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he's ableist and transphobic? what did he do? this is a legit question, i just thought he was annoying but i didn't know he was an actual dickhead
He's done stuff like misgender characters (vivian from paper mario and kris deltarune are two examples that come to mind), made several videos villainising specific mental illnesses, and like I said he made a massive ass donation to next for autism, which has been dubbed by many as "autism speaks jr".
edit: He wasn't solely responsible for that last bit from what I can tell he helped raise the money but. still
#arts asks#i can link the videos i mentioned if you want but that's all i can remember off the top of my head#apparently he got better re: the transphobia but. y'know. the whole donation thing#unrelated but there was also that whole heartbound debacle that iirc toby fox himself had to step in on and shut down#anyway this isn't a callout post or anything obviously the original post was just me venting my frustrations#but i hope these answers help anon#also i've been meaning to look into next for autism but i haven't yet because touchy subject 4 me
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i just have one simple question for you why gabriel ultrakill? what is the appeal behind this angel
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#growling like a starving animal#GGRRRRR GRRRRRRRRRRR#sorry if you expected a coherent answer#i did not make this picture. surprisingly#more intelligible answer#1) wearing armor (based) 2) no canon face (BASED) 3) i need him on a leash#i hope that helps#I have to stop or the anons will return#ask#asks#non voice post
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I would love more sterek recs if you have them <3333
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Light a spark by @raisesomehale
Seed Wolf (this one's a comic!! Really fun) by @yijitumbles (yiichi on ao3)
Darling, Dearest, Dead by standinginanicedress
Where to search for snow by suburbanmotel
Stilinski & Associates series by ebjameston
Like French vanilla ice cream by GotTheSilver
god was a dog-man by @andthepeople (spqr on ao3)
Keeping your guard up by Quixoticity
Cozy Forest Retreat! 1bed/1bath by @andavs (one of my ultimateeee comfort fics)
I.C.E by JenNova
Like lightning to the abyss by @buckttommy (evcndiaz on ao3)
Foundations by Spooks, thesuninside
Punch-drunk by @elisela
One Thread by RurouniHime
Believer and a Homecoming by lsdme
Homeland (last rec is the obligatory self plug lol)
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can you do a post of first getting flirted on by khaotung?
This was a challenging post 🤣 because Tumblr has limits on the no of photos, video and I am not an expert in GIFs (although I actually made a video and one GIF by myself! - omg, so proud 😂 but please excuse the poor quality).
Instead, I made a mixture of all of the media. Hopefully anon is fine with my rambling mess (if you have read through my blog, you will know by now, my answers are not 100% coherent, hehe)
So, some of my favourites Khaotung being flirty with his bestie:
1. This moment from OF Recap Twitter session
2. Khaotung giving pouty air kisses to his bestie (its his thing to do hehe) - and usually ends up with said bestie having goosebumps (but First is learning to control the reaction 🤭, as evident by the BTS footage from THK film set)
3. But by far their way of flirting is through them bantering on Twitter (where the boys just use it as their own personal Line) - and all of us thirdwheeling. They do it casually too…from exchanging love letters (my favourite is still the 2 boys expressing their love for each other post LOLFanfest2024)
Or just how nonchalantly FK drop pictures that tells us things - for example 🙂↕️ (from 10/10/2024)
🤭 - that’s Khaotung’s shirt (gifted by a fan)
And look 👀, throwback to Khaotung’s pointed comment even back in April 2023 (and we know they share their wardrobe - if that’s not the boys flirting, then I don’t know 🤷🏽♀️. Cause nothing screams possessive bffs 👯♀️ like watching your love ones dressed in your own clothes or favourite perfumes)
I’ll finish up with a moment from an interview the boys did earlier this year (One D Press Conference) - (this was completely unhinged - and First just looked speechless with Khaotung’s bombshell statement 🫣) 👇🏽
Anon, I will also suggest you watch every single BTS of The Eclipse, OF and MLC if you have not watch them - cause it’s really just the boys flirting with each other 😂 . Similarly, ArmShare episodes featuring the boys during their birthdays (Khaotung - 2022, First - 2023) - the episodes are available on YT with English Subtitles 🫶
And others that I found on Twitter (cause I am only allowed to put one video per post):
Khaotung casually dropping 🤟
The famous FirFir moment
Khaotung calling First his kitty cat
#I hope this messy rambles helps you anon lol#I’m not sure it does#but it forced me to edit my own video and GIF even if these are of poor quality#anyway enjoy!#khaotung thanawat#first kanaphan#firstkhao#firstkhaotung#FK flirting#asked and answered#khaotung flirting!
