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I grew up in a family where I constantly witnessed my dad abusing my mom . Physically and mentally. He was abusive towards me and my siblings as well. My mom is still with my dad .Mostly because that's our culture.
Do we speak about it to others in the family ? Yes .
But do we do it because we want him to die ? No .
Because victims want accountability. Apology . To have their pain be acknowledged.
Not this .
The number of posts I see with people saying that Liam deserved this outcome is truly nauseating. People are allowed to make amends . We don't know if he did or didn't . People truly believe that they are better than others for practicing outrage and spewing hatred that they claim is justified .
A man , who lived half of his life in the public eye , who clearly was affected by the hate he received, died in a horrible way and people still have the audacity to put their negativity out . Like he didn't deserve to live ? I'm sure he felt that too at times . That whatever version he had grown up to be , wasn't deserving to be alive . I wish someone told him that some version of him was better than none .That he had the chance to ask for forgiveness and make amends . That he was loved . That it wasn't too late .
I truly hope that the people who speak so terribly about someone who just passed away , someone who had a 7 year old son , Someone who publicly admitted to being suicidal, I wish these people don't have anyone depending on them for their kindness. Because by the looks of it , they have none to offer . While the man they claim to have been a monster had plenty to offer and will probably be remembered for the legacy he left behind , part of which was for how incredibly kind he was.
#Rip Liam#Can't believe it's been a week#The amount of vitriol that was thrown his way#Especially in the last few years#I don't know how some of you can sleep at night#For still going at it#Let him rest in peace ffs#Liam Payne
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crazy how fast january comes around every year
#especially in the last few years#i just realised its already been 2 years since my grandpa fell ill#and in march itll have been 2 years since he died#and im sure that time was also very traumatic for my mum but i will not ask her about it#i miss him so much i cant even say it#i saw a silly zodiac post about how may and october people are a good silly pair and i just went augh...... my grandpa was born in october..#this is all brought on by me listening to the lis2 soundtrack bc i was obsessed w that around that time#look at me multitasking! trying to play mass eff and doing a little cry?? okay queen#nett rambles#ALSO ive been at my work almost a year now!!!!!! damn!!!!!!#death mention tw
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People ask me sometimes how I'm so confident that we can beat climate change.
There are a lot of reasons, but here's a major one: it would take a really, really long time for Earth to genuinely become uninhabitable for humans.
Humans have, throughout history, carved out a living for themselves in some of the most harsh, uninhabitable corners of the world. The Arctic Circle. The Sahara. The peaks of the Himalayas. The densest, most tropical regions of the Amazon Rainforest. The Australian Outback. etc. etc.
Frankly, if there had been a land bridge to Antarctica, I'm pretty sure we would have been living there for thousands of years, too. And in fact, there are humans living in Antarctica now, albeit not permanently.
And now, we're not even facing down apocalypse, anymore. Here's a 2022 quote from the author of The Uninhabitable Earth, David Wallace-Wells, a leader on climate change and the furthest thing from a climate optimist:
"The most terrifying predictions [have been] made improbable by decarbonization and the most hopeful ones practically foreclosed by tragic delay. The window of possible climate futures is narrowing, and as a result, we are getting a clearer sense of what’s to come: a new world, full of disruption but also billions of people, well past climate normal and yet mercifully short of true climate apocalypse. Over the last several months, I’ve had dozens of conversations — with climate scientists and economists and policymakers, advocates and activists and novelists and philosophers — about that new world and the ways we might conceptualize it. Perhaps the most capacious and galvanizing account is one I heard from Kate Marvel of NASA, a lead chapter author on the fifth National Climate Assessment: “The world will be what we make it.”" -David Wallace-Wells for the New York Times, October 26, 2022
If we can adapt to some of the harshest climates on the planet - if we could adapt to them thousands of years ago, without any hint of modern technology - then I have every faith that we can adjust to the world that is coming.
What matters now is how fast we can change, because there is a wide, wide gap between "climate apocalypse" and "no harm done." We've already passed no harm done; the climate disasters are here, and they've been here. People have died from climate disasters already, especially in the Global South, and that will keep happening.
But as long as we stay alive - as long as we keep each other alive - we will have centuries to fix the effects of climate change, as much as we possibly can.
