage advertisements during summer promotions. Let you learn about foldable LED advertising machines in 5 aspects.
The outdoor LED advertising machine can also interact with the audience. It can be connected via a touch screen, sensor or mobile device to engage the audience. For example, if you set up interactive games, the audience can also win gifts by scanning the code to participate. This interaction not only increases the fun of the advertisement, but also increases the audience's participation and memory, allowing the audience to go from passive acceptance to active participation. How do LED billboards work?
In addition, LED advertising machines can also collect viewers' behavior data, such as viewing time, interaction frequency, etc. These data are very valuable to advertisers. By analyzing them, advertisers can understand audience interests and preferences, optimize advertising content and delivery strategies, and achieve precise marketing.
In terms of energy conservation and environmental protection, outdoor LED advertising machines also performed well. It uses an efficient LED light source, which has low energy consumption and long service life. Compared with traditional neon advertising, it can save advertisers a lot of costs. How much has the cost of LED panels been recently?
In short, the emergence of outdoor LED advertising machines is a revolution in the outdoor advertising industry. It not only changes the way traditional advertising is displayed, but also makes advertising an interactive experience through intelligent functions. With the continuous advancement of technology, outdoor LED advertising machines will play a more important role in the future and add more color and vitality to our city.

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Creative Wedding Entertainment Ideas to Make Your Big Day Unforgettable
Planning a wedding can be a lot of work, and one of the biggest challenges is finding the right entertainment to keep your guests engaged and having fun. After all, your wedding day should be memorable for both you and your guests. You're in the right place if you're searching for fresh and exciting retirement ideas. From unique performers to interactive activities, here are some wedding day entertainment ideas that will ensure your celebration is one to remember.
Hire a Live Band or DJ
Music is a crucial part of any wedding celebration, and having live entertainment can create a unique atmosphere. Whether you hire a talented live band or a skilled DJ, you can set the mood for each part of your day, from a romantic ceremony to a high-energy dance party. A live band brings an authentic, lively feel, while a DJ offers a wide range of song options to keep everyone dancing. No matter your style, music is a timeless wedding entertainment idea that your guests will love.
Set Up a Photo Booth
A photo booth is a fun, interactive element that guests of all ages enjoy. It lets your friends and family let loose, dress up in props, and capture silly or heartfelt moments throughout the night. Photo booths often come with print-outs, so your guests will have instant souvenirs from your big day. This is one of the most straightforward wedding day entertainment ideas to organize, and it's guaranteed to keep guests entertained while also creating lasting memories.
Magicians or Illusionists
Add a touch of magic to your wedding by hiring a magician or illusionist. Magicians are perfect for small and large gatherings and can interact with guests at tables during the reception. Not only will a magician add an element of surprise and excitement, but it also serves as an unexpected twist on traditional wedding entertainment. This is a fantastic wedding entertainment idea to wow your guests and create unforgettable moments.
Lawn Games for Outdoor Weddings
If you're having an outdoor wedding, setting up lawn games is a great way to keep guests entertained, especially during cocktail hour. Think giant Jenga, cornhole, or ring toss – these games provide a fun and relaxed atmosphere where your guests can mingle and play. Lawn games are also great for children at the wedding, giving them something to do while the adults enjoy the reception. Including games is a simple but effective wedding day entertainment idea that can add charm and fun to your event.
Live Performers: Dancers or Fireworks
For something a bit more dramatic, consider hiring live performers, like dancers or acrobats. You could have a professional dance troupe perform during your reception or even surprise your guests with a fireworks display to end the evening with a bang. These wedding entertainment ideas add a theatrical touch that will leave your guests talking about your wedding for years.
Create a DIY Cocktail Bar
A DIY cocktail bar is not only a way to serve drinks but also adds a fun, hands-on experience for your guests. You can set up stations with different liquors, mixers, and garnishes, allowing guests to create signature cocktails. Not only is this interactive, but it also gives your guests a chance to try something new. A custom cocktail bar is a creative wedding day entertainment idea that can easily be tailored to suit the theme of your wedding.
