#discord servers are So overwhelming
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i miss boops i want more friends
#like#as i was telling my love my light kit#discord servers are So overwhelming#and dm’ing a mutual out of the blue Scares Me#but booping united me with my mini-regulus cult <3#n passing evil boops back and forth got me so many new friends lmao#please if you wanna be my friend i wanna be your friend🙏#chances are i want to be your friend and am just nervous to ask#am i basically begging for friends on the internet?? kinda?? i guess??#but it’s more like ‘hey this connection was really cool’#and there are so many people i want to get to know#and fucking boops helped with my anxiety around that💀💀#astraeus rambles
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Self proclaimed empaths on their way to "advocate for the mentally ill 🥺" by demonizing every cluster b personality disorder
#you tell them having a personality disorder doesnt inherently make someone more capable of abuse than someone without one#and they go fucking ballisitc! Assflash newshole! everyones capable of harming others! it came free with your being a person!#and oohh they just love flooding the NPD safe tag with as much hate as possible which is! Not normal behavior! What the fuck!#also when i say “self proclaimed empaths” i do NOT mean high empathy ppl! thats completely different!#we have fluctuating empathy so we'll go from completely without out it to overwhelmed by it at random#its just atjglejkwgk agifeli#be nice to people with personality disorders! we're people too! and more often than not we're victims of abuse!#graaah sorry just#got harrassed in a fucking emoji server on discord by some dickwad who noticed i had NPD in my intro like bro? Im here for funny cat emojis#wawawewa#npd#npd safe#cluster b safe#cluster b#empath
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With the 1 year anniversary of The Ballpit opening it's doors coming up soon, I figured I'd re-release the document for newcomers who want a Discord server to hang out! There's a brief application process, and we're only accepting a couple new people, so shoot me a line! [THE BALL PIT IS NOW INVITE ONLY!] thank for those who reached out, and let me know if the Ballpit was recommended to you by anyone!
[APPLICATION]
#animaniacs#yakko warner#my art#yakko's ballpit#animaniacs discord#i want to briefly say too#that we're trying to keep the server on the smaller side so it's not super overwhelming and feels more tight-knit
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#I’m bad at small talk#I just want to talk about Sun and Moon#but I don’t wanna bother anybody with my rambling#and have them just secretly wanting me to leave lol#and I go on big discord servers but I’m not in the right timezone and nobody’s talking when I’m awake#and they get so busy I get a bit overwhelmed and can’t keep up with the conversations#it’s not anybody else’s fault I’m just bad at making friends#that is all
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how did i not know
#that there's a tennisblr discord server#seems so strange that i didn't know fjfhjj#i wanna join but i feel like i might be overwhelmed or uh#well part of me thinks no one would even enjoy having me there 🧍🏻#i know that's my intrusive thoughts about how much i suck and how everyone hates me telling me shit tho
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I'm already starting to regret that I joined yet another Discord server.
#personal#i'm trying to learn about game modding and while there are several channels dedicated to different areas of modding#the resources are scattered are all over the place#and there's so much discussion in between those resources/posts that it takes a long time to find anything#i searched one keyword because i couldn't find a pinned post about it and there were 47 pages of results for that keyword alone#yeah i'm not gonna go through all that#i'm surprised anyone who joined there recently can learn anything#unless they have a lot of time and patience or something#it literally took me hours last night because i didn't know shit xD and trying to navigate that place is like#trying to find a needle in the haystack. plus some of the creators there are so rude to anyone who's just as confused about stuff as i am#and some of the 'newbie' tutorials they put up there are literally not that great for beginners#unless they already have good basic information about how to use blender or ue4 or other stuff#it's a fucking chaos honestly#this is why i don't really use discord anymore#i get disoriented and overwhelmed when there's too much stuff at once and it's not even well-organized or well-explained#putting up an archive for resources and tutorials would be great. or at least locking up certain servers so they wouldn't be#clogged up with discussion would be great too#but i guess it's just me then
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Yes you bet I’m once again promoting the server haha! It’s Pipp approved 💗🌸
Fans of all My Little Pony generations are very welcome, I would love to see you around! Reblogs are greatly appreciated, they help spread the word <3
#it’s even a community server! so it has many cool things#there’s channels for everything to keep things as organised as possible but it’s not too overwhelming don’t worry! 😊#there’s a few people in there but hopefully the community can grow <3 I want the place to be safe and welcoming for everyone#fanart#my art#Pipp petals#mlp fanart#equestria girls#discord#discord server#my little pony#mlp#mlp g5
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omg there are so many bg3 discord servers
#i thought about making a karlach server to hang with other karlach fans#but i dont have the spoons to moderate a fandom space#so i went looking for a server#and omgggg there are so many#and the few i popped into had soooo many members#got overwhelmed so fast#i need to find a smol server with chill vibes#bc i lov my gurl#and want to get to know other ppl who do too#karlach cliffgate#kitty speaks#invite me to your small bg3 discord server pls#i promise im a courteous guest!#bg3#baldur’s gate 3#discord servers
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wanting to join the cjfs but knowing that i would probably just end up being a lurker/be too confused to do anything like last time ToT
#i would also have to actually make a discord account ou#i think it would be cool bc i like the directors notes cj posts#idk how often he makes those tho like would it even be worth it#also i kept hearing about the racism and ableism in the server so thats kept me away too tbh#that was a while ago so maybe its good now?#ALLEGEDLY!!!#idk if those were true!!#did not want to find out for myself#i wassss in the server last year for like a week#but it was confusing!#the only server i was in and there was so much going on!#did not like it#but i know that thats just the way servers look in general everywhere#eugh#so many sections n stuff like what do you do#overwhelming 😭
