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so so honestly genuinely i love being trans. i have absolutely zero desire to be cis, because being trans is such an insane joy. like, the idea that being trans involves wishing you were cis is alien to my personal experience atm because i love being trans so much and no part of my trans experience rn is wishing i was cis of any kind. i fucking love being transexual, i love transitioning, i love being on testosterone, i love that every day i gain greater understanding of my gender and gender itself and take delight in my body, both how it is and how it's changing. while i wish the whole "legislate us out of existence" thing was not such a thing, i actually give zero fucks if anyone understands my trans-ness and my gender, because i get it and it fills me with the most gorgeous affirmation of life and human-ness and the mysterious unfathomably complex strangeness of the universe, and i don't need anyone else to understand it for me to just be it, and i get to be it every day, and i fuckin love it
#trans#trans joy#i've been chewing on a whole thing about how my gender is transexual#but articulating it is still wobbly#but something like#i wish i had a dick but i don't actually wish i had a dick#my gender is wishing i had a dick#the dick yearning is part of the gender itself#and my transexual body is the one that gives me euphoria#not a cis male body that i do not have and do not want#except in the ways i do want it#but those are part of the gender
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I do sort of wish western anime fans would analyze anime and manga from a framework of japanese historical and cultural context. Specifically a lot of works from the 90s being influenced by the general aimlessness and ennui that a lot of people were experiencing due to the burst in the bubble economy and the national trauma caused by the sarin terrorist attack. I think in interacting with media that’s not local to our sociocultural/sociopolitical sphere it’s easy to forget that it’s influenced and shaped by the same kinds of factors that influence media within our own cultural dome and there ends up being this baseline misalignment of perception between the causative elements of a narrative and viewer interpretation of those elements. It’s a form of death of the author that i think, in some measure, hinders our ability to fully understand/come to terms with creator intent and the full scope of a work’s merits
#exilley's diary#this is about utena btw like. yeah its feminist and a coming of age horror story but also#it was in part ikuhara’s response to the changes he observed in the corporate anime industry and an attempt to subvert those trends#it doesnt really help that i feel certain aspects of the show are filtered through translation and certain cultural emphasises are lost#like for instance. the blood type symbolism. or wakaba’s gestures with making packed lunches#theyre incredibly japanese expressions of conventional gender roles that non-japanese audiences might not fully resonate with
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Louis is such a Catholic good girl btw. Gets courted by a wealthy gentleman for months before they even kiss. Married in a church. Gets himself a precious baby daughter because he’s been dreaming of that perfect family since he was a little girl. Loyal to his man not even multiple deaths can separate them. Says Hail Mary like fifty billion times to cancel out the anal sex he keeps pretending he didn’t enjoy but also calls that dick his personal black tar heroin. Gonna lie to everybody he meets including himself. Feels guilt for a century about things that weren’t his fault but also kinda doesn’t give a shit about the things he did do. God’s gonna see him through <3
#every semi-closeted catholic lesbian is like yeah I think I saw heaven when we kissed. but I’m not gay!!!!#saw the gates when she spread her legs but I didn’t have a good time. I’m not a lesbian. I’m straight.#ldpdl is not at lestat’s concert he is too busy reblogging images of lambs on this website to go outside#like I do think part of him would learn about coquette and feel drawn to it#claudia’s pink plush coffin was sooooo louis’ doing. that may be his adopted daughter and his gay marriage#but he’s catholic enough to not let go of gender roles completely. her coffin will be PINK because she’s a GIRL. and she will wear CHIFFON.#I do not want to think about the fight that would have ensued the first time claudia frowned at a dress and asked to wear trousers#he did not raise a young lady with no manners what do you think you are one of those boys out there playing tough? put on the skirt now#anywayyyy he’s sooooooooo <3#ldpdl#louis de pointe du lac#iwtv#interview with the vampire
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I'm listening to a lot of Maintenance Phase (bc I love it) and this comes up sometimes, so I'll just be sat here thinking about how common it is for little kids to grow up watching their moms and other women in their life jump from diet to diet. Just as ambient background noise in your childhood, the adults around you obsess over calories aloud, express guilt over eating enjoyable food, frame exercise as a form of punishment for eating, and so on.