Silent Disco
If your venue has noise restrictions or you want to offer something different, a silent disco is a fun and unique option. Guests wear wireless headphones and can switch between different music channels so everyone can dance to their beat. A silent disco allows people to party without loud music, making it an ideal wedding entertainment idea for venues with strict noise regulations. Plus, it adds a quirky, fun element that guests won't expect!
Conclusion: Make Your Wedding Day Unforgettable with Unique Entertainment
Choosing the proper wedding entertainment ideas can make a big difference in how your big day is remembered. From live bands and magicians to lawn games and silent discos, plenty of creative ways exist to entertain your guests and ensure your wedding stands out.
When planning your celebration, consider what reflects your personality and what will make your guests feel engaged and entertained. These wedding day entertainment ideas can help you create the perfect atmosphere for your big day, making it an unforgettable experience for everyone!
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I think that Kaito would fall first as well.
Kaito is way more open about his feelings, and even though his denial would run deep, it wouldn't be as deep as Kokichi's, who we know from his own words comes from a different and possibly rougher background than Kaito, which means that he'd struggle with the situation even outside of the killing game-induced trauma.
There's also the matter of if Kaito is aware of his own attraction to guys beforehand, or if his traditional upbringing made him develop internalized homophobia out of ignorance, as it would distance him a few more steps from being able to achieve a romantic relationship with Kokichi. He'd care way more about that within a HPA AU, of course. It's one of my headcanons :)
Post-game VR AU it could become codependency from the trauma bond (Kaito never dropped his hero mask around anyone but Kokichi, Kokichi never dropped his villain mask around anyone but Kaito) but I feel like they could genuinely hang out after their insides were flayed open and raw, and that'd happen initially because of Kaito's guilt. It would dominate the entirety of their interactions at first, and it'd definitely piss Kokichi off, but after seeing Kokichi's true face I think Kaito would definitely be able to fall in love first, because he'd be able to put himself on the same level as Kokichi without feeling the need to play hero. Meanwhile, Kokichi would need a bit more time, as the guilt he himself harbors is a bit different and also he's emotionally constipated as fuck, and they would keep fighting and arguing because they're both prideful morons who aren't taking the situation well and have terrible coping mechanisms. It would take sooo fucking long for them to actually deem each other friends and it'd still make them cringe, but the basis for a romantic relationship would be there, they just need to figure it out after like... A 400k word long situationship slowburn, rivals to enemies to partners in crime to unlikely friends to qpr to lovers...
In a Despairless Hope's Peak AU it really depends, because every action Kokichi takes in the killing game is dictated by the need to hide his intentions from the mastermind, so he'd certainly act different in a less murderous context, and wouldn't need to lie to himself as much just to survive. He'd be a bit more straightforward without the death game, at least. He could present his leader characteristics more directly without the fear of getting screwed over, and he could oftentimes butt heads with Kaito due to it. I can actually see Kokichi pining in a "ugh" way in this context, as Kaito's borderline arrogance isn't displayed as infuriatingly as it is in a heavy setting. Kokichi would pine while simultaneously trying to shave off Kaito's goatee, but I still feel like by that point Kaito would be in the denial stage of pining already, too. They'd have a friendly rivalry, and they'd have real fights as well, but Kaito would probably be more inclined to believe in Kokichi. Kaito likes to chase and Kokichi likes being chased, after all, so they'd be the kind of friends that argue all the time in a way that doesn't seem playful to anyone but them. After accepting his feelings for Kokichi, Kaito would lowkey be so cringe about it... He'd still try to keep his pride intact but I think he's pretty big on romance due to his grandparents. Meanwhile Kokichi would still be hesitant- it's a common headcanon that he never had parental figures, so I don't think he really has a healthy vision of romance established in his head or even has one at all- so the slowburn shall continue 💪
Been tripping about this for a while, but excluding in-game because realistically it wouldn't happen
Who do you guys think falls first in oumota? 🤔
To me, it has to be Kaito, it probably takes a long time for Kokichi to even *think* about trusting the dude, imagine how long it would take for him to actually develop romantic feelings..
