#blunt honesty is being passive aggressive and rude

[idolomantises]

Sometimes I get messages about certain dialogue in my comics about how a character is being passive aggressive when I'm just writing them as straight forward and blunt.

idk, as an autistic person who's dealt with genuine harassment several times (including a few months ago) because his straight forward and blunt demeanor was misinterpreted as being "rude", "ungrateful" and "bitchy", its just kind of interesting seeing people interpret dialogue in a more hostile way.

it's not a complaint, i prefer those fictional interpretations over terminally online twitter users who need to be coddled over everything but it is kind of fascinating seeing how people interpret certain dialogue.

[astrognossienne]

the sun’s shadow

Anything which casts “light” such as the sun, also casts a shadow.

The Sun is a star, not a planet, and I see our Sun sign referring to our innate stellar nature. We are all, in potential, stars.  But that doesn't mean everyone with a sun sign has the will, imagination and energy to actually become a star.

The sun sign describes our "goal” of "becoming" ourselves. Obviously the Moon and ascendant and everything else is important, but if we "go with" our sun sign, we'll generally be more content as individuals. So a Cancer sun is "supposed" to be somewhat sensitive, tenacious, intuitive, dark horses, pioneers in emotional intelligence, low-key the baddest in the game, etc. The temperament of the sun sign is needed for this incarnation and a Sun in Cancer acting like a Sun in Cancer will be more content, etc. However, a failure to do so, can often lead to a "fall" to the opposite sign in the axis, meaning you act like your opposite sign instead. In order to get the most out of your sun sign you should look to the opposite sign, note the strengths of the sign, try to incorporate them into your mentality and then use that as a foundation to experience and make the most of your sun sign.

If however, you don't “go with” your sun sign (and all other chart factors being equal) then you will fall into the opposite sign and experience and project the “worst” of that sign. I have been thinking a lot about this lately due to my own observations as well as some other opinions/discussions by individuals online (here on tumblr and elsewhere) and have noticed that some of these reactions are, in my opinion, the negative traits of their opposite sun-sign (especially when it comes to certain signs...)

At any rate, this is my theory. Make of it what you will.

Aries - worst of Libra - indecisive, lazy, manipulative “diplomacy”, vain, superficial, too impressionable, craves popularity, lacks a spine, scared of confrontation, a “yes person” Taurus - worst of Scorpio - brutal, dark, self-destructive/destructive in general, obsessive, sexual dependence/vampirism, abusive, sadistic, emotionally demanding, extreme, vengeful Gemini - worst of Sagittarius - naive, gullible, opinions based without fact, unsympathetic, insensitive, dreamer, banal, restless, if you don’t kiss their ass they’re out for blood, has no sense of boundaries, too much emphasis on “brutal honesty” Cancer - worst of Capricorn - greedy, cold, evil, power hungry, brutal, sadistic, misers, manipulative (especially with money), flinty, abusive,  robotic, vicious, calculating, selfish, insensitive, egotistical, blackmailing Leo - worst of Aquarius - "everyone MUST be the same", too interested in being “special” or “one of a kind”, cold, arrogant, "uniformity or exclusion!" attitudes, lacks confidence Virgo - worst of Pisces - doormats, whiners, liars, temperamental, substance abuse issues, insecure, overly hypersensitive, doesn’t know the meaning of the word boundaries, tries to be something they’re not, doesn't value/like themselves and projects this negativity onto others by being disrespectful, low self-esteem, martyrdom, oversensitive, vague, wishy-washy, impractical Libra - worst of Aries - rude, abrasive, disrespectful, confrontational, selfish, brash, self-righteous, aggressive, overly and unnecessarily blunt Scorpio - worst of Taurus - possessive, intolerant, over-indulgent, dogmatic, stubborn, lazy, boring, too materialistic Sagittarius - worst of Gemini - cynical, “facts only”, superficial, skeptical, fickle, indecisive, talks too much, spreads themselves too thin, has an inappropriate sense of humour/uses humour at inappropriate times Capricorn - worst of Cancer - emotionally smothering, crybabies, forgettable, passive-aggressive, reactive, manipulative, clips their partners/children’s wings because they “need” them, oversensitive Aquarius - worst of Leo - melodramatic, arrogant, delusions of grandeur, starts shit for no reason, aggressive, condescending, obnoxious, overreacts, selfish, attention seeking, dictatorlike - “I must lead the group, and group must be like me” Pisces - worst of Virgo - an obnoxious “know/seen it all”, compulsive, insecure, too analytical to cover up their sensitive nature, hypercritical, sees world/people in terms of “good” or “bad”, cannot see the forest from the trees, whiners, nitpicky

[4thsun]

What connects the Square/”incompatible” signs

Aries and Cancer: Both are extremely caring and loyal to a fault. Even if their ways of nurture sometimes clash, each one of them is someone who would kill for their loved ones and wouldn’t hesitate to fight someone for them. Both of them are leaders, albeit in different ways. The Aries is a stereotypical leader, the strong and loud one of the pack, wanting to protect their people from the front while the Cancer prefers to be in the back and be the glue in their friend circle, being there to care and nurture everyone from the shadows and make sure they feel alright. Also, both can tend to be quite immature, especially emotion wise and can sometimes tend to be selfish when upset.

Taurus and Leo: In my experience, these are actually quite similar signs. Stubborn to a fault, extremely caring and kind, but also the capacity to be cruel and vindictive when angered. Usually self-centered, they can overlook other people’s needs, but not on purpose. They can be labeled as attention seekers, but in truth they are just so eager to share things about their lives to anyone willing to listen and want to make them laugh with their stories. Their kindness is like no other and they are the first to take sacrifices for their friends. But if betrayed, their whole demeanor shifts and they can be petty and aggressive, but only because they cared so much and have an undying loyalty towards the ones they love.

Gemini and Virgo: These two signs are both ruled by Mercury and are the intellectual powerhouses of the zodiac. Their minds are constantly working, constantly fixing things, never at a stop. They can relate to each other’s intellectual and calm approach to everything and how they prefer to show love by either giving advice or doing acts of service for them. Both of them talk a lot, their mouths trying to keep up with their minds and likewise they criticize a lot, not out of malice but out of genuine willingness to improve things, although they tend to give unsolicited advice and criticism as well. Also, both of them can become razor sharp when upset or in an argument. Enjoy intellectual stimulation a lot.

