#but at least my parents are against him
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For those of us with US family members who are Republicans but (thank god) anti-Trump, are there any lesser evils for them to vote for? Any good that can be done with a Republican ballot? Maybe a list of people by state who aren't Trump puppets (if there are any)? Thanks!
There is a lot more being voted on than just Trump/Biden!! Would love some help keeping his loyalists out also!
#us politics#us elections#trump#watching family members guessing who to vote for or just not voting at all#I have an aunt who loves Trump and it kills me#but at least my parents are against him#although they have no idea what to vote other than “not Trump”#please help us help our Republican relatives!
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Complete Chaos: The Cats pick their band members 🎸
matthew: finns (good music taste but the best energy)
kuli: sasha (dj), maffhew (singer to which he refutes and insist hes a hype man), and himself as director/manager because hes bad rhythmically
ekky: maffhew (hype man/lead singer), benny and reino (guitar and drums), forsy (pure eyecandy quite literally just there to take his shirt off 😭😭)
swaggy and benny: sasha (dj), swaggy (singer/guitarist), benny (guitarist), ekky and gadjo (no other role than to look like "bandguys")
reino: also finns lmao (popular choice)
sasha: himself as dj, and swaggy (singer, his karaoke insistence proceeds him)
roddy: forsy (guitar), benny (drums), himself (no role whatsoever lol), reino (second guitar) and sasha (cymbals, girl what kinda band 😭)
mikksy: sasha (dj) just sasha no one else just him actually :)
BONUS: sasha finally revealed his dj name to which last time he staunchly refused to do so and its DJ Layz!!!!
#carter verhaeghe#sam bennett#evan rodrigues#matthew tkachuk#dmitry kulikov#aleksander barkov#niko mikkola#eetu luostarinen#anton lundell#aaron ekblad#sam reinhart#jonah gadjovich#florida panthers#2425#CRYING INTO MY HANDS AT ALL THE BAND CHOICES#A FORSY SHIRTOFF COMMENT HAS HIT THE TOWERS#NOT SURPRISING BUT STILL#maffhew and reino choosing the finns as a whole.. you can tell they had the most fun with finnish media during global series huh#and also the parade really convinced them of how hard the finns can throw down huh#everyone supporting their captain in his new dj endeavour (sorry lundy move aside)#like parents who dont quite get it but they will show up to the dance recital enthusiastically with flowers#kuli and ekky choosing maffhew as singer... they are blinded by love its okay...#if you ever heard that man sing... yeah#at least maffhew refutes and pivots to going well id have fun up there and really thats all you can ask for now can you#the eyecandy choices... no purpose just look hot and bandlike...#sasha just wants a duo with carter and completely understandable sir#him and benny continuing his swaggy is good at karaoke campaign it really is just two men in a world against many#MIKKSY JUST CHOOSING SASHA. NO ONE ELSE. JUST SASHA#do you know how explicitly funny to me that mikksy only chooses sasha for dj... when hes such a big rockhead...#he had the opportunity to create the best band and went sasha :) im gonna jump off a cliff
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I love Bianca and wish we had gotten to see her more and the only time I will be ever be angry with her abt anything is when she picked up the figurine from the junkyard despite being warned not to by Percy who was warned by the goddess married to owner of said junkyard.
Zöe is also another character that I kinda wished we got more of but the one thing that will always bug is that out of the many experienced Hunters she could have brought alongside her on that quest, aside from Phoebe, she choose the one that literally had only been Huntress for less than 72 hours and known she was a demigod for just as long.
#pjo#zöe nightshade#bianca di angelo#whenever i see people discussing bianca they always bring up her “leaving” nico#which from his point of view maybe she did leave him but she also needed to detach herself from the role of older sister/only parental#figure in nico's life before either of them started resenting each other#zöe really should hav chosen anyone but the newbie to the mythological world for a world defining quest#at least percy had a week#and the prophecy was set against two members of their party which in my opinion is even more of reason as to why the newbie should not have#been chosen
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what was the point of Golem. like its not as though wildbow thought he Did Something and failed. he just created a character and did nothing with him. guess you could argue that theo is Supposed to be a subversion of a chosen one thing and that him being boring and having no personality or opinions is part of his avoidance deal but like a) then why have him accept jack's challenge in the first place and b) i still do not care. motherfucker was raised by abusive nazis and doesn't even have an opinion on that one way or another CMON NOW go girl give us nothing!!!!!