#how crazy is that...#and no your mom or your aunt or sisters or whoever surely aren't thinking about this as modeling a type of behavior#but that's what happens#also particularly crazy for people I talk to where you're in the age group that also had The Biggest Loser airing on tv at the time LMAO#lots of stuff happening at once there huh. crazy#sergle.txt#also yes I am gendering this SPECIFICALLY not because EDs/weight stigma/eating disorders DON'T stretch across all genders#but because it WAS specifically almost always women doing this because the diet and weight loss industries specifically target women#and because we can all think of examples in our families or in those of our friends and ppl close to us#where one or all of the women will be taking part in this behavior and IN THE BACKGROUND. the men in the house usually aren't.#and that a lot of the time this isn't enforced on them either. or the mom will be cutting calories and the dad will be visibly making fun.#sometimes families with one or two people doing this diet shit will cause it to be The Whole House Goes On A Diet#but more often than not it's a splintered effort or just one person.
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For those of you wondering about Les's mysterious younger sibling. It's Hed, he's the little brother.
They share a mom who was a rock troll. Les's dad is funk, and Hed's dad is rock, but he lived in Vibe City since very young so he's also basically mixed genre like his bro.
In the second pic he's singing/rapping Tastes Just Like Chicken by Scatterbrain. I feel like this is the kind of music he would make when younger.
and bonus: meet the nominees for the worst parents award
#trolls#dreamworks trolls#ex bandmates#my art#I feel like trolls' music genres are based in their genes (race)#but are also an amalgamation of their upbringing. culture. and perhaps even gender (🤔)#like it's an integral part of their self expression that they can't live happily without#and like all those things many have a clear relationship with it while with some it's not so cut-and-dried#and they need a while to figure it all out#I chose the parents genres solely based on what the brothers' genres derive from irl because I'm a little obsessed with the little details#they are also whatever is the troll equivalent of potheads and crackheads. also drunks...#also just awful trolls all around#the brothers really hit a jackpot with them#trolls oc#les#hed
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how many dog ears do you own and how are they all SO cute? also are they associated with any specific like. characters or personas? like do you have a bunch of dog ocs? or are they just for cuteness? either way i love your collection 😻
I have 4 pairs of dog ears! The green and black one are my favorites!
They aren’t really for OCs or Personas (though I do have some puppy OCs). I just find them to be gender affirming.
At the end of the day, I am a woman. But if you want to be more nuanced, my gender is woman in a puppy kind of way. A puppy girl!
I’m not saying that I identify as a dog, because I don’t. I’m a human woman whose gender happens to be a little bit puppy.
I’ve been posting puppy stuff on main lately because I’ve been more comfortable presenting this way lately. I feel cute, and I feel good about myself, and I’m excited to share that self love.
#this is one of those situations where my gender identity gets more nuanced and more complex the better you get to know me#like for 90% of the world I’m a woman#and that’s all they need to know#when I’m in trans spaces I’ll be a bit more open about puppygirl being part of my gender identity#it’s just too complicated for some people#and I don’t really need everyone to get it#but yeah that’s me#local dog girl
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Veilguard vaguing:
It's not automatically a good thing, actually, that the game de-emphasizes or even outright removes racism against elves, and bigotry against other groups, from the story
#veilguard critical#completely declawing the sociopolitics of the story doesn't in any way make it a better story ugh#being of a certain race and even of a certain gender should mean something in the dragon age world and not all those things are good#and that's part of the challenge of the roleplay and part of the themes of the whole overarching story like#tevinter! is a location in this game!!#not to focus on just the elves but if we're not feeling the absolute depths and desperation of all the elves#not just the dailish#then there's no way to feel much complexity or conflict over - for example - what solas is trying to do and why he's so motivated#his character is boiled down to him being by himself and feeling conflicted over just his past actions#as if he didn't spend all of inquisition investigating yours and the companions' differing plights and worldviews#tbh though one of the biggest failings of inquisition is maybe possibly not highlighting the dailish and city elves enough#to help drive home this point - but veilguard is so clearly just kind of out here by itself with loredumping that goes completely#uninvestigated socially or politically that like... it doesn't matter much#like we just have to pretend that everyone is playing kumbaya now? with the elven god of rebellion real and running around?#that you can walk around anywhere in tevinter practically unbothered?#like bellara and davrin and every dailish elf in thedas aren't at all significantly moved by knowing their gods are just some guys?#i get more and more pissed at -good vibes- storytelling in all its mediums with every passing day#ISMtext
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I will be the first to admit I'm not the best at drawing animal or furry characters, but I wanted to get something scribbled down in my Non-Goof style, anyway. Plus, I've been enjoying the many reference pages folks were posting of their own designs for the Lamb and Narinder, so, uh. Here's mine, I guess! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
do not comment on how long narinder's tail is or i swear to the lamb i will make it even longer next time >:]