Cancer and Libra: The obvious thing that connects these two is that they are both people pleasers. Both of them are preoccupied with other people and how they get perceived by them and so become social chameleons, wanting to gain their favor and fit in. They can lose parts of themselves because they want to be with other people so much. Likewise, they discard their ego to build up the other person, always preferring to be there for them instead of venting out their own problems. Both of these signs are infatuated with romance, friendship and how media portrays those. They want a dream relationship, either platonic or romantic and want someone they can give their all to and sacrifice everything for. However, when angered they tend to become passive-aggressive and childish, thinking they are being non-confrontational and keeping the peace but really just dishing out bitter and snide comments and building up tension.

Leo and Scorpio: These signs are signs of pride and they will make sure you know it. Even if they differ in how they show that pride, it is very gallant and obvious. And in some way, it causes these two to be like predator animals circling each other, wanting to be the dominant one. They can be prone to childish fights and outbursts of anger and can be easily irritated by one another due to their clashing natures and need to be dominant. However, that also means that when they get to know each other and can put their pride away, they accept each other and become the alpha pack together. They can feel unstoppable together, their sense of humor similar and their power and energy when together obvious. Developing a partner in crime relationship, these two are an absolute force to be reckoned with when together and can bond over many things, good and bad, like their intensity, their flair for the dramatic, their energy, etc.

Virgo and Sagittarius: These two share a love for intellectual topics and debate, viewing each other as ideal conversational partners and appreciating someone who can stand on equal grounds with them. Both of them can have a certain god complex, thinking they are better than others and expressing that in passive-aggressive ways. Both of them are confident in their theories and advice and think their plans are always the best. Similarly, both of them can act as martyrs, taking on the pain and suffering of others to make them happy and to please them. This however can cause them to suffer from a victim complex and think they cannot be criticized since they are doing so much, even if those sacrifices aren’t asked for.

Libra and Capricorn: While maybe not obvious at first with the first party, these two are businessmen. These two signs study people and their ins and outs, they know how to exchange emotional labour and compliments for services they desire and they aren’t afraid to get what they want. They know what people want and give it to them, to gain what they themselves are after. Nonetheless, they naturally also use this ability for good, using it to calm down and cheer up people in the exact way they know the other needs it. While they may be selfish in some regards, the people close to them are extremely important to them and they are the best cheerleaders, always knowing how to be there for someone and give them a confidence boost.

Scorpio and Aquarius: Ride or die, these two are all or nothing with their interpersonal relationships, always seeking out intense affairs that make them feel something, think things over and challenge their mindsets. Additionally, they enjoy being “the odd one out”, the “special” one. These signs love being alternative and edgy and liking and knowing things no one else knows and thinking about things nobody else does. They bond over this similar mindset and can feel like the other is the only one who understands them, the only one who thinks about similar deep and unconventional topics.

Sagittarius and Pisces: Both of these share the same love of philosophical topics and a love for people in general. While they may not like other humans per say, they love humanity and studying it, seeing how they work and function, how they act and how their habits show in little ways. They love seeing those knacks in a person and completely figuring them out. They love probing deep into a person’s mind, even pushing topics that should not be talked about and be the first and only one to completely envelop the person’s mind. Furthermore, they share a passion for similar interests such as religion, humanity, religion, psychology, etc. However, these two also share a tendency towards escapism through media, self-denial, substances etc. and tend to run away from problems instead of facing them.

Capricorn and Aries: Both of these have a very imposing, brooding presence that is felt by everyone around them. Thus, people tend to either hate or love them and never be inbetween. These signs have confidence and aren’t afraid to show it and while their distinct energies may be different, people tend to have be conflicting when met with such a great presence. Likewise, they have a blunt and sometimes even rude way of talking and even if they mean well, their words can be perceived as unnecessarily harsh which can turn people off. In reality however they just want to be straightforward, thinking honesty is above all else and necessary to take the necessary steps towards improvement.

Aquarius and Taurus: When people look at these two signs, they may come off as unapproachable, as on another level somehow. They seem to exist in their own world, somehow standing out even though they aren’t doing anything special. People either admire or loathe these qualities and tend to make up their own image of these signs based on what they see from the outside rather on the inside, seeing a completely different thing when they ultimately step into their world and actually experience their personalities and how warm and kind they can be. Nonetheless, this can also lead to them living their lives in their own bubble, never wanting to shy away from what they know and not face people from the outside, content with never being challenged.

Pisces and Gemini: Quite easy-going, these two signs bond over their their mutual want for peace and a light-hearted, fun relationship. Never taking things too seriously, they share a similar sense of humor and are also able to stimulate each other intellectually and talk about deeper things and humanity as a whole, Gemini is eager to talk and Pisces is eager to listen, likewise both of them are eager to learn, especially from other people. They have an equally curious attitude about everything they see and want to experience new and exciting things, bored of routine and things that are too serious, though this also shows in their shared immaturity and inability to maturely handle criticism, feeling personally attacked when someone expresses dissatisfaction with them or their mindsets and opinions.

[narstywolfy]

I finally post an artwork after so long, so I made Rooibos City ocs because I honestly love this AU so much go check it out!

Rooibos City AU | @bichcarito

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…-INFO-…

Name: Brevea Valladares 

Age: 46

Height: 5’8”

Species: Object Head – Porcelain floral tea cup

Gender: Female

Sexual orientation: Biromantic

Residence: Rooibos City

Occupation: Assistant Manager

Occupation location: Mascabado Nightclub in Rooibos City

Personality:

(+) Positive

+ Hardworking

+ Intelligent

+ Strong-Willed

+ Perceptive

+ Caring

+Loyal

(-) Negative

- Stoic

- Workaholic

- Blunt

- Nagging

- Sarcastic (when in bad mood)

- Strict

Ability:

Voice Command: She has the power to make anybody obey her every command just by using her voice, her eyes will be glowing while using it, which is actually very useful for when situations get ugly or difficult.

Likes:

+ Getting the job done

+ Morning coffee

+ Stuff being Organized

+ Spending time with family

+ Silence while working

Dislikes:

- Being half-assed

- Her family getting into trouble

- Her sister being lazy

- Wasting time

- Orange fruit and juice

- Loud noises 

Family:

Bicerina Valladares (middle sister)

Lecher Valladares (younger brother)

Bombon Posada/Valladares (sister-in-law)

Caramelita Valladares (niece)

Mocha Valladares (niece)

Raf Valladares (nephew)

Marocchino Valladares (father, deceased)

Meadella Rafael/Valladares (mother, deceased)

Interesting Facts:

Speaks English, Spanish, Italian, and a bit of Russian

Is actually very good at baking

Avoids eating and drinking oranges because she’s allergic to them

Is been proven to Vienna, that she’s a better negotiator when dealing with drug lords and other dealers of any kind.

