#boundaries pins

[i-promise-i-am-not-on-drugs]

So I just got those,

And I feel so happy I could explode.

[tombxynxtdoor]

✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️

Here are the rules 👇✨️

You can call me Stretch. I'm 33, I'm a happily married woman. So please respect my boundaries that I'm about to lay the fuck out.

•I'm ♡MARRIED♡

•I love the block button

• I love a good conversation

• I have a life outside of this hell site. So if I don't answer messages right away, don't take it personal.

•I will not post nudes or lewds, as there are plenty to go around here. So don't ask.

• I don't have onlyfans, so please don't bother asking. Just read here, and you'll know 🙃 also I don't sell any spicy pics, so please don't ask. BUT I WILL SHARE MY MUTUALS CONTENT BECAUSE WE SUPPORT CONTENT CREATORS ON MY BLOG. They're human too.

• I don't put up with peoples bullshit so keep it to yourself, or I'll happily put you in your place.

• I'm okay with making friends, I'm fine with compliments.

• I'm here to simply express myself, whether it be something I'm going through, have gone through, or just wanna shit post.

• I'm going through some changes and life decisions that only benefit me.

• I will not be giving out my snapchat anymore, it's too much and annoying, please don't ask.

• ☆fun fact I'm a milf with kids.☆ No you can't see none of them or ☆my husband☆

•RESPECT MY BOUNDARIES OR GET FUCKED. 💅

• anons are welcome

• Yes my attitude has changed, and I need to make these boundaries for a reason.

• I'm a Capricorn OF COURSE IM AN ASSHOLE

• we can all agree to disagree.

• COMMENTS AND REBLOGS ARE ALL WELCOME, NO NEED TO ASK. my notifications will be off, so my phone doesn't blow up, so SPAM LIKES ARE WELCOME.

• PUT YOUR AGE IN YOUR BIO THIS IS IMPORTANT. It ain't that hard, it's for important reasons why.

⚠️‼️I WILL NOT BE YOUR SUGAR BABY, YOU WILL BE BLOCKED INSTANTLY. ‼️⚠️

I post what I want, you can either like it or leave it 👉👈

✨️My interests✨️

•I love to listen to music. It helps me express any and all of my feelings. They say, "When you're happy, you enjoy the music, but when you're sad, you understand the lyrics," but heavy metal has my heart for life

• I do smoke (as in weed)

•I love anime and some cartoons, I'm a giant kid at heart.

• I love arts and crafts, anything art related

• I play video games

• I speak fluent sarcasm and kindness🤍

I'll add to my interest more eventually.

Enjoy your stay in my chaotic mind. 🤍

[bunnieswithknives]

PFP Commission for someone from my discord

[farter-imperator]

I've just added some new cosplay communication badges to my Etsy!

I've been going to Comic Cons for ten years now and these badges have came from my experience of finding it hard to verbally set boundaries with strangers wanting my photos at cons! These badges are handmade by me and available in two sizes; 32mm and 57mm. The 57mm one can be easily seen from a distance!

My Etsy store is still pretty small, so I'd be very grateful for any likes or reblogs on this post too! Thank you!

[howlsofbloodhounds]

(Dividers were found {and made} here. Not by me.)

Disclaimer: i talk about killer, so I’ll be talking about things like murder, torture, abuse, unethical experiments, etc.

L͟I͟N͟K͟S͟:

Here and here are links to canon killer sans stuff (doc is not made by me), but you can also look up #canon k1ll_sans on my blog.

Made by me, here is a link to a google doc on canon delta!sans and here is one for canon othertale/color sans. You can also look up #0thertale or #canon c0lor sans on my blog; not everything is there yet, but it is in the doc.

Here is a link to my ao3 fic collection centered around color, killer, color & killer.

C̳A̳N̳ ̳Y̳O̳U̳ ̳I̳N̳T̳E̳R̳A̳C̳T̳?̳

¸„.-•~¹°”ˆ˜¨ 𝐍Ｏ ¨˜ˆ”°¹~•-.„¸

Bigots of any kind, Pro-Israel, Fake-claimers, Zoos. Pedos, or anyone who supports or is neutral. Anyone who ships or romanticizes incest, pedophila, rape/SA, necrophilia, bestiality, and abuse. People who enjoys listening to/watching IRL gore/snuff.