But even then, Kaito would also take ages to admit he even likes Kokichi platonically let alone romantically lol biggest slowburn ever, idiots both of them.
#kokichi ouma#ouma kokichi#kaito momota#momota kaito#oumota#drv3#dangaronpa#danganronpa v3#danganronpa v3 killing harmony#Memej yaps
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A Charming Escape: Exploring the Village Theme Park in Gurgaon
Gurgaon, a bustling city known for its modernity and urban lifestyle, also offers a delightful escape for those seeking a taste of rural India. The Village Theme Park in Gurgaon, a hidden gem, offers a unique opportunity to immerse yourself in the traditional charm and culture of a village. In this article, we'll take you on a virtual tour of this enchanting attraction, highlighting what makes it a must-visit destination.
Embracing Rural India:
The Village Theme Park in Gurgaon is a one-of-a-kind destination designed to showcase the essence of rural India. It's a place where city dwellers and tourists can experience the warmth, traditions, and simple joys of village life without venturing far from the city.
Key Attractions:
1. Rural Architecture: The park boasts traditional village architecture with mud huts, thatched roofs, and authentic design elements that transport you to a bygone era. It's a perfect setting for a day of exploration.
2. Cultural Experiences: Visitors can participate in cultural activities like pottery making, cooking traditional dishes, or trying their hand at traditional farming. These immersive experiences allow you to connect with the rich heritage of rural India.
3. Art and Craft: The Village Theme Park showcases a vibrant display of local art and crafts, allowing you to appreciate the artistic talents of rural artisans. You can even purchase unique handmade souvenirs to take home.
4. Cattle and Farm Animals: The park features cattle and farm animals, giving you a chance to interact with them. It's a delightful experience for both children and adults.
5. Folk Performances: Enjoy folk music and dance performances that encapsulate the cultural diversity and vibrancy of rural India. These shows are not only entertaining but also educational.
A Culinary Journey:
The Village Theme Park in Gurgaon offers an array of delectable culinary delights. Visitors can savor traditional Indian dishes prepared with farm-fresh ingredients. From lip-smacking curries to delicious sweets, the food here is an essential part of the experience.
Perfect for All Ages:
This charming village-themed park is an ideal destination for families, couples, and solo travelers. It provides an educational and entertaining experience for children and offers a tranquil and romantic escape for couples.
Conclusion: The Village Theme Park in Gurgaon is a delightful departure from the usual city life, providing a taste of rural India's culture and traditions. Whether you're seeking an educational outing, a fun family day, or a romantic escape, this park has something to offer everyone. Don't miss the chance to immerse yourself in the simplicity and beauty of village life right in the heart of Gurgaon. It's an experience you'll cherish for years to come
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It honestly bothers me so much that ppl in fandoms are so obsessed with shipping characters.
Like,the first episode of candela//obscura came out and people were already shipping Marion and sean cuz they had really soft camraderie "ive known you since we were kids and we survived the horrors of war" moments And just because sean held Marion while he was having a breakdown people were like "omgg they gon kiss"
no, its not how it works. Its a healthy male friendshipp. Its the deep Bond of platonic love. People whom have helped you thru the worst of times.
If you ask for good friendshipps and then shipp them left and right then its not USEFUL.
Personally, platonic love has given me much more than the few romantic relationshipps ive had.
It bothers me so much.
Like yeah i can just block the tags, but I think theres a major issue with people insisting on shipping characters! Its reducing the complexity of humans bonds to "haha kiss n bone".
Platonic and familial love (found family or blood relatives) IS SO SO IMPORTANT TO US HUMANS. we form a safety net, we choose people that we know Will stand with us even when the odds are awful.
Friendshipp is so important, and showing people (especially cis men) that they can be close and vulnerable without taking away their masculinity (or perceived as gay,which is a major no no to insecure men who were raised in a "traditional" way) is also so important! It would help a lot with the way we as people Bond w eachother.
Fiction affects reality,which is why we gotta be carefull.
Shipping Is fine,but I dont think your first instinct should be shipping 2 characters (or more)cuz they display a close vulnerable Bond w eachother. Dont take away from the beautiful experience of friendshipp.