Vienna often let’s her check up on her star employees whenever she’s not available to check on them herself.

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Name: Bircena Valladares

Age: 43

Height: 5’3”

Species: Object Head – Porcelain floral tea cup

Gender: Female

Sexual orientation: Heterosexual

Residence: Rooibos City

Occupation: Bar manager

Occupation location: Mascabado Nightclub in Rooibos City

Personality:

(+) Positive

+ Fun-loving

+ Jovial

+ Honest

+ Friendly

+ Laid-back

(-) Negative

- Shameless

- A bit lazy

- Talkative

- A bit childish for her age

- Passive-aggressive (if provoked)

- Sometimes inconsiderate

Ability:

Truth & Lie Detecting: She has the ability to detect if the person is telling the truth or if they’re lying, her eyes also glow when using it. An interesting and useful power to Vienna

Likes:

+ Conversating with people, especially with family

+ Desserts

+ Having fun at parties

+ Fashion

Dislikes:

- Boredom

- Silence

- Her sister nagging

- Rude people

- Liars

Family:

•  Brevea Valladares (older sister)

•  Lecher Valladares (younger brother)

•  Bombon Posada/Valladares (sister-in-law)

•  Caramelita Valladares (niece)

•  Mocha Valladares (niece)

•  Raf Valladares (nephew)

•  Marocchino Valladares (father, deceased)

•  Meadella Rafael/Valladares (mother, deceased)

Interesting Facts:

Speaks English, Spanish and Italian

Her dream was to become a singer when she was younger, but later lost interest and decided to run a bar so she can experiment with favorable alcoholic drinks.

She thinks that honesty is the best policy to avoid further trouble, plus she thinks that lying is a dumb decision.

She and Vienna, are in very good terms with each other, since she has proven to her that she can help her to deal with any people if they’re trying to lie to her. Plus the only things they have in common is partying and fashion.

[gayregis]

what signs do u hc everyone as?

i feel like @watersofbrokilon can answer this way better than i can but off of the top of my head... for some of them i have moon headcanons and for some i only have sun headcanons... 

the sign descriptions which are there to show what i think applies to them from the signs i chose for them are copied and pasted from https://www.horoscope.com/

geralt: cancer sun

Emotional, intuitive, and practically psychic (...) Cancer has so much going on in its watery depths. Cancers may seem prickly and standoffish at first meeting, once they make the decision to become friends with someone, that person has a friend for life.

(...)  Finally, Cancer is incredibly loyal, sometimes to a fault. Cancers will go to the ends of the earth and even against their own beliefs to help someone they love.

yennefer: taurus sun, cancer moon

Smart, ambitious, and trustworthy (...) Taureans value honesty above all else (...) Bulls get the reputation of being stubborn, but they're not always stuck in their ways. This searching sign is willing to see another point of view, but they won't flip-flop on an opinion just to make someone else happy. 

(...) With a rep as one of the hardest-working signs in the Zodiac, a Bull is never afraid to roll up those sleeves and get to work, and won't blink an eye at pulling an all-nighter to get the job done. But it's not all work for Taurus. Anchored by the earth, this passionate sign is all about sensuality, and is always seeking out pleasure. Whether they're indulging in luxurious massages, spending hours in bed with their lover, or going on a long run, Taureans love feeling present in their body and frequently need to get in touch with their physical self. (...) 

While Taurus has an intense internal drive, they sometimes have trouble respecting authority, especially if asked to do something they think is pointless or should be done differently. 

ciri: taurus sun, scorpio moon

Passionate, independent, and unafraid to blaze their own trail no matter what others think, Scorpios make a statement wherever they go. They love debates, aren't afraid of controversy, and won't back down from a debate. They also hate people who aren't genuine, and are all about being authentic—even if authentic isn't pretty.

dandelion: leo sun, cancer moon

Intense and energetic, Leos thrive on social interactions and have no problem making friends—although pinning them down to spend time with you is another story. Leos put themselves first, and will turn down a plan that doesn't fit with their agenda or idea of fun. This trait has gained them an unfair reputation for arrogance. But on the flip side, when a Lion chooses to spend time with you, it's genuinely because he or she wants to. (...)  Leos love the pull of the limelight, and they're occasionally swayed by what other people want (or expect) them to do.

milva: sagittarius sun, aries moon

Independent and strong-willed, Sagittarius personalities are all about going off the beaten path. Sagittarius isn’t afraid to step away from the pack (...)  Sagittarius is open-hearted, generous, and big-spirited, but Sagittarius is always truthful. Because of this, they may hurt others’ feelings, or may be called out for not having tact or empathy. The latter is not true. With their keen imagination, Sagittarius is adept at putting themselves in another person’s shoes, but they do not feel the need to beat around the bush or lie. You can trust a Sagittarius to tell you what they really think. You can also trust a Sagittarius, period. Unlike other signs, they won’t spill any secrets.

Rams may also have a short fuse. That fiery temper can be an asset. When an Aries is angry, they'll never play the passive-aggressive card. But for people who don't know them well, their temper can be a turn off. Learning how to work out their anger—whether by going to the gym every day, taking some deep breaths, or learning to chill before they Tweet their thoughts to the world—is a lifelong process for Rams.

regis: aquarius sun, libra moon

Independent and enigmatical, Aquarians are unique. There is no one quite like an Aquarius, and because each is so incredibly individual, it can be tough to describe them as a group. (...) Aquarians believe in the nature of change and evolution, and even though they're a fixed sign, they may not necessarily believe they are the "same" people they were when they were born.

Intelligent, kind, and always willing to put others before themselves, Libras value harmony in all forms. Ruled by Venus, the planet of beauty, Libra adores a life that looks good. As the master of compromise and diplomacy, Libra is adept at seeing all points of view, and excels at crafting compromises and effecting mediation between others.

cahir: virgo sun, gemini moon

Virgo gets the job done without complaining. (...) Virgos expect perfection from themselves, and they may project those high standards on the other people in their life. (...)  Virgo has a rich inner life, and can sometimes seem shy at first meeting. A Virgo won't spill secrets right away, and it's important to earn a Virgo's trust. But once you do, that Virgin will be a friend for life.

