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[rapturkish]

...her kuralı çiğnemezsem olmaz tabii, deli ediyorlar beni...

[lospeakerscorner]

TargaGo e via!

Sulla tangenziale si sperimenta TargaGo: stop soste al casello. Da ASPI u.n nuovo servizio gratuito per abbattere tempi e CO2 CITTÀ METROPOLITANA DI NAPOLI – è arrivata una nuova app: si chiama TargaGo ed è gratuita: grazie a un borsellino digitale ricaricabile, consente di passare al casello della Tangenziale cittadina senza fermarsi. L’innovativo servizio è stato sviluppato da Autostrade per…

[nicolasdelavy]

[dailiadelc]

[emanuelebottiroli]

50 SFUMATURE DI PINOT NOIR: IL TALK SHOW

Il talk show della quarta edizione di 50 Sfumature di Pinot Noir in scena a Voghera sabato 14 ottobre 2023 nello spazio di Co-Working 70 di via Emilia. Ad uno dei vitigni più famosi al mondo, il Pinot nero è dedicato questo festival del gusto e dell’olfatto che si svolge nella terza città della provincia di Pavia a 45 minuti da Milano. Un format vincente ed elegante per armonizzare le esigenze di…

[imkrisyoung]

Can we please stop putting down autistic, ADHD, and other neurodivergent people whose traits are considered 'cringe', 'dorky', 'weird' or something else considered to be socially unacceptable?

We get enough shit from neurotypical people—we don't need to throw each other under the bus too.

"But they're making us look bad!"

I. Don't. Care. It's wrong to put each other on hierarchies. Simple.

[theaspiechan]

Just a small fact 💮

[jakas-cywilizacja]

[abearinthewoods]

What is autism

I get what autism is and how it can work but only really on a superficial level, I don't get it really cause I don't have it.

Autism is a consistent mismatch between how you mean to come across, and how you actually come across. Autism is knowing and understanding every single cringe thing you've ever done, but only months after the fact. Autism is finding out at 34 that expectations of eye contact doesn't mean stare directly and only into their eyes. Autism is the fact that for every specific struggle an aspie has, there is another who excels at it, which only gets used to excuse why you deserve no compassion for your struggle.

Its the consistent self doubt related to every social interaction because you can't tell where lines are or why/when people are allowed to cross them. Until you just flip flop between holding everybody at arms length so that you don't get in trouble for accidentally-ing a boundary and feeling so isolated watching other people figure out how and when to dip into more familiar/friendly territory with others and deciding to say fuck it to the anxious thoughts and randomly stumbling upon a friend who you can finally connect with on more than a superficial level in the mist of 5 people who are now creeped out by you and are trying to convince said friend to ostracize you.

But on a more literal level, Autism is a brain whos subconscious operates purely on flood gates. Emotional situations will trigger seemingly no emotional reaction, unless the neurochemical strength hits past a threshold, and then it triggers all the emotional reaction. Even the ability to read somebody else, some part of you sees the facial signs, but the signals produce no response, until they hit past a threshold, then they trigger a full and sometimes overwhelming response.

And because we can't read other people, we don't see what people can read into us, correctly or incorrect, which often gets us into trouble.

tl;dr: Imagine if your subconscious could only whisper so quiet you can't hear anything or scream so loud you can't hear anything else.

[stuffieautism]

autistic people are not all able to integrate into the world in the ways you think we should be able to, with the accommodations that helped you or someone with lower support needs.

i had to give up on registering for a service that was supposed to help people like me with phone calls for doctor appointments, etc because it became extremely clear that their service was not accessible for someone (myself) with cognitive impairments. i asked for help with understanding and their response was incomprehensible to my brain. i couldn’t use a service for disabled people because i am too disabled.

yes, do not assume incompetence, but also don’t assume someone not able to understand complex concepts and systems and such, isn’t a person with feelings and a life and existence that matters, even if it doesn’t make sense to you

and please for the love of god stop demeaning “neurotypicals” for being “stupid” when they can’t understand things you deem simple if, for no other reason, then because in doing so you are being ableist to fellow autistic and neurodevelopmentally disabled people who can’t understand because of our own disabilities, which may even be the same as yours, on a different part of the spectrum.

not being “intelligent” or functional doesn’t make me unworthy of life and joy

[nicolasdelavy]

[bifflesnitch]

The late diagnosed neurodivergent experience of being told you're wrong your entire fucking life.

You're too sensitive,

it's not too loud,

it's not too bright,

it's not overwhelming,

you're just overreacting,

it doesn't smell weird,

the texture is fine,

just eat it,

just wear it,

plans change get over it,

stop being so dramatic,

why are you so argumentative?

I was obviously joking,

why do you take everything so seriously?

I'm not yelling,

It's not a big deal,

stop nitpicking,

stop jiggling/rocking,

stop fidgeting,

stop humming/whistling/clicking,

stop talking about that,

no one cares,

you're annoying people,

you're so high strung,

just relax,

stop worrying,

stop overthinking,

just be normal

and then people act all surprised that you grow up to be an insecure, indecisive wreck. What else did you expect me to be when you spent my whole life teaching me my own perception was faulty and couldn't be trusted?

Grooming me to seek approval and validation from others for every decision I made because whenever I made them myself, they were always wrong.

[pumpkinspicedmochi]

I see this so much so here it is :

just because you don't personally need tone tags/tone indicators doesn't make them 'stupid' , infantilizing, ableist or "making us (autistic people) look 'bad' "

why do y'all think that things that some autistic people need is infantilizing . "we understand sarcasm" well some of us don't and find tone tags useful. You can't erase other autistic people because you somehow think we 'make you look bad' ..man do y'all really not want certain autistic people in the 'autistic community' do you?

this goes for a lot of other things too , honest like some autistic people struggle with more ..how is it ableist to you for people to bring them up..? we exist , why do you want to erase our existence just because you don't struggle with those things..

[emanuelebottiroli]

Francesco Cosci è il Miglior Sommelier d'Italia 2023 ASPI

Francesco Cosci premiato dal presidente ASPI Giuseppe Vaccarini Il Miglior Sommelier d’Italia Aspi 2023 si chiama Francesco Cosci ed è stato premiato domenica 15 ottobre dalla giuria sul palco del teatro San Rocco di Voghera, a cornice della manifestazione “50 Sfumature di Pinot Noir”, al termine di un iter scandito da prove molto selettive. A consegnarli il prestigioso trofeo è stato il…

[crispnuqqet]

Happy autism acceptance month

Please remember to include level 2 autistics, level 3 autistics, and any medium to high support needs autistics. And to stop being so cruel. We exist and we deserve as much acceptance as level 1 and low support needs autistics do. It hurts to be excluded when it’s your own disorder. We have feelings and emotions.