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All the jokes about Ken and horses are good but I just wanna say it's such a good parallel to how actual young men get swept into misogyny and the patriarchy.
Like they're told to believe it means men get to be cool and manly and have this power but with that comes extremely rigid commands of what they can be as a man and a cycle of self hatred for never matching those gender roles perfectly. Patriarchy tells men that if they just do exactly what is expected of them, then they get all the "cool stuff" that comes with. That doesn't work though when there's only a small group that actually gets that power, but men will keep trying to fit into those roles in hopes that they can.
In the end there are no horses or the myth men are told, it's just endless cycles of self hatred and ingroup fighting.
#barbie#barbie movie#barbie spoilers#ig#ive got a lot more on how barbie looks at feminism and the patriarchy cause god they did it#not to say there isnt faults such as very little conversation about intersectionality#but i can also understand the impossible task of talking about EVERYTHING in one movie#not everyone will be happy and thats fine#anyway i think something barbie did really well is fight this battle of both wanting so deeply to love (romantically or not) men but also#not dismissing the fact its mens job to solve their problems themselves#that even if women need to be the front runners of breaking the patriarchy men cannot rely on them to solve their own problems completely#also just god im so glad this wasnt a girl boss slay movie#women deserve respect and love and life regardless of accomplishment#we should not have to be ceos and presidents and world problem solvers to gain equality#i can also understand if nonbinary people feel left out/disconnected from the movie#but as always gender abolition and acknowledging the gender binary (ie the one societially impossed) go hand and hand 👍#just incase cause idfk terfs dni the barbie movie is not for you#barbie literally states constantly that her gender has nothing to do with (non existent) genitals so f off
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rin 1000000% has a list somewhere of things hes good at that yukio is bad at
#in my mind yukio has kind of become a failboy because i read salaryman exorcist but rin would totally do this#yukio is like 'thats stupid' but secretly he doesnt want the list coming out of all his minor failures#heres my proposals for the list: cooking(obvi) video games board games woodworking dealing with animals and kids sewing cleaning#im putting mileage into rins 'good with his hands' trait from his bio#if anyone comes in here and says 'he doesnt have the patience for that stuff' i think he would be good at menial repetitive tasks#cuz i am :)#thats it lmao#jk but really i think its one of his strengths#tell me what things YOU think that rin okumura is good at that yukio okumura isnt#oh also if ur rebuttal is 'rin is too nice to have a list like that' rin put his brother below his cat on his cool guy list#both okumura twins have a pretty big ego (from trauma)#tho he wouldnt mean anything bad but such a list let me be clear#okumura twins#i need to go back and tag all my yukio and rin posts with okumura twins so my blog is consistent#blue exorcist#ao no exorcist#yukio okumura#rin okumura#the yukio tag really shouldnt be here but whatever these are technically hcs for things yukio is bad at too#hes haunting this post#all of these are sorted into 'yukio focuses too hard on winning and loses' and 'yukio doesnt like menial tasks'
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my trials as possibly the one singular person who cares about the larger worldbuilding lore of the riordanverse is figuring out what the difference between harpies, sirens, and bird nymphs (from Artemis' retinue) are. what are the distinctions between these bird women.
#pjo#riordanverse#anyways my current distinction is that harpies are like. the most bird and bird nymphs are the least bird#sirens im going with the top half is almost totally human and then bottom half is all bird like a bird woman centaur type situation#cause thats a common interpretation in statues and some ancient art and that feels nicely distinct from harpies#with harpies being like. basically all bird with a human face usually#except i have to also give them weird hands incorporated into their wings#cause pjo canonically they can do tasks that require opposable thumbs. like DRIVING apparently#im sort of splitting the difference by having there be multiple variants of harpies in varying levels of anthro#so like Ella is a lot more humanoid than some other harpies for instance#and then bird nymphs are basically near entirely human but with just bird legs/maybe tail and maybe wings somewhere (back / head / or arms)
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onto the unreleased stuff. halloween was going to be "crisp air halloween". or "fresh air halloween". tbh i dont know which, because my files call it fresh air, but i thought we usually called it crisp air... basically, crank up the darkness, crank up the glowy bits, and cover the whole island in fog. i was given a moodboard and room direction by an admin. most of the island would be covered in cobbled paths, gas lanterns, and victorian architecture, but welcome room in particular was going to be a farm area with a dirt patch, full of crops and pumpkins that players would spawn in the midst of. there would be an abandoned, unenterable farmhouse on the left, with a bunch of spooky animations in the windows and such. the fountain has been drained and infested with spiders, and on the right was a barn, which would actually be quite cozy inside rather than spooky. i wasnt in charge of the lookout (second story of this building) but i put hay sticking out of the window because i wanted to suggest a cozy hay pile with a pillow fort up there
there was lots of rooms already done for this party, and they all look incredible. everyone working on rooms used those as style guides for how the rest of the rooms would look. if those end up getting posted later, ill edit this post with a link
#club penguin#club penguin journey#stoppy.png#i was put permanently in charge of doing welcome room a week into me being hired#so thats why a lot of my work is that#its pretty funny because like a few days before#other designers were talking about how much everyone dreads working on welcome room#because the file is kind of a huge mess#and then someone made the decision to hand off the file to the newbie to deal with forever LMAO#to be clear i Accepted the job because i thought it was a huge honor to do the room-#that would be the first thing everyone would see upon logging in#and would set up the first impression for the whole party#so this isnt on them or anything. i take them putting me on the task at all in the first place as show of my own skill and capability
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I have finally FINALLY got up to the dream scene at the start of the last mabelcorn in kmky and everything is flowing nicely finally, and the scenes and characterisation all are smooth and make sense and I am no longer going over the same establishing scenes like a pedant trying to make them perfect. SUCCESS!