And looking at how far we've come in the past two decades alone - in the past five years alone - I genuinely think it is inevitable that we will overcome climate change.
So, we're going to survive climate change, as a species.
What matters now is making sure that every possible individual human survives climate change as well.
What matters now is cutting emissions and reinventing the world as quickly as we possibly can.
What matters now is saving every life and livelihood and way of life that we possibly can.
#hope my reasoning here makes sense#idk I'm just a person who does a lot of research and posting talking about my take on things#I'm not any kind of Real Authority#but still#and for what it's worth the climate and climate transition data I've been following DOES make me confident in this conclusion#I struggled with the line between recognizing the very real damages of climate change#especially on the global south and especially in the last few years#and focusing on the positive instead of regaling you all with depressing situations#especially when there is so much amazing work being done throughout marginalized countries and marginalized groups#literally if rich countries just paid climate reparations and did actual decolonization/landback#a lot of communities could sort out the shit they need to sort out themselves#and/or in alliance and solidarity with each other#or at least most of the things they need to sort out!!#cough anyway#climate change#climate action#climate emergency#climate crisis#global warming#climate solutions#hope#hope posting#not news#me
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Don’t be sorry, you are very correct
Sorry for the posting but. Donna deserved better.
#Gail Simone always did her justice#but I’ve rarely read other stories where she has much to do and it sucks#especially in the last few years#though I’m admittedly also a few years behind so maybe they’ve gotten better?#(this comment makes me think not - and that would surprise me less lol)
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Watching Sam & Brennan talk about the beauty of frivolity, of adults playing silly games just as seriously as they fight to survive, and... yeah. There are some things that keep us alive, and there are some things that make life worth living, and I think games are one of those things that fall into both categories. Games make our lives better and they make us better at being alive. I think that's pretty cool.
#k talks#adventure academy#dropout tv#sam reich#brennan lee mulligan#and i say this not in an evopsych way. never. but in a historian looking back at the infinite intricacy of human experience and crying#i know i'm not really saying anything that anarchist philosophers haven't already said but it just hits me every time. it's so good#(& when the lich heard brennan quote graeber we had to pause the video while he had a little philosophical squee)#i feel for brennan not being able to play mafia bc he's too busy hosting it tho. bc. mood#i am rarely allowed to survive a mafia game these last few years#i wish i could invite everyone else who went 'oof. yeah. same' to join my decade-long group of assorted folks#who've been playing increasingly complicated week-long games of mafia over forum & then facebook & now discord for a decade or so#bc oh boy. those games are fun as HELL & we always love new players#especially the kind who will play DEADLY seriously :)
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While I do think anon was rude, I do think it's pretty shitty to set up all this stuff you were going to add the au and then just drop it. It's disappointing. Definitely unfollowing.
Bye.
#ask me#anon#once AGAIN.#I am not dropping anything#the au is not getting cancelled. more than likely i'm gonna take a break from it until i find motivation again#But I've been drawing the AU for half a fucking year#In that time I've only drawn 5 things that aren't mlp related#I'm getting tired and my last few posts didn't do as well as I'd hoped#And I'm not about to burn myself out on mlp au art even if I really do love making it#I'm still gonna make comics. I have a bunch of ideas.#Tulli and I still wanna do the limited run merch shop#Discord is still coming. Sunset is still coming. Sombra is still coming. I have so many ideas#But I need to do something else for my own sake. Did you know I was supposed to get the background 6 designs done by now#But I didn't because I'm TIRED#I've been keeping myself on a schedule to keep content pumping despite travel and school and family and I'm tired#what i'm getting isn't matching what i'm giving and that's nobody's fault. i'm not frustrated at anyone. a slump was bound to happen#drawing the au was fun until it become my Thing. Because when your Thing––your identity––starts to faulter#it can really make you freak out#And that's not healthy for the project or for myself. I need to find the fun again and I'm sure I will#I'm really appreciative of everyone's support in my inbox and replies it really does mean a lot especially given that about 2/3 of my#followers followed for mlp. But if you're gonna react to me saying “i'm gonna cool down on mlp art and draw my own stuff” with “i'm#disappointed in you." then Leave! I think it's good you're unfollowing#you are not obligated to stick by my side! But don't act like I'm doing you a disservice by turning my attention elsewhere#I didn't promise anyone anything and I definitely didn't say I'm breaking any promises.
