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hypogryffin · 1 year

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i cant believe i wasn't following u b4,,,,,ive just been silently scrolling through your blog for like a solid YEAR and just haven't even noticed????? n e ways what are tha thoughts on literally anyone in p4 being trans bc i live for that 🎤

the way my brain decided that this was asking for pronoun headcanons and did not reread to make sure that was what you were asking before drawing all of this…... well anyways

#asks & requests #p4 #trans naoto #<- trans everyone lmaooooo #sort of waffling on chie-- he could also be trans or enby easily #ive always thought he would be a 'my gender is lesbian' type person tho LMAO #if hes trans then she and yukiko are as close as they are because trans friends lmao if chie is afab then i think that would come up #accepting his shadow- part of him not feeling 'feminine' enough is that yukiko is more of a woman than her in societys eyes and well.#its not a violent outing bc no one who heard her shadow is like that but chie apologises to yukiko for that #yukiko transitioned pretty early so no one in town (school age at least) really knows #rise is afab its just that she Despises the idea of being a man #kanji is cis but hes cis+ after exploring; does do the occasional drag but is a gay man who happens to use she/her #yosukes whole vibe is 'probably nonbinary but i have a job so i cant worry about that rn'. also i think maybe bigenderism in his future #he/him only for the foreseeable future tho. baby steps #narukami is defo stealth mode for at least the beginning of the game but probably around teddie or naotos shadow she comes out #and i like kuma so ze is like me and uses it/its. :).#ok those are all my notes. sorry for not directly responding to what you asked but i do think what i said is a good answer to your wuestion.#for claritys sake i also live for it.

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seventeendeer · 3 months

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hrrr I Saw the TV Glow is still rolling around in the back of my mind. it's hitting me somewhat belatedly that what seemingly starts as mainly an identity story turns out - toward the final act - to also be a love story. two queer kids finding each other (again). the bond they forge (have always had). the feelings that start to grow (were always there) despite the lie they're living. one trying to save the other, and failing. the frail hope at the end that maybe what they had mattered after all, even if they never see each other again. maybe because they knew each other, someday things will be better.

idk. so much of the story feels so lonely. they're awkward with each other at first and they don't really "get" each other and they're absent from each other's lives for long periods and they don't have anyone else. but it's all a lie - they were best friends, they knew each other better than anyone, they are who they are because they knew each other, they were not alone. no matter how bleak the setting is, this fake world can't obscure the truth. they'll never forget each other. it will always have happened, it will always have mattered.

it's so hard to put into words but Owen/Isabel and Maddy/Tara make me so crazy, the way everything in the world works to drive them apart and yet not even losing their memories can destroy the connection between them. and it's not enough to prevent the world from tearing them apart but maybe it's enough to save their lives

queer love portrayed not as supernaturally resilient or invincible (god knows it isn't), but as a precious fragile thing that can and will grow back over and over in some form no matter what ...

#deerchatter #i saw the tv glow #i saw the tv glow spoilers #to be 100% clear i definitely believe they were specifically IN love on top of also being best friends. and the distinction is important #owen growing feelings for maddy is implicitly tied to her beginning to find herself as a trans lesbian #maddy growing feelings for owen is implicitly tied to her remembering their true lives as isabel and tara #it's so subtle because there's no space for that love in the midnight realm. and yet it grows back against all odds #there's very interesting potential for an isttg/rgu contrast-comparison analysis right down to the coffin/grave symbolism #the main duo's love being suppressed by a reality that can't bear it or contain it. the way it resurrects as self-love/renewed determinatio #if we're getting really crazy there are also parallels between maddy coming back for owen and certain interpretations of AoU #but while utena and anthy are implied to find each other in every incarnation owen and maddy's fate is a lot more open-ended #owen says she never saw maddy again but the truthfulness of the narrated parts of the story are highly questionable so ???#augh. so many thoughts.#sorry if some of this seems completely off i only watched it once late at night. gonna rewatch in the upcoming days

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mothbeasts · 9 days

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i miss posting and making and engaging with ieytd content but I will be honest sometimes it feels alienating. as a lesbian.