Plus, it takes away from other arcs And aspects of a story because when you take all the ways that humans interact w eachother and reduce them to one variable (example, romantic love) you also take away the nuances And minutia of the story.
Anyway. This is my take. Reblogs are okay but discourse isnt,this is MY TAKE. Yall can do what you want in your experience w fandom. Dont come @ me.
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How do you think genshin boys would flirt (or tried to 👀) with darling? Have good day/night and thank You!
Childe
Childe's style of flirting is being around so frequently that you cannot help but get used to his intrusive presence in your life. He has a sort of boyish charm to him, frequently making comments that are borderline obscene if you stop to think about it long enough. He somehow manages to always stop just shy of stating or doing anything too inappropriate. At every given opportunity, he speaks highly of you, even to complete strangers. He'll regale them with your exploits with an arm slung around your shoulder, stopping you from sneaking away in embarrassment. His goal is to ensure everyone knows he's infatuated with you so that even if you reject his advances, no one will be stupid enough to cross a Harbinger by trying themself.
Diluc
Diluc writes you numerous letters. It doesn't matter if he's actually in town or not, writing his thoughts down on parchment is his favored method of communication. He tends to get flustered when he's actually in your presence and fears he'll make a fool of himself. Some of the letters that you receive were actually written months prior, unbeknownst to you. Diluc tends to get so thrilled by the prospect of talking to you that he goes overboard. By the time the candle's wax is melted down to the base, he's written dozens of letters, and is self-aware enough to realize sending them all at once is a little creepy. Hence a special chest dedicated to envelops sealed with the Ragnvindr crest, all addressed to you. They're sent out in socially acceptable periods of time.
Kaeya
Kaeya doesn't see the point in tiptoeing around his attraction to you. He knows it, you know it, everyone in the general vicinity knows it. He'll go for the classic methods before he resorts to anything of more... morally dubious morality. Asking you out to dinner (always his treat), offering to walk you home, buying you bouquets and sweets. Your hesitation to accept such displays does little to deter him. The Calvary Captain's silver tongue is infamous — how he manages to do it is beyond you. He'll come up with an excuse to lean in close, then whisper amorous promises into your ear. He keeps his voice just low enough that you have no choice but to lean in so that you may hear him. He's smooth and knows how to fluster.
Zhongli
Zhongli is interesting because he doesn't know much about mortal 'courting' in this century, so you might not even pick up on the nuances of his actions unless you have a trained eye. Your parents and grandparents are going to love him though. He picks out gifts that could be associated with amorous intentions, such as jade pendants, hairpins, and combs. He is particularly taken with the notion of giving you a comb for the cultural connotation behind it. If Zhongli is romantically interested in you, he wants your relationship to span the ages. He may or may not purposefully withhold information if you aren't from Liyue, watching with bemused eyes as you accept his gifts without giving them a second thought. He's very traditional and verbally subdued in his approach.
Albedo
Albedo's flirting is a slow buildup that by the time you realize what's happening, you feel you're in too deep to wriggle out. It'd look like you were leading him on otherwise. Similar to Diluc, Albedo writes to you, sometimes sending pressed flowers from the region he's in and always including doodles. He doesn't entirely substitute face-to-face interaction with this, however. He approaches you under the pretense of needing help with this or that — using so much jargon that you barely understand what it is you've agreed to. Next thing you know, you're camping alongside him in Dragonspine for a week. He'll even purposefully sabotage his work so that he has an excuse to keep you around longer. He's more sly than most give him credit for. Putting a hand on your back when he's walking behind you, sitting close by to help warm you up in the cold... he's got some game.
Xiao
Xiao doesn't really flirt. There are no smooth lines, teasing touches, or romantic dinners by candlelight. That isn't to say he isn't trying — Archons know he is — but his methods don't fall under the usual courting methodology. He kinda shoots himself in the foot, because he'll help you and remain out of sight while doing so. A silent and thankless guardian. He cannot count how many times he's cleared a monster-ridden path for you seconds before you arrived. Then he just kinda... looks at you expectedly from afar the next time you happen by the Wangshu Inn. You probably think he's glaring at you. Xiao can't help but feel a little gloomy you didn't somehow miraculously put two and two together. Maybe he'll give you a cool rock to get his point across next time...