Just have to knock out these next few bits then it's onto unicorn beatdowns, funny hats, pizza parties and loophole heists!
#i am so relieved#i feel a lot happier writing now that im happy with those establishing scenes#they didnt pan out how i originally planned but i think theyre better for it#i kept wanting to make bill and py fight but thats just not what they want to do#and das flavor pups have downgraded themselves from terrifying imposition to mild annoyance with potential for drama down the line#but these things will make everything else make better sense so i dont mind the bits i scrapped#now im cackling to myself writing out the dream scene and yes it will diverge slightly from how it panned out in the show!#because why the hell not#i also have been inundated with ideas for a sequel so im steadily noting down dialogue lines and ideas i want to see#and hopefully i stay on task and don't get too distracted by sequel daydreams#it'll be good tho when it gets there i promise you that#a true healing narrative that doesnt rely on punitive justice and creates a positive outcome without repeating codependant patterns#that we see so often in billford#yes love redeems but love for yourself is important in redeption arcs too and knowing that you can make something good with your own hands#is just the game changer i want to bring to the billford fandom#but anyway thats for later for now im back in action and hopefully on track for finishing the chapter by the end of the month#fingers crossed buds#I'm doing my best so all the folks needing a pick me up after world events get something fun to look forward to#kmky#knowing me knowing you
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like if u asked me hey joelle what have u been up to the last three months that have kept u from bein a full time blogger has it at least been fun or productive. id have to be like. i dont fucking know. ive been watching a lot of movies on the couch
#and playing a lot of pokemon until the switch killed my hands#then i remembered i could put the switch on the tv screen and kill my hands less. but then i couldnt watch movies so i stopped doing that#have u at least been more present in ur life w the less screen time. no. have u kept on top of ur self care tasks. no.#but the movies are fun :)#i dont i simply dont know what ive been doing with my time bhsfg not anything thats made me feel even a little bit better in any way#so i guess the patient does need full-time blogging to live. ill get back on that at some point
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Starting an investigation into why putting my meds into my weekly medication box feels as tiresome to me as mowing the giant backyard or scrubbing the shower
#every time im so annoyed about it and i dont really understand why#thats the adhd thing i will easily do wild tasks like i will hand saw down a small tree easy#but folding clothes on ny chair feels insurmountable and its just so ?
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When people write about AU's where Hawkeye did not join the military, they often have her be a school teacher or work in healthcare instead. I don't think I fully disagree. I can see it. She is caring and patient, especially with children, but she is also strict and efficient. Those are good traits for those jobs.
But on the other hand, those are very people-focused social jobs. And she is introverted and a bit socially weird. Fuery said during the flirting on the phone arc that listening in this is the most words he has ever heard her speak. She must be passable at teamwork since she is considered a good soldier, but generally, she's not very social. She also picked the lone sniper route for a career path, instead of becoming an army nurse from the start. When she is working as a sniper she's always alone, only communicating over radio.
Since she is skilled in fixing firearms she could perhaps have been a type of mechanic. I also love the idea of her growing up hunting, she could stick with that too as a job. And work comfortably alone... Who knows!
