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anyone who refuses to draw bill as a triangle in ship art is a coward
#this is a joke#kind of ….#also ship art as in the two characters romantically involved#doesn’t have to be healthy#it’s just faster to say ship than romantically involved#I don’t like billford in a fluffy way I think it’s just a really interesting dynamic#bill cipher#billford#gravity falls
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Apriltello /neg
2k12 Dee I love u but this was not it
Pushing my rise turts paint their nails the colour of their brothers agenda
Bonus of my fav panels
#you know it’s bad when even your dimensional counterpart thinks you’re a freak#apriltello but used like as in an insult#art#my art#fanart#tmnt#rottmnt#rise of the tmnt#rottmnt crossover#tmnt 2k12#tmnt 2k12 crossover#rise 2k12 crossover#rottmnt/2012#tmnt donnie 2012#rottmnt donnie#tmnt donatello#teenage mutant ninja turtles#personally I headcannon 2k12 Don as being BPD and April is just his FP he just doesn’t know the difference between that and a crush#<- still not healthy in the slightest tho#rise turts have matching nails and I will fight you on it#their two fingers are the brothers that share the similar colour palette and their thumb is the one that shares the colour palette with them#rise Donnie is aroace and I will also fight you on that#tcest dni#piss off you degenerates#I still don’t know how to draw turtles#if tumblr refuses to notify my followers of this post again I’m going to loose it
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Publishing has always been a fucking nightmare, but now it’s a layer of hell. It’s not enough that writers be good at what they do. Writers have to maintain an active social media presence and cultivate a following. Be available.
They have to be conventionally attractive enough to look good enough to see on a screen, aesthetically pleasing, kind, funny, up-to-date on trends, socially aware but not so controversial that they turn off a brand from California from slapping their discount code on a video promoting a book.
They have to do all of this with no media training, with little help from the companies that are supposed to be doing this for them.
Of course, a lot of this isn't possible for say, the 40-something mother of two who teaches English at a school and writes on the side. She’s boxed out of an already complex industry that already has enough walls.
On some level, I think authors have always marketed themselves a little, but we’ve reached such a crazy point where we’re demanding the author become the influencer. Accessibility in publishing has narrowed from an inch to a sliver. And that inch was hard enough to get in as is.
#This is about traditional publishing but there’s pretty privilege and ageism in self publishing too#I can’t think of the last time I saw an up and coming author recording videos who was over thirty#And frankly that’s a shame#It could be that I’m not looking hard enough#but it’s more likely that algorithms are trained the way they are#truly I don’t think they should have to do any of that at all#And forgive me but (and I know it’s rich because I’m an artist on a platform) but art shouldn’t be at the mercy of an algorithm#Now there’s also something to be said about self publishing becoming easier and easier to achieve success in#And doors opening because of influencer status is real and makes publishing wider in a way#But that doesn’t mean it’s accessible#I’m not gonna plaster my health issues over the wall but that life is certainly not accessible to me!#are you healthy enough to write and make sure people on social media still want to like your stuff#are you mentally well enough to be your own pr#I’m sure people who have studied this have more to say and have said it better but this is what I’ve observed#writing#publishing#publishing industry
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I think the funniest thing about scogan to me is that if you try to imagine it in practice it actually ends up much more compellingly fulfilling some of the tropes that the comics have seemingly always been trying to push with Jean/Logan. Which is just. Hilarious. Like the supposed (very old, tired, romance novel ass) dynamic they’ve often tried to push w Jean/Logan (esp in the new xmen era) is that of Logan representing some sort of… wildness or freedom to Jean’s restraint. That her “giving in” (yuck) to him is also her embracing… idk? Some sort of more natural, unrestrained version of herself and her power.
But it falls really flat with Jean not just bc of the misogyny inherent in the trope but also bc. She’s literally already done that. Like several times in fact. It’s sort of her whole thing. She doesn’t need to fuck Logan to step into her unrestrained power. She already, as a character, is supposed to be a vibrant, impossible, wild manifestation of pure creative/destructive will. (And really it’s kind of everyone else— and the writers’ latent misogyny— that keep fucking that up for her).