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Do you have canvas size recommendations? I have issues with the things I draw getting wider when I upload on here.
interesting question!! i don't know if i've run into this at all recently, but i can still answer to the best of my ability:
i start my canvas at 3000 x 3000px (unless i'm making a print), and then usually resize to no bigger than a 1800 x 1800px jpg for uploading online.
with small/unserious doodles like the above, or wip screenshots, i usually aim for no smaller than 1000px, so as not to lose too much quality!
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Do you have any recommendations and ideas about writing around healing magic and disability? How magical healthcare would affect disability, and more importantly allowing disability to still exist in a realm where supernatural healing exist?
This is one of my biggest grips with healing magic across most fantasy media, that’s it’s often used in a lackluster, simplistic, and often accidentally ableist fashion. Completely invalidating disability by having it cure every ailment imaginable with just the wave of a wand.
It's a complex concept to translate into fantasy! And a rather sensitive topic at that. As someone who suffers from chronic pain, the idea that it could be fixed with magic is sometimes a really nice fantasy. But a story with a character that lives with chronic pain the way I have to live with it, will probably resonate more strongly with me.
As to my personal opinion on writing about magical healing (and how it effects illness and disability), I think you have to weigh several factors as a writer:
What kind of world is this? In some fantasy settings death and illness are simply not relevant, so pain and disability might not feature either. But any world more resembling our own most likely would have to reckon with it. And if that world has healing magic:
Is it medical magic, based on research and knowledge? If so, it is highly unlikely that every single ailment and condition is perfectly understood and can be counteracted with magic.
Is it intentional magic, based on "restoring to health"? If so, who defines "health"? The caster of the magic, the recipient of the healing? I was born with overly flexible ligaments. They cause me pain, but I'm sure my body considers the way that they are the way that they should be. Even if I was given infinite magical energy to heal myself, my body probably wouldn't know how, while it would know how to use that energy to fix up a wound it was already working on.
Can the healing magic be used/accessed by anyone at any time? Even if there is a fantastic free magical health care system in place, unless every individual can do flawless healing magic, even on themselves, the answer is probably "no". And if so, that probably has consequences for how well something can be healed.
Personally, if you're writing in a world with loads of magical solutions, the best question to ask - after you have figured out what kind of healing magic you want - is: "what would my character want?"
Someone who has always worn glasses (like me), might feel very strange getting rid of them.
Someone who was born deaf, could have no desire whatsoever to becoming hearing.
Someone who was born with three fingers on one hand, could have no desire to change that.
And if we're getting grim: someone who lost an arm while defeating the chimera who killed their friend, might have strong emotional convictions as to why they wouldn't want that arm magically restored to them, even if it was possible.
There are plenty of reasons, either from a worldbuilding or a characterisation standpoint, for a fantasy world to include disability. And if it is not just a magical, but also a supernatural world, the concept of "disability" will likely be very different. When humans live among other species, who have entirely different bodies and abilities, it makes very little sense that the overall society's opinion on what is "normal" and "expected" from a body, wouldn't change.
But none of that means that you cannot give disabled characters cool magical solutions!
Wheelchairs could glide, hover, or fly instead of rolling.
Glasses could be enchanted to also give the wearer a different eye colour, just for fun.
Wrist braces could shift around the wearer's arm/hand depending on where they need the most support (and would never ever chafe or pinch).
Language barrier's between people who do not speak/hear the same (sign) language, could be solved with magic monocles, enchanted ear pieces, or a service creature that is able to translate perching on the person's shoulder.
Prosthetic limbs could be engraved with runes or inlaid with magical materials that make them extra effective for channeling magic or performing certain spells.
To me, those kinds of things would make a world far more fun and fantastical than a hand-waving "magic "fixes" everything."
#I hope this is an answer that is helpful to you anon#there will be as many answers on this subject as there are writers and readers I think#urban fantasy#fantasy#worldbuilding#laura babbles
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ada sonny with an age gap relationship?
i wasn't 100% sure what exactly to do, so i'm just gonna do some headcanons; i hope that's okay !!