˜”*°•.˜”*°• YES: •°*”˜.•°*”˜

Anyone who isn’t any of the above. And anyone who enjoys “color spectrum duo,” aka killer and color.

This is my TikTok, Instagram, YouTube, and AO3. I do have Discord, but you will have to ask privately for that. I do have Twitter/X, but I am not on it anymore.

My blog is not very organized, but I do have four personalized tags: #howlsasks, #houndshowlings, #forlater.txt. #killer sans stages for things I post on his Stages, as well as specific stages like #stage 1!killer.

These are for any and all asks I have received and answered, my yapping, reblogs I want to return to later.

You can call me Howl(s), Hound(s), or simply Rey. They/them, she/her. But I am okay with any. I am an adult.. Tone tags aren’t usually needed but appreciated. I will use them for you, too, if you tell me to.

Maintaining relationships and friendships are a genuine struggle for me. I will frequently forget to respond or will forget a lot of things you tell me. I am never purposefully ignoring you. Sometimes I forget, don’t know what to say, or will just be too tired to answer.

The above goes for stuff sent to my ask box. It is always open and questions are always welcome, as are DMs, but it may take a few days until I respond.

And that should be everything. I will update, add on, and remove as I see fit. I tend to get talkative when using written communication, and I love making lists, so this got longer than I thought it would be. I hope it was easy enough to read.

Follow my bitchass alt account @postlimitcages or whatever. My Pagan secondary blog is here.

[crabsnpersimmons]

question on tumblr etiquette:

if you fall under a user's DNI list, but that user reaches out to you via ask or DM, without knowing you fall under their DNI list, do you still respond?

hypothetical example: user A specifies on their blog "DNI if you're over the age of 18", but then user A reaches out to user B. User B is over the age of 18, but user A does not know this because user B doesn't mention it on their blog. User B does know that user A does not wish to interact with people over the age of 18. does user B respond to user A?

[ingo-ingoing-ingone]

A Personal Post

Hi guys, I'm finally making the post I kept telling myself and my best friends I'd make but wanted to put it off until I felt better. That hasn't happened and with how things are going I thought it was best to just post it now.

So for a while, since probably late 2023, I've felt less like my blog is for me, and more like it's some kind of fandom archive. Which, if you use it this way as-is, great! I'm glad my blog could make you happy like that! But that's not what I set out for it to be.

I'm the sort of neurodivergent person who likes to categorize things, including my interests. All my tumblr blogs are specific to one thing, and this one was no exception.

I began tagging things soon after I made the blog because I saw a lot of people were sad about the twins, and I thought "well since I love both sad and happy stuff, and I'm really good about categorizing things, maybe I can try and help!" And according to many, it did help!

But I think that also gave off the impression that I was making this blog for other folks, and that isn't the case. I'm sorry I never clarified. It's not an archive; I do not reblog shipping posts, posts from people I've blocked, AUs I don't click with, and sometimes just not everything I see.

I've gotten popular in the fandom, and for the most part I do, from the bottom of my heart, enjoy it. I have people who care about my hyperfixation! That's amazing! I have people who love my cosplay and want to meet up with me. I've made so many friends of all shapes and sizes and it's probably the most incredible thing I've ever experienced, truth be told.

But yeah my blog being mine has gotten away from me a bit, I think.

I want to keep tagging my submas tags, that isn't going to change. I will tag triggers when asked, unless it's kind of impossible due to the blog's subject (trains, for instance) or a name or really common word (like the word 'head' or something). Other than that please reach out and I'll do my best to remember. But other tags? Those will be up to me. I don't want to tag when OCs show up. I love OCs and like seeing them, and don't want to have to remember that one person who visits my blog doesn't.