Gemini is characterized by the Twins, Castor and Pollux, and is known for having two different sides they can display to the world. (...) Energetic and quick-witted, Gemini never gets stuck in the past and doesn't ruminate on what might have been. Instead, they move forward with glass-half-full optimism and an ability to always look on the bright side—and land on their feet—in nearly any situation. 

angoulême: aries sun

An Aries will always tell you what they're thinking, with a frankness that may occasionally border on rudeness. But even if an Aries seems overly blunt with their opinion, that's only because Rams value honesty above all else. And it works both ways. While an Aries may be the first to say if they think that you just phoned in a project, they'll also be the first to compliment you for a job well done. 

[foxsstoriesarchive]

Hogwarts Houses; Negatives and Positives

Hogwarts houses; Negatives and Positives

[ Master list of traits I’ve found over 40 different pages, from the official ones right up to tumblr house analysis blogs] [[ Remember that it is not only the traits that we display, as well as the traits that we value in ourselves as people. Hermione is the prime example of that; She didn’t end up in Ravenclaw because she valued her determination and bravery over her intelligence. What personal traits you value as a person greatly influence where you end up.- We all carry traits of all houses after all.] Gryffindor Positive Traits: Courage Daringness Nerve Athletic Popular Bravery Heroic Chivalry Determination Fearless Strong sense of justice Individualistic High spirited Rooted in the present Enjoying the ‘here and now’ Charming Gryffindor Negative Traits: Reckless / Reckless risk-takers Egoistic Arrogant Self-righteous Over-dramatic Short-tempered Hotheaded Self-righteous Thoughtless Act-before-think ‘Pointless Heroics’ No regard for rules? More concerned about glory Self-obsessed Easily bored Too competitive Impulsive Their motives aren’t always the best Eye-for-an-eye personality Slytherin Positive Traits: Perseverance Cunning Hard work Ambition Achivement-Orientation Determination Cleverness Resourcefulness Fraternity Strong leaders Good listeners Risk-takers Fair Teamwork-Orientated Shrewd High senses of Self-Preservation Think-before-Act Self Assured Confident Incredibly loyal Deep Unrequired Love Mysterious Competitive Loyal Street Smart Slytherin Negative Traits: Power hungry Coldblooded Certain disregard for rules Hard time trusting people Ends justify the means Tough exterior Procrastinators Clique-y Self-absorbed Machiavellian Opportunistic Having little to no concern for others Bossy Obsession to the point of cutting themselves off from other aspects of their life Ravenclaw Positive Traits: Creativity Intelligence Knowledge Wit Strong sense of self Quirkiness Uniqueness Open Mindness Originality Sef-sufficient Acceptance Individuality Wisdom Hard working Diligent Curiosity Passionate Forward-Thinking Independent Good conversationalists Organised Awe and Mystery orientated Ravenclaw Negative Traits: Antisocial (Dismiss social interaction) Perfectionalists Cold-appearing Using means to get by Superiority complex Fame-Orientated Blunt / Rude More interested in reading their own books than what they’re supposed to read for class Bad at small talk Too busy daydreaming to pay attention to their surroundings Arrogance Pedantic Hufflepuff Positive Traits: Loyalty Hard Working Dedication Honesty Friendliness Fair Play Patience Unafraid of toil Tolerance Benevolent Acceptance Honest Rather Imperial Modest Moral Code Sense of right and wrong Value everyone / treat everyone as equal House with least rivalry Charitable Selfless People-smart Family and comfort-orientated Passionate Good team members Hufflepuff Negative Traits: Too conflict averted Goody-two-shoes Easily walked over Lack of drive Trouble expressing their feelings Shy / Timid Afraid of being alone Too forgiving/faithful in people to point of naivety Passive-aggressive Avoidance of any risk-taking Don’t speak their minds Easily frustrated with tasks they have to take on their own

[dietyprophet]

So the Sports Festival in Painted Smiles

- It goes as is when it’s announced that the sports festival is coming up and junk.

- Izuku makes small remarks about certain things of course like Uraraka’s serious mode.

- “Ara ara!~ You sure are looking scary serious there, Uraraka! Though it looks like you’re about to faint too.”

- He also makes a remark about Uraraka wanting to be a hero for money.

- “Ara ara, I never would have suspect it! Espically since you don’t act at all as someone who’s just wants money and makes people pay for borrowing simple things like 200 yen for an eraser.~”

- Uraraka isn’t sure if that’s suppose to be a compliment or not but she takes it as is.

- Cue All Might and Izuku having a meeting with Izuku making some passive aggressive remarks on the way!

- “Maa maa, you’re going to make others suspicious you know that, All Might?~ That was pretty stupid to do, calling me up when I’m with two of my classmates! What if they told the rest of the class now and they start questioning why you ask me for lunch, Mr. Number 1 dummy?~”

- Izuku does not stand the assumption that the USJ was just to bring in clout for 1-A

- “Ara ara…~ I am glad that such a traumatic event to us is so sought out for by everyone! Oh yes, our teacher nearly dying and getting viciously injured while the rest of my classmate were separated and had to fight against criminals who will not hesistate to kill them!… That is what you all want right?~”

- Never before has a crowd of students gone silent so damn quickly but hey that’s Izuku “blunt ass words” Midoriya for you!

- Okay but after Izuku pretty much one shots Todoroki with “Ara ara!~ I can see why people don’t like you Todoroki.” some members remark that what he said was pretty harsh while some say that it was a very bold statement.

-One certain student says that it takes some manly guts to even say something like that after a declaration of war!

- Izuku @ Bakugo when he does his pledge: Ara ara, Kacchan!!~ That was very rude you know, now you’ll make everyone just as hated as you are!!

- Alright but let this be a known fact that Izuku is seen as being quite pretty, some would even say he’ll grow to become a natural beauty. The Buisness course students are the ones to primarily take note of this fact and shit.

- Ever felt like you thought you knew what fear was until you stare at your own fucking demise? Yeah that was Todoroki at the cavalry battle seeing the smiling face of one Izuku Midoriya coming to get back his headband.

- The Shinsho vs Izuku fight goes about the same as it does in canon with a slight difference being how Izuku gets mind controlled.

- Izuku doesn’t respond to anything until Shinsho says that he should quit doing that freaky smile and then gets put under his control.

- Half the reason how he gets out of it is not only due to OfA’s being an ex machina but also his mother fucking anger skyrocketing beyond hell and back.

- Izuku @ Shinsho: Ara ara that was very rude now.~ Shinsho: Is this how I fucking die?

- Izuku has no fucking mercy with his words for the Todoroki family it seems in this arc.

