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what would've happened if the other emotions didnt forgive anxiety?
UPDATE FOR INSIDE OUT ASK BLOG:
I have been on vacation and still am! This is why I haven't posted in a while.
I'm trying to finish the next ask but I also have been trying to enjoy my time with my extended family, I hope you guys can understand.
But! Here is the first 3 pages for the next ask while you wait!
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Question: What would’ve happened if the other emotions didn’t forgive Anxiety?
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#ask the inside out emotions#ask the emotions#u guys r gonna hate me 4 what im about 2 do#the frog must suffer#its for character development I swear#dont worry it only gets worse from here#inside out 2#inside out fandom#ask blog#inside out#inside out ask blog#inside out fanart#insideout#io2#art#Comic#fan comic#inside out anxiety#inside out joy#inside out fear#inside out anger#anger is an asshole I’m sorry#angst#more angst#who reads these tags#buckle up buttercup#artist is slightly unhinged
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Jamie spending so much time with Roy and visibly being so close to Roy that even Roy’s little niece takes note and ensures he’s invited to their Uncle’s Day celebration as Uncle Roy’s best friend, YET Jamie still being surprised, flattered and excited several episodes later when Roy does something as simple as invite him out for a beer, because that’s clearly something that’s unprecedented—the first opportunity to hang out as friends without any guise of it being for football—is just soooooo!! The implications are so silly. Roy definitely spent the entire season framing every interaction he had with Jamie around “work” and “training” even when he really just needed to be around someone (well, specifically around Jamie) because his ass couldn’t just admit he likes having Jamie around. We know from the show he showed up at least once in the evening for “once more before dinner” (Roy…it was literally dark outside and you’d already had Jamie running around twice that day. be forreal)
…so anyway! Roy bringing dinner over to Jamie’s 4 nights a week and it’s really because he doesn’t want to eat alone and having his meals with Jamie is just better, but he still disguises it every time as “well I obviously need to make sure your nutrition is sound and you are eating enough and the right things this is a very important part of your training. I am doing you a crucial service.” Roy bringing Jamie along with him when he watches Phoebe because Phoebe and Jamie adore each other, but Roy “makes” him show her some footie tricks in his back garden and claims it’s because “being able to explain it to someone else is how you become a leader on the team this is very important” or else has him haul phoebes around on his back or whatever as “strength training” to make himself feel better about just wanting Jamie to be there to hang out. Roy following Jamie back home after matches because he needs to “assess his post-match routine and make sure he’s not overdoing it,” but really it’s just them plopped on Jamie’s couch watching bad reality tv and judging it together. And then *obviously* he might as well stay over, so that he can also observe and give Jamie his helpful advice on a morning wake up and stretch routine. Totally necessary!
And look, part of Jamie understands what’s really happening here and at least sort of knows Roy really does like spending time with him outside of just work and training (hence all his best friend teasing on Uncle’s Day), but Jamie is also a bit of an idiot (affectionate) who in equal measure sort of believes he’s just deluding himself and that all of this really has been an elaborate and effective training scheme from Coach Roy.™️ They perplex and bewitch me. s
#Roy your incredibly stunted ability to express the overwhelming weight of the emotions inside you enchants and alarms me#silly silly boys#also yes I am still on the bones and honey scene lmao I’ve been thinking about it a LOT this week#like even if you set aside that Jamie may have thought roy was asking him out (a theory I tend to agree with)#isn't that even MORE bewildering?? like that means Jamie was THAT happy and shook about being asked to hang out as FRIENDS.#because roy really has never once done that without pretending it's actually about something else#roy you stupid idiot (affectionate)#Jamie Tartt#Roy Kent#royjamie#ted lasso
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Same guy (I keep forgetting to use my 💜 I’ll get better at it) and like. This AU COULD be omegaverse but honestly I think it’s even better some how if it isn’t. Like they’re not being pushed together instinctually due to compatibility driving their feelings. It’s just pure “mmm I like this crazy/annoying guy lets torment each other for the next few years until we can finally admit we’re in love” and it’s GREAT
lex one day when they’re getting together privately admitting he killed his dad and Dan just going “yeah I know it’s fine?” And lex is ??????? And then Dan having to admit that he was fully aware when that happened and was already one of his dads security guys at the time. And lex is even more ???????????? And then Dan is just “some dads just need to die, too. I won’t say anything but I did have a stepdad as a child. Emphasis on “did”” 💜
Dan is from Gotham, he’s seen some shit. He does NOT care about Alexander Luthor Sr.’s ALLEGED homicide. Dan’s like “yeah maybe the tapes went missing that night who knows babe” and Lex is like…..you did that for me 🥺 before you even knew me? WHY? And Dan has to tell Lex, without letting Lex crash out (he’s going to anyway) that he felt sorry for him, and that’s why….
