#conditionallove

[tmarshconnors]

Signs Of Evil Manipulation

Signs of evil manipulation can vary depending on the context, but here are some general indicators that may suggest someone is engaging in manipulative and harmful behavior:

Deception: Manipulative individuals often employ deceit and lies to achieve their goals. They may present false information, twist the truth, or engage in gaslighting, making you doubt your own perceptions and reality.

Emotional manipulation: They use tactics to exploit your emotions and vulnerabilities. This could include guilt-tripping, emotional blackmail, or playing with your feelings to control your actions or decisions.

Isolation: Manipulative individuals may try to isolate you from your support network, such as friends and family. They want to limit your access to alternative perspectives and support systems that could expose their manipulative behavior.

Blame-shifting: Manipulators often deflect responsibility for their actions and blame others for their own mistakes or negative consequences. They may make you feel guilty or responsible for things that are not your fault.

Lack of empathy: Manipulative individuals often display a lack of genuine empathy or concern for others' feelings. They may exploit your emotions for their own benefit without regard for the harm they cause.

Control and power dynamics: Manipulators seek to exert control over others and establish a power imbalance in relationships. They may use tactics like intimidation, threats, or undermining your self-confidence to assert dominance.

Constant criticism: Manipulative individuals frequently criticize and belittle their targets to undermine their self-esteem and create dependency. They may focus on your weaknesses and insecurities, making you doubt your own worth.

Gaslighting: Gaslighting is a manipulative technique where the person denies, distorts, or trivializes your experiences, feelings, or memories to make you question your sanity or perception of reality.

Conditional affection and love: Manipulators often use affection, love, or approval as a reward for compliance or punishment for resistance. They may withhold affection, support, or attention to control your behavior.

Manipulative tactics: Manipulators employ various tactics to control others, such as manipulation through fear, charm, flattery, or excessive generosity. They may use these tactics to exploit your weaknesses and gain an advantage.

[johnhmcintosh]

CONDITIONAL AND UN-CONDITIONED LOVE

CONDITIONAL AND UN-CONDITIONED LOVE

ALL love within the realm of the Grand Dream [what most call reality] is ‘conditional’. Conditioning is the ‘clay’ that molds the world-universal dream into what ‘appears’ to be solid manifested forms. It begins with the initial belief in ‘separation’ and from that a myriad of ‘opposites’ emerges. Then attachments, expectations and identifications coalesce to make up the conditioning that represents the so-called ‘individual’ most refer to as ‘me’. This entity is an illusion and the conditioning that underpins its illusory existence ‘plays-out’ in every encounter within the dream.

It is ‘impossible’ for this NOT to be the case while one dreams they are a separated entity.

This can vary dramatically from a completely closed armour that doles out what it calls love ‘in return for’ what it believes it lacks within this concept of separation. Gradually, chinks in this armour appear allowing tiny pinpoints of Light or genuine Love to shine through and these arise at first through suffering and the resulting vignettes of ‘surrender’ that allow Truth to dominate … if even for only a moment. Consider a ‘hardened criminal’ that lovingly cherishes a small animal.

Eventually after many, many dream-lifetimes these tiny chinks in the armour become like a screen-door allowing the Light of genuine Love to shine through many tiny channels blending the still most ‘stuck’ conditioning with genuine Love. This Love soon ‘swallows’ the false self entity called ‘me’ into ITs Heart and this illusory self dissolves completely revealing what had always been and never left – ‘un-conditioned’ Love.

Un-conditioned simply speaks of Love that does NOT recognize separation, is ONE SELF without divisions … incapable of judgements, where even the label un-conditioned ‘Love’ has no meaning since that lofty term still suggests an opposite. IT simply IS and IT ‘is’ the Real YOU.

-image by Solveig Larsen

SELF DISCOVERY books by John McIntosh https://www.johnmcintosh.info/copy-of-books

[justmyhumanexperience]

[informatsio]

Human love is conditional. Should it be otherwise?

THIS ARTICLE IS GENERATED BY AI The idea of unconditional love is that it is given freely, without expectations or conditions. However, when we examine human relationships, we find that love is often very conditional.

THIS ARTICLE IS GENERATED BY THE ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE Love is a complex emotion that is often described as unconditional. The idea of unconditional love is that it is given freely, without expectations or conditions. However, when we examine human relationships, we find that love is often very conditional. We love others based on what they do for us, how they treat us, or what they bring to…

[kmko23]

❤️ #LOVE ❤️? #lovequotes #conditionallove #unconditionallove #truelove #truelife #lovequotes #relationships #loveadvice #relationshipadvice (at Jersey City, New Jersey) https://www.instagram.com/p/BcG7MEZh2f6/?utm_medium=tumblr

[davidwfloydart]

What love is not... #loveislove #loveisnot #dysfunctionalfamily #lifelessonslearned #lifelessons101 #lovequotes #loveyourself #lovewins #conditionallove #abuserecovery #abusesurvivor #abuseisnotlove #abusiverelationships (at Catalina Foothills, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/CMQk_r8LHySWXvDlEbV9JHrGsYh95AurTo2a8A0/?igshid=w4dsn72jp49y

[eric-sadahire]

What did the squid say to the bagpipe?