I had anon off for a while because honestly ever since making this blog, there have been anons who really made me unhappy. (Also yes, non-anons but that's been fewer and far between). I've gotten misinformation, accusations, horrible and disgusting explicit asks, and criticisms and complaints, and I'm just... Not here for that. Keep the explicit things and misinfo out of my inbox, I am no arbiter of morality or personal decisions, and I am not here for you to share your negative opinions of submas or the fandom.

Anon is on for people who are too self conscious to chat face to face, for people to send fun headcanon ideas (remember when people did that back in 2022 when this blog started? I miss that, it was sweet and wholesome), to share song recommendations... That kind of stuff. If you have an actual problem, please, PLEASE talk to me off anon, whether that be DMs or a non-anon ask that I can answer privately. Especially if we're friends; please, please just talk to me about stuff. I don't bite! I swear!

But yeah the bottom line is I'm here to participate in fun (and sometimes heartbreaking!) fandom stuff. I'm here for FUN, not as my job. I know that we're all a bunch of neurodivergent folks and sometimes interactions can be a swing and a miss, but please try to be mindful. Please treat me like a person and not just like a museum curator for this blog.

Truth is, I haven't been okay for a while now. It's gotten worse this year for sure, and due to life stuff I cannot see things feeling better for me for some time. I need to go day by day for a lot of things, and I am trying to get better about needing to set boundaries and all that sort of thing. I suffer from intense paranoia too, and having so many eyes on me is genuinely terrifying at times. I'm trying to manage that as best I can, but I do ask that folks be kind.

NO I am not going anywhere, my blog is staying and will continue on as normal, but I really, really needed to get this posted.

Please continue to interact with me and chat and everything like that! But also please remember to treat this space, my blog, as my space. Thanks for reading!

[antimisinfo]

This blog is meant to correct misinformation about DID/OSDD. We mostly correct endos misinformation but we'll correct almost any misinfo. You can request certain things for us to try correct and you can ask questions about DID/OSDD and we'll try to answer them the best we can.

We aim to add sources to everything we post but as there is not much information on DID/OSDD that is easily accessible that means there might be some posts where we just cannot get sources, or for example there will be some things that are community made and therefore have no sources outside of social media posts (this is about community terms and stuff).

This blog is ran by a subsystem in a much larger C-DID system, we have a carrd and a retrospring along with many other blogs; @system-hottakes , @antiendovents , @antiendosystemterms , ect

Tags :

#sourced <- for posts that have sources

#kind of sourced <- for posts with sources that are from Tumblr or other social media instead of articles (this may be because of community terms, examples of harassment, ect).

#not sourced <- for posts without sources

#reblogged info <- good information we reblogged

#endo misinfo <- misinformation spread by endos

#requsted info <- corrections that have been requested

#answered asks <- answering asks / questions sent to us

Rules to sending in requests / asks :

- hate or straight up offensive stuff will be deleted

- we won't answer a question that we've already answered (we might link the answer or something, but we doubt it)

- it must be related to DID/OSDD, we don't correct misinformation on other disorders or just general things.

DNI :

- endos / non traumagenics (you aren't welcome here or on any of our blogs, you spread misinformation constantly, so why would you even want to be here??)

- narc abuse / cluster B abuse believers

- people wanting to spread misinformation

- believes in doubles

- trans-ID / transX

- anti researched self diagnosis

- basic DNI

Anons - 🫀🌐 .

Masterlists -

Endogenic misinfo / questions

General DID/OSDD misinfo / questions

Other misinfo / questions

[maxisgay23]

— PINNED MESSAGE <3 —

hey! this is just an introduction on my account/boundaries/etc :)

you can call me max, maxxie, saturn, coyote, or arcturus. i use any pronouns (specifically she/he/they/it)!

ME/MY INTERESTS:

i’m an alterhuman/furry/quadrobist, huge life series/hermitcraft fan (unhealthy obsession kinda way) and LOVE the crane wives! (also unhealthy obsession kinda way) i also like the owl house, she-ra, amphibia, gravity falls, cavetown, mitski, TV Girl, chappell roan, sabrina carpenter, girl in red, conan gray, billie eilish, jacksons diary, high class homos, and warrior cats!

