#TrustIssues

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[ameerah95]

Forgiving people is easy but trusting them again is hard.

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

Heal Yourself..

[andrriieeaaa]

Not All Your Friends Are Treating You Like a Friend

As the day went on, I discovered something. It's a harsh truth, but not everyone who calls themselves your friend actually treats you like one. You have always been there for your friends, offering support, trust, and listening to their rants in life. You've opened your heart and shared your vulnerabilities, believing the bond was mutual. But then you hear whispers, see sideways glances, or overhear comments that reveal a betrayal of that trust. It's a painful realization that not everyone who claims friendship truly deserves it. It's not always about huge, dramatic betrayals. Sometimes, it's the little things, the subtle ways they betray you, and their absence when you need them most. These small acts of disrespect gradually destroy the friendship, leaving you feeling confused, hurt, and questioning whether these people are actually your friends.

The lesson here is not to stop trusting, but to learn to trust wisely.  It's about recognizing the difference between genuine friendship and opportunistic acquaintances.  True friends are consistent in their support and respect your boundaries. They don't spread rumors or talk behind your back.  They might offer constructive criticism, but it's delivered with kindness and care.  Learning to identify these differences is crucial.  It's about setting boundaries, protecting your emotional well-being, and surrounding yourself with people who genuinely value and respect you.  Sometimes, letting go of relationships that consistently betray your trust is the healthiest and bravest choice you can make.

[adiyo]

Discernment is Key: Protecting Your Peace

After a few failed attempts at getting back into the dating scene, this year, following my birthday, I decided to stop searching. Instead, I’ve been taking the time to heal, focus on my ambitions, and develop myself. There’s a power in that—stepping away from the noise, and really learning about who you are and what you need.

What’s funny (or ironic, really) is how, after doing that inner work—after knowing yourself more deeply, understanding your blind spots, triggers, and insecurities—people who once hurt you try to reenter your life. It’s almost like the universe is testing you to see if you've really grown.

Where I am now, I don’t see these moments as temptations to fall back into old patterns. Instead, they’re opportunities. Learning moments. They’re a mirror, reflecting how much you’ve changed, how much stronger and wiser you’ve become. And more importantly, they unmask the true intentions of those around you.

Some people aren’t interested in you—they’re interested in what you can do for them. They’re not returning because they’ve changed or because they genuinely want to be a part of your life. They’re returning because they see what they can gain from your growth, your energy, or your attention.

Discernment becomes your strongest tool here. It’s through that lens that you begin to understand who deserves a place in your life. Not everyone who asks for forgiveness, friendship, or love should receive it. Respect, trust, love, friendship, and forgiveness—these things are earned through consistent actions, not words alone.

When you’ve spent time understanding yourself, your attachment styles, and your pain, you realize the power of boundaries. You realize that the rose-colored glasses you used to wear only led to hurt. Growth comes from recognizing when to say no, when to protect your peace, and when to stand firm in your worth.

So here’s to seeing people for who they really are, to honouring our growth, and to protecting the peace we’ve fought so hard to find. Because not everyone deserves a seat at your table.

[ladymacabrebeth]

Most people think I'm cold because I'm selective and don't smile. I'm that way, not because I'm a snob but because I'm careful of who I trust. I've been let down by many in the past that I've been so careful not to give myself right away.

Lady Macabre Beth

[missdreamer]

A sunshine but hides a storm

"What's a good thing that's actually a bad thing?"

For me, it's earning someone's trust, 'cause it means I broke it once."

[skylarmoon71]

Timeless Wells (Flash) Soldier- Chapter 9

The following morning you ask Jefferson to drive Harrison to the office. Just to avoid any suspicions of you being at his place.

When he walks into the office that morning, you feel the weight on your chest release just a little. Your face gives nothing away.

“Good morning Sir.”

“Good morning!”

There’s a bit of pep in his step. A complete change from yesterday. Not that you’re really complaining. You’ve never been able to truly understand this man from the moment you met.

“Did you smoke something last night? You look unnaturally happy. Even for you.”

“Your humor always brightens my day Ms. Yale.”

“You’re evading the question.”

“Am I?”

He only smiles, and you enter the elevator. You squint.

“If you keep staring I may get the wrong impression.” He comments.

You aren’t sure how you feel about this cheeky side of him. It’s suspicious.

“If you tell me what you’re planning I’ll work pro bono for the next two weeks.”

“Tempting. But if I tell you, where is the fun in that?”

“There’s nothing fun about trying to catch an unstable stalker.”

“You should try to look on the bright side.”

“There is no bright side to this situation.”

Harrison presses a button, and the elevator stops. Now you’re even more worried. He’s definitely hiding something.

“Why did you decide to stay in this job?”

You don’t expect the question.

“Because the paycheck looks good.”

He is still wearing a knowing smile.