#like. before u can even think about how In Poor Taste the whole thing is.#its boring#at least if he like stuck up for his crap parents that'd be INTERESTING#like he could at least suck!!!#he could at least be a horrid bigot like purity and cause tension just by existing + ppl not wanting to work w him against jack#OR like at least have him live up to his name and get really anti-nazi and protect jewish communities from violence#still maybe weird of him to pick the name!!!!!#but i might be invested if it MEANT anything#misguided but trying to right his father's wrongs wld at least be SOMETHING#how on earth do u write a character defined by being the son of a white supremacist supervillian.#and his only thoughts on the matter are like yeah my dad wasnt perfect#hes SO NOTHING#wormblr
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#I just rewatch moments with scott because he makes me happy#in an episode of basic cable when he came to tell his parents about the new girl with diabetes#I noticed in addition to their family photo on the wall there are two more pictures with scott against the backdrop of a candy store#how cruel to my little diabetic#Scott also has the color of his mother's hair and he inherited most of his appearance from his father#and if you look like this in his post covid version and his profile is similar to his father#and i love that his mom listens so carefully to scott when he talks about sophie and that she has diabetes too#she loves her baby and care about him#and about that fat fuck he pisses me off he don't give a shit about his son and nagging him#nagging him for being given your stupid asshole genes#if your son’s lisping annoys you#I don’t know#take him to a speech therapist#at least pretend that you care#grrr 😡😡😡#that's why I like to headcanon that his parents got divorced and scott stayed with his mom#it will be better this way
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I also want to do this
#my polls#tumblr polls#hyperspecific poll#funny poll#funny#This is probably too specific#My best friends name is Cesar. His parents called him fucking Cesar.#A few years back a firework flew against my should and exploded resulting me in not hearing a lot of things#You can technically buy the book online but it's bad because it was for a competition and I wouldn't do it again#One lady he knows from his cult meetings has studied the bible with the 9/11 attackers#9/11#tw 9/11#I thought it was cool when David Hasselhoff wore a crop top#My father won lady gaga tickets Calvin Harris tickets but didn't go because he had work that day and didn't feel like calling in sick#More artists from our country coupons and such stuff also#For at least $1000 dollars
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Wish there was a way to begin to explain what happened tonight during stream because there’s some kind of gold in Jim thinking that Riddler is fairy (like tinkerbell) but everyone else just thinks he’s calling Ed a slur and the pipeline it leads down, connecting to Bruce thinking babies come from kissing, all the way to Jim asking Ed and Oswald if Tim was “their fairy baby and Tim telling Steph “I think Jim just called me a fairy.” Steph: “sorry you had to find out this way, but we all kind of knew.”
#ravenpuff rambles#y’all it’s fucking wild out here I’m telling you#and it’s the funniest shit in my life to think about Jim having no idea fairy can be used as a slur#and he’s just convinced Ed is an actual mythical being#while literally everyone he talks to keeps going “I don’t think you can say that Jim#all of Gotham is begging their commissioner to stop being homophobic. Jim is just fucking confused why no one is as excited about this as he#also Bruce got bad sex ed in school and then Alfred forgot he was a parent and needed to give Bruce the talk so he just kind of never#learned a goddamn thing.#Bruce tells every one of his kids babies come from kissing. every single time Alfred spits out his tea in shock because B still doesnt know#he has like 12 children and fathered at least one of them biologically and Alfred things surely he’d figure it out#he never does#meanwhile Bruce things talking about kissing makes Alfred uncomfortable because he’s old and British#Luckily the kids at least got a better education#Dick had to learn himself but he gave Jason the full talk with PowerPoints and everything#(Jason begged him to stop because he could learn through books. dick refused)#every subsequent kid has been informed by the one before them#So Jason is unfortunately tasked with teaching Tim.#Tim passes it on to Duke. Duke to Damian. etc#Babs gave Cass the talk though. Dick refused because he had done his one brotherly duty and Jason refused because Cass was older then him#so to Babs it was.#she also gave Steph the talk against her will which Steph thought was stupid because she had already had a kid by then#none of them are allowed to tell Bruce the truth though#Jason tried and Dick covered his mouth before he could finish.#Damian has tried several times but is always interrupted but Tim appearing out of nowhere and tackling him to the ground#I love this stupid fucking family your honor
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Be me.
