#because hes homophobic

[hellonerf]

weirdly related to last post about ame selfcest but i was thinking about fr americest and it kept devolving to either of them eventually going "ok but one of us has to be the girl right".

i don't show or draw it much because i don't feel like it but i think ame has chronic gender brain but he doesn't like to think he does and i also feminize him too much. but i think he just by default thinks like this. even in girl ame this is why as far as i'd go with girlmerica is her being a tomboy. if she stopped the bullshit and got in a relationship with a woman her subconscious would be like "obviously i'm the 'girl' here because i'm good at playing roles. so by natural conclusion x is the 'guy'" okay well it depends on how much more feminine or masculine the other girl is actually but her brain works kind of rigidly on this like ok there's girl and boy archetypes and sometimes one acts like the other in "their own way" but actual breaches between that then ame is like well okay... we gotta restructure this... if i'm the girl now... or something like that. there is no overlap in her mind

i keep making him like a toxic girlfriend just because there's something wrong with me but also because. in my own crazy made up world. if he got in his own head that the role he needs to be playing is the more feminine role that's how he would behave(he's toxic no matter what). he's gonna get a form of control in some shape no matter what. his evil and abuse adapts. and i just like drawing fucked up feminine characters i guess idk

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

Bare skin, bare feelings.

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[livebloggingmydescentintomadness]

i'm not trying to start anything, but i just saw a post criticizing misha collins for not choosing to quit spn when the network was homophobic and he was "profiting from homophobia" and i just think it's kind of... wild? that young people think that a person could just. decide to not work for a prejudiced corporation when they have a family to provide for?

i don't know, i don't even really want to debate or go into it more, but it's just kind of surreal to see opinions from people who weren't there in 2013 when misha collins was literally the only person willing to support not just destiel shippers but actual queer and trans and ace fans. i have no doubt that he saved lives through the care he showed to vulnerable young people who desperately needed to see someone give a damn about them. he's significantly flawed in many ways, but he will always be a saint in my eyes for how much he cared.

like i just don't think that people accustomed to this modern era where hardly anyone blinks over two men kissing on tv can understand what it was like when we were mocked and silenced, when we weren't allowed to breathe the word 'destiel' without getting booed, and misha was the only damn person who spoke up for us. the only one. who was probably risking his job in saying the things he did.

things have changed. that's wonderful. don't judge people surviving previous eras by the standards of today.

[spirk-trek]

there is something very 💅🏼 about spock in 'that which survives' .... very.... 🐈 .... 🌈.... 🍍🍒🍇🥭...

[macden]

[verpineshatterrifle]

kal goes to pride out of spite because he's mad that people would be cruel to their children just because they're queer, pass it on

[alicentsaegon]

They actually took the BEST male love interest in all of the Bridgerton universe and made him into a woman destroying both his and Francesca's characters and arcs going forward.... Like I'm sorry but the gender roles Michael and Francesca have are integral to their story... The infertility, Michael inheriting all of John's estate and title....and the guilt that comes with it. They even give him John's old clothes to wear

[royalarchivist]

Fit: It would, um... Uh, how should I put this... It would be like a date. Because... um... gosto de você.

Pac: [Delighted laugh] Gosto de mim?

Fit: Uh yeah. I'm s– did I butcher that? I'm sorry.

Pac: No no no no no no no! It was good! It goes: gosto de voce também.

Fit: Oh. [Laughs] Um yeah. But uh, I just– just think you're cool and I– Tuesday if you wanna– yeah! I got something cool that I think you might like. Is all.

Pac: To be honest with you, I never had a date in my 10 year life in Minecraft.

Fit: Yeah, you know, I've– I don't– I've never had a date in Minecraft either, now that I think about it. [Laughs]

Happy 1 year Anniversary to Fit confessing to Pac and asking him out on a date! 💕🌹

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Pac: Yeah, Tuesday sounds great!

Fit: It would, um... Uh, how should I put this... It would be like a date.

