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i feel like the queer community lost when we started policing labels and making sure everyone used the Correct™ labels instead of letting a person decide what feels right for them
#caique posts#inspired by a post a trans guy made asking if it was okay for him to keep identifying as a lesbian even though he’s now a man#and all the comments telling him no because lesbians can’t be men#and also all the other posts of people asking if they’re ''allowed'' to use certain labels#why do you need permission?#who are you even asking permission from?#we’re not cops#do whatever you want forvever#also inspired by an article in a zine in the 80s/90s of two FtMs in a T4T relationship#one of them described the relationship as being between a butch and his sissy boy#i cannot ever imagine anyone calling themselves that nowadays#because of ''only lesbians can be butches'' and ''sissy is offensive'' discourse#i’m sure there are people out there who would want to describe their relationship like that but don’t feel they’re ''allowed'' to#anyway lots of baby queers are tying themselves in knots trying to figure themselves out#and they’re more concerned with using the Correct™ label instead of the one they feel most comfortable with#yeah i just don’t like it#knowing you’re queer should be a liberating feeling#instead of something anxiety-inducing because you’re worried if you’re using labels wrong
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“men are always willing to believe two things about a woman: one, that she is weak, and two, that she finds him attractive.”
truly insane to have a character say this and then make them actually attracted to men in any capacity. btw.
#dragon age#morrigan dragon age#i know i’ve said this before#captain holt voice. and you’ll hear it again!!#like listen. i know it would change the implications of the ritual. but clearly they’ve already considered#that you can have sex with people you’re not attracted to bc she can sleep with an unromanced warden or alistair or loghain#yknow it just ties into the whole. my mother raised me to be a certain type of way but that’s not me#i really like her friendship w a female warden and feel like it’s a good romance on-ramp but it would also be thematically interesting#if she were asexual#but i know 1) leliana was originally supposed to be a lesbian and that didn’t fly#and 2) if it was on their radar even a little bit. they would have avoided it bc of Problematic Implications#ie discourse about corrective rape. even though she’s the one who initiates it and makes it very clear. if she’s not in a romance with#that character. that it’s just doing a job that needs to be done and there is no emotional attachment there#i also think. perhaps. they could have done something different for the ritual ESPECIALLY if they’re going to call it that#like obviously it’s a fade to black scenario but persistently calling it a ritual makes me think there’s something Else that happens too#maybe lean into that#anyway i’m just saying there’s workarounds for these excuses i made up lmao#mine#morrigan
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#this question is very hard for me to answer so obviously I have to torment everyone else with it#cause like. like I can really see the potential in either answer. both are feasible#I will say. most realistically. to me. edwin first charles harder#because I think…..I think the reasoning behind the other way around usually tends to be about how edwin absolutely was slower to bond and#open up in general whereas charles hit the ground fucking running#but i don’t think that particularly applies to their romantic relationship#if you mean ‘fell for’ in a general sense rather than a romantic one then yes 100%#but that’s not what im talking about here#I have a few different reasons but generally I think edwin fell first because like… the way he attached himself to charles and accepted him#as his person and etc is so unlike him to do with literally anyone- especially at the point where they first met/the first years they knew#each other. charles just seems to have hit him as something very very special and irreplaceable quite quickly for him to open up the way he#did and change and flourish into a fully realized person because of how safe and worthy charles made him feel#he took to charles with an unusual amount of ease and trust and I think that says something about how charles struck his heart Early#whereas with charles… yes on one hand he did stay on the mortal plane largely because of edwin and absolutely would’ve been impacted by the#tender act of mercy that was edwin reading to him as he died so he wouldn’t be scared. that’s absolutely what got him to trust edwin and to#want to be with him and protect him and so on#but charles would still do that and be like that under intense platonic circumstances I think#but most importantly I just think charles fell harder. when he fell is less important to me here- more important is that by GOD that boy is#down so fucking bad and outright SAYS IT in so many ways that he doesn’t realize– the sheer amount he restates how he’s content so long as#he’s with edwin. how he doesn’t want to be anywhere where edwin can’t follow. would and Did go to hell and back for him. believes him#to be the kindest and most incredible person he’s ever met. prioritizes him above anything and everything. etc etc etc#that’s not to say edwin doesn’t feel a similar amount of devotion– but charles just. really loves him with his whole person. loves him as a#fact of his existence and a piece of his very soul#idk man. it just feels like he is so incredibly smitten and he doesn’t even know it.#like I said though I can see both options and give reasons for both options so this question EATS at me I GENUINELY don’t have a super#strong feeling either is absolutely correct. it’s so difficult to answer they’re both so smitten and have such a history and GRAHHHH#payneland#dead boy detectives#rambling#polls