- I’m debating here if Izuku would actually win this or lose like in canon cause unlike canon this Izuku most likely to will it out of pure fucking spite in al honesty.

- Hero secret! Izuku isn’t truly aware of him being that pretty due to his years of being bullied and having his facade on, so it was only until he starts UA that he even hears compliments of being considered pretty and a natural beauty!

And that’s it for now! Come yell at me if you’re interested and want to know more!

[missmentelle]

How to Support a Partner with Autism

After nearly two years of being single following a very difficult breakup, I got into a new relationship last year. Although we had a bit of a rocky start - as regular readers of this blog already know - we have managed to overcome our issues and build a happy, affectionate, stable relationship with each other. My new guy has all of the traits I was looking for in a partner - he’s kind, thoughtful, and considerate. He's dependable, and even though I’m not a morning person, I gladly wake up early to exchange “good morning” texts with him, filled with flirty compliments and encouragement for the day ahead. We share the same interests and values, and there’s nothing I look forward to more than curling up in his arms at the end of a long day. After years of living with a partner who seemed determined to grind me down, my new guy is the first person I’ve ever dated who puts an effort into building me up instead. 

He also happens to be on the Autism spectrum. 

My partner is from a European country with some of the worst protections for autistic human rights in the developed world, and his diagnosis has been a source of deep shame for him. He has lived his whole life under serious stigma, and he had hoped that moving to America would make things a little better for him. My friends and family’s reactions to finding out my partner is autistic, however, have been disappointing, even in an age and country where autism acceptance is on the rise. Many of them don’t understand why I would want to have an autistic partner, or they are surprised to learn that autistic people date at all. It’s not entirely surprising that they think this way - although there is more information out there about autism than ever, and depictions of autism in popular media are on the rise, it is still rare to see autistic people presented as sexually desirable, or to see serious conversations about dating and sex with people on the spectrum. When we are shown autistic people in dating situations, either their social awkwardness is played for laughs, or they are portrayed as only being capable of dating other autistic people. The idea that autistic people can have happy, mutually fulfilling romantic relationships with non-autistic people is not often explored in media or in resources about autism, and I have to look pretty hard to find advice or examples of relationships that look like mine. 

So if you’re a non-autistic person who is in love with an autistic person, and you’re worried about how best to support your partner’s needs, here are my personal recommendations:

Ask your partner what they need. Your partner has been living with their quirks for a lot longer than you have, and by this point, they probably have a good idea of what works for them and what doesn’t. Don’t guess, and don’t make assumptions - ask your partner what they need from you, in plain and direct language. The things that worked in your previous relationships might not work for this partner, and it’s better to discuss your partner’s needs ahead of time rather than learning that they don’t like something after they’ve already gotten stressed out or upset. 

Beware of stereotypes. Don’t assume that you know what an autistic person needs just because you sat through three episodes of Atypical and half a season of The Big Bang Theory. Autistic people have as much variety as non-autistic people, and your partner is probably very different from every other autistic person you know. My boyfriend is the guitarist in a heavy metal band and routinely performs in noisy bars - he doesn’t experience sensory processing issues to the same degree that other people with autism do. He does have a hard time with written communication, while some autistic people literally write novels. Everyone is different, and relying on stereotypes is unfair to your partner. 

Be prepared to face communication difficulties. One of the hallmarks of autism is that it makes communication difficult. That’s kind of what autism is. While previous partners might have been able to effortlessly read your meaning from a single glance or a gentle nudge, your autistic partner may have difficulties doing the same, and getting angry at them for not picking up on subtle nuances is just going to make you both upset. Finding a way to communicate is essential for all couples, but it may require more dedicated effort when one or both of you has communication issues. Get used to saying exactly what you mean - many people with autism struggle to parse sarcasm or passive aggression, and you can’t have a productive relationship when one of you has to work a lot harder to understand what the other is getting at. If you are the sort who loves to tease, check in with your partner and make sure they know when you are kidding and when you aren’t. Debrief after difficult interactions to see where you both could have done things differently. Your partner is worth the effort.

Learn to not take things personally. People with autism can be very blunt, and sometimes struggle to know when they have crossed the line from “telling it like it is” to “hurting others’ feelings”. They may also have moments where they want to socially withdraw, or moments when they do not want to be physically touched. It’s important not to take any of it personally, and to remember that your partner’s moods and needs are not always about you. Your partner isn’t trying to hurt you - they are just trying to exist in a world that isn’t always comfortable for them. My partner and I have a double barrier to communication that can sometimes lead to unintended offense; there is a language gap between us, as his English is not perfect, and I am barely conversational in his native tongue. There are plenty of times he has accidentally said something harsh, or chosen unnecessarily harsh wording. He struggles to find the right words to comfort someone, especially over text message, and when I’m worried about something he will often say “I don’t care about this” - not because he’s telling me to shut up, but because he can’t find the words to say “I am confident that everything is going to work out okay, and so I am not concerned about this issue and you shouldn’t be either”. Having a partner with autism often means extending the benefit of the doubt, letting things go, and asking your partner for clarification before responding to what they say.

Don’t drop hints or expect mind-reading. You shouldn’t do this in any relationship, but it’s especially important that you not do this with an autistic partner. Autistic partners cannot play the “what’s wrong - I’m fine - no you’re not - I said I’m fine” game with you; you have to tell them outright if something is bothering you, instead of hoping they will notice you are obviously in a pissy mood. Use your words. Social connections do not always come naturally to your partner, and asking them to make the connection between an offhand comment you made a week ago and your mood today is just going to make everyone needlessly frustrated. If you didn’t say it in plain language, don’t expect them to know what you want.

Remember that honesty is a double-edged sword. People with autism often do not see the point in lying. If I ask my boyfriend if I look fat in my new dress, he will absolutely give me an honest answer, and then make several suggestions for changes that I might make to my diet and exercise regime. He is not trying to be rude, and he doesn’t actually want me to lose weight - he is giving me the answer that he thought I wanted. Don’t ask your autistic partner questions that you don’t want honest answers to. The little voice in your head that tells you “the truth is going to hurt this person’s feelings too much, time for a white lie” doesn’t work for everyone, and your partner may have a hard time understanding when you are actually hoping to be lied to. 