Scott on the other hand. Well. He kind of is the high powered female romantic lead obsessed with her job who gets sent on a work trip to a rural town where she’s forced to loosen up a little. Like for better or worse that’s kind of exactly him. He would fit alarmingly well in that sort of push and pull storyline. Which is so… good to me. That Scott, of all people, makes more sense on the cover of a Johanna Lindsey novel than Jean does. That him having that kind of dynamic with Logan actually feels way more interesting bc Scott is restrained to a fault, he is an insufferable, neurotic little headcase who would rather die than tell a waiter they got his order wrong. And yet he’s also the guy who’s admitted to actively enjoying riling Logan up bc part of him just wants to see what will happen. Which I’m pretty sure is called chemistry
#something to be said for scott’s relationships w jean and emma and how they affect his feelings about power/agency as well!#I feel like w jean his instinct is just to bask in her sunlight to the point of living in shadow. which she doesn’t WANT but its. scott.#and as the boundaries blur between them her power is also sort of his but also it still isn’t just enough that he doesn’t have to feel#scared of Having it#and meanwhile emma is like ok sweetie what if I just Made You embrace your own agency. that’s how it works right. and scotts like yeah ur#so right it definitely does. this is such a healthy relationship.#and then w logan its like. this guy is literally just gonna keep bothering him until scott has no choice but to act about it.#god. he sucks so bad ❤️#both of them. jean shouldn’t have to deal w any of them we should send her on vacation w ororo#wait no remembered ororo has also had an insane gay rivalry. damn nobody’s safe huh 💔#jean grey#scott summers#logan howlett#scogan#comics
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Natalia literally met Buck while he was on duty and he dressed a wound for her and everything and then she says “shouldn’t we leave that to the professionals” like two episodes later and he has the nerve to think THIS is the person that Sees Him. Sorry but Eddie is so brave and strong for not going ballistic in that graveyard personally I would have just started swinging
#🪐#I just think about this a LOT#buddie#I have nothing against Natalia truly but she is not right for buck#they don’t even have to make buddie canon I just hope he doesn’t wind up with her long term like#that is not the foundation of a healthy relationship I fear#also has anyone else. noticed the Natalia/ana parallels#………….#just wondering
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you sliced me loose and said it was creation. i could feel the knife.
#tw blood#corintheus#the Corinthian#dream of the endless#the sandman#the sandman fanart#resident arch nightmare doesn’t have healthy coping mechanisms#after all why would he?#my art
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Yt ppl thinking black people are dirty for not washing our hair often (bc we literally don’t have to) will never not be odd to me because like… you don’t think it’s nastier that you HAVE to wash your hair every few days or else it gets GREASY and stringy?
#pimptalks#like idk and it’s not that hard to understand that our hair doesn’t produce enough oil to keep it moisturized#so washing it so often would strip it of what little oils it does have#washing black hair is also much more tedious you wouldn’t wanna do that shit more than once every few weeks#I’d much rather only have to wash my hair every so often to keep it healthy as opposed to my hair literally being greasy if I don’t wash it
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Style shift pt 2: everyone else
ft @decafguy00 ‘s Twig, @owl-bones ‘s Boss, @bonetrousledbones ‘s Edge, @alsojnpie ‘s Horrortale Papyrus, @save-star ‘s Duke, and a silly Undersell Papyrus for @phenom-lemon
#💗💗💗💗💗💗#<- throwing those like shuriken#initially the plan was for them all to be uf Papyri but sometimes plans change and sometimes not all of your mutuals have some version of#uf papyrus and that’s okay <3#every healthy ecosystem needs diversity#anyway#there is ONE MORE missing piece but I will get to it after I rest my hand 👍#updating the other one w/ a bg now too bc I learned a trick that makes it 9 billion times easier yaaay#snow and hail#uf papyrus monday#the shift is that this is my style. btw. in case that wasn’t clear bc I realize now that doesn’t seem very clear#undersell#other peoples ocs#sort of#cs style swap
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character development is not immediately making up scenarios two seconds after meeting someone. i’m growing up fr
#was at a boba place today when a guy flirted w me#successfully so bc he managed to score my number#and subsequently getting hurt bc the version of that person doesn’t exist#but am i doing that now? NO#i’m literally so unbothered and i even recognized that w my busy schedule i can’t be invested anyway#2024 is about having healthy boundaries when it comes to strangers u just fuckin met#no daydreaming when u haven’t even grabbed coffee w them yet#p
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Do you ever think about how Fitz treats Beloved like his manic pixie dream girl and they tend to come in conflict when he’s too human and has needs and feelings of his own? And he honestly does the same thing with Molly only he never really lets her break out of that mold?