#fanart#cult of the lamb#cotl#cotl lamb#cotl narinder#narilamb#tagging the ship because Your Honor They're Married#teeny tiny lamb and big boi narinder is my weakness leave me alone DX#i gave narinder a stupidly long tail because my own cat has a stupidly long tail and i make fun of him for it all the time#this is important to me for A Reason - which is that i enjoy adding even more reasons for people to make fun of narinder#he is my special boi and my poor little meow meow and thus i must violently shake him like he's the world's shittiest maraca#why else would i give him a long majestic cloak but then just have him wear a stupid turtleneck tunic under it and no fukken pants#there is no way that asshole has any sense of fashion - he has been out of touch with it and reality for at least one (1) millennium#anyway narinder's cloak can definitely be pulled closed to look like his standard in-game attire#also shh the lamb has plenty of wool to cover them and thus doesn't need any Censor Leaves#do NOT cite them for public indecency because that is racial discrimination against sheep and thus It Is W R O N G#btw i know i draw the lamb kinda cutesy-feminine but i promise you their gender is an eldritch void#VOID I SAY#what's in their pants? a knife#the time knife specifically (that's the eldritch part)#it might look like narinder has yaoi hands here but that's just because he's Bein' Spooky#i swear i headcanon him with normal size hands XD#also i finally drew scars on his wrists!!! i DO headcanon him with those but i try to keep designs simple in my Goofs Style lmao#once again i should be asleep
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as a transmasc lesbian i am wishing all “men dni” blogs a VERY go fuck yourself today
#especially the ones that are “for sapphics only#a HUGE huge massive fuck you to those people#bc it puts me and every other transmasc/trans man lesbian in the most weird uncomfy and invalidating place#of having to choose whether to identify more with our gender or with our sexuality and that’s FUCKED UP!!!#they are both extremely intricate and inherent parts of me and you can’t just take away one or the other#anyway rant over i guess im just soooo fucking sick of it#silas speaks#transmasc#transmasculine#trans ftm#transgender#gnc lesbian#transmasc lesbian#trans community#transphobia#transandrophobia#transblr#queer#queer community
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Two very unfortunate (or hilarious) things about the german version of the murderbot diaries is that not only did they manage to translate the title All Systems Red as Systemausfall (eng. system failure) when one future installation turned out to be named System Collapse, they also managed to turn Rogue Protocol into Exit Szenario (no need to translate) right before Exit Strategy came out.
#I only read parts of the german translation but some digging through obscure scifi forums#seems to confirm what I stumbled across on wikipedia#also ART is translated as Fifo? Really?#it stands for fieses Forschungsschiff (eng. mean research ship)#I am glad I read the english version but damn I’m curious#apart from the fact that they could have translated Murderbot simply as Mörderbot but went with Killerbot#I don’t mind#comparing translations of stuff is my hobby and a main motivation to learn languages actually#overall I think the translation does an okay job- especially considering pronouns#they handled those well considering german is kind of a very gendered language in that regard#but Chefmodul? That just makes me think of a bot in a kitchen instead of the warranted existential dread#the murderbot diaries#tmd#murderbot#all systems red#rogue protocol#system collapse#exit strategy
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nearl utena paletteswap. is this anything
......wait, hold on...
#arknights#revolutionary girl utena#utena#tenjou utena#nearl#margaret nearl#arknights edit#...yeah i guess i'll tag the other guys too#hatsune miku#kagamine rin#megurine luka#i do currently think the nearl-utena similarities are mostly surface-level. if anything‚ i think she's closer to anthy#(even though nearl's story does not read to me as one that's consciously about misogyny or abuse or even gender‚ really)#to me‚ the most compelling part of nearl's character is the way she sacrifices her personhood to become a symbol of liberation#she is whatever the people want her to be; she is the vessel for their hope‚ their grief‚ their hate. she will burn herself alive for them#margaret nearl is dead by her own hand; what has taken her place is not a human being. it is the future. it is the city. it is the light#and unlike anthy‚ she chose this for herself. she welcomes dehumanization if it means that others might live a better life#i wonder‚ in those moments when she takes off her armor‚ if she ever resents it; if she ever thinks she made the wrong choice#... sorry for the downer notes on a silly post god damn. these horses have done something to my brain
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idk if this is a hot take or whatever but the "brain sex" theory sounds so stupid
#squawking#like I'm not convinced it isn't at best accidental researcher bias and at worse neurosexism#all brains have the same parts. sometimes those parts are gonna look different in different people#the idea that there is a binary female brain and binary male brain is stupid as fuck I'm sorry#the idea that it specifically aligns with the Western binary is even more stupid#also just. exorsexist and intersexist#I know we want to know why we experience gender dysphoria#but this is not the way to do it#also it's already pretty well known that a main cause of gender dysphoria is environmental??#like people who grew up in different cultures with different ideas of gender are gonna experience different kinds of gender dysphoria#bc it is not binary#and there is not a specific “male brain” and “female brain” that causes it#also also there doesn't *need* to be a “biological explanation” for being trans#sometimes someone just wants to be another gender#and that is okay
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omegaverse thought:
even in settings where alphas are dominant, it could be well known that there are certain scenarios where omegas are not to be crossed. not if you value your peace of mind. or various pieces of your body.