#Lex proceeded to crash out#bc no one should feel sorry for him what a disgusting emotion#pity?????#for him?????#meanwhile inside he’s crying#bc no one looked out for that Lex#but Dan did#withojt any motive#aghhhhhhhh#Dan the alpha#Lex Luthor#asks#anon
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so i know this guy and he's very cute,, and i kinda wanna forcefem him, but don't know where to start 🥺🥺
/hj
Awwww that’s wonderful!!!
Well one of my favourite techniques is by allowing the target plausible deniability for dressing up
Maybe do a bet and the loser has to wear this dress Or maybe make it real ambiguous and reveal the dress part later
Or maybe make a bigger social event where everyone dresses so cutely so you might as well join in
Be kind, be accepting and patient, love every single step “he” takes and be very vocal about your encouragements
Truly love bomb “him”, make “him” associate feminity with happiness (if that association isn’t there already), make every step made “wonderful and lovely and you’re doing so great and I’m so so proud of you and I just want to gobble you up and and and” don’t give “him” any time to doubt
“He” is adorable and you’re so so so glad “he” is letting you do “his” nails, you know this color would fit so so well, and regardless of how well painted the nails are, they do add so much and make “him” look so good, and we should really try purple next!
That’s another crucial step, once you make progress don’t let it go
You paint his nails? Wonderful! If they get chipped and “he” asks how to remove it als to it for “him and instantly apply a new color
“He” let you do some basic makeup? Make “him” feels so so pretty and set a time next week when we can try the different mascara! And maybe even dress up a little to match the make up!
“He” puts on a skirt for you? Well it’s gorgeous it fits so so well it’s really “his” color! And maybe just take it with you? And if not let’s go clothes shopping next week! I know this lovely second hand store where we can get you so many beautiful clothes for cheap! It’d be a shame if you didn’t own at least one skirt yourself!
And, I kind of forgot what I was saying there! Just get “him” to agree to one minor point, make “him” feel so so loved for it, and always set up the next point, which can be either more of the same or an escalation, but never give her time to doubt, herself always pin down a “next-time” for her to look forward to, and always make her feel so so loved for showing up every time!
People aren’t nearly vocal enough about how they feel towards those closest to them! Be the exception!
#I slightly blacked out for the last 20 minutes writing that response#it was meant to be jokey and in universe#but honestly I believe this is the way to go if you want to do irl forcefem!#make her feel loved!#be patient with her!#and at some point have a heart to heart talk about her emotions regarding all of this#not everyone is secretly a girl inside (yet)#so be open that she might want to do femme stuff only as kink#and that’s okay!#love her for it!#good luck cutie!#keep me up to date on how it goes!#(and I do hope my advice was useful#if you were expecting something else just say so!)#.#gentle#forcefem#i-like-talking#asks open!#serious talks
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Any toxic hcs for the milgram prisoners + es? pain bc we gotta know toxic things our favs do or say….