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Being a gravity falls fan as a twin is really funny because my twin and I started watching it and were like, “psh, we don’t act like Dipper and Mabel at all, guess our twin experience is just unique” only to find out we act EXACTLY like Ford and Stan
#other than the scam artist & rouge scientist aspect#we bicker exactly like them though#I’m the science oriented weird twin that will correct them on their grammar and they’re the seemingly aloof hard-head with a heart of gold#I kin ford and they kin stan#don’t worry we have grown closer and are nice to each other#gravity falls#gf#grunkle stan#grunkle ford
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i dont ever really get gender dysphoria anymore but i do wish i didn’t always feel so frustrated whenever people use they/them pronouns on me even if they’re well intentioned or forgot or don’t know. i haven’t used they/them since i was 13-14. it’s absolutely not a real issue unless someone’s purposefully misgendering me, i just wish i wasn’t so frustrated by it
#yeehaws#i don’t even get bothered when people she/her me because they usually correct themselves quickly after seeing my beard or hearing my voice#but i look queer enough that well intentioned people will they/them me and even though they’re not doing anything wrong it’s frustrating#especially because i have long hair and have a stereotypically gay tint to my voice#neither of which i will change
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Anyone else thinking about that moment in tsh where Charles says “I’ll call you” and winks, and Richard (see: gay mess) blushes? No? Just me?
#I think he mouthed it tho#whatever u get the gist#tsh#the secret history#richard papen#charles macaulay#bunny corcoran#camilla macaulay#henry winter#francis abernathy#donna tartt#dark academia#text#incorrect quotes#even though they’re correct lol#tsh incorrect quotes#idk how to tag lol#tags?
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Invader Zim Future AU (ooooooo!)
Hello IZ tumblr. I come bringing an AU and character designs. Enjoy them please :)
ZiM - 200+ Years Old - College Student/Irken Invader
Ten years have passed since ZiM began his quest to conquer Earth, and things couldn’t be going better! (At least, in his opinion.) Despite the literal years of failure after failure to achieve his goal, he still hasn’t given up. In fact, he believes every scheme he makes is more amazing than the last. (Because he’s a genius, in his opinion.) There’s just one thing standing in his way… Dib. As always. But ZiM will be ready for him. He has been keeping an eye on the Dib creature, even making sure to attend the same high school as him, and now to go to the same college. Even though ZiM thinks things are going wonderfully, he can’t help but feel like something is off. Like someone is watching him…
Dib Membrane (Agent Mothman) - 22 Years Old - College Student/Paranormal Investigator
These ten years have been absolute hell for Dib. ZiM’s constant scheming to take over the earth and tormenting of him in particular have made Dib lose his mind a bit. Okay, a lot. He’s now more determined than ever to capture ZiM- no, not just capture ZiM, kill him. He wants ZiM on that autopsy table more than ever before and he will stop at nothing to achieve his goal. He is now being assisted by the Swollen Eyeball Network to do it, so he’s more of a threat than ever before. (Though the Swollen Eyeball Network are only helping him because they fear if they don’t help him now, he’ll continue annoying them for the rest of their lives.)
#fan art#invader zim#invader zim au#iz zim#dib membrane#so that’s they’re designs :)#I’m still not 100% satisfied with zim’s human outfit#the concept for it is that zim has been on earth for 10 years so he picked up some of the fashion but he still does it in his own zim way#like he doesn’t follow trends or anything he just wears what he thinks looks cool#also sprinkle in a little gnc energy there and boom#idk if I was completely able to capture that with this look though#idk maybe I’ll change it later. refine it.#I’m just so sleepy I want this to be done#sorry entire paragraph in the tags lol#also is that the correct way to write zim’s name?? idk man I’m so tired
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In your opinion is zuko or sokka taller?
they’re fighting over it constantly in my mind i will never be able to give u an answer on this
#thats why i draw them the same height ejfhdj i feel like it’s correct though#both of them think they’re the taller one and Never shut up abt it#if one day zuko gets a taller headpiece just to add height then the next day sokka gets platform boots#equality#ash replies
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Last post before I crash and no-one hears from me until I return from my first final the morrow’s eve (a changed man no doubt) but there’ll never be anything funnier to me than consistently being viewed as a composed and calm saviour by peers while I’m, actively and uncontrollably losing it.