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is definitely very, very insecure about the age gap. he worries that he's too old for you, and one day, you're going to realize you want someone closer to your age. it does make him feel better when you reassure him (his love language) that you love him in spite of his age and aren't going anywhere.
he's also always the butt of the joke because of his age. you'll lightly poke fun and call him old when he references something that's before your time, and your friends all refer to him as "grandpa."
you two do not share the same humor. he'll make a joke and die laughing while you're sitting there completely lost (and vice versa).
he claims he's always right because he's "older and wiser" which makes you roll your eyes. he usually is always right, but that's besides the point!
date night is hard to plan because you want to do fun and exciting stuff like party, but he wants to do relaxing and romantic stuff.
you tried to do a cute cooking date once, but he got frustrated because he's such a control freak in the kitchen.
you two argue like an old married couple. looooooots of bickering because he's too mature, and you're very immature.
talks about stuff and asks you to do things that he expects you to know and gets very bitchy when you don't (he's got the sass of a teenage girl)
tries to get you to come to court to see him win at least once, but you find it boring. all the legal jargon and having to sit quietly the whole time makes you want to fall asleep.
finding a show or movie to watch is sooooo difficult because your tastes are so wildly different.
same thing with music. you'll put on a new song you like, and he'll roll his eyes and tell you to put on something actually good (even though half the time he ends up actually liking the song)
he's very worried about what other people will think of your relationship. he loves you and wants to show you off, but he worries that the age gap (completely 100% legal, of course) will rub some people the wrong way.
sometimes, he gets insecure about his grey hairs and wrinkles, but when you tell him how much you love them and how sexy they are, he immediately feels a million times better.
constantly tells you how lucky he is that someone as attractive as you loves an old man like him. he's seriously bewildered why, but he feels so grateful for you. you're everything to him
you make him feel young again, and he loves it.
#🎀#my friend helped me with most of these#everyone say thank you kay#soleil's asks <3#answered !#sol and anon ☀️#i hope you like it#sonny carisi#sonny carisi x reader#sonny carisi headcanons#dominick carisi jr#dominick carisi jr x reader#dominick carisi jr headcanons#law and order special victims unit#law and order svu#svu#l&o svu
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oh wise robo pls spare cuddly onion crumbs this breakup is taking a TOLL ON ME he would fix me fr 🙁
You fall asleep in the middle of the movie, as Onion predicted against your protests. In the morning he'll tell you that you should have expected it when you started the movie so late, but for now he wraps the blanket around you a little tighter and carefully maneuvers your head so it sits on his shoulder. You smile a bit and snuggle into him; he hugs you a little closer with a small, contented sigh.
#allie answers#anon ask#bp ask#onionthief#i'm sorry abt the breakup!! i hope time is doin its job and healing the sting#for now i hope this helps a lil
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If male Jordan looks female does female Jordan look like a male? … (let me fuck em both)
unfortunately anon you'll have to get in line - there's already someone by jordan's side and he ain't the sharing type
but on f!jordan design!! I actually didn't think much when making m!jordan cause i was just thinking of what my oc's type would be (pretty men) HBREHBFJHBERF but if i were to view f!jordan, it would just be m!jordan design but female? so they'd look something like this:
BUT YOU DID give me the Thought of .... short haired f!jordan so you also get a bonus brainrot doodle from yours truly <3
but same anon - same, i want to fuck em both
#HBJERBFHJBEHJRFBJHERBF#HELP ME ANON IM SO SORRY FOR RESPONDING SO LATE#i had my hands preoccupied with another thing - (side eyes a certain bunny)#HJBERBFJBEJRHFBJERJHFEBJHFR#BUT I HOPE THIS ANSWERS YOUR QUESTION?!??!?!?#idk i just saw this and let my random thoughts take the wheel#ask dean#dean answers#jordan the pious#dol#dol related#degrees of lewdity#dol jordan#eri the orphan#dol pc#im sorry about my bastard son he's the possessive type#fan art#art#mine#my fan art#my art#anonymous#also had to bust out my ipad because my graphic tablet is DRIVING ME CRAZY with the connection issues#like babygirl i aint buying a new one you better keep working.