LMAO this made me laugh so much – we love when our faves suck ass 👏👏👏 I feel we’ve gotten a clear picture of how the prisoners react to people they don’t like and their reactions to negative emotions, so I tried to find toxic things they’d do when interacting with/arguing with people they actually do like lol. Some are based on specific canon details and some I’ll admit are just hcs/vibes I’ve always had about them >:3
When making friends, Haruka messes with their personal belongings. It’s never anything huge, but he’ll enter cells in secret to pocket possessions, hide things, and occasionally ruin things. He likes that the owner has to come find him to get it back, find it, or is forced to spend more time with him now that their other activity can’t be used. Even if he’s scolded for it, he takes that as a win and it doesn’t stop him from doing it again.
Yuno likes things her way, and is willing to go behind people’s backs to get it. She always gets what she wants at the end of the day. She’ll communicate well the first time, but if the answer isn’t satisfactory then she sneaks around to change the situation in secret. She employs bribery and blackmail, always giggling and saying it’s not that big of a deal so it’s difficult to accuse her seriously.
(One definition of toxic behavior is something that “creates an environment of stress, discomfort, and emotional turmoil” and that’s basically every confrontation that comes out of Fuuta’s mouth LMAO. So aside from the obvious,) he always assumes the worst of people no matter what a kind gesture it may be. He believes every compliment and favor is just an attempt at manipulating someone. He takes even the most well-intentioned statements as hidden attacks and insults, and reacts accordingly without telling the other.
Muu is very touchy, and doesn’t listen when people shy away from her. She’s constantly trying to fix people’s outfits and their hair by grabbing things, or guiding their hand to showing them the correct way to do something, or taking things she thinks people are offering to her right from their grasp. She gets really offended when people do the same to her, and explains it’s different because she knew what she was doing when she helped, and they don’t.
Shidou always assumes he’s the smartest in the room. Though he’s not openly arrogant about it, he’ll politely ignore advice from others and steamroll conversations because he’s just so sure of his own plan. Even when apologizing or admitting to be wrong, it’s clear he thinks there was a very intelligent reason for being wrong rather than it being a messy emotional mistake. Whenever he argues, he stays calm and has this patronizing look, as if he’s talking to someone much younger and dumber than himself.
Mahiru is a busybody. She thinks she’s capable of solving other people’s problems that they 1. Don’t need her to fix, 2. Don’t want her to fix, 3. There isn’t actually a problem, she just misunderstood. She hears one person venting about another and she immediately goes to the other party to tell them and try to work things out. She believes people have unrequited feelings and goes to wild lengths to set them up together. She announces things that were confided to her in secret, thinking it will help to get it off people’s chest.
Kazui can get into bouts of “learned helplessness” with his imagined age. He’ll assume he’s too old to get the joke/reference; it’s too much to explain to him, don’t trouble yourself; he can’t relate to your pain; you wouldn’t get his joke/reference/pain because it’s from a different time, etc. He acts like he’s doing a favor and saving people the trouble of talking to him, but it’s clear he’s just not putting in the work to relate to others and offer them a simple kind word.
(I don’t know if a 12yo can be “toxic” per se, but) Amane is perfectly attuned to what others will respond to when she tries to argue. She may seem like she’s preaching in vain to people who won’t listen, but she definitely knows the right words/tone/framing to use to get the reaction she’s looking for while coming out of the situation looking innocent and well-behaved. Sometimes she says things knowing full well they won’t work, but if she stays calm and “oblivious” while the adult gets worked up, it’s difficult for people to blame her for any outburst.
Mikoto assumes others feel the same as him, and will charge ahead with uncomfortable plans and conversations. He doesn’t see personal questions as invasive or pushy because he assumes everyone else has a perfectly scripted normal-life response like him. He thinks everyone will eventually get used to being thrown into the social spotlight because he gets nervous sometimes but then enjoys it. He offers unsolicited advice, as well as unsolicited criticism, because he can’t imagine anyone wanting an “unstable” life like they’re living now.
Kotoko feels above certain conversations and arguments, and will simply walk out instead of talking things out. Even when stuck in a tight room, she’ll just shut down and stay silent rather than have a tough conversation. She claims she won’t dignify the other with an answer, but it’s clear she just doesn’t want to face the discomfort of the topic.