Pac: Oh! It would– [Realizes] Ohhhhhhh

Fit: Because... um... gosto de você.

Pac: [Delighted laugh] Gosto de mim?

Fit: Uh yeah. I'm s– did I butcher that? I'm sorry.

Pac: No no no no no no no! It was good! It goes: gosto de voce também.

Fit: Oh. [Laughs] Um yeah. But uh, I just– just think you're cool and I– Tuesday if you wanna– yeah! I got something cool that I think you might like. Is all.

Pac: No, yeah yeah!

Ramon: [Audibly takes a photo]

Pac: [Laughs] Ramon! Can I hide behind the bench just like you? [Laughs]

Fit: [Laughs]

Pac: You know, I think you're cool too Fit, you know? I'm down for the- for the date you said on Tuesday, you know. I– to be honest with you? Like, I never had a date in my 10 year life in Minecraft, you know?

Fit: Yeah, you know, I've– I don't– I've never had a date in Minecraft either, yeah, actually, now that I think about it. Yeah, so it– [Laughs] Well, hey! I mean, may– you know, I bet it'd be cool!

Pac: Yeah, you know– you know, I– I- when you- when you started like, giggling, I thought you would say like– [Deep voice as he leans into the mic] "In the oldest anarchy server in Minecraft!"

[They both laugh]

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Not included in the clip, but they have this fun little exchange immediately after this scene:

Pac: I hope that date is not on 2b2t, you know? Otherwise I'm gonna be scared as fck.

Fit: No, it is not– it is not gonna be on 2b2t! No, don't worry.

Pac: [Laughs]

Fit: That would be... That would be... No.

Pac: That would be– right? That would be something!

Fit: If- if it was on 2b2t, we would be both banned from Twitch, so no, it will not be on 2b2t. [...] Plus, a bunch of fire and destruction and a bunch of hate is not... the most appropriate place for a date, you know? So...

[liauditore]

i think you could run a study on the oc-fication of trafficblr artist's etho designs over time

[allastoredeer]

Love your comic! Do you have any alastor whump headcanons or predictions ?

Okay, so, like I have SO many Alastor whump headcanons, predictions, and concepts, and I think about them near constantly, but the minute someones asks me about them, WHOOSH, they're gone.

I really need to start writing them down instead of cycling them through my head.

I guess one headcanon I can think of is that Alastor is way more chill about homosexual relationships than people realize, even when he was alive.

He lived in the 1900's, sure, but queer people still existed back then AND had their own spaces. Spaces that I think Alastor frequented, partly because the parties were GREAT and partly because his 'lack of wife or girlfriend' wasn't questioned there.

Back in 1900's New Orleans, the French Quarter (a place a LOT of Creole/Cajun/POC lived at the time, and was most likely where Alastor lived too) was also the core of gay life in New Orleans. They built homosexual communities there. They still had to be careful, of course, being gay wasn't an "acceptable lifestyle" but it still thrived in its own spaces.

Not only that, but Mardi Gras alone had always included gender fluidity and ambiguous sexuality during its carnival and celebrations. It was a time where people COULD be more open and flaunting those sort of things without serious repercussions.

I think Alastor was a hell of a lot more accepting of homosexual people, not just because he grew up around them, but also because he just...did not give a shit. He never really felt any attraction to men, but he also never really felt any attraction to woman. He didn't see the big deal about people of the same sex sleeping with each other. He could not give a fuck who anybody else was fucking so long as he wasn't being pressured into doing anything.

When Alastor went to Hell, he wasn't put off by people being sexual or homosexual, he was more put off that they were doing it right in front of his salad. He's trying to eat, take that somewhere else, please and thank you.

As Hell started growing and becoming more modern, people gave less and less of a shit of who was fucking who. Since Alastor never moved on from his 1900's radio-host persona, a lot of people assume that he's homophobic, and are genuinely surprised when he's actually supportive of people getting to be more open about who they love. It's one of the few things about modern times that he can actually appreciate, though he could do without people constantly fucking where he can see it--again, not because he thinks that's something that has to be kept a secret, behind closed doors, but because he's trying to have a nice stroll through the park, can you please stop grinding on each other in the bushes, it's hard to stop and smell the roses when all he can hear is moaning.

