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[royallylk]

Eldest daughters are only healed through novels

[theletterboxstuff]

Not to be offensive or biased or anything but In my experience, I've noticed that its always the sisters who have to do their brother's work for them like helping him out in school work, projects, picking up the dirty dishes etc, etc.........even when they've got their own load of work to do, whether it be a younger brother or an older one and THAT to me is concerning. I'm not saying that siblings shouldn't help eachother but it should be the other way round as well and everyone should atleast pick up their dirty dishes and stuff like that right??

[deewanapdf]

when life gives u lemons, make nimbu pani and drink that shit up and quench ur thirst babygirl!!!!!!!

[choco-bite]

Getting myself a princess that gets wet from hearing “daddy’s so proud of you lil doll <3”

[feministfang]

A man raped a woman on a busy street in India recently and the bystanders (all men) recorded and posted the videos on the internet, instead of saving her.

Another recent news from India, A 6 year old girl was saved from a rape attempt by a troop of monkeys who attacked and chased away the rapist.

We live in a world where even animals who have no socialisation about basic morals are safer than men who create those morals and laws.

Men talk about being protectors to protect us from dangerous animals when in reality it’s the animals protecting us from these parasites.

The irony!

No wonder women chose the bears 🐻

[mauveliptint]

"indian laws are biased towards women 🤓☝️"

[tarotbyjam24]

messages from your future spouse

Likes , reblogs and feedbacks are very much appreciated 💗

Masterlist \pick a cards

Disclaimer: This is general reading . It may or may not resonate . If reading doesn't resonate let it fly and choose another pile or simply there were no messages for you through this reading 😊 Take the reading lightly as nothing's set in stone until you believe so🕊️

Thankyou for stopping by let's dive in ☄️,shall we ? Choose the pile you feel most drawn to 🧸

Pile 1

Anyone who takes the time to be kind is beautiful .

Some people don't change no matter how hard you try.

But we can not simply sit and stare at our wonds forever .

You spread joy because you're joy that's what I admire most about you .

First love teaches us what love isn't .

It's better to feel the hurt of honesty then to live in a false comfort of lie .

The secret of life is to be obsessed with yourself and be kind to everyone around you.

Some days are just heavy .

Everything you lost will be replaced with something better.

Imagine being loved the way you love .

Pile 2

You haven't met the best version of yourself yet don't give up

when you choose yourself everything around you will choose you too

remember you can start again over and over as often as you need

people don't cry because they're weak it's because they've been strong for too long

the little things ? little moments ? they aren't little

perhaps we should learn to love ourselves so loudly , it silences our insecurities

I love seeing you happy

it happened so that you could grow

you will forever be my always

do it for your future self

Pile 3

You can't go back and change the beginning but you can start where you're and change the ending

expect nothing appreciate everything

you can also comit injustice by doing nothing

be patient. Sometimes you've to go through the worst to get best

how many time can the same thing break your heart ? As long as you love it

find joy in simple things life will always be fulfilling

In the end, I realized the hurt never turned to hate. No matter how much my emotions led me to feel so. I never stopped loving people. I stopped trusting them.

The art of observing and not absorbing

Not liking me is fine, but making up lies to destroy my character is weird.

Keep it private until you know it's permanent

Imagine being loved the way you love .

Pile 4

First love teaches us what love isn't .

Discipline is the strongest form of self love .

She's an old soul with young eyes, a vintage heart, and a beautiful mind

people talk about me behind my back and i just sit here like damn i got myself a fan club

It takes grace to remain kind in cruel situations .

Forgive yourself for the mask you wore when you didn't feel safe enough to be yourself

YOU DON'T NEED EVERYONE TO love you, JUST A FEW GOOD PEOPLE

may every hour in your soul be golden, may it be filled with endless magic .

Vibes to carry through out the week

You're not sensitive. You're not overreacting. If it hurts you, it hurts you. Don't let anyone invalidate your feelings. Ever

I hope you liked the reading . Thank you so much for letting me read for you . Wishing you best ahead . 🎀 Bless you and have a nice day 🫶🏻

Loads of love , jam\gem

Exchanges : open , collabs for paps : open

[eclecticwordblender]

a popular meme page on instagram posted a happy international men's day post and the comments were filled with "waiting for all the angry feminists" "comments from toxic women" "women will want half of this too" "single moms in the comments about to go feral" etc. except not one woman commented anything like that. there were a few "who cares" comments and they were all by males 😭😭😭.

tells you a lot really.

[killallxys2]

Caffeine and Women's Health

For context

The Gender Gap in Caffeine's Impact

Caffeine affects women more significantly than men, yet most research (about 75%) is focused on men. These are caffeine's unique effects on women:

Slower Detoxification: Women metabolize caffeine more slowly than men, and the rate varies with their menstrual cycle:

Luteal Phase: Half-life of caffeine is ~7 hours.

Follicular Phase: Half-life is ~5.5 hours.

Birth Control Use: Women on birth control take twice as long to clear caffeine.

Cumulative Impact: Daily caffeine builds up in women’s systems, making subsequent cups more impactful on their glands, organs, and nervous system.

Different Physical Reactions: Studies show:

Caffeine raises women’s body temperature but lowers men’s.

Women feel more tired, disorganized, and perform worse on cognitive tasks after caffeine than men.

Stronger Stress Responses: Women experience higher stress hormone levels than men under similar conditions, leading to greater health risks, including cardiovascular issues and memory decline.

Edit: I got this from a book I was reading. Caffeine Blues: Chapter 6 - Caffeine and Women's Health

[sarthhakkk]

No, it wasn't love. They left pain in your heart, despite knowing your tender heart wouldn't ever heal from it.

Sarthak

[maihonhassan]

"mai nahi chahta wo mere bulane se aaye,mai chahta hoon woh reh na paaye aur bahane se aaye"

"I don't want them to come just because I call them; I want them to feel they can't stay away and come with their own reasons."

[royallylk]

Why do desi parents always think whatever they are doing is for the GOOD for their kid like is it healthy to constantly shower words of ridicule to their child? NO! weeks months past and all you hear is their discouraging words like I know I am flawed not genius might have done few mistakes BUT that doesnt mean i have nothing to love i forgive people so much but parents their remarks are SO hurtful i m literally crying god! Its not good i hate this so much

[theletterboxstuff]

I wanna readdddd but I wanna read freshly store-bought books not the ones already rotting in my tbr pile

[bookduck14]

As a desi kid I can confirm this

harry's "matilda" and conan's "family line" were made to attack the desi kids

[choco-bite]

I know a spot [ makes out with you in library for six hours ]

[misssclumsy]

What else would be right the answer?....