Rarely go outside because covid.
Take a walk. (With mask ofc)
See a stunning man.
Heart starts beating, butterflies go wild.
You came outside to write, so in the spurr of the moment you write a story about what just happened, with a succubus s/I to make your immediate crush on a man at least 30 years your senior that you barely caught a glimpse of slightly less weird.
#i am wearing headphones#i did not even hear him#whilst i revolt greatly against the idea that staying indoors all the time is harming me in any way#maybe i do have to see real live people that aren't my parents more often#i have to update that aroace thing too. i'm not aroace there is just literally no real person around for me to be attracted to in any way#lotus chatters#the story fullfills todays prompt at least so there's that#is it weird that i wrote an entire (short) story about a stranger that i didn't even really meet?#i just caught a glimpse or two of his face and was a goner
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anyways I need so desperately to meet other people whose family is all still in Iran. No shade to the few Iranian friends I’ve had/have but like. Well one of them was like “I would like to go but I just can’t with the government like that” and one reason they can be that comfortable saying that is because a lot of their extended family is here in the us. If I said that then I would never get to see anyone from my extended family. like do you understand how there’s no choice in that situation for me.
#vt.talk#a lot of people in my family have died (part of the effect of having a very large family) and yet I’ve never been to one funeral#it’s because plane tickets are expensive and my family has for the most of my life been in a state where we have to save for these things#there’s a lot of experiences I realize now that I ‘missed out on’ because the money my parents could’ve put towards other things went to#family or visiting family. I’m not upset. I’m glad I’ve gotten to meet with my extended family. I think it’s been better#but it makes you. it makes.#also at least my family’s entire thing is that the last is painful and if you stay on it you will drown#I’ve gotten scolded. kinda. for showing a lot of emotion over things like this. also the whole no one will believe you if you’re emotional#which when I think of how mossadeghs emotions were used against him. ough.#but yeah it comes into play now when people around me are like :o this thing in history/the present day is so horrible I’m so mad!!!#and I’m sitting here almost emotionless. I hate myself for it sometimes.#whatever rant over
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There are no new Introductions in Dimension 20′s The Ravening War episode 5.
#dimension 20 spoilers#dimension 20#d20 introductions#the ravening war#the ravening war spoilers#acoc:trw#there's a moment i jumped out of my seat realizing i wasn't gathering the pcs' new battle stats when i realized like#wait i already DID do that pfffftlxbncklxnc#but yeah huh- i thought there'd be at least one? or a couple? but i guess they died before they could be important enough#to have an intro card ig#but it DID have some returning characters i didn't expect#also lkxcbnkxlcb raphanial- tfw you have your gay awakening at 93#dope about colin living out the vengeance against the shitty parent dream shout out to him#also these fucking pc dynamics are the BEST i love these guys so much#stacked cast FOR REAL#whoof- finale next week. and who knows what comes after..... see y'all then!
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i dunno man. this reaction to the finale squicks me out so much. i am deeply uncomfortable with people acting like it would have been better if adrien was told everything on the spot (eventually? yeah. right then? god no), or that gabriel was textually redeemed, or that the writers weren't aware that gabriel had done wrong despite them actively avoiding having him take ladybug's offer (which would have been far more like a redemption than what he actually did - violently reject her path and took his own in the end. like be serious)
i say this as someone who has been worried for a while about how they would handle gabriel as a clearly abusive man. and as someone who has been emotionally, socially and financially controlled and threatened by my own father (the height of it being when i was adrien's age, isn't that wild), but as in adult still struggles to call it abuse because like. sometimes your dad is horrible but you also have good happy memories with him. and a couple of weeks is not enough time to fully accept your dad did you harm and should have known better - especially after he fucking dies - and that's the case regardless of whether he's considered a hero or a villain by everyone around you. adrien expressing admiration to his father is not only consistent with his desire to see his father improve (because shockingly with the kind of abuse gabriel was up to, adrien was always going to hope for the good he saw in him to prevail. that's just how it feels) but is also not guaranteed to last - we have no idea how adrien will process his father's abuse alongside the grief he's also processing????