Understand that you may need to initiate things. People with autism tend to face a lot of social rejection in their lives, and by the time they reach dating age, it can really begin to take a toll on them. They are used to seeing themselves portrayed as sexually and socially undesirable, and they may have come to believe that dating is off the table for them. Most have been burned before for coming on too strong, or for making their feelings known when their interest wasn’t returned, and they may be hesitant to make the first move. My partner has actually been in a lot more relationships than I have, but almost never of his own volition - he is objectively extremely physically attractive, especially to women who like men from alternative subcultures, and he has been fortunate enough to have other people constantly make the first move. Even at this stage in the relationship, I often have to be the one to initiate affection - he is wary of coming on too strong, and prefers to wait for me to make a move.

Be prepared to offer a lot of reassurance. My partner struggles to identify other people’s moods or read facial expressions. He cannot tell a “I’m genuinely happy to be interacting with you” smile from a “I’m trying to be polite but I want you to go away” smile, and he knows it. It’s very stressful to not be able to tell what kind of impact you’re having with another person, and sometimes people with autism need extra reassurance that their partners are enjoying whatever it is they are doing and want it to continue. A quick “hey, I really like that you hugged me just now, it made me really happy” goes a long way.

Don’t infantalize your partner. Your partner is an adult with autism. They are not a child, and they don’t need to be treated like one. The fact that they might sometimes need extra patience with communication does not mean that they need to be coddled, talked down to, or pitied. People with autism deserve to be respected like any other adult - you should not be trying to shelter them or undermining their ability to make decisions for themselves. Let them take risks if they want to take risks, and don’t act like their substitute parent. 

Plan dates and activities with their needs in mind. Even if your partner can handle going to a noisy bar, that’s probably not the place to meet up with them if you need to have an emotionally tough conversation with them. Some autistic people struggle with food - a trip to a restaurant with completely unfamiliar cuisine may be more stressful than exciting for them. Likewise, while popular media pushes the idea that being “spontaneous” is important for a love connection, many people with autism are much happier having a set routine and knowing about any plans well in advance. If my partner and I have a date set for next week, he will text me every day until then to confirm our plans. Don’t worry about what the world finds “romantic” - do what works best for the two of you.

Remember that they still feel emotions, even if they can’t always show it. People often make the mistake of assuming that people with autism are “emotionless” or “robotic”. But an inability to express emotions outwardly does not mean they aren’t being experienced on the inside. People with autism can experience very intense emotions, but not show outward signs of this. Don’t assume that your partner is feeling nothing just because they seem placid and calm - check in with them, even if they appear to be okay. 

Enjoy them for who they are. The whole point of getting into a relationship with someone was, presumably, because you enjoy spending time with them. So keep spending time with them. It’s important to be mindful of barriers that your partner faces, but it’s also important not to get too wrapped up in it and reduce your partner to a label. My partner is autistic, but he’s also my cooking partner, my travel buddy and the person whose ass I am going to kick just as soon as I get good at shooter games. There’s no point trying to divide him up into “autistic traits” and “non-autistic traits”. He’s a whole wonderful person, and someone I feel very lucky to even know. 

[hopetruest]

NAGITO  KOMAEDA’S  CHANGE  IN  TEMPER  ( & how he may act. )   As I mentioned in my previous headcanon,  Nagito’s view on somebody will alter based on whether or not he sees them as above him or on par with his self-proclaimed ‘worthlessness’.   Generally speaking he is a well-mannered,  friendly,  quiet,  co-operative,  and modest person as well as being intelligent & philosophical --- He waxes on an array of various topics.   He also has incredible problem solving skills,  and is able to perceive situations in a different light compared to that of a neurotypical person which proves to be highly efficient during the Killing School Trip.   As is also typical in people on the spectrum / people with neurodivergent conditions he is capable of misreading social cues,  and can come off as abrasive or even cold when speaking to someone,  which can greatly upset those around him,  all the meanwhile Nagito is oblivious to his mistake.   His naturalistic views are blunt and the brusque way he approaches them is linked his to his trauma --- In other words,  his attitude is  “I’ve had to accept this and so should you”.

When angered or upset  ( usually due to somebody not meeting his standards or letting him down )  he will become overtly passive aggressive;  Sassing the offender,  and mocking them so dryly his intention is to hurt their intelligence should they notice or not.   Despite how gentle he can be,  he’s capable of malice.   In some cases he shows symptoms of his Frontotemporal Dementia in the way he reacts poorly --- A drastic change in his “neutral” personality,  vicious comments / acting rude / being insensitive,  etc.   However,  too can he show malice as part of having a spiteful and embittered personality,  illness is merely a situational factor.   Nagito has many facets,  and has a tendency to put on a front if the circumstances call for it,  but that’s not to say he’s not capable of good & honesty & hopefulness --- In fact he is genuine at heart and wants to see that so desperately in others,  hence his emotional deflection & hostility when it’s removed.

AT HIS BEST,  NAGITO IS :   Down to earth,  generous,  kind,  humble,  philanthropic,  helpful,  encouraging,  level-headed,  sympathetic / empathetic,  caring,  compassionate,  clever,  intelligent,  logical,  open-minded,  creative,  innovative,  selfless,  faithful,  positive,  accommodating,  diplomatic.

AT HIS WORST,  NAGITO IS :   Judgemental,  spiteful,  pessimistic,  derisive,  dangerous / reckless,  hateful,  insensitive,  selfish,  arrogant,  irrational,  unhealthily obsessive,  self-destructive,  stubborn,  unwilling,  uncooperative.

[wontonsupremacy]

Me and my friend was actually just talking about this on the car until it was 3am in front of my house.

Two years ago, I met him during an exclusively bad situation with my worst depression, my worst relationship where I was practically locked up, date raped, verbally fought, misgendered and occasionally beaten, I opened up to him who was the only lost honest soul that I could trust.

He was absolutely blunt at anything and I knew he was someone who could also bluntly callout things to my abusive boyfriend. He was gay, and my abuser who didn’t have the capacity to comprehend transgender called him safe ground for me to speak because “you won’t cheat on him, and he won’t date you ever because you’re a girl”.

I ended up relying heavily on him as a rant-station. He had drama, I had drama, he seemed to like hearing it and it was so fun to hear someone roast my boyfriend with me and it made the abuse almost tolerable. I missed being gay, I missed having my gay gal friends and I really loved talking to him. Not just because I could talk to him about my abuse but also because he was a great person.

But one day he told me straight up as he always was, “you need to get a therapist. You can talk to me but not about this John shit.” Technically he told me he wasn’t taking anymore of it, and to me it seemed so abrupt. He hadn’t had this attitude until that day, and I thought he liked drama and I’d given as much as I could. We were smoking buddies and I thought I’d done everything that a trusting friend would.