So yeah, it's not really a WHUMP headcanon, but it's an Alastor headcanon. He's a lot more tolerant and supportive of homosexual relationships than people think, and could not give a flying fuck who they're sleeping with so long as he's not getting roped into it. He gives a giant middle finger to societal norms and will be the first in line when it comes to breaking the status quo.

[spkyart]

Peaceful

[tricoufamily]

glad we were on the same wavelength

[queermania]

Do you think Jensen is uncomfortable being asked about Destiel?

yes but i don't think it's because the concept of destiel makes him uncomfortable at this point. i think it's because every single time he speaks about destiel, no matter what he says, a whole bunch of people are upset in a whole bunch of different directions. he says cas was dean's best friend and well that just means he's homophobic because obviously cas was more than that, but also how dare he forget about sam. he says dean was thinking that he should've said i love you too and well he obviously meant it platonically and how dare anyone think otherwise but also he stuttered when he said it so he was trying to hold back slurs. he says cas's confession testament isn't something that needs to be resolved which obviously means they will never ever address it despite the 6000 other things he's said about wanting to give it the weight it deserves when dean and cas reunite. jensen hates gay people and specifically he wants to spit in hellers faces but also how dare he say things that legitimize destiel he's a monster and this is why we love jared.

[retributory]

kind of irritates me a little bit when people act like it's weird or wrong or ooc for sy to have internalized homophobia as if that isn't probably the most realistic thing about the plot to begin with. he's a chinese man who grew up in the late 90s - early 00s and spent all his time online i would be frankly more surprised if he had ZERO hangups about being gay. this is explicitly presented as a character flaw so i'm not sure why people act like mxtx is homophobic for writing a guy with internalized homophobia. also he like gets over it in volume 4 anyways you gotta give him some time dude he died like 3 times and he keeps getting force-fed blood he's got a lot on his plate

[clownzaf]

Duke “is it because I’m black?” Thomas and Tim “is it because I’m gay?” Drake are best friends and I’m not letting any of you say the contrary

[yujeong]

Alright, that's enough. I need everyone to be normal about Tonkla right the fuck now.

The takes I've seen about that man have made me lose my mind, to the point where I'm wondering if I've been watching the same show as everyone else. From him spreading diseases to his partners to him faking his grief and doing everything he does for attention, I've been quite perplexed while exploring the show's tags on here and on Twitter to say the least.

Guys. I've said it before and I'll say it again. Tonkla is NOT a difficult character to understand. Korn is arguably more of an inscrutable character than him.

Tonkla has been grieving since we first met him; at first his relationship with Korn that's changed to the point of no return and later his brother who got murdered.

That's it. I don't know why we're demonizing a man who 1) likes having sex and 2) is using sex to get the affection - affection, not attention - he seeks from the man whom he loves and from the man who loves him but Tonkla doesn't.

(I know why and I'll rant in the tags about it 🙂)

And while we're on the subject, I need everyone to be normal about Fuaiz, too, because the takes about his taking this role are even worse. People calling what BOC did by casting him grooming, calling the fans groomers and pedophiles, and so on and so forth.

Are you serious? Are you for real?

Fuaiz played White in DFF who was crying and being in distress 90% of the time, a show which included a scene where he pretended to get stabbed and where he got shaken by Jjay who was screaming to his face. I watched the BTS clip of that - the kid needed a moment to calm down from that experience.

Do you care about that in the same way or is it only a problem when he's pretending to get fucked on screen in a secluded, safe environment with a fucking Intimacy Director involved?

I can totally understand feeling uncomfortable about his age or about the age gap between him and Bas. I'm not judging anyone for that. But there's a difference between feeling discomfort and turning that discomfort into a morality issue. Please stop doing that.