#biphobes fuck off

[carmillas-vampiric-rage]

sapphic bisexuals only. non-bisexuals dni!!

one thing that kinda just- idk makes me insecure ab expressing my bisexuality through fictional characters (that don't have canon sexualities) is that there's this ease within sapphic circles to immediately invalidate it.

i don't feel comfortable headcanoning a beautiful fictional woman as bisexual-or even just saying she IS bisexual bc look at her bc I'll most likely get attacked and invalidated and told "bro she's def a lesbian" which- OBVIOUSLY is valid as fuck and i love seeing lesbian fictional characters both canon or otherwise- it just feels like sapphic bisexuals aren't viewed as valid as much as lesbians in fiction (in sapphic circles).

it's like they aren't gay or sapphic enough. some even just say that blatantly. it's discouraging as a sapphic bisexual. i love seeing lesbians talk about their fave non canon lesbians, it just feels like I can't do the same for non canon bisexual sapphics. it's not always said, but it's how bisexual sapphics are rarely part of the conversations in sapphic circles. we don't have the same ability to just unabashedly scream about our favorites bisexual sapphic who -again- doesn't have a canon sexuality.

it feels like i have to walk on eggshells and tell people "don't worry guys, I'm not actually saying she's a bisexual sapphic..." for fear of people jumping down my throat.

idk if this makes much sense- im just repeating the same thing in different ways lol- but i just needed to get it off my chest.

characters like leblanc from lol and claudia from iwtv are beautifully headcanoned as lesbians, i just hope i can also headcanon them as bisexuals. 🩷💜🩵

sapphic bisexuals please repost with your favorite non-canon sapphic bisexual!!!! i wanna see them!!!

here are mine!!!! 🩷💜🩵

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if you're a biphobe just waiting to comment some asinine shit- please reevaluate why you're such a fucking loser ✨

[thebisexualwreckoning]

"average bisexual cheats on their partners within every monogamous relationship" factoid actually just a statistical error. average bisexual is just like every other sexual identity and not more likely than a straight or gay person to cheat on their partner within a monogamous relationship. Lord Byron, who lives in victorian* england & cheats on 10,000 partners each day, is an outlier adn should not have been counted

*edit: Been made aware that lord byron actually lived in regency england. so sorry for my fuckup. im going to bed

[charmingradiobelle]

i wouldnt be surpised if some Charalastor haters tried to pull the shipping the confomired bi main chatater with a guy is somehow lesbian ereaser bullshit -_-

Oh they have. Believe me, these dumb fucks have tried pulling every “phobic” “erasure” bullshit in the book. They cannot except that Charlastor is, in fact, a queer ship regardless if it’s “straight presenting”. They refuse to acknowledge the fact that Charlie is bisexual, not a lesbian, and that asexuality is a spectrum (a lot of them are also the same people who ship him with literally every other goddamn character in existence).

As a bisexual woman myself, not only are these accusations offensive, but also confusing. Like y’all are out here preaching for wlw relationships while completely disregarding the fact that one of them is also attracted to men and is allowed to be paired with men. But god forbid you let bisexual people do what they want if they don’t fit into your idea of what a “perfect” bisexual looks like

[neurotypicalabusesurvivor]

Women who are attracted to only women in the 70s: we should have are own community

Women who are attracted to both men and women in the 70: cool so you are going to make your own separate community.

Women who are attracted to only women in the 70s: 😂😂😂 (kick bi and pan women out of the lesbian community)

Women who are attracted to both men and women in the 70: cool I am going to go by bi lesbians to describe my live experiences.

"lesbians" in 2024: OMG the concept of bi-lesbian is lesbophobic because I am incapable of doing a Google search on the history of the term.

[cilil]

🩷💜💙HAPPY BISEXUALITY DAY💙💜🩷

Especially to Melkor, the OG bisaster with zero game

Out or not, know that this fellow bi here is proud of you and that you're loved!

[macbxth-pdf]

Am I bugging or has there been an uptick in transphobia, radfem ideology and in fighting in the sapphic community? Maybe its me interacting with more with the sapphic community online but its hella concerning.

[perfect-bi-paradise]

[xkittzkornerx]

"bi men are always seen with other men so clearly they're actually gay!"

so close! <3 bi men are actually frequently treated like shit by cishet women. :O even the ones who claim to be ‘progressive' are often biphobic, and find it acceptable as 'diet homophobia,’ whether subconsciously or not.

[thediamondarcher]

"saying bi panic is an excuse to justify being attracted to the opposite sex and trying to make it gay"

WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT

[hell-is-a-teenage-girll]

The rage in me when I saw this biphobic post.

Also saying '' I can't be biphobic, my gf is bi''

.... 🤦

[angieblogging]

🥺

[jacquiarno]

The Viper class gives off bisexual vibes, especially with these crescent moon weapons. 🩷💜💙

[thevillainsfangirl]

Mileena is canonically bi, stop trying to erase that.

[whereserpentswalk]

oh litle baba i'm so sorry these people have convinced you youre a boy. you shouldn't feel ashamed of being a masc dyke. please don't cut off your breasts or take mutating chemicals, you dont have to pretend to be a boy to like girls or be masc. you would probably feel better if you got a chance to have s*x with another lesbian. wouldn't you like to have a fem girl touching you, and touching your breasts and loving you like a woman. i would love you and pet you and not incoruge you to be something your not

please dont mutalite yourself. there's are girls out there who will love you as a girl

Ah yes, the queer feminist tradition of (checks notes) corrective rape.

Outside of the genders this sounds no different to what a bigoted cishet man would say after a queer person he lusted. You're repeating the exact same talking points that the people who want to rape YOU. The people who you promote will not spare you.

[acid-smoke]

Hi, this is not how being bi works. Bi people don’t stop being bi just because they marry someone. Bis dont “pick a side”

If you think that this is how being bisexual works then please leave.

[satoko567]

Regarding an explicitly biphobic/implicitly queerphobic mess of a Dear Abby column

@znj

Responding in a new post because I couldn't fit a thoughtful response to this into the character limit for a tumblr comment But this is unfortunately a fairly measured response from the parents as far as baby boomer/gen x parental responses to this sort of thing go in my experience. Obviously, asking the daughter to not bring her same sex partners around is homophobic and Not Good, but they are as far as I can tell explicitly acknowledging her sexuality rather than challenging it, and are also not blaming her for the broken engagement, and are writing out of concern for her because of how her ex-fiance treated her and how her partners after that treated her. The also seem to consider her problems with her same sex partners as an extension of a pattern that also included how her opposite sex-fiance treated her. I also don't think that they're blaming her daughter for what they see as bad relationships but are rather concerned for her wellbeing. A proper response from a columnist would make it clear that the string of unfortunate relationships has nothing to do with her sexuality, highlighting the connection/thread between the biphobic opposite sex ex-fiance who mistreated her and her partners after that, would suggest that the issue most likely has to do with her daughter's sense of self-esteem and self-worth, and that they should both do their best to support her and try to encourage her to seek proper professional counseling to try to change that perspective. Getting into and staying in toxic relationships because of a lack of self-worth is both a problem I have had myself and have known many other women who have had (and I am sure men have this problem too). Instead the columnist opens with bisexual erasure and then tells her to seek lgbt-specific counseling for an issue that is irrelevant to her sexuality. I would say that the column is not only one of the worst messes I have ever seen come out of dear abbie relative to the current year but actively worse than the letter despite the columnist attempting to take a smug lib position wrt LGBT.