Es refuses to talk, in general – even neutral or good information is difficult for them to communicate. Sometimes they assume everyone else is observing the situation as closely as them (so they’re all on the same page), and sometimes they just think it’s not the others’ business (so it’s okay the other is left in the dark). They don’t talk to the prisoners about each other – even when serious issues are revealed in interrogations, Es doesn’t pass it along to get any help. They don’t speak a word when they’re making plans, so others end up doing things and making their own plans that conflict and make Es angry at their disruption. They don’t speak up about interpersonal situations – good or bad – and leave it up to the other party to bring up topics.
#milgram#es#haruka sakurai#yuno kashiki#fuuta kajiyama#muu kusunoki#shidou kirisaki#mahiru shiina#kazui mukuhara#amane momose#mikoto kayano#kotoko yuzuhira#thank you for the ask! this was very fun 😂#let it be known theyre all terrible communicators in their own special way 🙏 asdfasdf#but there were some ways that were more specific than others that i wanted to list in these#i feel like kids are still like. learning about the world and socialization so i dont know if 01020408 can really be called toxic#but still very fun thinking about their terrible reactions to things LMAO#mikoto was actually the hardest because hed be such a people pleaser#hed turn himself inside out before creating an environment of stress discomfort and emotional turmoil for someone else 💀#but i wondered if pouring all his attention into this dream of the perfect life and spending so much time around other workaholics#would affect his view of others#i love hearing how confused the prisoners are about the milgram process and realizing#none of them knew about each others’ dangerous plans and realizing ‘oh so es didnt tell them Anything anything’#😭😂#headcanon time milgram
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Me when neurotic storybots go brrr
Anyways here's Widget and Bang as my two fav characters from Inside Out, Anxiety and Fear! 🧡💜
#the sillies#these two really fit well with these two emotions#like Widget is totally Anxiety and there's just so many things that remind me of Bang when I watch Fear#anyways I love those two#both Widget and Bang & Anxiety and Fear#storybots#ask the storybots#storybots answer time#bang storybots#storybots bang#widget#Widget Whatchamacallit#widget storybots#digital art#storybots fanart#inside out#inside out 2#fear inside out#anxiety inside out#inside out anxiety#inside out fear#inside out fandom#inside out fanart#inside out art#digital drawing#digital illustration#character swap#storybots oc
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You can try drawing Shame or any other cut character
I can't attach an image, only hyperlink
I uh
put my own twist on her design
#its just princess luna lmao#anyway#jizeru's artsies#sketch#doodle#inside out#inside out 2#inside out shame#scrapped emotions#clip studio pro#ask
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What results are you hoping to get by the end of the project? How long will the project last?
"well,I'm glad you asked! The purpose of this project is to know the effects and purpose of emotions to a Smurf. This will go down to the emotional science of smurfkind!! I'm hoping I can Smurf out the purpose of several basic emotions that Smurf in one's head"

"if all goes well,this project should....hmm... probably last a week or so,if there's no external disturbances nor any technical issues." - Brainy
#mod azazel#smurfs#smurfs au#the smurfs#inside out#inside out au#smurfs x inside out au#emotion project au#brainy smurf#ask answered
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May 6th, 1965 -
Alan Price tells Bob Dylan that he has left The Animals...
