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[lumpyorganelle]

Enneagram Social Instinct (SO)

Summary of the Social Instinct:

Key words: connection, contribution, participation, adaptation, involvement, mirroring, attunement, cooperation, reciprocation, accommodation

(note: there's a common misconception about the social instinct being correlated to being extroverted or social. This is not the case, introverts (cognitively) can be a social subtype and even the most reserved or quiet individuals. The social instinct is simply the instinctual drive to connect, engage and contribute to others. In some cases, social subtypes can be most prone to social anxiety due to the heightened sensitivity of their position in the world)

Main concerns:

Maintaining the sense of value gained from participating in activities with others (be it group, family, community, friends, colleagues, etc)

to be part of something larger than themselves (social media is a great example of the social instinct, because we all innately are looking to satiate that need for contribution and involvement)

Main focuses:

to establish a social standing/position in society

building personal value, sense of accomplishment and security with others

to know what is going on in the world/community; can manifest as gossiping, world news, celebrities, events, politics, etc.

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Social subtypes are sensitive and attuned to the hierarchical social structure and group norms; emphasis on groups; 'out-groups', 'in-groups'

Have the capacity to form and sustain relationships over a long-period

comprehension of one's position and place (e.g 'am I a loner? Am I accepted? do I have value here?, I feel like an outcast, what do we have in common? Are we close? etc')

nuances of social environments, etiquette, cues, boundaries, status and power, behaviour, etc

being able to understand and sense impact of actions on others

What this can manifest as:

desire for acclaim/fame, attention, popularity, recognition, success, honour, leadership, appreciation, to have high social status, etc

How the Social instinct may manifest when unhealthy/distorted:

Antisocial behaviour, resentment over society and people, anxieties and self-defeating behaviours, overly preoccupied about self-image (to others), fear of exclusion or being devalued, avoidance of social endeavours, cynicism and distrustfulness, etc.

The Social instinct, however, is actually something much more fundamental. It is a powerful desire, found in all human beings, to be liked, approved of, and to feel safe with others. On our own, we are rather weak and vulnerable and can easily fall prey to a hostile environment. We lack the claws, fangs, and fur of other animals, and if we did not band together and cooperate with each other, it is unlikely that our species, or we as individuals, would be able to survive. Being able to adjust ourselves to others and be acceptable is a fundamental, survival based human instinct.

References:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Enneagram/comments/14bw32k/are_enneagrammers_instinct_example_thoughts/

https://thepracticalenneagram.com/instincts/social-instinct/

https://www.personalitycafe.com/threads/the-resource-thread-for-instinctual-variants-and-stackings.118168/page-2?nested_view=1&sortby=oldest#replies

https://www.reddit.com/r/Enneagram/comments/14cegz6/being_so_dom_actually_makes_you_less_social/

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[valeria-prieto]

I have created my enneagram and now I’m offering hand painted enneagrams, they are amazing as a reminder of characteristics. “The Enneagram is an archetypal framework that offers in-depth insight to individuals, groups and collectives. Consisting of three Centers of intelligence, nine main Enneagram types and wings, the Enneagram offers a rich map to personal development from an open systems perspective. It does not box in people, but rather opens a pathway to self-discovery and greater personal awareness”. -integrative9 🎨😊 . . . . #enneagram #birthmap #birthchart #enneagram9 #enneagram8 #space #enneagram7 #enneagram6 #enneagram5 #enneagram4 #enneagram3 #enneagram2 #watercolor #enneagram1 #illustrator #latinartist #spiritualawakening #colors #healingart #methaphyscis #love #highvibration #intuitivepainting #enneagramtypes #psychology #awakening (at Glendale, Missouri) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cfo1OjxraEK/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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[consciousenneagram]

Maybe we should all be praying in math. •• Thumbs up to all my mathematicians or other super nerds who get this mug. •• I’m blown away at the generosity and kindness of my friends and community. It’s no secret this year has been hard for basically everyone, and I’m no exception. My people have gotten me through. •• I hope you can find time to connect or reconnect with your people as this very challenging year comes to a close. •• And if nothing else, I hope you can find a little extra light this season. 😉 • • • #enneagram #enneagram1 #enneagram2 #enneagram3 #enneagram4 #enneagram5 #enneagram6 #enneagram7 #enneagram8 #enneagram9 #millenneagram #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #enneagramcoach #queerenneagram #personalitytypes #enneagramtypes #spiritualwork #innerwork #transformation #contemplative #contemplativepractice #practice #yoga #meditation #yogatherapy #math #godisablackhole #godismath (at Austin, Texas Y'all) https://www.instagram.com/p/CXz1hJDtKvV/?utm_medium=tumblr

[umbrellathoughts]

Anyone else so close to the border of their Enneagram wing that they sometimes genuinely wonder if they mixed up their core type and wing? I swear sometimes I could be a 7w8.

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[cbaillustration]

Calling all enneagram and ethical fashion lovers! Here’s a new cute shareable illustration for you guys— yes, I know this is super niche but I know there’s an audience for it 😘 because I’m one of those people! 😂 There’s an interesting amount of overlap between the enneagram community and the ethical fashion community. Tell me below— what type are you? And can you guess what I am? And if you aren’t into ethical fashion or the enneagram, just let me know which outfit is your favorite! 😘 . These illustrations are based on a survey I did on Instagram, along with descriptions of each type. Obviously it was not a scientific survey and not extremely widespread, so don’t @ me if this isn’t accurate for you- it’s just for fun and nothing to be taken too seriously! 🧡 thanks guys! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #enneagram #enneagramtypes #enneagram1 #enneagram2 #enneagram3 #enneagram4 #enneagram5 #enneagram6 #enneagram7 #enneagram8 #enneagram9 #ethicalfashion #sustainablefashion #conciousshopping #ethicalmyway #closetjourney #consciousfashion #ethicalstyle #moreillustrations #illustrationhowl #illustrationlove #illustreak #illustratedimpact #illustratorsoninstagram #lifeofanillustrator #illustratorlifestyle #illustratorlife #enneagramillustration #enneagramart #wellnesswednesday (at Austin, Texas) https://www.instagram.com/p/CGnOz7hl3Tz/?igshid=1wpkuwoimw6gg

[authen-ti-city]

I have been reading this book(" The wisdom of the Enneagram") It kept me up till 3am, it was super engaging bcoz of its depth and clarity.

It is unlike any enneagram webpages or tumblr blogposts where the descriptions are too skewed with personal biasis and vagueness.

In this book authors explained the history of Enneagram. And how it is separated from what it is and what it is not. No one with superficial knowledge of enneagram would believe "the main objective behind enneagram".

This book is helpful for anyone who is trying to burst their own bubble by being more open to truths that are contrary to their current belief system or trying to challenge their own values by testing their validity.

[lessonsfromnomad]

First get to know me, so that I leave you no doubts that you were right about hating me in the first place, then hate me.

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[jewitch-inghour]

The enneagram can be divided into three centers of intelligence, or sources of information.

Three Triads 🧠💗🔮

Head Triad 5, 6, 7

Heart Triad 2, 3, 4

Gut Triad 8, 9, 1

All three types of intelligence are present in everyone, though one will be dominant depending…

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[happymessworld]

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