MY PAGE…

i mostly will just reblog life series/hermitcraft art and/or headcanons, but occasionally other things, too!

BOUNDARIES!!!

DNI if…

- you’re a proshipper, zoophile, MAP, etc.

- you’re being rude

- you’re spamming

- you’re spreading misinformation/lies

PLEASE INTERACT if…

- you have the same interests as me

- you wanna help me gain interactions :)

- you’re a fellow alterhuman/furry

PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME UNLESS ITS ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY.

I AM A MINOR.

anyways, thank you for reading this! i hope you have a good week! ‧₊˚✩ ⊹

[momentsofamberclarity]

If you're putting dni banners or bright dni wording on the bottom of all of your posts in 2024 believing this will actively stop people from interacting then we are on entirely different wavelengths and I'm automatically determining that you do not have critical thinking skills and blocking you regardless of your self-proclaimed stance on anything.

This is the internet. The internet is a free-for-all, always has been, always will be. People are going to interact with content regardless of their age, regardless of their stances vs your stances. In fact, the more you draw attention to not wanting attention the more troll attention you are actively inviting in.

It is up to you to curate your own online experience and use your block button when you are uncomfortable with people interacting with your content. And you are under no obligation to offer an explanation to anyone as to why you've blocked them.

[bwamatoast]

small strawpage + my oc... he is a little sensitive

[shalomniscient]

i am begging on my KNEES for my pinned post to be read… i do not derive any sort of joy from blocking people but,

if you are an ageless blog and you come into my inbox to interact in any way, much less ask me about the honest to god porn i’ve written, you are getting a block.

once more, i am not doing this out of malice. please respect my boundaries to not want to discuss nsft content, or any kind of content, with someone that could be a minor.

[thelazyangel4567]

Frank x Eddie Comic based off that one scene from Bee and Puppycat

Part 1 Part 2

[monodramatic-cannibal]

Rules/etc for interacting with my ocs/aus

(finally gonna make one of these. Will be adding onto this list as I think of more points/boundaries. If unsure about something feel free to ask me about stuff, dms are always open as well)

Heres a link to my art request info too. Since a lot of people are requesting for their ocs interacting with mine.

(List under cut)

If asks are open, but request aren't it means you can still ask my ocs/aus things, and I will draw responses. BUT it just means I will not be drawing anything but my ocs/aus!! If I draw anyone interacting with them it will be them interacting with an anon! (moots might be an exception to this, but it's 50/50)

I’m okay with people making fanart/writings of my ocs/aus! I’m also okay with people drawing their ocs/sonas/aus with mine too ^-^! (Please keep it sfw since minors follow my account. If your unsure if I’d be okay with a specific art/writing ask first and I can let you know.) 

I’m okay with people shipping characters with mine (providing it's not a problematic ship, and that it’s a ship between adults). I’m also okay with self-shipping with my characters ^-^ feel free to tag me I’d love to see any artwork/writing. (But keep in mind the ship will not be canon for my ocs/aus. Unless it’s something we’ve decided to make canon between ocs/aus) 

(To add on to point 2) I’m also okay with people making their ocs/etc have a sibling/parental/etc dynamic with my ocs/etc. (Just as long as it’s nothing problematic)

(To add on to point 2) I’m okay with people simping/being unhinged about my (adult) characters. I will be unhinged with you. So feel free to send any rants and stuff about my characters/aus. (But please keep the rants somewhat sfw, as stated in point 1, minors follow my account.)

When interacting via asks please state which characters you're interacting with. And when it's an au version e.g I have two aus so far you can’t just say ‘for your au Nightmare’ as I will not know which Nightmare it’s for. So please state which lol. (If a specific version of the character isn't stated I will just guess)

(Adding onto point 2/4/5) I’m okay with people sending in asks where they use their ocs/aus/sona to interact with my ocs/aus/etc in a shipping context, may or may not do doodles in response depending on my mood.

I’m super okay with dumb asks! I’m also okay with people sending ideas/head canons/etc about my ocs/aus! I will try to include doodles and such if I have ideas on stuff to draw.