like i guess this finale made me so emotional, specifically that last part, because fuck if it didn't speak to something that felt pretty emotionally real. at least to me, as someone who can see a snap shot of my life in this family relationship. and to see people boil that down to "urgh the abuser got away with it" is kinda agonising honestly (not to mention everyone collectively losing their wit and forgetting that like... time exists, and shit changes? idk maybe the monster-of-the-week seasons broke people's brains or something).
just... like goddamn when i think about what i wanted re: dad like... what i wanted was to be safe and happy. if that happened by dad being gone and/or him never being 'punished' for the hurt he caused me then like... would i fucking care? the hurt is over. even as im still disentangling myself from him that's still all i want. i don't want my dad to face justice, i want MY justice - and that's to have some fucking peace!!! i am deeply glad they let gabriel die rather than find some way to save him so he's out of adrien's life, i am deeply glad he did it in a way that wouldn't entirely devastate adrien, i am deeply glad marinette chose not to tell him.
like. i get that so many people do not understand the complexity of recovering from this particular abuse-flavour (because there are many) but. justice is for the victim. justice prevents future victims. it's not justice for me to prioritise exposing gabriel over protecting adrien's happiness? the desire ive seen expressed to expose adrien to all of this and rend him apart is pretty goddamn ghoulish in this context - if you wish to explore that alternative, write a fanfic instead of insisting the only morally good way to resolve abuse is to further traumatise the victim of it
#it's nearly 5am and my word did this fandom manage to trigger some shit out of me lol#i fucking loved this finale frankly#do not even bother 'explaining' to me why you think him offering his reasons is metatextually excusing his actions#because im gonna show you the fucking TEXT of his redemption when it says 'no gabriel what you did was wrong and against the wishes#of everyone involved'. THE FUCKING TEXT#'he at least made the right call in the end' isn't an attempt at a redemption arc.#and if you truly cannot give it to the writers of the show why the fuck are you still here lol you're exhausting#miraculous ladybug spoilers#just. urgh. i can feel the way people are gonna wilfully misinterpret this so here's how you can proceed#you can complain somewhere where i can't see it#my feelings on the matter of this SPECIFIC KIND of parental abuse are informed an personal#and you do not have permission to trigger me about it.
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some of the takes on this webbed site. good lord you people will not be seeing the pearly gates
#beebles#cw james tartt#<- im about to start talking about my own relationship with abuse also#i understand where people come from when they talk about how maybe jamie forgiving james isnt the worst outcome#but. um. sorry#you want me to believe Ted was in the right here???#over Georgie?? the woman who's been dealing with james tartt sr longer than jamie's been alive??#sorry. i don't believe you.#like. obviously my relationship with abuse and with violence isnt the same as jamie's but its like#sometimes all you are to your parents is your successes#and when you don't succeed!!!!! lord help you!!!!!#and by succeed i of course mean only by their standards#i am full no contact with my mother for this exact shit#i cannot watch the jamie&georgie scene without getting chin wibbly about it because like#your father. he is who he is. and he is never ever ever going to change.#yeah. lol#sometimes all you give your parents are chances from the time you were barely a teenager and all they do is throw it back in your face#to put that up against ted being like nah. gotta forgive him. gotta do it for you big boy. idk#just feels so violently irresponsible to say to a victim of abuse#and i talked about this already but it is also deeply in character for ted in the least malicious way possible#he worked so hard to forgive his father for what he did. jamie may benefit from that same forgiveness#but its just so fucking ridiculous to show jamie giving him Another chance even after we've seen every attempt blow up in his face#maybe im just like. sensitive about abuse narratives and how they fucking ALWAYS have to end up in forgiveness for some god forsaken reason#but fuck that ending dude. sometimes going no contact fucking sucks balls and its also the only thing you can do for Yourself#interpret the text however you want but if you think james tartt deserved the grace of forgiveness you are fucking wrong#disrespectfully#idk. idk! none of this makes sense probably we are going through a category five Moment with my own mother rn so maybe i am extra sensitive
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Just learned today my dad has been trusting chat gpt for medical advice. i cannot emphasize this enough we as a species are on our last legs and we are not gonna make it to 2060