#realm of the elderlings#rote#fitzchivalry farseer#the fool#fitzloved#molly chandler#I totally understand why he’s like that#he lost his mother young and thus lacked that unconditional love and support#and he is low on emotional intelligence and doesn’t know how to have healthy relationships#but it is very limiting for everyone involved#especially with molly because he never takes her off that pedestal and engages her as a fully realized person
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Dc x dp idea 34
Danny gets sent back in time often to fix disasters. This causes problems.
Danny is a member of the teen titans in this. Amity has been handled portal shut down by the league. The minute the anti ecto acts were suggested they acted and nipped it in the bud. As Danny is a teen in this that’s we’re he goes.
Now Danny never really stated his status as a halfa. Just indirectly said his parents caused him to have the second form.
One day there is a huge threat. Now there are rumors the ghost king is kind and protective of earth. In the past there are records of him helping. At the same time warnings he will bring destruction. Two very distinct personalities.
Danny tries to stop them but it’s too late. As he is the one who sealed pariah not the ancients. The summoning worked as it had no magic backing it.
Cue pariah instantly attacking Danny raving about how he took away his victory. Now they have two threats at once. Danny takes down pariah and becomes king.
Now the split personalities makes sense especially when Danny actually discloses some information. Like the fact he had time traveled and clockwork likes to make him fix things.
#danny fenton#danny phantom#dc x dp#dp x dc#dp dc crossover#dp x dc prompt#dp x dc crossover#justice league#ghost king danny#teen titans#why would he reveal he is a ghost#everyone in town figures it out#why wouldn’t the superhero’s#Danny wants to keep helping people#help save the world#amity just doesn’t have what he wants#plus his parents aren’t good#so the hero’s did want a super powered child away from the ghost hunters#even if the parents commites to change#it wouldn’t be a healthy environment
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I certainly think a post-canon fic could like earn this for me but in general I am not super interested in the version of Falin/Marcille that ends up w them immediately settled down in wedded monogamous bliss. I think first of all they have some messy stuff to work out and secondly I think that Falin would love being poly. I also NEED her to be having incredible gay sex on the road during her travels. I want her to be a bit of a rake. She’s breaking hearts but in a very kind way it’s bittersweet they always knew she was going to leave and they cherish their time with her and she loves them fully while they are together. Falin Touden Worldwide Woman Lover I believe it with all my heart and soul.