and i have never been the same since
#60 years ago today......#i hope d.a. pennebaker knows how much he fundamentally changed my life by inadvertently capturing this raw emotion of alan's on camera 😔#this scene..... this scene....... there is so much to say from both a filmmaking perspective AND a totally-normal-animals-fan perspective#the way pennebaker so wildly whips the camera around to catch alan's expression in that moment after bob asks the question...#sooooo reflective of alan's racing thoughts in that moment#bob's expression after the fact says everything you need to know... the way he even glares up at pennebaker briefly..... ooohhhh#bob knows that this is alan at his most vulnerable... drinks compounded with the emotion he feels after leaving the band so suddenly#the moment i saw this scene i thought to myself 'i need to know more about this alan price...'#'i need to know who specifically in the animals made that twinge of pained regret cross his face... why he's so torn up inside...'#little did i know that the person who alan was so torn up over later went on to say that the night alan left the animals was#'the worst night of his life' .... and later went on to compare their relationship to a love affair#AND that he told alan that if he left the animals then he would want to leave too.....#goooosh eric describing alan's presence in this film as 'being under bob's spell' huuurts.... I COULD GO ON AND ON AND ON ABOUT PRICE-BURDON#anyway.... i personally see this scene and alan as a whole to provide the emotional climax for the film#where the audience gets to see bob also with his guard completely and utterly down. even more so then in the savoy jam session scenes.#seeing a bit of himself in alan in that moment... his relationship with his folk roots not unlike alan's relationship with his band#i love when bob says 'i don't feel like singing' and alan immediately responds with 'you will when you get out there' aaaa#also the bit at the end where bob.2 checks on alan and he's breaking the bottle over the piano and getting all giggly again..... aaaaaA#apparently that piano is still at the newcastle city hall to this day.... i need a photo with it#thank you to bob neuwirth as always for looking after alan i can't thank you enough 🙏#pennebaker said that when the door closes at the end it's supposed to symbolize the halfway point of the film.... love that so much#dont look back#don't look back#bob dylan#alan price#bob neuwirth#classic rock#60s rock#the animals#things i said today
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PART 4 of: What would've happened If the other emotions didn't forgive Anxiety? (Last part for this ask)
Bet you wish I didn't give up on coloring for that one page, you know which one I'm talking about. maybe I'll color that single page later for fun. Or, maybe If enough people want to, I’ll let you guys color them in your own style. Please comment, I really enjoy reading what you think of my art. I read every single one and try to respond to all aswell. Plus I enjoy hearing how much pain yall are in for reading what I made, lol.
I hope this is explains why the other characters were written a bit out of character. It’s because it’s a nightmare. It’s not real. The only character that is real in this is Anxiety. The others are a figment of her worst worrys.
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#art#ask the inside out emotions#inside out#inside out fanart#insideout#inside out ask blog#io2#ask blog#inside out 2#inside out fandom#inside out anxiety#inside out joy#inside out disgust#inside out anger#inside out embarrassment#angst#anxiety angst#more angst#EVEN MORE ANGST HAHA#EVEN MORE ANGST ANGST TAGS#the frog must suffer#just wait for the last page yall#inside out art#comic#fancomic#fan comic#fan art#fanart#anxiety io2#inside out 2 anxiety
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chat how we feelin bout the bum biddy biddy biddy bum bum
#pdbc#my favorite hobby is finding the shittiest possible software with drawing capabilities and finding a way to make stuff like this#today I tried to use ScratchJr. the absolute worst coding app of all time coming from someone who Can Not Code#anyway bum biddy biddy biGETS SHOT#before you ask this is not the fate that befell him by the end. he is not stuck dancing for the rest of his life#the eternal prison is however an actual place in pdbc. you go there if Horge The Mighty decides you’re annoying#only Ray The Slightly Less Mighty can get you out#you get trapped there until you’re so dead inside that you stop feeling emotions. then you’re let out#and then hopefully you learn your lesson to not bother Horge#technically it’s never said in canon what goes on in there but it’s probably this#bum biddy biddy biddy bum bum………….#that would break anyone after a few minutes I think. horrific torture#I love having tumblr because I can post whatever I want. like hell yeah my mutuals have to put up with this 🦅🦅💥💥💥#this is GLITCHING and NOT POSTING it is CURSED
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i just watched Inside Out 2 and it gave me an idea! (And I'm about to make it your problem)
So: if the League was responsible for someone's (probably not very mentally stable) mind, which emotion would each of them be? (It doesn't have to be an emotion from the film. Go wild if you want!)
Also, who would be in control the most? And is someone actually in charge?