#bee's buzzing #ieytd #i dont know.. its probably just me being Strange. but.#the Main guy in the fandom is juniper. and he's interesting! but. i don't... think about him as often #and when i do it's never in the shipping / x reader context i see so frequently in the tags.#i dont ship him with agent phoenix because. my agent is an it/its dyke. so i dont really engage in that side of fandom #i also dont think about the handler as often because. idk i just think about the women more!#but juniper and agent phoenix and the handler are like. the only people i see talked about often #which is fine!! people like them. i also like them just. not in the same way/to the same extent.#im here for the women. but. they're not talked about often at all :[#when they are it's usually briefly in passing.#they get the worst of the mischaracterization too imo. because people just do not give them the same depth as they like to give-#- charas like john. it makes me kinda sad tbh.#and also the fandom does not. seem to make much space for f/f content.#i know like. the handful of other people who make f/f content for ieytd.#and. god. idk im still honestly a bit ticked off by one solaris post that 1) was not a good analysis i will be quite honest.#it was very surface level. like really basic info and also iirc not entirely accurate? i cannot remember anymore #but. 2). it started by saying 'nobody talks about solaris outside of fabbylaris' and that still makes my blood boil.#like. not to vaguepost but. the fabbylaris posters ARE talking about solaris outside of a shipping context. please. please #also there was a whole Thing a while back where people started being strange about non-feminine nonbinary agent phoenix.#and as a nonbinary butch-adjacent dyke. it made my skin crawl!!! im NOT feminine and idk why making agent phoenix not feminine is.#apparently Bad to a certain subset of the fandom #sorry but im a dyke and i WILL make the player insert protag a butch lesbian who doesnt use she/her.#and if you have a problem with that please think about Why people making the player insert nonbinary and androgynous/Vaguely Masc is-#- such a problem to you. and whether that is alienating to the trans people in the fandom.#okay. im normal now. goodnight.

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wereshrew-admirer · 11 months

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conflicting desires for lyke and duvall in sangfielle season 2:

-duvall low-key resenting lyke over the chine thing

-lyke high-key resenting duvall over the oratorio thing and EXPECTING duvall to resent him over chine but instead it's the same one-sided tension that they had on the jade moon

i want them to be involuntary friends. I want it to look like a huge 8ft tall straight* guy calling his obviously gay best friend a wretched bitch and everyone is a little uncomfortable about it except for duvall, who may or may not be behind lyke's bizarrely bad luck when it comes to flies landing in his drinks.

(*i don't think lyke is straight but i do think he's the type of bisexual man that people assume is straight)

#broken record voice #i don't often have trans headcanons actually but sangfielle is an exception...#to me the blackwick group is T4TvsT4TvsT+ marn #lyke is joyfully trans - he's 8 ft tall because he went overboard with the transition magic #pickman and duvall are both stealth because they grew up in oppressive societies #pickman is deeply uncomfortable how vulnerable it makes her feel - she doesn't exactly hide it but will kill u for mentioning it #duvall does hide it but only because he's been hate crimed #until sapodilla - after which he receives the most idealized form of instant-srs from the bugs that his gender euphoria sky rockets #and he doesn't tell anyone exactly but everyone in the blackwick group clocks him on the change #pickman hates it and thinks he doesn't deserve such an easy out #lyke wouldprobably be happy for him if he wasn't pissed over the oratorio #es is the most well adjusted and is privately very happy for him but polite enough not to mention it #chine is trans but in the “this animal does not experience human gender and it's inappropriate to even try to make sense of it” way #chine is also the only one who has seen duvall in every stage of transition and has been enthusiastically supportive the whole time #marn is cis but if any of them hadn't already transitioned then she'd be trying to treat it like a curse to be cured.#i think pickman has had the most traditional medical transition because she distrusts magic - until she meets marn who absolutely #already has a recipe for an hrt-charm and gives one to her #duvall did some sort of terrible black-market medical transition in aldomina - the kind where he had to lie to ten thousand therapists #to convince them that he was actually a straight man and so he should be allowed to transition because a straight trans guy is safer #to society than a lesbian?? that type of horrorshow. meanwhile he's exclusively mlm (or as exclusive as he can be while fucking chine)#which pickman would have respected because to be trans is to suffer for it but nooo instead she didn't even know he was trans until the bug #transition #es is just chill. duvall eventually got a magical bug transition? well es is the magical bug for syntyche #sorry this went way off topic #i am avoiding going to work can you tell? woops #this was all to basically say that i think it'd be funny if #before the bug transition duvall low-key resented lyke for having been able to access magic transition. some guys have all the luck