#not said sarcastically or as a vent by the way I genuinely find it so terribly amusing. you think I have it together ? aw <3 you fool.#i’ve been pacing around my room like a starving lion since the past week in whatever free time i’ve had.#and i keep getting people in my messages begging me for last minute help ? which is endearing but. i’m hanging on for dear life myself#helping isn’t foreign to me; i have 4 (?) people in my class who almost exclusively refer to me as ma’am and even refer to me as a teacher.#but helping last minute is so. deeply chaotic.#and I have this issue with me where having others around me makes me immediately drop into a ‘role’ of sorts?#i’ll be freaking out but then someone else starts freaking out around me and my immediate response is to just.#hey. we are going to make it out of this. it’s easy as pie. do you see me worried? no right? <- on the verge of hyperventilating#there’s this one guy in particular who got so excited to find out we have the exact same examination set-up tomorrow.#i gave him like basic pointers and i don’t think i’ve ever been thanked so earnestly and desperately in my life.#i remember during mocks my friends would message me what I wrote in questions and then they’d immediately go oh thank Fuck.#they’d literally just act like they’re absolutely going to pass now just because we had points in common.#as if i’m some sort of fucked up correct answer sheet incarnate.#it’s genuinely really sweet to me though; like i’m not posting this ranting or such.#having so much faith in another to the point that you can put yourself completely at ease says. alot i think.#and i’m glad i can be that person for so many.#and I feel like it helps me in a way too because i become so concerned with others that I forget to drown myself in my worries.#i forget that I’m worried because there are others to care about and console and help. so i suppose they help me in a way as well.#but also who is going to be that person for ME. who is going to console ME. im going fucking neurotic /jest#<- woman with ego issues & control issues who would rather die than accept help.#sigh. oh well. I’m sure we’ll do just fine. cannot wait#🥀🍷 — colloquy.
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i figured out how to use the printers on my campus itz so over (has ability to print blorbo pictures for wall)
#lem text#i needed to test it so i could print my digital stuff for critique and oooo they’re so NICE and the colors r super accurate >:>!!! <33#I FEEL LIKE A FOOL BECAUSE I COULD NOT FIGURE IT OUT AND I ASKED SOME OF THE YOUNGER STAFF NEARBY IF THEY KNEW HOW TO DO IT#AND THEY WERE LIKE ‘uhhh it should be easy. the one on this floor is a little wonky though so maybe try another?’ AND I WAS LIKE OKK!!!#BUT TH E OTHERS WERE THE EXACT SAME SO I GAVE UP READY TO PLEAD FOR FORGIVENESS FROM MY PROFESSOR#AND THEN I WENT BACK LATER WITH A CLASSMATE WHO ALSO NEEDED TO USE IT FOR THE FIRST TIME AND IT WAS JUST ON TGE CORRECT SCREEN SUDDENLY!!!!#so NOW i know how to do it. and i have infinite power. i just had to make a fool of myself for one second fnwkndkwjd#they were like ‘what specifically do you not know how to use in it?’ and i was like UHH . EVERYTHING…? AGHFKNWKZW#it was also funny because the Moment i miraculously got my first print another classmate walked up and was like-#‘cos do you know how to use the printers?’ like Heh. I Sure Do B) HFNKDNF <33
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that does anyone want to drown in a lake intertwined by the antlers it has to be weird post reminded me I made these like a year ago in case anyone still thought I was normal about ven vani and sora much less ven and vani by themselves
#sorry I can’t be regular and sweetly hope they work it out between them and become friends. I want them to bite each other#I’ve posted the enemies meme before#you’re not supposed to think that hard about this meme. Unfortunately I have worms#I think SOOO strongly that their core beliefs conflict as a direct result of what happened after they were created#anyways. im really tired. remember that we once lived etc#mine#SLIGHT correction though they’re not afraid of each other in the wah hes so scary I have nightmares abt him way#they are terrified of each other if they think about it too hard#vens really more scared of what vanitas means for him than the guy himself. he can take him. but he represents so much#and vani isn’t scared of ven because he’s a weakling but he is scared of his stubbornness. and what he means for him. etc#they can be vitriolic friendly AND have a deep rooted instinct born from their bones to push each other off a cliff#don’t ask ven if he enjoys hurting vanitas he feels extremely bad about it. he doesn’t like hurting him but it feels………………… fun#when they fight. It’s fun. it’s correct. they’re close. Like skoll and the sun. hati and the moon#vanitas does enjoy smacking him. though. it’s still poetic to him because he’s a nerd and a dork#do not let me go off any more in the tags#It’s midnight