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One of those aus where Starscream defects from the decepticons to the autobots in order to play spy— but the more he stays here the more he realizes he might actually prefer being an autobot
Does he get a redemption arc? A little bit
A little bit not though :)
#transformers#maccadam#Starscream#is he still an asshole? yes#but one can become an asshole who does good#''i bet you twenty shanix he goes back by the end of the week'' ''really? i bet you he lasts at least a month''#THREE MONTHS LATER#FOUR YEARS LATER#THIRTEEN YEARS LATER#TWO DECADES LATER#you get what i mean?#him initially being a spy is non-negotiable though#extra points if this is a continuity where Starscream is often especially loud about his plans and opinions like in g1#does he try to take over the autobots for himself a few times? yes#but like. that's proof he intends on staying an autobot right?
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things that are Too Much: both times lancelot dies, the last face he sees is merlin's, and the last thing he does is smile.
#bbc merlin#merlin#lancelot#merlin x lancelot#mercelot#lancelot du lac#the darkest hour#4x02#4x09#parallels#text: merlin#my text#no i still haven't made it to 4x09 in my rewatch bc i don't know HOW i could possibly do that to myself again#especially when lancelot's death has been hitting me harder the last few weeks than it ever did in all the years since i first#watched the show#but i /have/ watched the ending funeral scene#and cried#a lot#i could cry just seeing gifs of that scene#heck at this point merely /thinking/ of it might be enough
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i think that the thing that pisses me off most about writers needing to constantly introduce characters is that there are sooooo many underutilized characters that could fill the exact same niche that a new character could but writers arent doing it because a) they want to be Special and make their own characters thatll disappear in 5 years and b) theyre too lazy to tweak the story just a little bit to use an existing character so they just create a new one that no one cares about
#like i dont think that diana is really a mother to any of the wonder girls but ???? there is no need to make her a mother?????#like what could trinity add to the story that couldnt be done with donna cassie or yara#especially since yara was just introduced within the last few years???? dont tell me we've already run out of stories with her#i honestly havent read a lot of ww books whoops but. why should there be any need to make her a mother#dc
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Scribble of the guy himself
#the him#it might just be me but I think he looks a lot different compared to the last time I drew him#probably bc it’s been a few months#kids grow up so fast these days#especially 30 year old men#not to out myself but I couldn’t stop thinking abt him yesterday and today. he’s crawled back into my noggin help#art#fnaf#five nights at freddy's#fnaf fanart#michael afton#mike schmidt
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Ugh my parasocial ass is so happy for that blonde lady right now because it seems like the stars have kind of aligned personally and professionally and she just deserves it all after a very tough couple of years
#tough decade and a half let’s be real#like it’s not like I think we’re all her friends or whatever - not at all#it’s just really nice to see someone so genuinely happy and exuding joy#I think especially after digesting TTPD for the last few weeks#and realizing this year could have been very different for her
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attacks on @kiitsumiie 's ruby and maria, @/cosmichorrawr's taxidermy, @grimtrespasser 's saburo, and @guardiansgalore 's edyss and @jmorpart 's warf!
my final round of attacks..my final message goodbye..
#artfight#artfight 2024#other peoples ocs#ace attorney#furry art#dungeon meshi#im especially proud of these i tried hard to make my last few attacks count#bc i was running extremely low on energy 😭#in the end i managed to come close to my goal but still 3 attacks short </3 that just means i get to try again next year#hope everyone had a good season!!!#this crazy long revenge chain w libby was well worth it i was tehee giggling all month thinking of what to draw next#warfdyss was inevitable 🫵 but i will admit arlo almost got the spotlight.. i will draw him off season trust
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Pizzatober Day 1: Chefs Task
Decided to go with the Bee Nice task (stand next to a bee and taunt in gnome forest) !!!
#was this an excuse to draw gustavo with my sona? why yes how did you guess.#IM NOT WRONG THOUGH SHES A BEE!!!!!! I KNOW MY RIGHTS!!!!!!!!#anyways i may not follow through the month consistenly#but i really wanted to participate this year#especially since last year's pizzatober ended a few days AFTER i got into pizza tower for the first time#soooooo yeah#my art#pizza tower#pizzatober2024#gustavo pizza tower#sona doodles
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When people continually whitewash my favourite characters.
