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Same thing for bisexual in relationships with nonbinary, genderfluid, agender etc that people people call pansexuals. It's bi erasure and transphobic!!!!

Calling a canon bisexual woman a lesbian becuase she has a female love interest or is in a wlw relationship is bisexual erasure and biphobic!!!!

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Now this is what personal growth looks like kids. If you're not Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, or transgender, then you're not LGBT there is no 'A' for a reason. Please seek professional help if this offends your feelings.

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It’s almost as if pansexuality has consistently been used to actively erase bisexuality because people hate us so goddamn much

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So I learned that popular long time bisexual comic book character John Constantines' bisexuality (John has been bi in DC Comics since 1992) has been erased by biphobic writer 'Si Spurrier'. His so called explaination for this erasure said he believed "bisexuality to not be inclusive of trans or nonbinary people", which is 100% FALSE. This biphobic and transphobic erasure is exactly why bisexual visibility month exists.

In response to this outright biphobia a Change petition was create. Please feel free to click the link and sign it and let bisexual voices be heard!

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Know your Bisexual history; in the beginning! A fun and interesting fact about bisexuality is the term (Bisexual) didn't start out as a sexuality, but infact as a botany term! In 1792 bisexuality was used to describe flowers that had both male and female reproductive sex organs and characteristics. These flowers were seen as "perfect" as they were able to self pollinate and had very few issues. Bisexuality didn't make the jump to humans until 1842, first as a term used to describe people who we now call intersex, then in 1892 bisexuality was and still used today to describe people who experienced the two types of attraction of homosexual (homo meaning same as) and heterosexual (hetero meaning different from) which covers attraction to all regardless of sex or gender.

(Taken from Bisexuality Means Regardless of Gender, on Facebook)

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I saw your post saying that bisexuality is the attraction to men, women and nonbinary people (all genders) and it's NOT the attraction to men and women only. I always thought pansexuality was the attraction to men, women and nonbinary people (all genders) and bisexuality was the attraction to men and women only so I'm confused by this post. Does this mean pansexuality is the attraction to men and women only? Did I get them the wrong way round?

The best answer I have to explain this is from my favorite bi page on Facebook and a link to a very good article about bisexual history.

So I wanna start off and say that I understand your confusion. A lot of people I'm sad to say have grown up with a very limited understanding of bisexuality because with the exception of a lucky few, most of us didn't have access to bisexual history or activism and got the bare minimum and narrow description of bisexuality which is the common "attracted to men and woman."

While bisexuals being attracted to men and woman is a technically correct definition since bisexuality does include them, it's not the whole truth and leaves out about 99% of the entire story. What people think that pansexuality is, is in truth what bisexuality has always been.

When it comes to there being a "difference" between bi and pan, honestly there really is no difference between Bi or Pan that many bisexuals cis, trans, and nonbinary alike have pointed out, doesn't end up relying on biphobia, transphobia, bi-erasure of bisexual history or just a lot of misinformation.

The whole reason pansexuality even became popular is because a 2002 Live Journal post by a teenager who also had no knowledge of bisexuality or it's history, said bisexuality was transphobic and only included cis men & woman which ended up spreading biphobia, and transphobia from there because the overwhelming majority of people just didn't have anyone to say "hey that's wrong, this is what bisexuality is" and set the record straight.

In reality bisexuality has always included and welcomed trans, nonbinary, and gender non conforming people even before we had modern terminology to describe them.

The definition "Regardless of gender" itself was invented by bisexual activists to define bisexuality and the modern bisexual movement that started in the 70's. So regardless of gender is bisexualities real definition.

Many people inappropriately try to use the "bi" prefix to argue what bisexuality should mean, and that is called an etymology fallacy. The "bi" in bisexuality doesn't represent a quantity of genders and never has. It refers to bridging the attraction patterns of homo (same as) and hetero (different from) which covers all regardless of gender because it's not based on gender in the first place. People using etymological fallacies to define bi as binary to justify biphobia is wrong and in the end hurts bisexuals. Though I'm just explaining and in no way accusing anybody of doing so.

Unfortunately since a lie and misinformation spread faster than the truth it's taken 20 years to put the pieces of knowledge of what bisexuality truly means back together that were lost or buried due to bi-erasure.