#tekst#verwijder later#maybe thats me projecting cus i also tried healthcare first but being a social retard became too big an obsticale#now i do something else and frequently work alone focused on my own task for hours. mainly working with my hands and its fantastic#im feeling kinnie moments with her when im writing and signing reports tho lmaaaaaooo
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; w ; i said i was gonna be productive and get stuff done today but then i got overwhelmed and took a three hour nap and im not sure if its too late to take adderall or not
#i mean on one hand its not like i have to get up at any certain time or anything so....#i guess its fine?#but also im kinda sorta trying to FIX my sleep schedule rn#not#WORSEN IT#gosh diddly dangit. fudge and beans. jeez louise. man.#personal#txt posts#vent#i really need to make some food to eat#but to do that i should really go to the grocery store#but to do that i really need to do my laundry#thats tOO MANY TASKS
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my ass out here getting defeated by Basic Planning For The Future
#ihave been tasked with coming up with short term goals for myself and well .Well. (<- girlies who havennt been alive for 4 years)#like it shouldnt be this hard but [waves hands around] <:/ [waves them around more]#well ysee. basic tasks r difficult. bc they r secretly Large Tasks in disguise. everyday iam confused and lost and confused. thats th post#piktalk#straight up struggling (tm) hashtag girl
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Why did you do that? Because I love you.
#twedit#scallison#scallisonedit#teenwolfplus#teendramas#scott mccall#allison argent#making this made me so crazy i had to fight for my life to not make this a lyric edit#thats what happened with the cant help falling in love scydia set if anyone was wondering#it was supposed to be like this and then i felt crazy#literally this whole set my head was like#i see the look in your eye and im biting my tongue you'll be the love of my life when i was young#isnt it amazing despite all the space in the world im still close to you then you said to me are we enemies no baby we could never be#if i could be stronger and if you were just older we might last this out longer but the task just gets harder and my face turned to red#we huddled under covers we ddint say anything if you hadnt come ovre i would be so much colder i would be so much less confused#goodbye goodbye goodbye you were bigger than the whole sky you were more than just a short time ive got a lot to live without#ANYWAY.#these scenes are very Specific to me they are so specifically about hurt/comfort to me#both of them bloodied in such different ways; both with blood on their hands; scott's is his own. allison's is mostly her own. but not all#the gentleness that comes not because of the absence of violence but despite the abudance etc etc etc etc#i refrained from including stuff from the movie trailer but the movie has really made me a scallison endgamer its crazy i never was#but i feel fucking Insane#the question is always why and the answer is always because i love you
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god tornado warnings r so fucking scary dude sending u strength + hope its all good!! also sending hank and marcie images for moral support they look like if someone animated little stuffed dogs to life <333
woag I actually ALSO have new friend dogy pics to share!!!
this is Sadie :]
thank uuuuu i drove an hour out of my way to swing by my apartment and make sure everything was alright (it was! all good just a few trees down) so i am feeling. MARGINALLY better than i was when I left work lmao.
#got here (dogsitting house) and IMMEDIATELY fuckign. laid on the floor w her bc i am so fucking tiresdddd#i got to work at 7am. speedran all my morning tasks. was in the water for SIX HOURS. was supposed to leave at 4.#thats also exactly when the storms hit and our building started floodinf so i stayed late to help put out buckets and also make sure#they had extra hands if the power shut off (it didnt) then i had to. drive by my own apt because i had horrible tornado anxiety visions.#everything was fine. LITERALLY just got here like 5 minutes ago. longest 12 hour day of my fucking liiiife#goddddddd. save me prime defenders. prime defenders save me. i have to go write my post about tide and wetsuits now#asks#friends!!!#intertexts
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Every day you wake up and be extremely mentally draining to yourself the whole entire day, and then its night and you Do Not stop bc you Still gotta get to bed and thats a whole entire task. And so you keep that up and hope you have enough energy left and sometimes u do. And sometimes you dont
And this may be related to adhd
#my head hurts and i did a task and my hands are wet and my heart is hurts and theres 3 more ahead and#and tomorrow if i am sane i should start early but that is no longer sane at 5 am#so thats a night. put me down at 6 am for i doubt i'll just go n do stuff rn
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i was feeling real down about the undisclosed misogyny event that happened to me over the weekend (if u know u know) so i looked around the kitchen to see whats in here and made coffee and banana waffles. please clap.
#vesselage#recently i read a random self help book about doing care tasks by some lady whos got adhd only diagnosed as an adult and 2 small kids#idk if a lot of the tips were particularly useful but it was reassuring. i think thats the point of self help books.#that using ur dishwasher is cool and normal. and that whatever u can get done is good enough.#stuff like that. using my dishwasher more and clearing dishes way more efficiently since. cuz i let go of what Should Be Washed By Hand#you go in there to the shower with your brothers#glass tray with mystery stain.
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This winter (the season not the me) has been unseasonably and terrifyingly warm, like it's 10 degrees (Celsius sorry Americans) out today and I'm reminded of an article I read in the news a couple years ago about how Canada was baking at twice the rate as the rest of the world and go 👁️👄👁️. In my youth snow where I live would be probably a foot high in the lowest snow areas of snow drifts and up to my waist (in adult height) in the high parts, and every year I see less and less snow ☠️☠️☠️
On one hand despite my namesake I actually loathe the season winter, I'm extremely sensitive to the cold and getting brain freeze because the wind is blowing against the direction you're walking in sucks booty hole. But like NO snow is extremely bad. VERY bad. Do not like living out the consequences of climate change because uh. Canada just does not seem to have winters like it used to and hasn't in years. It's like watching all the corn crops stop growing like they used to because the summers are so much dryer and hotter with the exception of last summer, which was almost wet enough to kill the corn with that. But they survived and grew bushy like they used to and it was kind of terrifying to acknowledge I hadn't seen a crop that good in years.