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HI HELLO I AM IN LOVE WITH YOUR HUMAN JOHN DESIGN I NEED TO KNOW HOW YOU DRAW HIM???? I CANT DRAW THAT GOOD BUT IM LEARNING AND WOULD APPRECIATE ANY TIPS <3
hi anon!!
here's a lil thing i made, hope this helps (it's pretty long so click down ⬇️ )
in case my handwriting is illegible:
pretty princess hair
rbf
widow's peak (ish)
sad eyes
distinct face shape
all right so when i first drew him, i had this very specific idea in mind
⬆️ that's the first design! i've made his hair curlier and his eyes more downturned since then lol
i've kept some stuff the same, like the dark under-eyes (which i always draw on everyone lmao), the cheekbones, and the hooked nose
side profile time! i love drawing cool noses sm
the way i draw him, his jawline isn't exactly square, it's more curved. and his nose is hooked but also straight at the same time? idk
remember the heavy intimidating eyebrows!!!
here's some other examples
i love 1930s clothes so much, genuinely wanna start dressing like that
okay that's it! tysm for asking anon, lmk if you guys want an arthur version :3
#i love him :3#explodes him like a tomato soup can#hope this helps lmao#izel scribbles#artists on tumblr#sketchbook#drawing#traditional art#malevolent#john doe malevolent#john malevolent#human john doe#malevolent podcast#jarthur#private eyes#drawing tutorial#anon#lee answers asks#small art blog#art#art tutorial#colored pencil#pencil#sketches#sketch#sketch dump#doodles#my art
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hey! first of all, recently discovered your account and. almost binged it in one sitting. amazing quality stuff, i'm in awe! also, while i'm RAPIDLY making my way through the old content, any new recommendations on fanfiction/comics/anything at all? atp i trust you more than i trust myself. no pressure, feel free to ignore this message! tnx, byee
thank you so so much!!! also ohh wow it's like you're putting your life in my hands... a potentially catastrophic misjudgement
since you've consumed my tumblr I'm assuming you've already seen my fic recs tag, which is filled with kind strangers on the internet recommending all the good stuff, including some recs of my own! if you missed it, I also have some comic recs here
as for some recent stuff I've liked, they've all been pretty lighthearted:
another one bites by seateainthemountains is chaotic and goofy in a very comic book-y kind of way
ryanoid on the brain by firefly_ika is another goofy one but also short and sweet. peter versus bug spray
it had to be you by fancastical in which wade recognises peter every time - except when it counts. I'm just a wimp for identity fics, sorry
cross the highways of fantasy is another one by fancastical and is a special shout out because I adore the concept of peter and weasel having history (and peter and wade using that to be insufferable)
five times peter says I hate you, and one time he (finally) doesn't by bestie has a brief scene with wade wreaking havoc with photographer-on-the-job peter and that's a woefully underrepresented trope I adore
I hope you find something you like here!
#the faith you afford me is so scary omg#most times i still feel like i'm coasting at the edge of the fandom#like from my pov i am still the young padawan among gods who surely know better than i do#i have a lot of Thoughts about peter and wade but are they correct......#but i appreciate the trust nonetheless!! and hope this helps#mags answers#anon#fic recs#<3<3<3
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I'm in love with Caro's style! It's a super cool mix of masc, fem, and vaporwave kind of look. As an enby who, at first, thought I had to look a certain way after coming out as non binary, I was wondering how Caro found their style after they started transitioning and figuring out who they were as a person.
Hello! So I did draw an entire four page little comic thingy to answer this, but I'm going to post it tomorrow cuz I wanted to draw a cute little cover for it ha. Figured I would answer you in text today though, and then you can have the visual tomorrow <3 First thing I'm going to say is that there is no 'certain way to look' for any gender identity or sexuality, cuz thats important, for those who dont wanna read through this text dump. Dress how you want forever.
SO! *rubs hands together* how Caro found their style! Background to those who havent read my comics, Caro grew up as a super high femme kid with crazy helicopter parents who controlled every aspect of their life, including how they dressed. They participated in pageants, modeling and wore a LOT of pink. Not that Caro didn't like pink, they did, but they liked purple better.