I'd fuck you if I could get you out of those pajamas.

[2mysticmoons]

Love VS Attachment ❤🔺️❤

[bradshore]

Sometimes Being A Mama’s Boy 👦 Or Daddy’s Girl 👧 can cause a lot of struggles in ones ADULT life!🤔Watch the full video at https://youtu.be/Zwpv9XRhSAI #mamasboy #daddysgirl #mentalhealth #emotionalincest #covertincest #childabuse #childhoodtrauma #codependency #emotionalabuse #emotionallysmothered #conditionallove #badmoms #baddad #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticmother #narcissisticfather #narcissisticabuserecovery #bradshore #bradpshore #askashrink #takenadvantageof #unhealthyboundaries https://www.instagram.com/p/B6HR5wCpNjc/?igshid=fudjuxigfkpv

[thegoods]

Conditional Love

Unconditional love is known as affection without any limitations, or love without conditions. Unconditional love is just given, freely, all willy nilly. Uh, I want no parts in that...conditionally love me please! The thought that someone can put me through anything or treat me any kind of way and I still love them regardless doesn't sit right with me. Hell I sure don't want to be with someone that will never leave or love me any less-- no matter what. There's no incentive in that. Why would I even try and put forth effort into making you happier? I want to know that you will leave my ass if I'm not loving you properly. Give me something to work for. If I'm slipping or not pleasing you let me know that you won't stand for anything less than from me and vice versa. This may contradict my cheaters edition blog but its because I'm allowed to change my opinion or feel this way because its Tuesday. Its unfortunate that people condition their minds to believe that real love is when you have to weather any and every storm together. Not if a motherfucker keeps causing those storms, nope. Why put yourself through that? I'm not saying throw in the towel over dumb shit like failing to compromise. Even though the GOAT, Eartha Kitt, had a point. I'm merely talking about the things that hurt you, damn near break you, things that you simply will not tolerate. I read a post once about a man who broke up with his long time girlfriend (NOT WIFE) because she was diagnosed with a terminal illness. He was crucified on social media for choosing himSELF-- how SELFish of him... Some say she dodged a bullet. I had to come to his rescue because I hate bullies. Leave that man alone! Granted there's a big possibility that he didn't want to deal with the burden, financial, mental or emotional. There's also a big possibility that he didn't want to watch the love of his life in that state. How can you blame him? He was supposed to stay because love is unconditional? Ever heard of resentment? He would've been staying for the wrong reasons, which to me is worse than leaving. You cannot tell someone how to gauge their love limits. We're all different. We all should have different standards, expectations and breaking points. I can love you with all of me for the rest of my life or I can't. I won't allow anyone to make me believe that there are no circumstances in true love. My heart, my fucking rules. Conditional love is worked for, fought for....its earned and can for fucking sure be taken away. Let that be all the fire you need under your ass to keep that flame ablaze.

[deexscarlet]

#menanti #love #conditionallove #mimpi #moveon https://www.instagram.com/p/BxFqjJaBggh/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1urso0inn97mk

[messages-from-mom-blog]

Toxic parents don’t automatically lose their power over you when you leave. They can (and will) continue to hurt you even after you’re grown up, which was something I wasn’t prepared for.

I was lucky to be able to find solace in the form of my Dad, who had divorced my mum many years earlier, and so was a safe place to run to where she couldn’t follow (both when I was a kid and an adult).

Not everyone will benefit from having a parent who isn’t toxic, but if you do have a parent you love and trust and who loves you I suggest you cultivate that relationship. You never know when you’ll need them, even when you’re grown.

[left-field-comics]

Red Pepper Love

[specialnando]

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[kmko23]

True love, the unconditional love, is far greater than conditional love or false or cheap affections spawn from or triggered by the misuse of the word #LOVE ❤️. #truelove #conditionallove #unconditionallove #loveisabeautifulthing #kmktalks (at Towson, Maryland) https://www.instagram.com/p/BgxzF_lhSGo/?utm_medium=tumblr

[blogchirayu]

Unconditional love loved from the heart to a heart to life. Where else, Conditional love loved from the mind, somewhat heart to life. -Chirayu!. #photography #unconditionallove #conditionallove  #lovepost  #quotesandsayings  #You  #wordswithkings #lovequotes #lifethoughts  #honestlyworded #spilledink #wordsmith #herheartpoetry #bymepoetry #wordgasm #bymepoetryasia  #typewriterpoetry #livebywords #writeruniverse  #untwineme #poetsociety  #prose  #chirayuwriter  #globalwordsmiths    #writerscommunity   #quotesaboutlove #lovebug#drunkpoetsociety #omypoetry #poetryislove #instalikes https://www.instagram.com/p/BoJKskchsL3/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=qg1io5oz1sa