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mrgaretcarter · 1 year

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Honestly I think it would do us all well to go back to kinda cringy feminism again for a little bit idk cause I think maybe for some people the discourse somehow circled back around to supporting sexism just rebranded or whatever so its more aesthetic

#personal #instead of progressing the discourse into idk more inclusion of women of color and trans women #it went in the direction of like glorifying women being stupid and romanticizing beauty standarts #also weird centering of men all over again in feminism and in general for some reason #remember in the early 2010s when emma watson was like obliterated for that 'he for she' campaign #because it prioritized men in feminist discourse and then thats the exact direction where things went later on (and where it is currently)#people care more abt like 'haha this is my golden retriever bf he drinks respect women juice!' than about actual women speaking abt feminis #like being a feminist isnt about social change and women prioritizing each other its abt how dudes are hot when they do the bare minimum!#also have you noticed the rise in lesbophobia both in the sense of persecution of lesbians themselves #and of lesbians relationships and culture which other wlw are also part of (its giving lavender menace)#and also remember how we had the me too movement and then immediately after #everyone still fell for a smear campaing against a victim of domestic abuse?#anyway i would really love to get back to basics of like women should support each other!#and beauty standarts overwhelmingly negatively affect women and girls!#and we still need to incentivize girls to seek out intellectual pursuits especially in STEM and leadership roles!#because we continue to be underpresented in those fields and the only way to enact change is to bring our perspectives to those areas #instead of asking politely for guys to throw us a bone!#also stop acting like its cringe to openly and vocally center and prioritize women in every sphere of our lives possible!#and also maybe go back to actively trying to do that! and considering that a good thing!??#because we're the ones who should have our backs most of all?? idk idk #also where are the teeth??#why is everyone so afraid of being angry now???#its like some people circled back to being afraid of being mistaken for man-hating or something #just for pointing out common sense aspects of oppression without adding an asterisk about how men suffer too!#i thought we all knew there is no such thing as reverse sexism!!!#idk!!!#and this isnt me condoning choice feminism many women are evil and actively work against their own interests #or antagonize other women to make themselves feel important such as terfs etc #but idk its like everyone internalized that 'well women can suck too' so hard that its become like #'*most* women suck and we dont even have to keep trying to empathize and prioritize each other and our issues anymore'

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jorvikzelda · 6 months

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today i had this Vivid memory flash through my mind of kissing my ex boyfriend (this was like 2018) and i felt so viscerally fucking revolted and I gotta say. it is truly impressive that I didn’t realise I’m a lesbian sooner than fucking half a year ago

