#being trans is Great

[allseeingportrait]

Hey gang! I got fired from my job and need to keep my coffers full until I find a new place to work. I’m saving up to move out of my transphobic mom’s house in the fall if that helps!

I’ve got adoptables here and a ko-fi here!

I’d also like to work out what kinds of adoptable sets I want to make in the future, as well as what kind of commissions people would want to buy from me, so please send in asks if there’s anything you want from me on those fronts!

Please stay safe and have a wonderful day!

[stargazing-dino]

my oc because he slays !! also im loving the noise filter sm rn its so goooooddddd waaaaaaa

[emotinalsupportturtle]

neil gaiman and RTD are absolute legends for being the showrunners of 2 mainstream shows funded by large production companies in the year 2023, and proceeding to make the most queer positive episodes ever seen by man

meanwhile david tennant is just vibrating with joy because he gets more opportunities to wear his one-thousand-and-twenty-four pride pins

[bathylychnops]

this guy again.. cute hair an makeup.. this is like present day but just without beard + longer hair..

(he/him)

fun gradients under the cut

[lycandrophile]

today, my coworkers’ refusal to see me as a man put one of our patients in a position where they felt unsafe for the third time. i’ve been at this job for less than two months total. i don’t even care about getting misgendered anymore, i just want the people we’re supposed to be taking care of to feel comfortable around me.

i work at a hospital where we have to supervise our patients in a lot of vulnerable situations. there are safeguarding rules in place for certain things that male employees aren’t allowed to be present for when it comes to female patients. and yet, the people training me and telling me what to do have repeatedly put me in situations where i’ve been forced to do things that the female patients aren’t comfortable with me doing. and because they have repeatedly failed to teach me the rules for doing my job as a man, i have no way of knowing when i’m crossing one of those lines unless one of the patients tells me.

i’ve had to watch a victim of SA stare at me in abject terror as my coworkers asked her to strip naked with me still in the room. it took several minutes for her to even be able to speak enough to ask if i could leave the room. i found out after that she broke down crying the moment i walked out. my biggest regret is that i didn’t realize what was happening fast enough to leave before she ever had to say something, because she shouldn’t have had to say it. i never should’ve been allowed in the room in the first place, because that’s not something male employees are supposed to be present for. but i didn’t know that yet, because i was training and i thought surely, they wouldn’t train me to do something that directly violated their own safeguarding rules. that moment was the first time, and it’s haunted me ever since, but it wasn’t the last time. not only did it happen for the third time today — it almost happened for the fourth, and would have if someone hadn’t spoken up to say they should pick someone else. i care for these people so deeply, it’s why i took this job, and i’m so tired of hearing the fear in their voices when they have to ask me not to do something i never should’ve been told to do.

i’m very used to the personal discomfort of being misgendered. i willingly deal with it a lot at work as well as in other situations, not because i’m in the closet (at this point in my medical transition that would be impossible), but because it’s such a frequent occurrence with my coworkers that we would never get anything done if i took the time to correct them every time. but to see it get to the point of causing such visceral discomfort in other people? people i’m supposed to be taking care of and keeping safe? that’s something else entirely, and i’m fucking exhausted.

and after all of that, some of them still look at me like i have two heads when they tell me what to do and i say “i can’t do that, only female employees can” because i’m learning now. clearly i’m already seen as a man by our patients, but my coworkers would still rather put them in an unsafe situation than just train me as a man.

[taoofshigeru]

I love the Hobie Brown "palms" thread from Spiderverse 2.

Like, in the one scene Hobie busts the force field, notices Miles was doing something similar to him, and points out it'd be more effective if he used more surface area by touching with palms, not just fingertips. It's a quick line of dialogue in the middle of a rapidly unfolding action scene.

And then when Miles is trapped in a different force field like 8 scenes later, he makes the "palms" gesture and mouths the words. Which is about all he can do without tipping off the rest of the several dozen guys in the room what he's trying to say. And Miles doesn't get it right away, but he does like a few seconds later and you can kinda see his face when it clicks. It's enough to kick off the escape.

This is cool not just because it allows a good bit of detailed hand animation, but also because it's just communicating detail and character in a tight, focused way.

[j-rye]

bun ny bunny bu nny bunny ? @wolfertinger666

[red-hibiscus]

Me: I want to go by he/him pronouns and with a new name

Dad: ok what day?

Me: wdym?

Dad: yeah tell me what day you want to make the change so I can write it down

Me: why do you need a specific day.... uhh, Thursday?

And then after Thursday he switched and rarely slipped up. It's been like 9 years. Also makes jokes that the reason he's nice to me is bc he really likes the middle name i chose.

[transfaguette]

i think its funny to watch people define the difference between transgender and transsexual and ftm and genderqueer and im just here like. using them all interchangeably whenever I feel like it and im literally just a guy.

[uncanny-tranny]

You know, I feel like other trans people might get this, but it's honestly kind of refreshing when a cis person has, like, undeniable tboy/tgirl/whatever swag. It's like when you come across somebody who speaks the same language as you and you only find out when they start speaking it, too.

[toc-the-elder]

Oh well, at least this top makes my tits look great.

[icarusflights-blog]

Apps I use everyday as a trans guy.

The tone of your voice doesn't determine your manliness but if you are disphoric about it this app helps you voice train. 🖤

This app helps you set specific goals as a trans person and customizes them based on your state.

This app sends you messages that affirm your gender when maybe the world isn't being as kind. 🖤

Hope this helps somebody. 🖤🖤🖤

Stay safe!

[sharkgirldick]

Being both butch and trans is awesome, but there are times when that overlap is so incredibly frustrating.

[lucabyte]

transfem loop + siffrin... you agree

i does agree.... i does in fact ... write a 7k word essay on the subject..... if you would like to perhaps click that link and read it if you were not already aware...... kisses u on the forehead......... sorry its that long but i had to cover all of my bases you know how it is with textual analysis when you're trying to draw a distinction between "headcanon" and "reading of the text" because those are different things.... to meeeeeeee.......

[sharksandjays]

anyone else have a family (including extended) that is entirely christian conservative so every family visit you have is hell because youre the Only Liberal so everyone picks fights against you and nobody fights for you except yourself?

[transladybev]

Good morning lovelies hope you had a great night! A few snaps from this morning. I have been desperately wanting to wear my new black patent heels this week so today have coupled them with glossy pantyhose "Sahara" shade, a simple black above knee ponte skirt and a soft cream polka dot blouse. I will be making a presentation to a group later this afternoon so thought the glossy pantyhose might test their concentration....I have to say I am loving wearing glossy pantyhose now the weather is a little warmer down here.... ..let me know what you think. Have a great day everyone. Lots of love. Bev ❤️