After Sully (highschool sweetheart) left, and Caro was on their own, they cut their hair off in a fit of rage and suddenly had to grow up real quick because they were on their own. Whats that got to do with fashion, RJ? Everything, dear reader! When they left, they had a bunch of Sullys shirts and his battle jacket. All 10 sizes too big of course, so paired the oversized tops with their own jeans, workout shorts etc. They had their cheer sneakers. And that is what they wore for a few months, til they got a job at the local gas station. The gas station employees were like, what is going on here with this little girl wearing too big clothes with a fucked up haircut, so, they pitched together and got this kid a proper haircut, during which Caro tearfully explains they arent a girl at all, they dont know what they are and everything is very scary and please dont fire them. Bev, one of their older co-workers decides they need better clothes and takes them to Seattle to thrift! Caro never thrifted in their life and found themself enamored with tacky 80's clothes and patterns, bright colors, funny tee shirts, etc. They worried, because maybe that wasnt what a boy would wear. Bev tells them theres no such thing as what a boy or a girl would wear, something Caro had never heard before, and that gives them mental permission to gleefully grab all the things they never got to wear growing up. They looked like a roller rink carpet threw up on them. they loved it.
The Gas Station Adults buy them a jacket that fits as well, GasCo purple of course, with their chosen name on the name tag. a symbol of acceptance. Caro started hearing things about genderfluid and nonbinary, and looking into what that meant, and what it could mean for them. Their podcast project, Mil-Liminal goes viral. Goldie, their agent, helps them get on low t. they realize how much fun body hair is and LOOK they can wear crop tops to show off their new tummy trail while still hiding their boobs. Whats even more fun? Getting tattoos. Taking their body back. Making themself into the person THEY want to see, and whats makes them the most happy. Still looking like an arcade carpet threw up on them, still loving it. They get top-surgery. Goldie asks them if they want to do a public face reveal. They've kept themself hidden this entire time, and realize they dont want to do that anymore. They shouldnt have to. They want to show the world this person theyve become. Which also means choosing a signature look for Mil-Liminal.
A Mix of their Highschool Varisty Jacket, and their GasCo Jacket. Sneakers. A nod to the pieces of clothing they always felt comfortable in.
Shorts and crop tops or mesh tops. Show off the tattoos, and the scars they earned becoming the person theyve always been.
Wear their identity on their sleeve, because not everyone can, but they are in a position where they want to make a difference and be seen for those who cant, cuz they know how it feels to be lost and scared and not have any idea how to move forward. Let their voice BE a voice.
A SnapBack. A call back to the first date with their highschool sweetheart, who listened, and put his hat on them and took them out and let them be themself, and loved them for it.
The most important thing to take from this anon, is that there is no Look. There is no way to dress or act or look if you're non binary, its not fashion. The same way clothing has no gender, anyone can wear whatever the fuck makes them happy. Put clothes on that, when you look in the mirror, you feel comfortable and happy. Its a very personal thing, and its about YOU, and how you feel. and your gender journey. Gender and Sexuality is as vast a spectrum as the human condition.
Thank you so much for the ask and inspiring me to make a look book and fashion journey post, I'll put it up tomorrow <3
#Anon#gender journey#fashion#mil liminal#original characters#ask box#caro wears what they want#and that is sometimes hideous button ups#actually the short answer here is that all my characters just dress like me on different days hahahaha#but yeah hope this helps#just be happy when you can clothing can be so fun#i actually have a little excerpt i wrote once where john asks them about their fashion choice#let me know if you wanna see that
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Hello! I'm sorry if this sounds weird, but, I'm new to the st community here (ran away from twt lol), and I'm wondering if there's any specific blogs that do specific things that I should catch onto? Like, blogs that do lyric analysis, lore chat, art etc?
I've been following you for a while, and I've been trying to interact with blogs that come up a lot, but admittedly I'm a bit lost lmao
Again, sorry if this is a weird ask, and doubly sorry if this is something you've already been asked before!
Hello anon!! Don't worry about the questions, I'm always happy to help, even if I have answered before!
We don't really have "specific blogs" around here as per se. There's @sleepanonymous who's the resident Librarian/Archivist/Knowledge Keeper, and then there are some blogs that do exclusively fanart and fanfiction.
Otherwise we're all a mix of everything. Most of us do a mix of lore theories / analysis / fanart / shitpost. Since the band itself doesn't have an "actual" set lore, you'll find a lot of different takes for the same songs / themes. I think we all have our own takes on the storyline, so it's really nice to read everyone's different opinions. Please feel free to join the conversation!