force your way into an omega's nest? you fool. you absolute nugget. that omega will turn from happy purring to a whirlwind of deadly claws and rending teeth faster than you can say "oh f-"
put a hand on a nursing omega's pup without knowing it's fine? "there are no alphas around, its fine." lol. lmao even. as if the alpha can save you from an omega that's protecting their pup. you should know better, idiot.
"how dare that omega not cater to my request specifically! i'm the most important person in the room!" do you want rumors spread about you? are you doing a "never get a date again" speedrun? cause that's where you're headed.
just...omegaverse settings where you ignore the power of omegas at your own peril. including settings where "you fight like an omega" says something about focus or determination.
(used omegas for the example here, but I'm very in support of this applying to betas as well! regardless to if you give your betas unique traits or not, they're still people. still members of a species whose greatest abilities include creativity, endurance, and social bonds.
a single asshole alpha can and should have their life ruined by a group of driven betas with the desire to do so. the less likely it looks, the more interesting it gets!)
#omegaverse#omegaverse headcanons#a/b/o headcanons#twovvie chatters#i just think its neat#to explore the power of those who lack obvious power#or who have knowledge or wisdom that's commonly overlooked#me? i'm skipping to the part where everyone respects each other's unique abilities#mostly cause of a disinterest in properly writing the struggle for dynamic/gender equality#especially since it looks different in a setting with twice as many combos#only 1 setting i'm working on is like that#but still#admittedly there are equality issues but more caused by stereotypes and outdated laws/beliefs#rather than specific groups being seen as second class citizens
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Still not over this! I cant ever remember seeing the male and female leads of a movie wear the same outfit on a red carpet, albeit in different colours.
Such a clever way to do a nod to stillsuits. I even like that Law, Zendaya's stylist, got their custom JUUN.J jumpsuits in pink and blue (as all the articles described them; ignore that they look peach and grey in some photos.) He's making a statement about how future fashion will be more gender neutral but to make it palatable to us he put them in gender coded colours. That's both clever and funny. Also, bold move on Timothee Chalamet's part for wearing the same thing as Zendaya : how many people wd dare that?! Such a cool collab! Fashion history was made here!
#timothée chalamet#zendaya#law roach#dune#dune part two#dune promo#dune in south korea#and it worked: Timmy really holds his own in that stillsuit even though he doesnt make his version sexier with a belt or showing more skin#there's something so perfect about the contrast in her high heels v his chunky work boots#it was a good day for fashion#no but seriously i want to go on and on about how clothes look when you arent dressing to conform to certain notions of gender#theres a freedom of sorts in those stillsuits#luxury law#twinning#twinning on purpose#stillsuits#JUUN.J#fashion#This isnt comparable to any time an actress has turned up in a suit that matches an actors. These hv the same cut. That just blows my mind
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i find it so [idk] how for a number of cis women being called trans is the worst insult. like.... would it really be so bad.........
#like not to be someone who is like Omg The World Is Falling Apart and the world in question is their tiktok fyp#but i remember cis ppl laughing it up in sevdaliza's comments at the mere suggestion that she could be a trans woman#shit like 'OMG🤭🤭🤭 WHY DO I KINDA SEE IT.....'#like?? why is that funny.....#(obvs it's funny bc an integral part of the gender binary is punishing those who do not perfectly fit it)#(humor [ie public humiliation] being a classic of this playbook)#transmisogyny tw
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I ❤️ U
More affectionate stuff with Prism and Phoenix (Polyblank) + more info in tags
#benny's art#my art#oc: phoenix polyblank#ieytd au#ieytd#i expect you to die#agent phoenix#dr. prism#roxana prism#with polyblank what's funny is they are nonbinary and while they follow “they/he” pronouns they wouldn't mind “she” either#hes very no gender#and their relationship with the ieytd is very loose#he sees everyone as a friend he hasn't made yet#relationships?#eh it isnt solid in this case but he'd be super affectionate with Handler and Prism more than Juniper#had this idea that Prism created a “bit” (emphasis on bit) of who polyblank is#part of polyblank is a desktop pet created by Prism when she felt alone in her work#titled “Nexus.Exe”#one one of those commodore pet computers#still working on it but some parts of him could of come from that#prism x phoenix#maybe?#i love creator and creation tbh
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