#z talks #like the misidentifying as ace was Inevitable i think. that was due to repression that realising i didnt like men would not have fixed #(context: id’d as bi ace like. i wanna say 2016/17-2021/22 sometime and then went into ace and Questioning)#remember the time i really solidly settled on being aro because ‘romance has never not felt like a chore and putting on a facade’#babe no thats because your most recent and also singular long term relationship was with a Man #and thats the only one youre looking back on #its so funny how i dated a guy and it was so thoroughly Meh that i just didnt feel like pursuing anything romantic for a very long time #(A REACTION I HAD NOT HAD AFTER MY PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIPS WITH GIRLS)#And DIDN’T somehow consider that maybe I just Didn’t Like Guys #its nothing i grieve or feel sad about dw its honestly mostly funny to look back on #no wrongs were committed and i dont hold a grudge against the guy it was just me being confused and compheted #(…which is also a weird word to apply because at the time i identified and was out to my friends as a trans guy Binary.#This Was Also Wrong.)#was a weird time man. a truly weird time #anyway. all is well i have now been on 2 dates with a really cute girl and she gave me tulips <3 #as part of a Care Delivery bc i had a Migraine and No Painkillers Or Snacks #get well flowers <333333 #and now i dream of kissing her under the moonlight #With the uh. Hornetposting lately it May seem unlikely but yes I DO interact with real women! Romantically!#They coexist Wonderfully <3 #Anyway. I’m gonna go to bed #Realising that im a lesbian solved all my identity problems including my fucking gender which is just fantastic #I am very happy and whenever I think of being a lesbian it grounds me to reality a little bit stronger and i go yeah. Yeah.

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weareuniqueandimportant · 3 months

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t3tr0m1n0 · 8 months

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i can't pretend i'm immune to coming away from a story with One Dude who's very particularly special to me but at the very least there's like 85% odds that he ends up transfemme in my brain

#and that's assuming i didn't choose the ''guy'' with nonbinary coding & take that to its logical conclusion instead #but the other examples are. i mean. sho minazuki & **** ***** & uh davey newsies #there's others too i think but i probably can't remember them. shrug #plenty of stories where i care lots about the women too or. don't really care about anyone Extremely so #the cast of fe14 is really unengaging. my most liked were (roughly) shura & rinkah. i thought they were neat when i was younger #and fe13 my only favorite is robin who's not got a set canon gender. yknow #in commoddities i mean violet's the tgirl right there but i do think drew's a he/him lesbian + rudy's got something going on #which isn't even getting into jean's she/they swag. guess this comic doesn't really count when lots of them already are queer #puyo puyo's got a good ensemble cast but other than eccolo no one's hooked me. i mean i like arle but not in a lot of ways she #is portrayed as & sig has the autism swag so i can't Not like him. i could see him transing her gender #the exception to all of the above is axel because while i like him a lot i don't like him So much that i'd trans his gender #c u thru the q #also sprach #i exclude from the contents of this post any of my ocs because that'd just be cheating. of course i like rosa & ashley & duncan &

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concerto-roblox · 8 months

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honestly i cannot explain the gender feelings i get sometimes. like i see a picture of a man and i think "god i wanna be him" or "god that's so me" but not like. i don't want to look exactly like him or be percieved as a man at all (like not even in a butch or gnc way i skew pretty femme most of the time)... but it's like if i was that man but also a woman that would be epic... or if that man was a woman he would be so me but also if he was still a man?? what is gender.

#i am like 99% sure i'm cis which ik saying that makes it look like i'm actually not #but trust me multiple of my longtime close friends are trans/nb i would've figured it out by now #and i have experimented with stuff but she/her are the only pronouns that have worked for me (ik pronouns don't equal gender but yknow)#i think the way i feel about gender can be complicated when not only am i autistic so i interpret stuff differently from allistic cis ppl #but also being a queer woman like yknow how some ppl say their gender is lesbian?? i get that but i'm bi so it's not as clear cut for me #like sometimes i feel like my gender is like... femme bisexual?? like not strictly woman but pretty close to it #because i'm not not a woman but sometimes the way i feel about my gender in relation to the theoretical person i'd be in a relationship wit #it doesn't feel completely clear cut woman if that makes sense??#which i know gender is fake and you can do whatever you want forever but idk that's just kind of how i feel about it #like i don't want to be a boy or anything related to that at all but also if someone referred to me as 'boyfriend' i think i would like tha #does any of that make sense at all???? idk #it's like some men are me but i am not A man... do you understand #i am NOT non-binary but i'm also not binary... do you understand this too #how to be cringe 101 #gender

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kinnbig · 1 year

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What are your pronouns?