I’m someone who only opens up about my personal life to a select few. If I tell you anything about my inner issues then you’ve really been selected as a friend. It’s supposed to be an honor to hear someone’s issues but equally important to share for people like me. He was the opposite. He was the type to tell everyone about everything, from his bowel movements to his love life and parents.

I didn’t take it. I felt so betrayed and angry. To think that he would take my important “life information” that I thought he was privileged to hear, especially when he knew how big of an issue it was for me, how horrible of a life I was living and that really he was the only strand of help I had, and he told me to deal with it? By myself?

I told myself he’s cut off from that point on. That he was no longer my friend and that we were no more than acquaintances. I dreaded seeing him at the Board meeting and I never talked to him there either. For the last strand, I sent him a passive aggressive apology saying “I thought we were better friends than this and I’m sorry I overtalked your boundaries but~~”

And bruh. He left it on read.

Apparently, later he said he probably saw the long message decided to read it later and just never did because we both used such archaic apps that we never used and I didn’t even have him on a real msg platform like Facebook or phone number till a bit back. Since I’m not salty I was like eh yeah okay whatever, you’re just always like this and I guess I learned to be okay with it—kind of attitude.

But I guess I’m the car I found out as I told him I hated him for a bit and told myself that he is completely going to be cut off; he said “omg really? Same!!”

And yes I was lowkey astonished, butthurt, then concerned— I asked him “when” just to make sure.

As it turns out it was about the same time I was trying to get done with him. Apparently he came to terms that he was just being a bitch when a friend needed him, and he should be there for them.

But I also, after realizing why I didn’t really want to cut him off— I realized that I actually really liked him. That he had qualities I admired, he was hilarious, he was sassy, he was always ready to roast people in a fun way, while he could be rude he was motivated to learn, and he told stories in the most intriguing way.

Aside from his brutal honesty, harsh comments and “rude” personality, I had things I really liked of him. So I set up a mindset that I’d emotionally distance myself and still enjoy him as a person.

I thought I’d never trust him with my personal issues anymore, and I stayed closed to him for a while. I moved out of state and didn’t even message him until I visited town and I asked if the Board committee needed any help/volunteers.

But him being an open book, we hung out that day and as I passive aggressively teased him about him being a dick, we ended up talking things out. He also told me a lot of personal things, and the withdrawal of him and I as rant partners made us bond more equally and re-evaluate each other.

I stuck to the fact that he has many other qualities than just a rant-partner. He became more of a friend I actually liked more than relied on, and while the latter is great, I’ve found what to say to him, how to listen, and how to consider his feelings too as a rant-listener.

I hadn’t expected us to last so long honestly, but we’re doing pretty good now and I still love hanging out with him. I realize he’s also a lot more sensitive than his mouth tells us.

So lesson learned: sometimes friends that don’t deal with your bullishit are your friends. As long as you know why you’re friends and accept their flaws too.

Not to self: Always remember to listen and reconsider the other person’s feelings. That maybe they’ve got a lot on their plate and that it’s you who’s actually not dealing with their bullshit.

-Gin

[idolomantises]

Are you normal or do you yell at and berate autistic people because you think asking questions and blunt honesty is passive aggression and being rude.

The autistic experience is watching people make/reblog think pieces about how autistic people shouldn’t be scrutinized for their behavior when you know a lot of them will still scrutinize autistic behaviors that are unappealing.

[themomsandthecity]