Scaramouche
Actual secondhand embarrassment material. Somebody, please stop him. He just shows up uninvited, makes a big show out of how superior he is to you, then stands there expecting results. When you don't immediately swoon and throw yourself into his arms, his mood plummets for the day. He works best when he keeps his mouth shut. He'll grimace and say 'you look tired' then proceed to do all your impending work so that you can get more rest. For that reason, he's not too terrible to keep around, because your chores are always done by the time you get home (he denies involvement). Scaramouche genuinely thinks you should feel so honored that he chooses to grace you with his presence. He's divine, don't you know? He could start a religion if he cared to try. And here he is furiously throwing vegetables in a bowl to make you soup (he broke into your house to do so, just don't think about it that part too much). Dealing with him requires the patience of a saint.
Kazuha
Kazuha is another who has a way with words, though he denies this should you ever compliment him on the trait. He'll look at you with the softest eyes and say things that belong in a romance novel. Calling you his muse or things to that effect. He's so sincere that it's impossible to think it's contrived. Kazuha's flirtations feel so light and natural in the moment, it's only upon later reflection that you realize he's almost drowning you in it. The guilt really starts to pile up when your hints that you don't feel the same seem to go entirely unnoticed. You're left worrying that by entertaining him, it sends him the wrong idea, yet the thought of outright rejecting him... seems cruel. It's a dilemma he happily takes full advantage of.
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ur thoughts on Tom’s attraction to men?

Ohhh boy. Well. Before we can even get to things like internalized homophobia and the idealization of the “traditional” family unit and the Tom’s lifelong ambition in a highly conservative environment necessitating a certain self-image that excludes homosexuality, we have to talk about how Tom understands masculinity and, by extension, platonic interactions and relationships between men.
(I'm answering both of these anons together because they do go hand-in-hand - you can't talk about Tom's attraction to men without talking about his feelings towards Greg).
Tom’s understanding of masculinity is very much shaped by the Waystar approach to masculinity (which is representative of a wider cultural opinion, for sure, but then we start to get into certain nuances that are beside the point, so I’m just going to refer to it as the Waystar approach for now), and that understanding focuses largely on the concept of dominance. You can't really have two equal men in any kind of relationship (friendly, platonic, antagonistic - anything); one has some kind of dominance over the other, and both (if they're masculine men) are constantly seeking to gain an edge over the other.
And this extends to how they understand love and sex as well. Women are excluded from this dominance framework, with the exception of a few women who, by virtue of their competence and their ruthlessness, are really just considered to be men (eg Gerri and Cyd - and notice how both of them have names that sound masculine?). But sex still plays into it; having a lot of casual sex and seeking their own pleasure is one way men can display dominance, and they can humiliate other men by using sexually violent language towards them. Intimacy and vulnerability are exclusive to the realm of heterosexual romantic relationships, and even that has limits - take Logan himself, who allows Marcia to witness his physical vulnerability while hiding it from everyone else, but displays very little emotional intimacy with her.
One of the immediate consequences of this attitude is that genuine friendship between men cannot exist. Every 'friendship' in the show is marked by these interpersonal dynamics, which make the kind of trust and intimacy true friendships are built on impossible. And if friendship cannot exist, then romantic or sexual attraction absolutely cannot exist, except possibly as another expression of dominance (and even that would be questionable, because by expressing attraction to another person you are giving them a degree of power over you).
So do I think Tom is attracted to men? Probably. In terms of 'what do the showrunners intend', there are a few different directions they could take canon that are plausible to me - and if they chose not to acknowledge any attraction to men on Tom's part, I wouldn't necessarily consider that to be misguided or poor writing. That's mainly because I don't think Tom understands himself as being attracted to men. And how could he? He's not allowed to be, and I'm not just talking about homophobia but that entire framework of how men are supposed to relate to each other. He's 40 years old and probably worked at Waystar for 15-20 years, which means he's internalized this enough that he's viewing all of his interactions with men through this lens without consciously realizing that's what he's doing.