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#no uhhh #so i'd say “any pronouns” because that's kind of the vibe #like i'm afab and a lesbian and mostly relatively fem presenting and i don't rlly identify as non-binary or trans #so mostly people use she/her and that's completely fine by me lol i am ambivalent #but also! i am just as ambivalent to being called he or they #like! you can use he/him or they/them! that's also totally fine with me!#BUT it's also not actually an “any pronouns” vibe because i know i don't want people to use anything other than she/he/they #i don't personally vibe with ze/zir etc for myself #BUT if i say my pronouns are she/he/they that makes it seem like i particularly want people to rotate them!#when i don't! i just really don't mind as long as it's one of those three lmao #.................yeah ok tl;dr my pronouns are she/he/they but i genuinely don't care which of those you use u don't have to rotate them #you can always use she that's fine by me idc #oh BUT i do prefer to be referred to with a mix of masculine and feminine terms just because it's fun #like. it doesn't make me dysphoric or anything to only get referred to with words like idk #girl/babe/ma'am/queen etc etc #like again. do not mind at all! but it's just more fun to also sometimes get man/bro/sir/king etc u know?#ask #darcey.txt

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variousqueerthings · 1 year

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who's the black dwncompanion???? i'm genuinely curious bc i've only seen pics/news about that blonde girl that looks vaguely like rose

i didn't seeya there. yeah, I got corrected, yasmin finney is playing rose tyler (in some way, we shall seeee), so not the new companion. new companion is... yeah... looks vaguely like rose. lol

#dw #doctor who #i feel mean that i am less excited by this casting not just because trans recurring character in science fiction #is really what ought to happen in every sci fi show #but also yeah she does just kinda... look like rose.... which is immediately making me do comparisons to billie piper's performance #which isnt fair on the new actress #but also i dooo kinda wanna see more than *just* young kinda generically pretty white woman in nu!who #and i say this with the fact that donna was there bill was there + for all its other faults with chibnall's who-run the companions were lit #but i live in eternal worry youknow #of all tv and cinema being just a slew of interchangeably attractive people who are... fine......#THIS IS MEAN OF ME SHE'LL PROBABLY DO GREAT #I AM ROOTING FOR HER #IVE JUST BEEN SCARRED BY MOFFAT *ONLY THREE WOMEN EXIST* YOUNG WOMEN I WANNA FUCK - MOMMY-WOMEN I WANNA FUCK #AND MATRONLY WOMEN WHOM NOBODY WANTS TO FUCK AND EVERYONE IS KINDA MEAN TO #rtd is not moffat rtd is not moffat rtd is no-#(and hell moffat gave us bill bill was great)#(moffat figuring out lesbians exist and doing... okay on that front surprisingly -- considering his irene adler............)#pherre #🖤 asks

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yourknightinshiningplastic · 1 year

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the library had pride pins and I took one and my mom got some and when she walked away I grabbed a they/them one

#they did not have nexie tho :(#patiently awaiting the arrival of the new fnaf book at my local libraries #and i also mentioned that i think (i know shh) that one of them was the lesbian flag #and i pointed to a trans one and said ik that one is the trans flag because of [my trans friend that she knows]#im getting less afraid of talking to my mom about queer stuff #only when she brings it up tho #dont know if I'll ever come out tho #not this time #if they had one that said queer i would've snuck it in my purse aswell #winona has something to say

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dilemmaed · 2 years

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not as into wednesday as some of the mutuals but I thought it would be fun to share that while watching with me, my sister picked up on the conversion camps thing, but she thought it was a metaphor for being transgender instead of gay. so anyway transfem lesbian enid is real now