I have a tag specifically for ST lore on my pinned post, if you want to take a look at that!
@melit0n @undekaying @foundationsofdecay @lovingache @hookedhobbies @fivewholeminutes @thevenomousseprent are some lovely lovely people that do/have done lore / lyric analysis (and myself lol).
@leonsleftbicep @ghxstly-death do frequent headcanons if that's more your speed (and fantastic fanart as well). Not gonna be tagging all the ST artists cus I'd never shut up - everyone is so talented lmao.
Other general ST "heavy" blogs that you should follow (aka the people i interact with the most and can atest to how wonderful they are) - @murderofcrow @a-s-levynn @thejawsoffate @polteergeistt @eepymonstrr @takemetoasgard @sleeby-vessel @vesselsscarlet @tonguetyd @lifemod17 @littlequeenofthemangoes @channelsoph @foxgloveinspace and I know I'm forgetting a lot of blogs oof
If you browse through the main tags, and the lore tags, you'll find a lot more people and content to interact with! I know I'm forgetting a million different lovely individuals lmao, I'M SORRY GUYS. So if you see this, say hi and share your stuff!!
#my inbox and dms are open in case you need anything or whatever!#pls don't be afraid to reach out - everyone is super lovely here#i hope this helps!!!#darya answers#anon ask#sleep token
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Please do you have any art tutorials, especially on colouring, or brushes I can buy?
i never think to take screenshots during my process so it would be easier to explain, but i do it like this : i sketch in a colored pencil, change it to black when i consider it done enough to start adding colors, and then i choose the dominant tones of the drawing. if i want the background to be colorful, i choose it now! if you choose all your colors against a white background but change it last second, it will change the balance completely. by choosing dominant tones, i mean picking either one color or two colors that contrast, and fill the whole sketch with these tones. for example, if im drawing a princess on a white background and i want the tones to be warm, i might fill her whole form with the same red. then i start picking her skin tone so that it matches that warm red, and it might end up being a tone that would look much too saturated and red on another drawing. but here, it looks harmonious. and if i started from a green base, i'd end up with a very different color. see here : a blonde lady wearing a blue dress, but starting from red & green
it's the same way when i paint with real paint ; i don't mix from scratch, i often reuse my mixes and change them just barely to get to the color i want. so if i paint orange flowers, i will add blue to that mix until it's green enough, and it's a nicer color that will match my orange flowers nicely, way more than if i started from scratch every single time
it's also largely a matter of practicing and training your eye to palettes you like, as unhelpeful as that is. i'd recommend looking at the palettes of artists and art you like, seeing how it's balanced, maybe color picking it for practice and see how that helps you think in colors
for brushes ; i do have a couple special brushes, i mostly use procreate defaults (6b pencil my most beloved) but i do have some from this pack (i think it's the right one?), i use sketchy sarmento all the time and it's really nice
#anon#answered#im mega tired so i hope it's somewhat coherent#i don't feel too qualified to give advice but i hope this helps! good luck to you :-)
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hi i just discovered your beautiful art so i obviously needed to scroll down your whole blog to catch up on everything you posted haha
i just wanted to say that i got way too emotional after reading that post of yours regarding mw3 and your mental health… on one hand i’m so sorry that you felt that way, but on the other i feel it with my whole heart
ghoap content especially for me helped me these past few months with my mental health in ways i would never have expected, it was my solace and inspiration, i started working out too and got back into drawing, got a lot better at it as well!
but unfortunately i get way too fixated on fictional stuff and there comes a time that my brain switches up and connects the things i liked and comforted me with things that make me extremely uncomfortable and stressed out, especially if i fall down a fandom rabbit hole that i would never have searched up, beacuse i know myself, i know my limits and triggers but i feel like i’m not a part of the fandom if i don’t like and interact with every single headcanon, art and ship
these past days i was really down because of that, and the things i read (why did i do that???) and now when i think of ghoap i think of that stuff and im scared that i alienated myself from the one thing that made me happy
but discovering your art and with that your post reminded me that im not alone in these feelings, even if it’s not the same exactly, and i wanted to thank you, for sharing your thoughts that time i guess haha <33
((sorry for rambling))
Long reply under 'keep reading' !! CW: talk of triggers and MCD
Always feel free to ramble my way!!! How nice you could find some comfort in my art and ghoap stuff. Especially in my mw3 post. I've been considering deleting it a few times, but hearing it maybe helped to read in some way makes me happy I left it up.