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#saved tiktoks#vid tag#there’s something really dangerous about agreeing with someone for no other reason than they’re a certain type of person#yes Palestine is suffering more than we could ever imagine right now#that does not make every Palestinian’s opinion on the matter correct#they are not a monolith#and they aren’t the only ones to ever suffer#they aren’t even the only ones suffering right now#stop being afraid to take action because you think it means you’re downplaying the genocide#stop acting as though both options are identical#Palestinian people are not exempt from criticism for regurgitating harmful rhetoric#and no one of them speaks for the entirety
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rv’s verse in the remix of ellie goulding’s close to me is soooo transcendent to listen to. like of course it won an award. one that rv probably doesn’t even know it won tho
#how many unclaimed awards do they have atp 😭😭#but wow in 2019 they just did anything#tbf ellie goulding just did anything too. cause she heard of rv and went wow they’re cool and unannounced released a remix of her song w#them on it. like lol??#the only correct reaction to have though!#🧸
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when i say that i “don’t want to go to work” what i am actually saying is “i really wish that i didn’t feel like shit so that work won’t be miserable for me”
#⟡ — kayleigh’s yapping#⟡ — just chronically ill things#on that note even though i’m exhausted and my back hurts and my tummy feels gross#i am going to work lmao#it’s only 3hrs and we only have the two puppies (at least according the the group chat which i desperately hope is correct) to walk so#and then the three rooms of puppies but hopefully they’re less messy tonight lmao
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up next on chapter 36 of idol sengen… _(:3 」∠)_
#(my toxic trait is that i’ll complain about my work endlessly but still end up doing it anyway… eventually.)#there’s rant 1 (ft. a need to deduce what asuna is saying in full) and rant 2 (which is available in full but still…)#there’s also another mona-rambling session in chapter 38… that im not touching with a 50 foot pole#(all you need to know for that mona-rambling [about frusu] is that mona’s frusu oshi is all of them)#(and that she thinks miyu is like *the* pinnacle of centres in idol groups)#(also someone won a junior dance competition but idk who bc it’s obscured lmao)#can i outsource these panels for a corn chip lmaoooo#m. maybe i should’ve actually worked on this while i was still unemployed last month huh…#bc excuse me company wdymmmmmm im starting work next monday?? the interview was just this monday hello?#ig the interviewer was legit when she said ‘so if i asked you if you can start work next monday—’ huh…#sigh… maybe ch 36 next month then… i’ll do my best over the weekend thoughhhhh#seriously though why is this volume so text heavy l m a o i really wanna get to chapter 40 but…#and then there’s the hard to clean text boxes which… aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa#…though i guess i should just count myself lucky that the chapters are still short enough to fit into a single post (with the image limits)#but dang. i just realised that my manga sengen thing has a page on manga updates lmao#who put it there lmaooooo and why is it only up till vol 2? wait. no. what. why does it link to manga.dex#bc dang. someone really had the time to dl the thing image by image? no wonder why they stopped after vol 2…#guess i might as well say why i dont want people to reupload my tls… since we’re in the final stretch and all#so. aside from the obvious ‘idw the creators to find out about it’… i probably made a ton of mistakes while tling it. esp in the early chaps#so i’d like to. y’know. have the chance to update the tls where possible. i’ve done that a couple of times already tbh.#like with rippei’s name post-vol 4 release. and some of the typesetting is p. gross in the early chaps tbvh#i swear tling idol sengen has made me incredibly conscious of grammar and typesetting like you wouldnt believe#esp with official tls… fan tls will always be perfect to me no matter how wonky the wording bc it’s hard but honest work yk#official tls (esp a.i tls) get no concessions from me bc it’s their job that they’re getting paid to do yk.#in any case (if you’ve read this far) if you see any mistakes in the tl please lemme know~~~ please dont hold back on your criticisms ok~~~?#just sound ‘em out in dms here or sth. don’t worry~~~ i won’t eat y’all if you try to correct me~~~~~ unless you’re the md reuploader (jk)#and ik i disabled comments on the other blog (or tried to at least) but that’s bc idw bots to flood the comments bc that’s annoying as he—#anyways sorry for the idol sengen wait (if anyone was waiting for it…) i’ll improve on my work ethic… tomorrow. maybe.