To quote Bisexual activists Janet Bode who invented the definition of regardless of gender in her book (The Pressure Cooker) : "Being bisexual does not mean having sexual relations with both sexes, but that they are capable of meaningful and intimate involvement with a person regardless of gender" - 1976

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don’t you ever wish you could just be happy? isn’t it tiresome to hate so many people?

Don't you wish you had better things to do with your time than be a terminally online troll on Tumblr? Isn't it tiresome to be such an incel that you try to assume what people other than yourself think, feel, or have going on in their lives because you've got nothing better to do? Please go touch grass and find yourself a hobby, or better yet actually be a productive member of society 💅

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Hey everyone, I'd like to take a moment to talk about a somewhat misunderstood bisexual symbol. This symbol consists of four symbols linked together; these are the signs for female, infinity, intersex, and male. Now what makes this symbol misunderstood to the point many bisexuals reject it's use is that they see the gendered male and female symbols and believe it only represents attraction to only two genders, a notion the bisexual community has rejected about bisexuality itself. What many people fail to realize is the infinity symbol ♾ part between them and what that represents. The infinity symbol is there to represent the gender spectrum and bisexualities natural fluidity, meaning that bisexuality links both binary sexes and all genders! In viewing infinity as an endless bridging between both sex and gender which is where the intersex symbol comes in since bisexuality was not only a term for a persons sexuality, but was also at one point used to describe a person who is intersex. This was one of the reasons "Hearts Not parts" was originally founded as a bisexual term and beautifully shows in-between female and male there are infinitely more genders and possibilities and Bisexuality in regards to not being limited by sex or gender automatically recognizes and includes them all.

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hii can u link some stuff on the history of pansexual and where it rly came from, id like to read up on it

Sure thing, I'm going to link three articles on pansexual history and popular pansexual definitions and why they're all not only terrible but also straight up biphobic, transphobic, homophobic, and even intersexist. I'll also post a link YouTube link that also explains very well pansexualities past and why it's still very biphobic to this day. I recommend these sources because they use documented history and site reliable sources that aren't "trust me bro" in nature or rely on popular yet disproven talking points.

Article Links:

https://bipanhistory.carrd.co/#pansexual

https://aninjusticemag.com/the-history-and-troubling-present-of-the-pansexual-label-9e535e15277

https://aninjusticemag.com/definitions-of-pansexuality-to-avoid-14b950299c84

YouTube Link:

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The whole "pansexuals don't have a preference" is a lie. There are many pansexuals who do have gender preferences and are near militant about being able to have them. The most common preference especially among pansexuals is excluding cis men (that's literally taking gender into account). So lets be real here, the only true difference between Bi or Pan is misinformation about bisexuality itself, bi-erasure, and good 'ol biphobia that pansexuality depends on to continue to exist.

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The accuracy of this is immaculate. Pansexuality has ALWAYS been detrimental to the LGBT since the time of Sigmund Freud to the 2001 re-popularized version that paints not only bisexuals, but gays, and lesbians as shallow, gender and/or genital obsessed transphobes. They also seperate trans and nonbinary people as 'other' all the while appropriating bisexualities real definition of regardless of gender in the process. It's self serving narcissism and bigotry wrapped in the same color scheme as printer ink.

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I say this as a bi trans person that bi and pan can't "co-exist" because pansexualities entire purpose has been for the last 20 years and still is to this day the erasure of bisexuality and the othering of trans and nonbinary people like myself. Hell the term "skoliosexual" was invented by trans chasing pansexuals to further justify their gross fetishizing of trans people.🤮🤮 Since coming out as trans in 2020 I learned very quickly that pansexuals and also a lot of Omnisexuals (they deserve to be called out too) are big time trans chasers because they don't consider trans people to be human beings.

There is no "bi umbrella" that is a load of garbage made up by biphobic pannies, omnis, poly's etc... on Tumblr in 2012 so they could side step and hide from the much deserved criticism of their biphobic and transphobic bigotry their labels are built on.

Here's the truth.

Pansexuality isn't a sexuality it's a Fruedian term defined as the perversion of all emotional and sexual conduct. It's a paraphilia based on satisfaction of any and all sexual urges that includes sex with animals, plants, inanimate objects, kids, and dead bodies. That's the real reason pansexuality has the prefix of "all".