I get where you're coming from - I very much use these fictional characters as a safe space, but ppl view them very differently. There's room for it all, "don't like, don't interact" is very much a policy I agree with. It's important to mute words and be aware of your own triggers as you browse stuff in this fandom, because there's such a wide variety of stuff out there. You do NOT have to interact and agree with every thought people have on this ship, that's impossible and super stressful. There's plenty of stuff and headcanons I don't vibe with. There are no 'requirements' that you have to meet in order to enjoy fiction.
It's part of why I enjoy ghoap - that their dynamic resonates and has sparked so much creativity and outlets for so many - but it also means there's gonna be a lot of stuff u don't necessarily agree with or feel comfortable with. For example, a lot of folks use the MCD in mw3 as a way to explore grief, which I think is really cool, but on a bad day that could potentially get my brain in a bad headspace, so I only check out that art and those fics when I feel okay. There's also a bunch of stuff I'd never want to interact with, and that’s fine !!
I'm personally quite vanilla and a sucker for exploring the softer, more domestic aspects of these characters. It's what brings me joy. I know there are parts of this fandom who don’t vibe with what I make at all, and would call it untrue to the characters. Some creators enjoy exploring the more violent or toxic sides to the source material. That's just how it is, we all need different things from fiction. As long as we're capable of chilling in our respective sandboxes, then all's good.
But if you're like me, and enjoy the softer things, then definitely be aware and careful while exploring this ship and fandom. I've seen takes on these characters that are so far removed from how I view them, that they're basically the complete opposite, and it can leave a very bad taste, especially if you're the type to hinge your safe space on fiction.
Just... be mindful of yourself and your potential triggers, be respectful and don't interact with things that make you uncomfortable to the point of feeling unsafe. Shape your own online experience to your best ability.
Hope you're doing okay and still find joy in ghoap <3
#ask#anon ask#long post#mcd#mcd mention#major character death#mw3 spoilers#ish#few extra thoughts in tags:#sry it took a while to respond. i wanted to give a proper answer#hope this makes sense or helps somehow#and if interacting with this fandom continues to have a negative impact on your mental health then take a break#i understand using fiction as an outlet or safe space (i do it) but if the bad starts outweighing the good then try to distance yourself#don't dive into those rabbit holes that u know will make u feel bad#i understand the urge but its so important to protect yourself online#I’m far from an expert on this stuff so this is just my two cents#stay safe!!
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I am in love with the idea of sugar daddy bakugou, he would have to physically drag me out of bed to class, I set like 5 alarms and then still not go
IT'S ABSURD, like you can't even lie to him abt it either because he has your whole schedule memorized!! You think you've finally gotten away with missing one morning class just to sleep in and cuddle, but NOPE, after one hit of the snooze button he's pulling off your blankets and flickering the lights on and off.
You're like, "can't i just be your housespouse, stay home and do chores???"
And he's frowning, "first you were beggin' me for tuition, now you don't even wanna go???" (i'd immediately get up to argue with him but that's another story)
He is so annoying lmfao. Has an argument for all of your complaints, and will try to slap your butt if you don't get up. And the worst part is that he really does want you to do well !!! and get a degree in case you need to support yourself ever. Good LUCK not feeling guilty and trying to get out of homework, too.....
(and LITERALLY ME THIS MORNING, my alarm rang for an hour and apparently i just did not give enough of a fuck to notice😭😭😭)
#bakugo#youre like 'but i'm tired!!' and he's like 'you got an extra hour of sleep bc i drive you now'#you're like 'my bags not packed!!' and he's already packed it for you (poorly but still)#got dam!!!#it is funny tho the one time he does let u skip and u tell ur prof ur sick#only for them to see you on the hero billboards instagram with him#anyway was thinking abt this on the way home and i thought abt that one 'i'm tired of this grandpa!!'#you when he gets a peak at your notebook and starts trying to explain stuff to u#HELP ME PLEASE#thats u on the phone to kiri#hope this was an ok answer!#caitie things#anon#gen
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