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You’ve been spot on with everything so far, including her jet being tracked like the NORAD Santa tracker, so any guesses for what transpires post Super Bowl?
I said it was pretty obvious, and it was.
Well, we’re entering a transition phase, so I would never say I can guess anything very far in advance. But similarly to how it all became really clear in November where things were going, I feel like I can make a pretty good guess at what I think we’ll see next. The main caveat being that she is unpredictable and there are a million things I can’t know. But I think we have seen that her and his schedules are easy to see and are set in stone, so it makes predicting things easier that it was from say 2019-early 2023. And none of the below is mind blowingly novel. This is exactly what everyone expects to happen:
I think most likely after he takes a week or so✅, he’ll head to her shows in Australia✅. Probably Sydney✅ for a couple of shows. Then he’ll head home to his offseason routine✅, whatever that looks like. He’s gotta go find those abs with his trainer and shoot some commercials etc. Then she’ll be back and I think she’ll join him wherever that is✅ (possibly Florida with his trainer, that idea was already put out into the universe.) Her next tour break will be their first opportunity to really spend a lot of time together while they’re both off✅. So her jet will park where he is and they’ll make occasional appearances there. He will also probably be seen in her spots (NYC, Nash, LA✅.) Then she’s off to Europe and his offseason/preseason work begins in full. I don’t think she has any real time off at all during the Europe leg so she probably won’t come home but I think he’ll head over there for a couple of shows, probably early on✅. If he’s allowed with camp and stuff he may try to make it to a London✅ show, an important market for him to be seen in (for his post football A-list movie star future or whatever it is he has in mind.). But I’m not sure it can be swung. Then she’s off again in time for his early games, but then she’s back on the road again and he’ll probably have a bye week where he can go to a show. And then she’s done with tour just in time for her birthday, the holidays and the road to the playoffs/playoffs and engagement season. So really great timing all around. Then it’ll be time for TS11 full of songs everyone will attribute to him, and joe and maybe a bit of Matty. I’m really looking forward to a song about how Travis is a love that is really something, not the idea of something. And maybe he’ll retire. But that is so far away. Look at what happened unexpectedly in the last year. So no bets here, just stating obvious thinking. And even if all this does happen, there will be other things I can’t predict.
Alternatively, if their goal is to end it sooner, that April to June timeframe is probably the best time. After they’ve spent quiet time together and found they have nothing to talk about and then their busy schedules make it too hard. That gives enough time to make it feel plausible that it wasn’t fake and only going to last until the SB. But I think they’ll give it another season, because it’s working so well and all the timing for her tour lines up super well. And it’s clear that for whatever reason, she’s allergic to being single.
#I have many other thoughts but they’re controversial so I’ll just keep some of the whys to myself#forgot to mention they’ll probably take a tropical vacation together#✅#oh I also forgot that I think there’s a decent chance they’ll go tot he Met Gala. I mentioned it a few eeks ago but thought I’d put it here#also I wrote this the day before TTPD was announced so that changes the TS11 stuff which will now be premiered as all about Toe demise#I gave myself a ✅ for Sydney eve though he only went to one show. the zoo also counts to me#also he smartly spilt up his two shows between two cities to maximize coverage and allow the to fly off together. so smart.#they spent most of their spring off time together in LA while he got his tv deal and probably for some ads and tried to get a movie deal#me and everyone else guessed wrong about how much Matty was in TTPD pre-release#but basically correct that it was about demise of joe Matty and even happy Travis songs so very early in their relationship#he went to London1.0 and Paris both pretty early and high profile stops
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