So because I love to make things difficult for myself, I decided that they’ll not only have to be from the movies, but that each emotion can only be used once. That being said I think they’d be:
Joy - Magne. While Magne joined the League due to being discriminated and feeling out of place in society, I think shes the greatest example of someone who turned the League into a real home, and turned herself into someone she was proud of. She wanted to find a place where she could be herself, and find the confidence to be herself as well. And she did! She found that place and those people and found her own confidence and made her life something she could be happy with
Anxiety - Twice. Obviously a lot of his character is about being uncertain of himself and constantly being conflicted or contradicting himself. His general stance on himself is clearly a huge source of stress and anxiety for him, but also I think his jumpy/contradictory personality kind of embodies anxiety in a way
Ennui - Mr Compress. Alright I know this might seem kind of odd since hes Anything but the tired, bored, apathetic teen in Inside Out, but hear me out. He sorta acts as the counter to ennui. He doesnt really have a reason to be a villain other than he just. Wants to? He doesnt need to be dramatic or flamboyant but he Wants To. In a way, you say that he does find the world to be uninteresting or unappealing, and that on its own its not something he particular cares about. He acts the way he does because of that, he wants to make sure he doesn’t become bored and apathetic
Anger - Dabi. This ones pretty self explanatory I think. Hes angry at the world, at his family, at his life, at heroes, everything. His main motivation is that hes been wronged, and everyone deserves to pay for it. While a lot of the League are angry that they were wronged in some way, most of them have learned to cope with it in some way, or channel it into other goals and mindsets. Dabi never really learned to do this, and instead made his whole life a mission of revenge
Disgust - Mustard. He’s absolutely repulsed by heroes, especially those in training, seeing them as snobs who look down on others. He’s angry like Dabi, but in a way where social hierarchies play a lot into it. Maybe its just because hes a teen, but he reminds me a lot of stereotypical high school movies, where the dislike between kids is less focused on genuine injustices, and more on distain for social politics and a general sense of how much “better” you are than someone else. From what I remember of Disgust in Inside Out she had a similar vibe to her
Envy - Toga. While a lot of the league have a story about wanting something that others have (safety, friendship, self confidence, etc.) Toga is the one who acts on this the most, and in the most malicious ways. Her desire for other people or what they have is a main motivating force for her, and you can see that in the way she acts with other people, especially with how possessive she can be
Fear - Shigaraki. A lot of Shigaraki’s life has revolved around fear in some way. He started out as a timid child, scared of his family and later scared of himself. His fear was then taken advantage of by OfA, using it to mold him into the perfect prodigy in his teen/young adult years. As an adult, he serves as the face of the League, being a symbol of fear to the general public
Nostalgia - Kurogiri. While Kurogiri himself may not have any memories of his life pre-League, a lot of his story revolves around the past, and a life he can never go back to. Also the fact that Riley gets nostalgia later in life and Oboro became Kurogiri later as well matches up nicely I think
I couldn’t really think of anyone for sadness or embarrassment so. Whoops.
I think in typical League fashion, Shigaraki is in charge to an extent. At least if not in charge then he’s most prevalent. I think the person stuck with these assholes would be both a really worried person in general, constantly fearing that everyone is against them, but they would cope with that by trying to get others to fear them instead
#i was not expecting to have to research inside out today#i havent seen the first movie since it came out and havent seen the second one#my hero academia#league of villains#not a quote#ask#inside out 2 spoilers#are the new emotions spoilers??#stuff i never thought id be asking/tagging
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the t o e b e a n s in your recent colored drawing
HEHEE YES, I just think it would be so cute if they had em 🥹
They're just Little creatures so I'd say why not give them some beans :3
#their emotions they technically don't really have rules when it comes to their designs so it's fun to explore >:D#inside out fandom#inside out#inside out 2#asks#txt
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Hello! I just wanted to ask how it's going with anxiety x ennui fanfic.
I ironically JUST made a post about it!!!!