#she looked at me during that scene like ''😳🤨'' and then later asked ''was that because she's trans or something'' and I went WAIT.#it makes more sense as a metaphor for being lesbian bc of the conversation about mates but I think it was based of my cishet sister to #not only pick up on it being a metaphor for lgbt+ identity but also think of trans people #wednesday

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kqluckity · 2 years

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okay i have a pale vriskat humanstuck au idea but I'll maybe share it in the morning if I still feel like it or maybe I'll put it in the tags of this here post idk

#okay I'm putting it here and maybe I'll delete it tomorrow but if I don't share this I won't be able to sleep and I need to wake up at 4:30 #so basically #vriska and karkat are best friends but refuse to acknowledge it but like. they are #they have friendship bracelets (made at summer camp) and also are basically the first person they both came out to #it was at a slumber party they had to be at because their older siblings were there etc etc #basically they accidentally came out and bonded A LOT because of that and karkat was the first person Vriska told she was trans too #this whole idea came to me because I thought it'd be pretty funny if these two called each other +#dyke and fag on the regular tbh #like straight up that's how they are saved on their phones #vriska is ''second worst dyke I've ever met'' and takes great offense in being 2nd (he knows that's why he put it there)#and karkat is saved ''fag of my heart <3'' which makes dave super jealous when he learns it because he also wants to be called that #+ by someone (by rose)#also i have other ideas like how once karkat beat a guy because he was being awful to vriska behind her back and to kk'#kk's face thinking he would agree. he didn't. only he can be a bitch to vriska #or how they both had a crush on Egbert before either she or Vriska came out (that's why she started calling him fag)#(and because yes he's bi yes he prefers guys shut up)#and THEN they both had a crush on Terezi and it was the first time Vriska ever had a crush on another girl (afask) and was like Oh Shit #then I have this idea about Vriska not feeling worthy of the label lesbian because she's trans and Karkat throwing a Vintage Shitfit when +#she told him that because she's a fucking moron and lesbian is just a word anyway and her being trans does fucking change anything +#and did he mention she's a moron? because she is #OH karkat is trans too in this au #he came out to his family when he was veeeerryyy young so no one really knew him before he started socially transitioning besides +#nepeta and sollux because their parents are sort of in a polycule and kanaya because she's his cousin #anyways at the end of the rant vriska is sort of crying and also sort of shoves him down the stairs #(it wasn't that many. he didn't break anything just his ego got bruised)#okay no yeah this is all I have to say #if this accidentally ends in a main tag and someone who sees this wants to send me a death threat for having used the words +#fag and dyke please at least be creative with them I have anon on mwah #hs

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rattled-by-the-rush · 20 days

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#tw rant #I've felt like I've been suffocating for weeks.#my life has been pretty shit lately and I don't have anyone to talk to about it.#i typically will talk to my best friend about it but this is stuff she can't know about and is stuff that she might not want to hear about.#I've had two failed relationships in the past three weeks and I've found out that #and I'm also the only person that knows that her committed boyfriend of one year cheated on her with my other “best friend”#who used me for three and a half years for her own personal gain #I've also realized that i am actually trans and that it's not something about me that I can keep sitting to the side and not think about #and with that ive realized that I'm not actually just a perfect girly honors student who is unfortunately a lesbian but instead something #that people would hate me for in my hometown #ive been really struggling with these feelings of dysphoria so much lately and ive realized that when i have dysphoria like this i tend to #think that im not a good enough woman and start dressing hyper-feminine #im sitting here typing this with three acrylic nails that I popped off of my nails two days ago on this bedside table and literally cannot #stand to look at them cause i felt incredibly bad popping them off because my mom liked them on me #this dysphoria that im feeling along with everything else literally feels like it's weighing down on my lungs and makes me feel like there's #television static in my head legs and chest #i feel so numb at this point that i don't think that i have the capacity to process any other emotions #sorry for the rant #Spotify

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colacat53 · 3 months

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TFW I fall in love with an anime character and make three different pride icon edits of her

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