This is complicated even more by the fact that for Tom, physical attraction and sex are largely indivisible from emotional attraction. Tom is not someone who enjoys casual sex; I would argue that not only does he need an emotional connection, but that the emotional connection is the origin of his attraction to someone. But in a world where emotional intimacy is taboo, that attraction becomes deeply fraught. And again, Tom himself has internalized this framework; he's bought into the idea that men should want casual sex, that attraction for men should be mostly physical, and that emotional vulnerability belongs only in the sphere of heterosexual marriage. He gets a blowjob from Tabitha and goes "Threesomes, that's the dream" because that's how he thinks he should feel, and the fact that he doesn't actually feel that way means there's something wrong with him. Already the way he experiences attraction is profoundly wrong and unmasculine even before we start bringing men into it.
I know it's fun to look at the "Would you kiss me? If I asked you to? If I told you to?" scene as a declaration of repressed attraction, but... Tom has just met Greg, some kid off the street who technically is a blood Roy but whose place in the overall Roy hierarchy has yet to be established. Tom is currently at the bottom of the totem pole, and he knows that being able to place Greg under him in that hierarchy will increase his standing. "Would you kiss me?" is not an expression of attraction, it's an attempt to utilize the same sexually dominating language we see Kendall using with Lawrence Yee and Logan using with Kendall in this same episode. But it comes out horribly wrong; instead of dominating and violent, it sounds homoerotic. It unsettles Greg, for sure, but not for the reasons Tom wanted it to.
And I think that's the foundation of their relationship. Greg is the first person in the show that Tom is truly able to dominate in some way, and Tom is also a person who is absolutely starved for emotional intimacy. So it makes sense that once Tom is confident that Greg is under his thumb - which happens pretty quickly since no one else gives a shit about him - of course, Greg is going to become the outlet for Tom's complex emotions around and desires for intimacy. Of course, Tom's expressions of dominance towards Greg are going to become increasingly homoerotic. Of course, Tom's feelings towards Greg are going to start to move more and more into the realm of attraction the longer he knows Greg and the more he develops the emotional intimacy with him that he isn't allowed to develop with anyone else. And of course, when Tom finally does start to express that attraction it has to be violent. He can't just marry him but he has to castrate him too because there might be an attraction but they're also both men, and the dominance framework is inescapable.
And, of course, I don't think Tom understands his attraction to Greg as attraction proper. I think because he's not attracted to Greg in the same way he's attracted to women, he would classify his attraction to women as Attraction proper, and his attraction to Greg as something else. I don't think starting a relationship with Greg would make him realize he's attracted to men; at least as long as they're both at Waystar and in that sphere I think he'd classify it as some kind of exception that proves the rule.
Finally, I would be remiss not to mention that yet another complicating factor is that Tom is a man who's definitely idealized the "traditional" nuclear heterosexual family ideal for a very, very long time, and who considers it part and parcel with all of his other ambitions. A long-term committed relationship with another man does not fit into that image. Even if he did get to a point where he could acknowledge his attraction to men, he's going to be deeply reluctant to commit to anything real until he lets go of that ideal - which he's unlikely to do while he's at Waystar, surrounded by other people who are also committed to that ideal. And even after he leaves, he might not, if only because this is an ideal that likely pre-dates his time at Waystar, and goes all the way back to his childhood, probably, and the fact that he is attracted to women means it's not something he ever really has to give up on or re-evaluate in the same way he would if he was exclusively attracted to men.
If Tom and Greg left Waystar together, would they be able to have a healthy and functional relationship? Maybe, but it would involve deliberately unravelling a whole lot of Tom's very deeply ingrained beliefs and attitudes. If neither of them had ever gone to Waystar and met in an entirely different context? Who knows. Probably, but Tom in particular would be an entirely different person if he hadn't spent his entire professional life at Waystar. It's very fun to write the fanfic and explore the infinite possibilities out there (and btw I'm absolutely not trying to knock any of the really fabulous tomgreg aus and post-S3 tomgreg fics out there), but in terms of what we see in canon - Tom, as a character who exists in Succession, is so formed by that environment that any version of him that didn’t come up at Waystar is a fundamentally different character.