#and he got all grumpy when i told him chat gpt doesnt know anything its just saying literally whatever the fuck it wants#he was fine asking it about medicine and taking whatever it said at face value with NO sources like HELLO ARE U CRAZY??#at least on google u can tell if it a blurb is written by thesame compeny trying to sell u the supplements#im way more worried about parents being phone short form content addicted than babies like they have no natural defense against it#they didnt grow up expecting everything online to be a lie or someone trying to sell u shit they just believe whatever#last year my dad sent us a video of fireworks that was so clearly badly edited and he was like wow i cent believe they can do this now#sidney talks shit
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at least i have my siblings
#i love them so much#unfortunately we're all awkward as hell (it's the undiagnosed autism) and behave more like coworkers than siblings#but we're literally so alike both physically and personality wise#we could be inseparable besties#but. ok so we're not touchy feely but at least we're there for each other#i needed help moving stuff out of my flat today so i called them and they came immediately#and i always help my sister with their homework#my brother i can't really help bc he never needs anything but the other day i bought him two billie eilish dolls bc he loves her#we just show up for each other and i'm so lucky to have that#i don't get the way people on here talk about siblings like we're supposed to always be bitches to each other like#i've never had a bad thing to say to or about my siblings#we always defend each other against our parents#we're literally just friends#in a very chill way#rain.stuff
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I would take five more seasons of Samuel and his shiny bald head over the men of letters is what I’m saying
#HENRY IS SO BORING. THIS EPISODE IS NOT HELPING HIM.#my opinion before rewatching was that I didn’t care about him#my opinion now is that he is annoying and making my experience of watching this episode worse.#man should have stayed a shadow over John’s life that echoed through his parenting of his sons rather than. A Guy.#at least Samuel was fun!!! samuel was willing to take out his own grandsons for his daughter!!! that was!!! idk fascinating man!!!!#his whole sure we’re blood but I don’t know you you’re not family my daughter is my family thing was an interesting mirror to the show’s#overall (attempted) theme of ‘family don’t end in blood and doesn’t start there either’#like he followed that to a T! he just happened to also do it while going against our main boys.#he was a Mary stan I respect him for that#plus imagine if she was revived and had to be around her father (previously demonically possessed and also kissed her)#this is a pro-samuel blog now akshfkjdlfj I’m so sorry Samuel that I was annoyed by you in s6 I see the truth now#I see how bad u could have been and I want u back mr Campbell
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Jays been back for a few months because something Bad happened but I kinda miss our relationship before he tried to like. implode all of my irl relationships. that’s kinda how it always is though
#I don’t talk abt this often anymore because as I’ve gotten older and have been medicated and h se learned more coping mechanisms it’s easier#for me to stay in the front almost every day for months#I couldn’t do that years ago#reintegration isn’t my end goal but I lowkey feel like it’s gonna happen and it’s bittersweet#im not even rlly working towards it I’m just moving pack my trauma and unpacking a lot of things#I think I miss me and jays relationship because Im not close to my older siblings#and my brothers make me feel so small and unsafe I’m running for something familiar#jay only exists to protect me and I know he will it’s just he’s.. temperamental and willing to hurt others and myself if he thinks he can#protect me. and I know why he’s like this. but I also know that I don’t need that anymore. we don’t#but I miss relialably being able to fall back on him#I have others now who can do the same job maybe even better than him#who can talk when I can’t who can be rational when I can’t#but maybe I just want someone who will defend me with teeth and nails. I’m crying rn and idk why#I only rlly talk to Chevy abt my did because I feel like only they understand how bad my childhood fucked me up#because there’s was worse. otherwise I feel like the things I needed as a kid and now must sound so strange#ofc I needed protectors but the thing I def needed as a kid was a friend. families that actually loved me#parents who weren’t always on drugs. family who didn’t want to touch me and grope me and hurt me#and now I’m wanting the same things all over again. but it’ll never be the same#and I know it’s weird to hold a grudge against an alter. it feels weird to think about it but I do#i would have closure on so many friendships without him. even if I ruined them without him I could at least live with the knowledge that I#fucked up. but it was out of my control. he’s like my parents. never wanting me to make my own mistakes#im rlly sleepy
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