"Omnisexual" isn't a sexuality either. Omnisexual was a term used by Walt Whittmen as an allegory to homosexuality in his writings. Since the 90's to now it's been bastardised as a label for bigotry against bisexuals and to perversely use trans people as objects for supposed moral superiority when talking about bisexuality.

Polysexual (not to be confused with polyamory) is a stolen polygamy term that has nothing to do with one's sexuality but with how many sexual partners they would have in what we would today call a polycule.

Micro labels are based on ignorance and biphobia, nothing else. If you experience both homosexual attractions and heterosexual attractions (Same and different) than you are bisexual regardless of any personal preferences or lack there of. Have no prefrences? Bisexual. Do have a particular preference. Bisexual. Find yourself having fluid or shifting preferences? Bisexual.

There is only one true word to describe fluid multiple sexual attractions and whether you like it or not, whether you wanna accept it or not, that word is Bisexuality.

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I swear, you can type out the most sensible reasons why you don't want to be called qu**r, and privileged shit people will call you three other slurs and send anonymous "kill yourself messages" while claiming you're some how the bigoted, hateful one. I'm not a fucking slur, I am a trans nonbinary bisexual who loves who I love regardless of gender. I'm not interested in reclaiming the term qu**r, and I don't appreciate spoiled children and enabling tone deaf narcissistic adults who know better trying to force a term onto us that we have repeatedly asked them not too. You're not being "quarky" or "weird" when you choose to disregard our right to not reclaim a violent, anti-LGBT slur, you're just showing how much of an entitled bunch of assholes you truly are.

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the whole thing of pan people being “uwu we love everyone and we suffer so much panphobia! No one loves us but we always support you!” Fucking hell tell that to all the people in early 2010s who got violently harassed for being bisexual during hearts not parts. M spec sexualities were created with violent and hatred they wanted to erase bisexuality

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A little background information on "Demisexual" was made up by a chronically online teenager who played on a role playing forum and made up this stupid word up and an even dumber story about it to explain why her character would have sex with some characters and not others. The term "demisexual" like a lot of other MOGAI cancer from 2010 got popular on Tumblr. It's not a sexuality, it's stupid, toxic inclusivity bullshit that took a normal human behavior and turned it into a conservative like anti-LGBT and pro-slut shaming label. At BEST "demisexual" is a discriptor for personal boundaries, NOT a sexuality, especially an LGBT sexuality. If you don't experience same sex/gender attractions or are transgender (meaning you have dysphoria) than you are not LGBT, you're not "qu**r" either, you're just an entitled (insert dyed hair color here) haired straight person taking resources away from actual LGBT people. All because you're too ignorant to engage in critical thinking and hung up on your selfish and frankly fucked up need to be a so called "discriminated" victim, while real LGBT people are fighting for our lives. 🖕🖕

FYI pointing out this cancerous stupidity isn't "discrimination" get over yourselves.

I don't think I'll ever understand why "demisexual" is a thing. Okay so you only date people if you know them really well? You don't do hookups? How does that make you part of the LGBT community? Am I missing something here?

No, that's the long and short of it. It's literally just people wanting to feel special with a side of shaming you if you do like having casual sex.

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Lol, biphobic non bisexuals trying to tell bisexuals what our sexuality means while calling credible sources like the American institute of Bisexuality "homophobic". This just screams transphobic log cabin Conservative and straight up actual TERF rhetoric. 🤮

Bisexual history proves you wrong time and again so sit down and grow up biphobe, because real bisexuals are speaking.

The reason you hate bisexuals and try to erase our history is because you're resentful of the fact that bisexuals fought and succeeded in including trans people into the LGBT.

https://aninjusticemag.com/bisexuality-is-inherently-nonbinary-d1f75d729e78

So you can go ahead and try your biphobic and transphobic bigotry tears because the "B" & "T" in LGBT isn't going anywhere.

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The "bi" in bisexuality doesn't represent a quantity of genders and never has. It refers to bridging the attraction patterns of homo (same as) and hetero (different from) which covers all regardless of gender because it's not based on gender quantities in the first place.