“You’re overqualified for this position. I’ve seen the clients you’ve had in the past. I’m what they call the smaller fish. So I’ll ask again. Why did you take me as a client?” He takes a step, and you take one back.

“I…”

You can’t seem to find the words.

It’s almost like he expects that response.

“If even a piece of you trusts me, then I’d like to appeal to that. Have faith that I know what I’m doing.”

This has never happened before. Not in all your years of working these jobs.

“It’s my job to protect you sir. How can you ask me to just blindly trust that whoever is doing this will somehow find some kind of humanity and let it go. You have no idea how powerful hate is.”

“I’m very aware of what hate can do. I’ve experienced it firsthand.” His eyes tell no lies. There’s something there. Behind the mystery is understanding. One you never thought you would see from someone as entitled as him.

“I’m not asking you to trust this person, I’m asking you to trust me.” You swallow.

“I..do trust you..”

His smile is warm.

“Then we’ll both be alright.”

There’s nothing more that’s said. He clicks the button, and the elevator returns to its previous destination. You just stand there with a dazed look on your face. When it opens, you can hear the glee in his voice.

“Onward!!”

He walks out, and you follow quietly.

Everyday Harrison seems to make you question so much.

It’s unnerving.

[whyiammiserable]

"The person I needed the most taught me not to trust anyone ever again and that's why my whole world could be crashing down on me and I would not say a word."

— Stephanie Bennett-Henry

[blankandhollow]

After you, I don't trust even good guys anymore.

[i-would-have-come-for-you]

A Game of Thrones AU SasuHina story. Make sure to check it out and leave me your thoughts.

[pat-patrii]

@LaurenJauregui  

trust issues

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[tmarshconnors]

Signs Of Evil Manipulation

Signs of evil manipulation can vary depending on the context, but here are some general indicators that may suggest someone is engaging in manipulative and harmful behavior:

Deception: Manipulative individuals often employ deceit and lies to achieve their goals. They may present false information, twist the truth, or engage in gaslighting, making you doubt your own perceptions and reality.

Emotional manipulation: They use tactics to exploit your emotions and vulnerabilities. This could include guilt-tripping, emotional blackmail, or playing with your feelings to control your actions or decisions.

Isolation: Manipulative individuals may try to isolate you from your support network, such as friends and family. They want to limit your access to alternative perspectives and support systems that could expose their manipulative behavior.

Blame-shifting: Manipulators often deflect responsibility for their actions and blame others for their own mistakes or negative consequences. They may make you feel guilty or responsible for things that are not your fault.

Lack of empathy: Manipulative individuals often display a lack of genuine empathy or concern for others' feelings. They may exploit your emotions for their own benefit without regard for the harm they cause.

Control and power dynamics: Manipulators seek to exert control over others and establish a power imbalance in relationships. They may use tactics like intimidation, threats, or undermining your self-confidence to assert dominance.

Constant criticism: Manipulative individuals frequently criticize and belittle their targets to undermine their self-esteem and create dependency. They may focus on your weaknesses and insecurities, making you doubt your own worth.

Gaslighting: Gaslighting is a manipulative technique where the person denies, distorts, or trivializes your experiences, feelings, or memories to make you question your sanity or perception of reality.

Conditional affection and love: Manipulators often use affection, love, or approval as a reward for compliance or punishment for resistance. They may withhold affection, support, or attention to control your behavior.

Manipulative tactics: Manipulators employ various tactics to control others, such as manipulation through fear, charm, flattery, or excessive generosity. They may use these tactics to exploit your weaknesses and gain an advantage.

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

It is the ones you'll do ANYTHING for that’ll treat you like you're nobody.

[aifeeferhild]

"Be careful who you trust, the devil was once an angel"

[missmiserables]

Stepping Out of Me - 4. Her pleading face emboldened the imprint (on Wattpad) https://www.wattpad.com/1238408901-stepping-out-of-me-4-her-pleading-face-emboldened?utm_source=web&utm_medium=tumblr&utm_content=share_reading&wp_uname=xxCryBaibyxx&wp_originator=utoC4YhjxPyosn%2BGJtqWBXJE%2BVocV0ZwXMVZjlb6KB6pJjwpUTdmWnepLkKOQedHpQSHywzmoJ%2FFItMsprfYLgynlFfwEORYF5JUKgAJp8%2FhzrZ5W0vqHnoDswcKXq7Y 17-year-old Kiera and her dad relocate to the town of Berkton after having a traumatic experience at her previous high school. Kiera meets new people but finds it hard to trust them, afraid they might do the same to her that people in the past did. After never having a boyfriend, she meets Lance who is very sweet to her and a spice added to her life. She also becomes friends with his sister Halle, who is a ray of sunshine. The two slowly help Kiera out of this horrible period of her life. But will she take a chance on them? *New chapter every week*