#empath and narcissist

[morbidfrills]

i feel like its not talked about enough that pwNPD split too and thats so dumb. when i try to do research on npd splitting i just get a bunch of ableist bullshit.

no actually my eyes dont turn pitch black and i dont start levitating and speaking in curses when i split

[schizoidsystem]

I hate how so many people say shit like "having empathy is basic common decency" but refuse to have empathy or compassion for people who cannot experience empathy. You don't genuinely believe that constant 24/7 empathy for others is a morally correct trait if your empathy stops at neurodivergent and disabled people because they don't have the same traits or abilities as you do.

[chimeraaas]

“empaths” are THE stupidest fucks on the planet. not to mention the ableism lol

[rodenticidez]

"Empaths" will preach 'treat others how you wanna be treated' then abuse a narcissist for no reason.

[komsomolka]

things get curious when you look up stalin's and trotsky's operational logic. stalin based his opinions by practically taking in consideration everyone's points of view and constricting the general middle option. meanwhile if you listen to trotsky you would think he was one leading the revolution all this time instead of being the last minute opportunist turncloak, lol. lichrally tiktok style empath stalin vs narcissist trotsky stand off.

[autopsyfreak]

dear people who believe in ‘narcissistic abuse’,

count your days.

this is a threat.

[mystii-gur0]

Sometimes I wonder how many "dark psychology" tiktok girlies who won't shut up about narcissists are actually narcissists themselves. I think a vast majority of them probably are.

"Everyone I don't like or disagrees with me is a narcissist (lesser than me) and I'm not a narcissist and am in fact an empath so I'm better than them" yeah that's black and white thinking and grandiosity. Yk. Signs of NPD.

"Narcissists don't deserve love. Infact they aren't even people you shouldn't have any kind of empathy or sympathy for them and if you do that makes you a narcissist." Strugling with empathy and thinking people less than you don't deserve your time are also symptoms of NPD...

"There is no chance I could be wrong and I don't need to explain myself because all my beliefs are correct and infallible" do i even need to explain this.

"But I was abused by narcissitic parents!! I can't be a narcissist!!" You do know narcissim usually stems from behaviors learned as a result of child hood abuse and trauma right....

is this anything? Idk. But it is a pattern I've noticed.

Uh friendly reminder, pwNPD are safe on my blog and I will not tolerate ablism to them. (I have borderline we're like mental illness cousins)

[antisocial-hatred]

you'll never convince me that empathy's a real thing, what happens is you see a person in a bad situation and imagine being in their place so you put yourself in a bad mood too, you're not "absorbing or sharing their emotions" you're just making their bad situation about you and assuming they feel the same way as your imaginary self in your imaginary scenario, and you may get it right sometimes but without any guarantee exactly because there's no actual connection between the two emotional states

edit: empaths mad go read the comments before writing the same shit over and over, I already replied <3

[blue-thief]

im the biggest kiis shipper out there but cmon. isagi wouldn't cry if he found out about kaiser's backstory 😭😭

if anything he'd just be like "ohh. oh shit i accidentally took things too far didn't i 💀"

[neurotypicalabusesurvivor]

The fact "empaths" don't have empathy for childhood trauma survivors (ASPD, NPD, systems) is funny actually.

[strudelapfel]

Holy shit guys hold your horse's new empath just dropped!! Shiver me timbers!!!

[beetlepilled]

i hate that i have to control my emotional instincts to be seen as a "good person" but self entitled empaths don't even move a finger to stop acting like a piece of shit

[quitblamingnarcissism]

The Just World Theory is a pattern in which people convince themselves that those who are suffering did something to bring it upon themselves in order to avoid feeling bad for them.

It's one of the most evil patterns in existence. Every injustice that has ever existed was able to continue because of the Just World Theory.

And the Just World Theory requires empathy. Someone without empathy would have no use for the Just World Theory. They wouldn't have to play mind games with themself in order to stop feeling bad for others because they already don't feel bad for others to begin with.

So enough about the idea that empathy equals good person. Every injustice in the world is caused by people with empathy.

[animentality]

[orderofthe-pyramids]

Can empaths shut the fuck up

[mirrorobsidian]

The hypocrisy of empaths is ironic

They boast about advocating for humans who have been hurt while also boasting about how because they have dated or were raised by those with a Cluster B Personality Disorder that automatically makes them "experts" on said disorder

How is that not being on the same egotistical level empaths claim to be against as well just because you dated or were raised by one with a Cluster B Disorder does not make you an expert on the disorder as not all with a Cluster B Disorder are the same as your experience

If you truly understand and can emotionally connect then your so called "empathy" would also be towards those with the disorder

You want to claim those with NPD, BPD, ASPD, HPD all traumatize people? Then look to see who created the disorder. Look to see who created the monsters. Look to see those with the disorder are traumatized as well

You empaths want to view those with Cluster Bs as abusive ignoring the fact they were once abused and still being abused by society because of aggression, lack of empathy, the need for attention, black and white thinking, etc....

You empaths only see trauma in a certain way, and how dare someone not be traumatized in a way you expect them

Cluster B Personality Disorders are disorders stem from trauma of various kinds. Neglect, abandonment, abuse, harsh environments, believing it's "normal", etc...if I were to describe a trauma response for Cluster Bs it would be Fight

Lacking empathy does not mean those with the disorder lack human decency. It may take time cause of the disorder to come to an understanding hurting others is wrong however many with Cluster B Disorders are trying and you empaths sure are making it easy for many to just say

"What's the point"

You're not empathetic. You're a selective