#buying a house on disability

[somecunttookmyurl]

all the while society conflates "being an adult" with "having a proper job" and "having money to make arbitrary Adult Purchases" disabled people who can't work - or can only work part time or can only do entry level baby jobs - will never be 'allowed' to be adults

you can say "being an adult is looking after yourself you don't have to have a job!!!" all you want but most people who say that will still assume anybody who doesn't either can't or won't 'look after themselves' actually. and every 'marker' of 'adulthood' that's observable and thus actually counts or whatever loops back around to... having a job and 'contributing' something

[oidheadh-con-culainn]

i just booked to view two flats (to buy) (i'm probably not going to buy them) (i would only be co-buying them even if i did bc i can't afford a mortgage) (they're in a good location though it would be way nearer to useful things even if there's still no bus) and they asked me no questions beyond contact details when i called them about a viewing. is that normal. shouldn't they have tried to check i'm serious. i had all my answers prepared re: the finances and they didn't care

[caffeinatedopossum]

I always feel bad for being even a little dissatisfied with my circumstances and then I remember that most of the people around me (both irl and online) would probably go absolutely bonkers in my circumstances

[imwritesometimes]

kinda hate when people ask you 'what do you really wanna do with your life though?' and 'get paid to bake and then spend all the rest of my time alone in my peaceful house playing video games and chilling with my cats' is not a *good* enough answer

[lunar-fey]

hey i don't have the heart or energy to make a proper post ill do that later ig. but situation is still bleak - im disabled + every other adult in this house is disabled but only my mother is on disability. we are all unemployed & hungry & i need money for bills and meds

if you can help -> paypal.me/Nat1172

im not gonna put like a goal on here bc ill remake this in a few days or smthn when i have the energy but $200 is what i need to cover my own personal needs for this month

[nexus-nebulae]

another childhood bucket list item obtained: i finally have a snuggie

[seraphim-soulmate]

how much mold is considered a mold problem in your bedroom also can mold make your heart rate fucked up thanks. Aoh also the wall which has the mold literally falls apart if I touch it so. Not really sure how to get rid of it also I assume there's more mold on the other side of the wall??? idk I think every couple of months I discover mold somewhere and panic and then clean it and forget about it.

[an-ruraiocht]

me being in sex therapy and me finally investing in a double bed after having my childhood single bed for the entirety of my adulthood so far are unrelated. mostly

[tittyinfinity]

My mother confuses the fuck out of me

[yo9urt]

local man completely obliterated by strength of narrative and character writing in 2023 game of the year

[dogbunni]

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[theres-whump-in-that-nebula]

There’s a real paranormal attraction near me open at night!!! :D

…but everything is done in such a tourist-attracting way that the whole business appears to hinge upon sensationalized exploitation of the mentally ill >:(

[chorus-communities]

something nice about getting to upload my (disabled) sona to artfight this year. like this year has been so good to both my disability aids and diagnosing what's actually wrong with me and this just feels good in my heart

[yellowyarn]

i would literally kill for a hagstone

[b-blushes]

also i'm disproportionately excited about GUMMY VITAMIN tomorrow because my normal disgusting ones were out of stock (most sarcastic oh no ever) but that did make me realise i should just. buy some sweets for real.

[nonbinarychaoticstupid]

i mentioned this in the tags of another post somewhere but there rly is something so theatre kid core insane in rehearsing les mis and learning how to build a barricade and playing the role of a student in the rebellion at the same time as an awful winter is descending on you and you have no real way of knowing how much money you're going to have left and the coronation of king charles, which will most likely be millions of pounds worth of money spent on watching another racist idiot put a hat on, seems to be a more important use of the government's expenses than feeding and heating the homes of the rest of the country. like idk i really would love to hear the people fucking sing. or something.