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kinda weird how i have such terrible social anxiety but primarily for just socializing online/through text or email. in person i’m honestly kinda ok with it? its still mentally draining to be social for too long but i actually Can make small talk pretty well and i’d much rather meet someone new in person than send them an email. and it’s not just like professional online spaces i have issues w like discord servers and casually messaging friends as well. i’d rather talk in a group setting at a party. it’s just weird to me bc when i was younger (like just 3-4 years ago) it was the opposite, i could converse super easily online but had panic attacks about in person social situations. wtf changed
#like i used to run so many discord servers! and now they just are so overwhelming to me#even quiet ones i just don’t know what to say#sending emails has always been hell ofc but these days they are practically unbearable#.#if u are my friend reading this i want to hang out with u and i miss u#i just get paralyzed trying to message ppl
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I know this is the most immature and childish way to react to it, but it's been really stressful to me how much I've been confronted and contradicted and corrected about the things I say and do recently :(
#dru speaks#dru vents#it's been upsetting me A LOT#you might not know what i'm talking about and that's cause there are a lot of anon asks correcting me that i haven't posted#and because some of it took place in a discord server#it just. ugh#it feels like i can't do anything without someone telling me how it was wrong#and it's just been so hard because. life has been really really hard for me lately#but i've been trying SO hard. i've been trying so hard to be a good person and a good friend#but evidently it hasn't been good enough‚ and i don't know what else to do#and i just don't know how to tell when people's criticisms are even worth listening to or not#cause when it's from my friends i just can't tell if what i'm doing is actually a problem or if they're just overreacting#and when it's coming from an anon i can't tell if it's coming from a caring person who wants to help#or a troll who just wants to make me upset#it's all just so overwhelming :(#like i feel like someone's gonna come criticize me for making this post too#it stinks like. people should be allowed to tell me when i'm doing something wrong. of course they should!!#but i feel like i've been being criticized way more recently than i ever have before#and the terrible mental state i'm in just doesn't know how to take it </3#it's so hard :(#agh </3#☹️
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It’s one month to November and I’m just. Absolutely not motivated in the slightest to write ;~;
#honestly watching nanowrimo go up in flames like it has really has taken it out of me#I know a couple of my discord servers are still doing things but idk it’s not the same#inktober went up in fucking flames a few years back and now nano and it’s just like…#every art thing that ever really helped motivate me fucking goes up in flames and I’m just so tired of it#I haven’t written anything outside of shitty outlines all year#and even then I’ve had the hardest time getting back to those outlines#I’m wracked with all sorts of dumb worries for my suki fic#and my s/v fic is going to be so large it’s overwhelming me and I’m stressing that it will all be for nothing and UGH#why can’t I get my brain in gear ;~;#I took all September off from even trying to work on outlines but ugh#I’m just feeling like the biggest flop and failure of a writer it sucks so fucking bad#writing woes
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I joined the fhr patreon discord and suddenly remember why I didnt do it sooner lmao
This fandom is lovely and im sure itll be fun once i get the hang of it but for now i am unaccompanied introvert at a party cowering in the corner
#large discord servers are just so overwhelming honestly#ill be fine i just gotta panic first#if youre in the server and wanna hmu im going by my tumblr name there too so itll be easy to find me
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genuine question: why not use bookmarks that you can sort however you like and that won't be lost if the browser crashes?
that’s what I’ve been trying to swap to, over the past three years though I keep opening random tabs for webnovels and manga and fanfic “to check out later” so I’ve been swapping to using each site’s list/save for later function and exiting out of random event pages or thesaurus pages etc
#ask#anonymous#the answer to ‘why’ is adhd#I operated under the assumption that I’d go back and get what I need and exit in a timely manner instead of accumulating#and then I got distracted by other stuff or forgot to save stuff#so then it became too overwhelming to tackle and snowballed from there#but now I do thinks like paste links to a personal discord server#so even if I never actually go back to find it I avoid the emotional stakes of It’s Lost Forever
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okay i looked on the wiki and stuff and i genuinely cannot figure it out, what is diary of a tourney kid???
a totally normal soundcloud account themed around the hit jeff kinney book series diary of a wimpy kid that will totally not rewire your neurons completely
#i know this is likely a genuine question but like.#im kinda exhausted today so you get the funny answer#if you want smth juuuust slightly more serious: deranged soundcloud-hosted fanfiction with audience participation via voting#the wikis kind of outdated so id recommend just hopping into the discord server linked on said sc#and asking questions#be prepared to possibly be overwhelmed with people stumbling over eachother to answer you though.#we dont get fresh faces very often so it can be hectic but like. we dont bite i promise#also like. listening to the tracks and reading their descriptions can generally help a lot#doatk#ask
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I literally have no idea how to socialize anymore, I'm like a feral dog now
#but I'm constantly lonely and depressed#I desperately need to talk to people#discord servers are overwhelming#i work 3rd ahift so meeting people irl is nearly impossible#idk i feel like theres no way out#thats what skill regression and burnout can do ig#god speaks
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