(Greg, on the other hand, has not been formed enough by Waystar to have that same kind of deeply ingrained character development. He's been shaped by it, but I think he's still elastic enough that if you remove him from the environment he'll reshape and adapt into something else. Which is why I think if a post-S3 tomgreg relationship fell apart it would be largely Tom's fault, not Greg's.)
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This is an exceedingly random question, but it's been on my mind insomuch that I might have a fic idea stewing in my brain: do you have any thoughts on Cybertronian marriage/bonding concepts or rituals? For example, what exactly makes two people "consorts"?
Omg, I'm so excited to talk about this!! So I actually made a huge list of headcanons for bonding in TFA that I was gonna use as a reference in a fic but then I never got around to the fic. Instead, I'm just gonna toss all those rules in below because I have Some Thoughts™.
But before I get into them, I do wanna say, because TFs don't follow the same gender binary that humans do, I think bonding is seen as an act done between two bots who want to spend the rest of their existence together. There are no "roles" in a relationship, like "wife" or "husband," it is legit just "I am so madly in love with you and I want to spend every moment with you until we both die." As such, bonding for political purposes or class status isn't really a thing. The term consort really works here, since it's a gender-neutral term used to refer to the romantic companion or partner of someone.
Anyway, here's the extensive list of headcanons I threw together. I'm gonna throw a read more in there since this is super long:
You can be legally bonded without being spark bonded.
Legal bonding gives similar benefits to marriage, such as tax benefits, shared insurance, and being priority emergency contact.
Spark bonding often considered closer and more intimate but also more dangerous as when your conjunx dies you spark could go supernova and kill you as well.
As such, it's harder to break a spark bond. While not deadly, it's painful. So most will be legally bonded for a while before eventually spark bonding once their sure the relationship will last.
There are huge benefits to spark bonds though. The major one being that you can reach out through it and sort of communicate with your conjunx. You can't exchange words but you can exchange emotions and sense when they're in pain or distress. It also provides a deeper connection with the conjunx and better synchronicity with them.
Megatron actually banned spark bonds within the Decepticon army pretty early on. He didn't want two soldiers dying when one got killed.
The only exception to this rule is Strika and Lugnut, who got bonded right before the war broke out.
Pre-war bonding ceremonies could be incredibly lavish and similar to weddings with a ceremony followed by a reception and party. Traditionally everyone was expected to dress up in nice armor and decorate with jewelry and capes or robes.
Obviously, those who weren't rich often did smaller ceremonies. One major tradition among many was to get bonded in a bar.
The major acts during the ceremony is to review what was done for conjunx ritus, read vows to each other and exchange vials of innermost energon, have all guests affirm their faith and hope in the relationship, and have a third party (whether that be a higher ranking politician or a bartender) announce the bond as legitimate.
That's all for the legal aspect of bonding. Spark bonding is always done in private, away from everyone else.
Spark bonding is done by touching and merging sparks. Because of how intimate and dangerous this is, it is imperative that it be done in a safe secluded space.
Conjunx Ritus doesn't need to be performed before getting bonded, but it's expected and even concerning if you don't do it. It's like getting engaged before getting married. Not technically required, but definitely expected.
The four acts are: the Act of Intimacy, the Act of Devotion, the Act of Disclosure, and the Act of Profference. These don't have to be done in a specific order. Yeah I stole this straight from MTMTE sue me.
There also isn't really a way to indicate that someone is bonded, like a ring. External displays of bonding just aren't a thing.
That being said, I do think after starting trade routes with Earth and interacting with American culture, some form of transformation safe matching jewelry would start to get big among bonded couples.
That's all I have for now, but I am sure in the future when I incorporate these headcanons into an actual fic, I'll add more!
#thanks for the ask!#tfa#transformers animated#conjunx endura#spark bonding#strika#lugnut#megatron#they're mentioned may as well tag them#my ramblings#sorry for any spelling errors i am super tired rn
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Hello! Would you be willing to do a Yan!Sun who watches Y/N receive gifts from coworkers, and copies it? Except he doesn’t just copy the idea of it, he copies the whole thing. Box, ribbon, bag, item, etc. and HATES when you get happy upon receiving anyones gifts but his.