#yes Marcille has jealousy issues she’d have to get over for that to work but that’s the point!!!#it would be such a meaningful thing for them both if they were able to make an open relationship work in a healthy way#oh also coming back to add that I love aro or gray aro Falin and this fits within that#like it doesn’t have to but it’s part of my personal vision
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hater has disturbing reoccurring dreams about wander crawling inside his ribcage that always have him waking up in a cold sweat [they just feel too real and hater can’t place why]. wander has reoccurring dreams of hater ceremoniously destroying him with the Disaster Blaster and it’s the one dream he doesn’t eagerly blab to sylvia about because he doesn’t know how to tell her that it never feels like a nightmare. soooo is anyone else sick in the head or is it just me
#wander over yonder#woy#im having a lot of thoughts about their dynamic#it’s weird bc. i don’t necessarily see them as making for a good ship [RAISES HANDS DEFENSIVELY] and let me explain!#i haven’t quite finished the show yet but like. while they definitely have the potential for yaoi. i cannot imagine what it would look like#for hater to actually… reform and reach a healthy balance in his life. it would be AWESOME to see#but i just… he has so far to go and it feels like while wander could be the catalyst for change within hater. he couldn’t feasibly Fix him#does that make any sense??#either way i Do enjoy the ship! i just feel like it’s very important to point out that there is no canon scenario where it’s not toxic#at least not within the immediate future. yafeel#anyhoooooo#gear diary#wander#lord hater#ALSO to elaborate on my actual post: it’s worth mentioning that hater was unconscious for the rib cage thing#and i think by the time he finally perked up. it’s safe to say that he never fully processed what wander had done#at least from what i remember#as for wander. obviously he doesn’t Want to die. but The Big Day was hugely important to him#as his singular mutually happy memory between him and hater. and by the end of it all#he was fully prepared to just…. let hater fire. if he thought it could make hater happy.#do y’all ever think about that because i do 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
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All Homophobic Navani jokes aside I do think she is really working on becoming more accepting of this kind of stuff and like it would be easy to say it’s because of the crab yuri or whatever but honestly I think she started rethinking things when, like, her husband asked her to teach him how to read and she had to get really cool about a lot of things really quickly
#luke.txt#like you don’t exactly undergo the process of teaching your life partner how to do something that will read as incredibly queer to everyone#in your society#without going hey maybe I should rethink my knee-jerk disgust at broken gender roles#like dalinar got over a bunch of internalized bullshit/NO FEMS on his grindr profile/what have you#through means of like. having his entire worldview spun on its head#what with the almighty being dead and his subsequent excommunication and the way he’s treated by the ardentia for marrying Navani#and like. having a mental breakdown where he would’ve done the healthy thing instead of relapsing if he could read#just a whole mess of factors that were just like. insane#but for Navani it was very sudden. She loves Dalinar. Dalinar wants to learn to read. She teaches him. She very quickly goes through#Unlearning Homophobia And Such so that she can support him better#if we are laboring under the assumption that dalinar is bisexual but Sanderson doesn’t know it#he’d probably put that in Oathbringer#and then Navani has another layer of Stuff To Get Real Chill About Real Quickly#ugh dalivani could be so good if it was good#pulpy drippy orange juice
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Maturing is realizing how many levels of fucked up IvanTill is and still writing fanfic in which they relearn who they are and through their self-discovery find each other halfway.
#never ever forget that ivan’s emotional intelligence is dogshit#and that he is legitimately fumbling with his attraction to till because he has no guide except a healthy lesbian relationship#which cannot be applied to his situation at all#alien stage#alnst#alnst till#alnst ivan#ivantill#ivantill doesn’t start from a foundation of childhood romance#regardless of how one-sided it is#the foundation is CRUMBLING AND NONEXISTENT#they literally have to start over from scratch#whizz talks
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Today I’m thinking about my aunt. For much of her life, she lived a very “small” existence. She worked the same job for 40 years, at a dry cleaners near her home. She didn’t like to travel much. She had to have things done just so, from folding towels to putting away groceries. It was hard for her to let anyone else do things because they didn’t do it right. Her family shook their heads about her. Her sisters fought with her about her “sad life” many times through the years.
When she died, so many people came out and said how much she meant to them. How kind she’d been to them. How she gave the best relationship advice, even though she’d been single most of her life. She was a listening ear and a shoulder to cry on for so many in her community. She would be dearly missed.
All my life I’ve been told that if I didn’t watch it I’d “end up like aunt Nita” and you know what? I hope I do. No, she wasn’t perfect. There are things that I hope to be different in, but who gets to decide what makes a life meaningful? She was happy. She made a lot of other people happy. And whenever I reach out to those around me in the small ways that are available to me, I feel her spirit moving along with me <3
#life stuff#I know this isn’t my usual stuff for this blog#but this is the blog I have the most community in#and I wanted to remember her with y’all#a life doesn’t have to be full of big adventures#or perfectly healthy to the outside eye#to be meaningful#and worth having lived#I think about her so often#and yes I wish she’d had access to the kind of knowledge or tools I’ve had#that allow me to let up on some of the rigidity that can make life harder#but she was still a beautiful soul#who didn’t deserve all the judgement she got from her family
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