One is finished! Waiting on some extra aspects, the other is still currently in the process of being written. If I could write it faster I would. But I’m currently doing an insanely intense 5 week double college course session. So I’m basically fitting in 2 14 week classes into 5 weeks. It’s INSANE!
But any free time I do try to spend writing so I don’t leave y’all hanging!
#anon ask#inside out 2#Anxienn#anxiety x ennui#anxiety inside out#ennui inside out#ennui x anxiety#inside out anxiety#inside out ennui#inside out fandom#inside out riley#inside out disgust#inside out joy#inside out sadness#inside out fear#inside out envy#inside out embarrassment#inside out anger#inside out emotions#inside out 2 anxiety#joy x sadness#Anger x disgust x fear#electricnoodle
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men are inherently traumatized under the patriarchy bc they're pressured or forced to conform to the standards of manhood, which to put very simply, is to never express of feel emotions, which makes them bad at socializing, thus rendering them eternally isolated.
#it IS inherently traumatizing to bottle everything up or only be able to express it in indirect ways.#even more so to be told you HAVE to live life that way or else you're not Man Enough.#its like trapping an explosion- sure everything outside was left unscathed but the inside of whatever you used to trap it with is fucked#you just. rot from the inside out when you ignore your own pain 'for others sake'#i put that in quotation marks because a lot of the things guys are taught to believe are a burden for others to 'deal with' emotions wise#is like any other day of the week when women are openly loudly and unapologetically talking about it.#the inherent isolation that comes when you are/are perceived as a man is no joke.#everyone else follows the rules of the patriarchy so they dont think to ask you how you feel nor think you even need it#all it takes it one really rough day. and you and i BOTH know these (cis specifically) men dont have ANY of the therapy tools#necessary to help themselves through that pit. bc its 'not masculine' to go to therapy .-.#i think this is the huge wall we all run into here. like no its not any womans obligation to be a therapist to a man. at the same time#the [more often than not cis] men we have these days are more likely to go to therapy but the 'therapy is gay' thing still has a good#stronghold. at the very least guys always see it as someone having a weakness if they need to go. so what we need to do is somehow#convince cis men that therapy is fine and normal actually and good for you even. bc the shame around going to therapy means#we'll always be stuck here.#dont be a therapist but at the very least- let me ask you to pass on the message of how therapy is good and doesnt detract from their#masculinity. and dont say it in a snobbish 'i told you so' way either. deeply unhelpful and ur just doing it to fuel ur own ego.
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Opinions on MysteryAcid (Jevin x OWAKCX)?
ooh it has been slowly growing into me as of recently. i was indifferent about the ship at first but the more i look into their dynamic, the more i start to see the appeal and enjoy it hyee
also mysteryacid is such a fire ship name when i first heard it and i love that for it hehe
#leer got an ask#miscellaneous leer#though i gotta be honest: i saw this ship as ''me and the goth bitch i pulled by being unmedicated'' and it makes me giggle hdjdhdk#but yea i can see a scenario where jevin and owakcx starts out as acquaintances#<- (especially starting in a timeline where owakcx didn't get bonked and jevin didn't have wolpertinger traits)#and then once owakcx gets discharged/escaped the asylum he met jevin at rare odds and stayed at his place temporarily#and then slow burn starts to happen there as they lived as roommates#also w/ owakcx being a squirpine (squirrel + porcupine) and jevin being a rabbit; their interactions are either wholesome or kinda chaotic#owakcx often always climbs and mounts on jevin because of his instinctual need to climb and also liking the soft texture of jevin's fur#and jevin was disgruntled at first bc he doesn't want physical contact from anyone but he tolerates owakcx enough to let him do that#and then he later developed a soft spot and some emotions inside him thanks to the constant feeling of owakcx's weight being on his back#but yea i think they'd have nice comforting snuggles at occasions and dress alternative together (oogh this ship is cute actually hold on)#idk im just yapping how it might've go if the ship were to take place in my au (and it aint even a fixed dynamic so im just yapping to yap-)#anonymous
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