#winters ramblings#on one hand it genuinely is SO NICE to not deal with snow seriously it is SO inconvenient#beautiful to look at for sure REALLY stunning when its not literally blinding you but omG snow on roads#in the cities where i live leave HUGE slush puddles and the snow is so MUSHY and WET from cars#pulverizing it to a fine icy slush ready to SOAK your feet in freezing water. shit is inconvenience powder#but the environment is in NEED of the snow that is how this country works environmentally NORMALLY#but no now we have consistently spring weather and ever less snowy winters#although we did have a shitty winter a couple years ago but thats not exacy indicive of much when it goes against prior patterns#and also that shitty winter STILL wasnt the winters of my childhood. the snow was ABSURD then#and yes its because drifts were the size of ME but even the massive piles of snow plowed from side walks are so much smaller#IF theres snow pules at all weve BARELY got snow this year and none of it stuck!!#like damn its been gone long enough ill miss it exactly until i have to walk to a bus stop in it#when i was 13 ill never forget my parents making me return a movie in a snow storm and it took me FORTY MINUTES#to complete this task because the snow NO JOKE was up to my wasit the whole way and i was my full 5'6 then#the snow was HORRIBLE. and for reference how long it USUALLY takes me to walk uptown and back?#roughly 15 minutes round trip so it took longer to walk ONE WAY than it took me to do a round trip no snow#and thats the last time i remember having a REALLY bad winter on account of walking to school was ALSO hell if the sidewalk#wasnt already plowed and usually only the main streets got that and i was Middle Street so id be done when id be going HOME#but not when i was going TO school. that winter blew ASS butlike it was normal bring them back 😭😭
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several days and 15 thousand words later, i am relieved to report that the suffocating urge to Write Something has been sated and no longer has me in a chokehold
#Seven.txt#writing stuff#thinking of that post that’s like ‘u Have To make art or all the ideas stay stuck in ur brain and make u sick’ bc yeah thats been the vibe#wish i wasn’t so all or nothing about it tho. but alas. i’m that way with everything in my life#i either expect 10k in a day from myself or i don’t write at all for weeks. or months :)#and my average pace is about 500 words per hour. so u can see. how that might be a problem. given how many hours are in a day.#and that’s obviously not sustainable. but idk if it’s adhd or what but it’s So hard to quickly start and stop tasks just Whenever#i struggle to be one of those ppl that can consistently write like. 500 words a day every day and then wow! soon you have a whole novel#nah. once i get myself in the Zone then i’m Goin’ and i can’t stop until i’m Done or i collapse from ignoring my body’s needs lmao#it’s something i should make an effort to do though bc i’d love to be consistently chipping away at things instead of working in bursts#anyways this is a lotta negative self-commentary for what is actually a Positive post! bc yay!! i wrote a thing!! Two things actually!!! 🎉#i got the follow-up to last year’s Matt oneshot done And i wrote the next chapter of Heaven in Hiding after uh. a year and some months#i wanted to blow the dust off the ol’ keyboard by starting with writing some less. uh. high-stakes(?) stuff#not that i didn’t put my all into writing them. i always do. just that ik they’ll have less of an audience so ill cringe less if they suck#so then i can hopefully do justice to the [N]MbD stuff that i’ll be putting out next! ehehe *rubbing my hands together* Finally#the next two [N]MbD fics r already written but the first little one needs a final edit#and then the Big one for. uh. someone (u kno who u r) needs a bit of rewriting i think. i wanna make it Better#so release schedule will be 1. Matt • 2. HiH Ch.3 • 3. [N]MbD small fic • 4. [N]MbD Big fic#then i’m gonna write a lil Boothill comfort oneshot. then i’ll edit/maybe rewrite and post that Dew (Ghost) OCD comfort oneshot#i also wanna keep writing the last couple chapters of HiH before i unintentionally abandon it again#and after/amidst all that maybe i’ll manage to get ES Ch.6 written and posted before the end of the year 😭#anyways ik i’ve made posts like this before. talking abt all these Plans of mine. and most of those things r Still stuck in the pipeline#so don’t put too much stock into this plan. i could have another Bad couple of months and get None of it done#but god i sure fucking hope not. i’d really like to cling to my creativity. if for no other reason than that it makes me happy
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