I also treat my sona more like an oc, so feel free to send my sona asks and such too. Even though I treat my sona as an oc, I DON’T want anyone shipping anyone with my sona, it will make me a little uncomfortable. UNLESS I have mentioned I don’t mind my sona being shipped with a certain character e.g. me self-shipping my sona with characters, I’d kindly ask people to refrain from shipping my sona with characters. 

Please do NOT use my characters/aus/etc for your own roleplays. It makes me feel uncomfortable to think that someone would be using my characters/designs. To add to this do NOT use my characters/aus for AI sites (e.g. character AI), same reason as the rp, and also AI bad.

[softlyella]

SOFTLY ELLA WELCOME PAGE

🌟 staring: Ella

🌹 intro: Hi, i'm Ella, a 30 something woman (she/her) in France who loves to write and decided to share her writings with he world. Thus the birth of this blog, where you'll find writings, musings, and the occasional horny posting.

🌿 me: 

i'm quite tall, and curvy;

Hopeless Romantic, I believe in true lov and divine unions;

Spiritual. I meditate a lot. Read tarot and learned energy & astrology through my lineage & my ancestors;

I am artistic & a little nerdy; I love to paint and write, and read. I like animes, mangas, manwha. and the IT crowd. (that's a joke and if you get it, there's a kiss for you!).

I also love cooking, particularly for others.

I'm pretty introverted and quiet irl. There's only so much "people-ing" I can take. If I'm comfortable with you, I can either talk your ear off or sit in comfortable silence for 5h.

I'm very sensitive, have quite an emotional depth.

I'm very sexual. (That does not mean I'm your slut or your personal sex toy. And I'm very clear about that boundary.) It's pretty impossible for me to be intimate with someone I have no feelings for.

I'm very flirty, and it's honestly a natural state of being, that's how I talk with people.

For the astrology girlies, boy lies and theylies, yes I am a Libra. Stellium. Do with that as you wish.

Note that I do not feel comfortable chatting with anyone under the age the 20.

© Sofltyella. All rights reserved. Any reposting, modifying any of my creative work is not allowed. Translating my creative pieces is not allowed.

👑 Boundaries: You can send me asks. Introduce yourself, be nice & polite. Or be naughty, but I won't be as nice…. You can compliment my writing, react to something I've written, ask if I can write a story...

⚔️Don't call me yours. That's only with my consent. Please don't call me mistress either. It makes me feel like a school teacher (it sounds the same in french). Cute names are reserved for the people I know and chat with. You can call me Miss Ella.

🪷My Dms are blocked. That's reserved for mutuals or people I've gotten to know and appreciate. My DMs were filled with rude ass, entitled men demanding my attention or that I 'play' with them, helping them get them off. And they turned really disgusting when I drew boundaries. So since y'all can't behave, you're cut off.

I am a woman. If you want my attention, you need to earn it.

[zimanddibromance]

PINNED POST

Boundaries and things that’ll be on my account below !! ⬇️⬇️

Firstly, if you couldn’t tell by my blog name, I ship ZADR!

I’m also profic, but more than likely this account won’t contain any of that stuff, maybe a future 18+ side blog, but for now this acc will post sfw at the most suggestive things.

The only exception to that rule is my fanfics!! I am a fanfic author, and my fics tend to be explicit. Please mind the tags on AO3, I won’t draw or post anything explicit from my fics on here, but I will link my fics when I update them!

I am also an artist, and I’ll post some ZADR art and comics / doodles from time to time. If you’re a ZADR anti, or just an antishipper in general, I’d prefer if you DNI. I’ll post ZADF content as well, but more than likely this account will be dedicated to ZADR. If you don’t harass people over fiction, but still go by the anti label, you’re more than welcome to stay, however.

TWITTER

18+ TWITTER PRIV

AO3

TIKTOK

BLUESKY

And don’t be shy, I’ll give out my DISCORD if you shoot me a DM!

Last but not least..

I’d prefer if people 15 and younger refrain from DMing me. You can int, but please don’t DM me !!

That’s all folks, have a lovely day. ^^