How to Raise a Strong, Independent, Bitchy Woman

We're happy to present this article by Laura Lifshitz from one of our favorite sites, YourTango. I am not a b*tch all the time, sadly. I am a go-getter and I am usually straightforward about how I feel, but I don't assert myself like a b*tch does. Why would I want to be a b*tch, you ask? And what is a b*tch, b*tch? Well, to the outside world, the word "b*tch" has a negative connotation: a nasty woman who tears others down and selfishly only acts in her own interests. A b*tch cares about nobody but herself! But I've reframed the definition to be positive and I'm recommending - yes, recommending - that you raise your girls to be b*tches. Here's how: 1. A b*tch never diminishes her character. A b*tch is a female who acts in her own interests and considers others' needs as well, but not to the point of diminishing her own character. There have been times in my life when I have been a dreadful doormat. I said yes to things I didn't want to say yes to, and reluctantly let men walk all over me. A b*tch thinks of others - but not to the point in which her self-esteem and life suffers. When my daughter told a 40-year-old man to "please move" because it was her turn during a game of basketball, I was impressed with her chutzpah. Was she direct? Yes? Did she hurt him? No! She acted in her own interest in a healthy manner. A b*tch doesn't apologize for taking care of herself. Encourage your girls to speak out when someone is hurting them or treating them badly. Encourage your girls to articulate what they need from you and other people. When they have grown up, you won't be there to speak for them, so teach them to speak for themselves now. 2. A b*tch does not apologize for her feelings. One day, a strong woman somewhere decided to say how she felt without dumbing it down, softening the blow, or apologizing for her feelings before she opened her mouth. And then she was called a b*tch. I ask each one of you: how great does it really feel to always have to "soften" the blow about your hurt or angry feelings? Do you feel amazing when you have to apologize for your emotions? It sucks. It sucks to have to cater to everyone else. Do men do that? Not usually. If being a b*tch means telling people how you feel honestly and being able to stand up for yourself, then sign my daughter up today for the course on "How to Be a B*tch." I cultivate honesty in my daughter and tell her that if others make her feel bad, she needs to speak up and then ignore them and walk away. I teach her that she doesn't need to be around negative people and that when someone hurts her or makes her angry, she should speak up and say something - even if it's me she's mad at! Nurture that trait in your little girl: say something and don't be afraid. Most importantly, reconceptualize what it means to be assertive and female. Asserting yourself does not make you a jerk: being an aggressor does. Women are happier and stronger when they can assert themselves in healthy ways and not reduce themselves to passive-aggressive behavior. 3. A b*tch is not a "good girl." We often tell our daughters to be "good girls." What this typically means is please share, be quiet, avoid making mischief, and be polite. These are all wonderful and good, of course - nobody wants a rude child. But sometimes when we tell our girls to be good and quiet, we're actually saying, "Don't speak up, don't question anything, and do what everyone else wants you to do!" This is problematic. Do you want to raise a follower or a leader? Sure, not every person will be a leader, but if you can foster a sense of independence in your girl, you're giving her a leg up in the adult world later in life. Let your child do things for herself. Give her chores. My 4-year-old feeds the dog, sets the table, and puts her dirty laundry in the hamper. I am teaching her that she can own her own actions. When she's rude to someone, I make her solve the problem. I've had her apologize to a cashier before when she was only 2 years old. When she's with kids and they're acting out or perhaps she's bordering on making a bad choice, I ask her to think about it. I let her learn from her own natural consequences. If she can make a choice that won't hurt anyone, like pick her own clothes or decide an activity for the day, I let her. And sharing? Sharing is important, but let's be real here: sometimes we don't want to share our stuff - and that's OK. Teaching your kid when to share and when to say, "Sorry, this is my piece of cake," is crucial. Nourish that independent spirit in your daughter. That quote, "Well–behaved women rarely make history," is right for a reason. Embrace your daughter's right to be a b*tch. She will succeed later on in life. 4. A b*tch can do anything the boys can do. No b*tch (i.e., a successful, strong woman) believes she just "can't" do something because it's out of her skill set or not for women. When you start to segregate how "this is for girls" and "that is for boys," you essentially tell your daughter there are only certain things fit for her to do. False! The world is your child's oyster. Don't put up walls for her to break down: our society will give her walls to conquer as it is. There is no such thing as impossible. Let your daughter know this. Even if she wants to do something that's naturally difficult for her, cheer her on and let her figure out how to tackle her own goals and dreams. A b*tch owns her choices, pushes ahead, and goes for what she wants. Which would you rather be? A doormat whimpering in the corner? Or a b*tch who's eating that cake with a smile? Who is your daughter? Face it. Your daughter is who she is, whether that's quiet, bossy, demure, loud, or tough. Accept it and love her for her flaws, no matter what. My daughter is very blunt and doesn't sugarcoat what she thinks. While it sometimes surprises me to hear this little person's two cents served up straight, I admire her and know where I stand with her at all times. She's not like her sensitive Mama and that's fine. When we accept our children as is - rather than how we imagined them to be - we give them the permission to live authentically, and this should be what we want for our kids. A happy, true life. No one needs to pretend to be someone he or she is not. Allow your girl to be who she is with no apologies necessary. B*tches know who they are - and not only do they accept that, but they love themselves whether they're crazy as a bedbug or quiet as a mouse. You want your daughter to love herself, not hide out in a corner, hoping no one notices who she is, flaws and all. I have lived most of my life halfway between a doormat and a b*tch. I have always walked to the beat of my own drum and expressed how I felt, but I've also felt bad for who I was at times, apologized too much, and doubted my own potential. After my divorce, I am becoming more and more of a b*tch, and I'm glad. It is a long time coming. I refuse to let my daughter spend a day being sorry for who she is, and so should you. Raise your b*tch and raise her proud. We need strong female leaders to find a backdoor and say, "Screw the glass ceiling. I've got my entryway and I found it all by myself." More great reads from YourTango: Dear Moms: If Your Kid's Whiny, You Only Have Yourself to Thank The Life-Changing Lesson My Dad Taught Me After My Divorce 4 Reasons Promising to Love Someone "Forever" Is a Load of Sh*t NO, Asking to Be "Dominated" Doesn't Make Me Less of a Feminist 5 Stages of "New Person Sex" Every Divorced Woman Goes Through http://bit.ly/2n7aHS0

[celestialnecessities]

Signs and Their ~Negative~ Truthfulness

Aries: Impulsive, will say things without thinking and therefore prone to insulting by accident

Taurus: Blunt and calls people out, they 'tell it how it is' but is prone to publicly humiliating someone causing them to look as bad as their victim

Gemini: Talkative, even introverts once you get them going, but once they start they have no filter, might say something mean by accident

Cancer: Very observant so if you wrong them they'll bring up all those negative things they noticed from the past and use them against you; then, what can you do because they're not lying, they're just saying what they saw

Leo: Too candid. Will talk "crap" behind your back but say it to your face later. Also prone to publicly humiliate; they want an audience

Virgo: Very critical, finds flaws in everyone and no filter with words, will insult you if they don’t like something about you, they over glorify their honesty

Libra: Very rarely are mean they're pretty passive-aggressive, but if you try to twist their words they'll point out all the things morally wrong with you and your ways, and people are likely to side with them. Prone to playing victim

Scorpio: Lowkey brutally honest, they can get smug because they know they're right, might twist the truth though

Sagittarius: Sarcastically blunt, and a know-it-all with their words, no filter either and don’t care much for other people's feelings so when they say something rude they mean it and are probably right

Capricorn: Straightforward, forthright, honest but will belittle you with their words if angry, prone to making people feel stupid

Aquarius: Have a habit of calling people out unnecessarily (and publicly humiliating) but they most likely call you out with facts and proof yikes

Pisces: Kind of bad at lying so they have no choice but to speak the truth. When they do attempt to 'say it how it is' though, they'll be passive aggressive about it so they don't look bad but they do look bad because they're sugar coating / being too indirect

[carm3x]

Signs and Their ~Negative~ Truthfulness

Aries: Impulsive, will say things without thinking and therefore prone to insulting by accident

Taurus: Blunt and calls people out, they 'tell it how it is' but is prone to publicly humiliating someone causing them to look as bad as their victim

Gemini: Talkative, even introverts once you get them going, but once they start they have no filter, might say something mean by accident

Cancer: Very observant so if you wrong them they'll bring up all those negative things they noticed from the past and use them against you; then, what can you do because they're not lying, they're just saying what they saw

Leo: Too candid. Will talk "crap" behind your back but say it to your face later. Also prone to publicly humiliate; they want an audience

Virgo: Very critical, finds flaws in everyone and no filter with words, will insult you if they don’t like something about you, they over glorify their honesty

Libra: Very rarely are mean they're pretty passive-aggressive, but if you try to twist their words they'll point out all the things morally wrong with you and your ways, and people are likely to side with them. Prone to playing victim

Scorpio: Lowkey brutally honest, they can get smug because they know they're right, might twist the truth though

Sagittarius: Sarcastically blunt, and a know-it-all with their words, no filter either and don’t care much for other people's feelings so when they say something rude they mean it and are probably right

Capricorn: Straightforward, forthright, honest but will belittle you with their words if angry, prone to making people feel stupid

Aquarius: Have a habit of calling people out unnecessarily (and publicly humiliating) but they most likely call you out with facts and proof yikes

Pisces: Kind of bad at lying so they have no choice but to speak the truth. When they do attempt to 'say it how it is' though, they'll be passive aggressive about it so they don't look bad but they do look bad because they're sugar coating / being too indirect