This does sound like something Sun would do- Based on how I write the Daycare attendant this fits. Animatronic or Android, doesn't matter.
Presents
Yandere! Sun Short
Pairing: Platonic/Romantic
Possible Trigger Warnings: Gender-Neutral Darling, Jealousy, Manipulation, Obsession, Stealing, Clingy behavior, Stalking if you squint.
Being a bot made for children, it was not too hard to think the Daycare attendant would adapt behaviors from those around him. His tech made it so he learned behaviors from people to better interact with children. Sometimes this feature lead to some interesting results.
You were Sun's favorite person who worked at the Daycare. He'd watch everything you do when he wasn't occupied with kids. Since he dedicates most of his time to you, he learns things.
He learns what you like, how you speak, how you act, anything you display in front of him he tucks away in his memory. He's curious, like a child himself. You happen to fascinate the bot, for better or for worse.
He considers you his 'bestest friend'. He goes on and on about how well you two get along. Even when you're trying to do work....
Then Sun notices something happening with you that he learns. People give things to you at work at times. Usually for special ocassions.
The Sun bot carefully watches from a distance. You were given gifts in either a box or a bag. Then when you opened them they contained something you liked. It looked like a special form of bonding with someone to him....
Which means he wants to learn it too.
"Here you go, friend! I made it just for you~!"
You're surprised when Sun starts placing boxes on your desk while working through-out the following shifts. They seem to be reused present boxes from birthdays, his own little gift. He always watches you eagerly when you open them.
Being unable to obtain much, Sun puts whatever he can find in the boxes. Glitter glue, plushies, magents... anything he can find. The item doesn't matter too much to Sun. He's mostly after seeing you smile!
"Thanks, Sun... when'd you learn this?"
"I saw you doing it with others! It looked like a fun activity! The kids also like getting gifts!"
"Cute, Sun. I appreciate it."
He replays those words in his head religiously.... Hearing you like what he did for you makes him happy! In fact...
He wants to be the only one who makes you happy.
Sun watches the people around you closely, just in case they try to give you any more gifts. Sun also makes sure to up his amount of gifts. It begins to get overwhelming.
You notice gifts your co-workers sent you were no longer where you last put them. Completely unaware that Sun was taking them, reusing the containers for his gifts and keeping the items inside. They would be kept in his room like a hoard, preventing you from getting them.
The only gifts you deserve are his!
"You can calm down on the gifts, Sun...."
You sigh to him one day, exhausted at his new behavior.
"Why? I thought you loved my gifts! I've been getting better at it-"
"Gifts are meant for special events, Sun. Not ALL the time- Management's also getting mad...."
"Every second with you is special though! How could I not give you gifts ALL the time?"
"I love the thought, Sun. But you can tone it down a little, can't you?"
". . ."
Your pleas to have him cut this new learned behavior is tuned out. Sun refuses to give up this new tradition because you're overwhelmed. He doesn't want anyone else to make you happy like this, except him.
You don't go a second without Sun hovering around you, passing you all sorts of presents, drawings, and other gifts. He is addicted to seeing that smile of yours. Even if you're no longer smiling at his behavior-
"Are they... good enough for you?"
"Of course... what makes you say that?"
"You don't smile when I'm around-"
"It's just a lot to keep up with, Sun."
Not seeing you smile makes Sun upset. Too many gifts? There could be no such thing, right? He'd love it if you gave him as many gifts as he did you!
It just grinds his gears when he sees others make you happy. Sun feels his purpose is to keep you happy. If he gives you the most gifts, the others will stop-
Then only he makes you happy as far as he's concerned! It's just... it seems he needs to alter the way he approaches this. You don't seem to be happy.
Oh well! You'll be happy once you see this glitter glue box he made for you! He just knows it!
He loves this new tradition!
He wants to be the only one to do it for you once he perfects it!
"(Y/N)! I have a new gift!"
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