#bi sapphics

[bi-sapphics]

so, assuming we all know about how biphobes like to say bi women who date other women try to make them more like men since what they really want is a boyfriend, as well as how transphobes like to infantilize trans men in order to argue against their existence, i'm reluctantly here to tell you that TERFs have taken a new step with integrating these sentiments on twitter today:

link for context

that's right, you read correctly! the ones who are now pressuring our young girls (usually GNC lesbians) into mutilating their bodies are none other than... bi women! because that totally makes sense!

anyway, bi women & trans men need to stick together more than ever. 🤝 the rest of the queer community hates us both endlessly and we have a lot of overlap in that our issues aren't taken seriously enough. as a transmasc bisexual myself, this is the only true way.

[bi4bination]

[vignetterose]

Proposing “violet bisexual” as an alternative to “febfem”.

Febfem is a radfem term with transphobic meaning. I wanted to still be able to have a label for myself to show that I’m a bisexual sapphic that does not date men. I chose “violet bisexual” because violets are used to symbolize sapphic love. Since “violet bisexuals” would focus on sapphic love, sapphic relationships (romantic and/or sexual), etc. I felt it would perfect. Being a violet bisexual is about sapphism, focus on women/non-men, exclusion of men, and empowerment while still accepting and loving our bisexuality.

Some notes:

bi men/bi achilleans would not be allowed to use this term. “violet bisexual” would be/is a term that stemmed from myself and other bi sapphics not wanting to date men because of male trauma, misogyny, and the patriarchy.

bi lesbians this term is not for you!!!

this term is also not for radfems or terfs!! you have “febfem”.

asexual and aromantic bisexuals and biromantic can use this term! it isn’t just about sapphic love. for instance, if you don’t do romantic relationships but still would like to have a sexual life that excludes men you can use this term.

any bi sapphic who doesn’t date men due to ANY reason can use this term. this includes, but is not limited to: not dating men due to

-trauma

-experiences

-wanting to decenter men in your life

-having a preference for women

-just not wanting to date men

If any bi sapphic would like to give their opinion on this proposition please do!

[steemyart]

back to bubbline yuri posting

[pannn-cakesss]

LOL

[genderqueerdykes]

the term lesbian means many, many things, but it has never and will never mean "hates men,". when you want to say "i hate men" you should say "i hate men". just say what you mean. lesbian means having a queer relationship with sexuality, gender, presentation, and/or biological sex, it means something about who you love and who loves you, but it does NOT mean hate or who you pathologically hide from. it will never stand for who you hate, only for who you are, who you find community with, and/or who you love. inclusion, not exclusion.

[minni-bunni]

Chilling in the afternoon sun 🌸

[lesb0princess]

i love them

WHITNEY HOUSTON: I WANNA DANCE WITH SOMEBODY (2022)

dir. Kasi Lemmons

[bi-sapphics]

no offense but like. we can tell when you use ‘lesbian’ even though you probably mean ‘sapphic’ in your positivity posts or whatever. we can also tell when they’re not malicious or intentional, so that’s why i’m not upset, but i am going to say that bisexuals should not apologize for inserting themselves into a space made for them just because the wording is wrong.

if your post is about women who love women and not about lack of attraction to men, or lesbophobia, or struggling with comphet (though that’s its own other discourse), or anything exclusive to being a lesbian that isn’t general or vague....... then bi sapphics have a right to assume you’re talking about us/them too.

otherwise ─ dare i say it ─ you’re biphobic lmao.

if you mean lesbians and sapphics, say lesbians AND sapphics. it’s not hard.

[zira-draws]

COMPOSURE [impossible: failure] - ummmm.. uh.. she um...is she? huh??? what????

[mommyghostface28]

Thinking about having her cockwarm my strap while it’s vibrating inside of her. She can’t do anything besides lay under my bodyweight, my hand over her mouth while I shush her whines. Granting her some mercy when I give her agonizingly slow, deep strokes and then stopping again. I won’t pick up the pace till she’s begging me with her eyes.

+This post is about sapphic sex+

[pirateshavefeelingstoo]

oh god oh no my tits have fallen out of my tank top while I’m sleeping. it sure would be a shame… if you… put your mouth on them while we lay here………..

[lesb0princess]

i love harlivy you can never make me stop

Harley Quinn and Poison Ivy are canonically in love!!

[foxglove-nymph]

[genderqueerdykes]

Dykes to Watch Out For #323 "I.D. fixe?" by Alison Bechdel

Illustrated in 1999, this strip features character Sparrow discussing being a bisexual lesbian, how she is not suddenly straight because she is dating a man, and the struggles she faces because of this. This strip also discusses the validity of gay trans men and transmasculinity, a very powerful comic for its time.