[ID: A black and white, rough digital drawing of someone sitting at a desk and clutching their head in their hands. End ID.]
^thank you @describe-things
#This is mainly about Noé Archiviste. But also I will not forget what some people did to Simon Petrikov either when I was watching f&c#I’m so desperate for drawings of them. But for the love of God,is it that difficult? Somehow every other hexadecimal of their#Character design is exactly on model other than their skin. Just. .#OH YEAH I FORGOT KAEYA. FFS. Somehow it’s always the K**luc-ers that always do it. Which makes sense because they disregard his entire char#And with the new influx of atla fans people have been whitewashing Katara too! And I mean drawings of the original show too#probably delete later#And no one seems to have any problems with it? Especially if it’s sexualised art *talking more about Kaeya & Noé here.#People who whitewash the few (and when I say few I literally mean 5/82 playable characters) darker genshin characters. Actually fuck off#If I see ‘it’s just my art style’ or ‘it’s just the lighting’ *every other colour than the skin hasn’t been lightened in the slightest*#One more time-i’m going to explode#Oh and while I’m on this topic! Fuck Bochum for whitewashing literally the entire starlight express cast! Electra being the first ever#non binary character in musical theatre while also being played by black actors. And then Bochum happened.#When was the last time Pearl or Rusty had actors who weren’t white? Literally the last character who hasn’t been replaced is Momma/Poppa.#And being black is so integral to their character and music. You quite physically couldn’t#I really really hope the casting for the London performance this year is like the 1984 cast again. Please.
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tagged by @eelqueen a little while ago (thank!)
rules: without naming them, post a gif from ten of your favourite films, then tag ten people to do the same.
off the top of my head...
and apparently gifs don't exist for this documentary but it's probably the dumbass mountain film I've rewatched the most over the last decade:
tagging @solosvejs @brilarsn @tubefullofdemons @puddeneen @whifferdills @volkswagonblues @reallyginnyf @medinaquirin @hilaryoncesaid @defiantbird @pizzagrenades and @muaddibshit if they wanna.
#i have seen the subject of that doc gaining popularity on tumblr (especially last year w/ jasmin paris) but it's still kinda niche#personal#i think i did this one a few years ago but it's interesting to update#pizza time is never ever leaving#superhero movie of all time#i will definitely remember a movie as soon as i post this
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icl i would be at least a little happy with almost any ending for stranger things but one thing that would ruin all of it would be an epilogue (of a decade or more later)
#it would just kinda ruin the fun of imagining them doing whatever tf i want them to these days yk#like even if everyone got together the way i wanted them and got the jobs i think fit etc it would still just kill the creativity#+ even the small things would annoy me like what if i just don’t like what one of them named their kids. or dresses like in 20 years#maybe i wanted them divorced by then but that would’ve angered the fans#maybe i wanted to imagine that single person’s future spouse myself (or keep them single in my head)#what if i want them to recover from this or that or still be working on it. what if i the adult/older actors look shit#anyways point is do not do an epilogue timeskip of more than 5/6years PLEASE i am begging u duffer brothers#stranger things#byler#<- u guys get me on this yk#even if byler isn’t canon at the end i can still at least imagine they do in uni or in their 30s or whenever#as long as there isn’t some fucking scene where mike and el r old and married in 2023 or something#would just kinda ruin all of it; making us see them as old ass adults with their entire lives set it stone yk#manifesting a few month/year timeskip where everyone gets a happy ending isn’t all “and then they lived a nice life in this specific way”#and especially manifesting that we don’t get an#“i haven’t seen you guys in decades how’ve you been? sucks that erica died in a car crash last year. she was almost 40”#type epilogue (if we must have one)#like no hate to amphibia and that one 80s movie but it just kinda makes what happened before a bit pointless if it focused on their#relationships at all#like cool we spent years watching these friendships grow and adapt only for u to go “yeah and we’re strangers now soz :)” like ok so none o#that lasted#idgaf if it’s “realistic” if i wanted realistic representation of childhood friends into adulthood id think about real life and shit#idk random rant if they do any of this shit i WILL kill all of them and then myself#ryan shut the fuck up
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