Ashley, 37, aroace nonbinary white autistic (she/her) with Chronic Lyme Disease. I post Supernatural (Destiel, Cockles), Good Omens, Malevolent, TMA, The Witcher, and more. I'm a pro-shipper but I rarely post NSFW. I'm a leftist and talk often about social and political issues, mental illness, and abuse. I try to make this a safe space. I am your momdad. I made the Cockles Masterlist.
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~ magic trick, 1941 ~
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15. The Storm (15/60)
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Job Searching in 2025
Below are some resources for those on the job hunt with the current rise of AI. All of this information I have gathered while on my own job hunt starting in June 2025
1. Find a job board such as hiring.cafe, Indeed, LinkedIn, Handshake (if you went to uni), state job board, local newspaper listings, Rat Race Rebellion , Honest Jobs
1a. Reach out to your state Employment Office or prior university Career Services Office for additional resources
1b. If you are under the age of 24, look into Job Corps for free resources
2a. Create a master resume with every single thing you have ever done, every class, every job, every volunteer activity, or hobby that may be relevant
2b. Keep a list of all your updated references with phone numbers, emails, and confirm with them directly that they are okay to be contacted as references
3a. Build a custom resume for each listing copying and pasting from the master resume, while using the same language that the job posting has
3b. Use free ATS tools like Jobscan or JobOwl to ensure it gets past any AI bots
3c. Save the resume as a .pdf and label w your full name, the job title, and current month/year (ex. John Smith Customer Service Representative June 2025 Resume.pdf)
4. If a listing requires a certification, training, etc, look up scholarships for the specific training needed. Sometimes you can get grants depending on your situation and type of work to help you open future avenues. If you cannot find a scholarship, look up the certification / syllabus would have taught and use your experience in previous roles to explain in your cover letter why you believe you are qualified even without the specific training.
5. Interviews - look up interview questions and practice with a friend. have a list of three strengths and a story or two to pull from that shows what a Good Worker you are. Get in the mindset of being ready for these types of questions, it'll help you be more prepared. Dress well, shower and brush ur teeth beforehand (even if zoom interview!). Do a power pose to get any jitters out and you got this! Interviews are more often a professional 'vibe check' than anything
6. Send a thank you email post interview, the same day if you can. Thank them for the opportunity and that you look forward to hearing from them in the future (see this post for a direct script if needed)
7. Accept rejection with grace and know that your worth does not come from a job. Practice self care, self compassion, and unplug when you can.
8. Dedicate an hour or so to job hunting everyday, but find other ways to fill you time. Volunteering, community building, skill development, research, etc. Have something to talk about during interviews!
** Learn about common job scams to avoid **
* Additional disclaimers in tags
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The Witcher — 2.06 Dear Friend For @vortexoffate
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Hey, it’s ok to not be a “productive member of society.”
Some people are housebound. Bed bound. Some people physically can’t eat, shower, or use the toilet without the assistance of a caretaker. Some people don’t have the spoons to get out of bed in the morning, let alone work a 9-5 job in this capitalist hellhole.
You’re not lazy. You’re not less than.
And this is coming from a disabled person with chronic pain who can leave the house and walk (with some pain) without mobility aids.
You deserve to take up space. You deserve to cost money. You deserve to be here without feeling guilty just because you can’t give back in the traditional way.
You’re worth it, hun. 🫶🏼
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STATEMENT BEGINS
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✨️ Blackbeard for Vogue ✨️
(I have prints of this on inprnt 💕)
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5 SiGNS OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE
1. Degradation This is when someone puts you down all the time and /or makes jokes at your expense. This can make us second guess our own feelings and experience.
2. Controlling or Domination or Dominion Do you have to plan your whole day around what they think is okay? Do they control your money or time? Many people will struggle to think on their own if this has been going on for a long time.
3. Accusing of Blaming Is nothing ever their fault? Do they blame any issues they have on everyone else in their life? Are they super sensitive to any personal criticism?
4. Neglect Parents may give their children the silent treatment or stone wall them when they have done something they see as wrong. They may not meet any of our basic needs as a punishment for wrongdoing.
5. Emmeshment or Coyenssgancecodependence this is when Someone sees you as an extension of themselves. they will overstep boundaries and pull into their situation or tell inappropriate things about life. struggle to see any differentiation between themselves another person.
REMEMBER: Emotional abuse is never your fault. In fact, your partner may just be trying to control or manipulate you into staying in the relationship. Some characteristics:
Using economic power to control you
Threatening to leave
Making you afraid by using looks, gestures or actions
Smashing things
Controlling you through minimizing, denying and blaming
Making light of the abuse and not taking your concerns about it seriously
Continually criticizing you, calling you names, shouting at you
Emotionally degrading you in private, but acting charming in public
Humiliating you in private or public
Withholding approval, appreciation or affection as punishment
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literally shut up im not crying.
artist - @marceline2174 (tumblr - twitter - IG)
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kripke era women + name meanings
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I am back with the requests!! Sorry for the delay, I got sidetracked. 😳 This is a request from @puffmunch-queen Eden Era Aziraphale and Crowley!! ---- This is the first time I've drawn them in the Eden era! I got frustrated trying to figure out Aziraphale's outfit. I'm not sure if this is how it should look . Anyway, I don't know about you, but I think the background turned out really well. 😁 @goodomensafterdark
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No one asked about my designs however I can post whatever I want forever
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I made this based on all the comments I’ve received about grad school. I hope you’ll like it and that it will be helpful for you 🌱
My English isn’t perfect, but I hope the message still comes through. ✨
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Prove it. Prove what? That you’re Peter Parker. I don’t carry an ID with me, y’know, kind of defeats the whole anonymous superhero thing.
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