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[prplocks]

tvd lockscreens pls

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[countrymusiclover]

Eclipse of the Heart

Jaidlyn Forbes came home in the middle of her years of college to look out for her younger sister Caroline. When she returns home, she never expects to be captivated by the raven haired Damon Salvatore. But will being with him change everything her mother taught her to be.

Comments really appreciated ❤️

Tag list ( just ask to be added ) @melvia-ito @kmc1989 @tallrock35

[powermove102]

so vampire lore is just so willy-nilly that there are basically no rules. good on one hand, as it opens up all possibilities for new vamp media, but also ????? I remember watching all these for the first time (which happened quite recently, mind you) and being surprised about every little thing they pulled out their ass for the sake of convenience bc ¯\_(ツ)_/¯  it's convenient ig

anyway, for your viewing pleasure, vampire lore (in)consistencies:

[just-a-pole-sir]

More Ian and Paul please.

[chloesreality]

Relating to the first gif. Elena is sired.

Zalrb said in one of her posts. What she fought against is attraction mixed with confusion or something.

When she talked to her mum about Matt. “I don’t know what I feel.”

When she talked with Matt about Damon. She describes Damon as a person. That’s all.

“Elena is sired” yes. she is indeed. I know that. but what I was trying to explain with using that gif is that Damon was always trying to push some sort of feelings for him onto her, with his sexual jokes and inappropriate comments and behaviours, but yes at that point technically elenas actions weren’t really up to her but she wasn’t sired to him when Caroline made her admit she felt an attraction towards Damon and Zalrb and you are right, she was trying to fight against it in respect of Stefan and herself I guess.

and as for when she was talking to her mum about Matt and she says “idk what I feel” and then her mum says “yes you do” I feel like that’s the same sort of situation for SE aswell, like Elena being all “idk what I feel” but deep down in her heart knowing exactly how she feels and her feelings are for Stefan. she. loves. Stefan. Elena also says “I wish my mom was here to give me some advice” well that is her advice. follow your heart. and that’s exactly what she did at the end of s3. Elena followed her heart.

“The problems Damon” then elena thinks to herself (the confusion kicks in and she tries to make sense of it so she could explain it to Matt) “when I’m with him…it just, consumes me” the question is, what exactly does she mean by that? I think it means exactly what rose said earlier on: “Damon changes her too.” his traits (whenever elenas with him) rubs off on her and that’s down to his wit and his charm and his personality. and your right that’s down to the kind of person Damon is and how he uses that to get to Elena.

Elena talks about how she knows it’s wrong to love them both but when she chooses one then she looses the other. When I unpick this scene I get the feeling that she loves them both but very unequally and differently. Elena talks more deeply about Stefan. Longer. more heartwarmingly. and talks about Damon with confusion, shorter, more complex and less meaningful. like there’s no clear meaning to what she’s saying about him. it’s evident on who she’ll choose but there’s always that tick in the back of our minds when watching it going “wait IS she going to pick Damon? wait maybe she actually will” giving us the confusion and making us pick a side. Elena states she doesn’t want to loose anyone else and there it is. it’s the fear of becoming so dependent on these 2 brothers that she brings them together again but then she’s scared she’ll also be the one to drive them apart.

[rigginsstreet]

Sorry to be the only one still talking about them on tumblr dot com but someone’s gotta do it

[xxladymjxx]

Psst

tryna see all of Ian, go watch “tell me you love me”

Oooooo? 🫦🫦🫦

[harrys-lilfreak]

I saw this video on TikTok and it inspired this mess, i tried to switch it up a bit at the end.

It’s extremely short, so I’ll prob edit it tomorrow when it isn’t so late and my brain isn’t so rambley.

☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️

You were sitting on the couch with Harry doing your routine nightly scroll on tiktok, occasionally showing Harry a funny video here and there. While Harry was sitting finishing up some work he needed to do before heading to bed.

As you were scrolling you kept seeing people trying a male celebrity bracket filter. You thought it was funny because every time you watched to see who they would choose, they always chose Harry. You decided to try it too.

You open your camera, click on the filter, and the first choice it gives you is between Shawn Mendes and Ryan Reynolds you choose Shawn Mendes. Then it gives you the choice between Joe Jonas and Ian Somerhalder, you choose Ian Somerhalder, you were obsessed with The Vampire Diaries. That’s when it gave you the choice between Leonardo Dicaprio and Harry, so you lean forward and show Harry your screen and tilt your head to choose the photo of him. At first he looks back at you with a confused face, which quickly turned into an amused expression.

You continue picking between other celebrities until it gives you the choice between Harry and Joe Jonas and of course you choose Harry. After a couple more choices, the final choice pops up between Harry and The Weekend. You point your phone towards Harry so he can see your screen again and he raises his eyebrow at you, giving you a questioning look, he knows how much you love The Weekend’s music, so to tease him by tilting your head towards the photo of The Weekend. When Harry sees this he grabs your head and tilts it towards the picture of him with a satisfied look.

After you end the video, you turn to tell him, “I was gonna pick you, I promise.” To which he responds with a kiss on the lips and says, “just had to be sure.”

You then ask him, “do you mind if I post this?” He says he doesn’t mind.

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hopefully this makes sense!

and i hope you enjoyed!

[emihotaru]

Inktober day 18: Ian Somerhalder as Damon Salvatore in Vampire Diaries

Never seen the show so I asked my nieces for characters I should draw 😁

#vampirediaries #damonsalvatore #iansomerhalder #vampire #vampireinktober #inkdrawing #inktober #inktober2024

[shifterdomain]

How you hug

Jonah Hauer-King

He's just a sweetheart. He'll hold out his arms, asking for a hug rather than just giving one because he doesn't want to make you feel uncomfortable in public.

And then when you return the hug, his arms will just wrap around you securely and he'll lightly caress your shoulder with his thumb.

He loves burying his face in the crook of your neck as well and just take in your scent.

And when you're alone, this man won't be able to keep his hands off you (respectfully and consentually, of course). No matter how or which position, he'll have you in his arms.

Tom Glynn-Carney

(Sorry, couldn't find a gif of him hugging that fit)

Tom puts his everything into hugs. While it can be a small hug sometimes, he usually likes to pick you up. Especially after he's been away for a while and you come to pick him up at the airport.

He'll pick you up with ease, his hands on your back (or a little lower) and your legs wrapped around him. It's as if you are the only two people in existence.

Ewan Mitchell

(Sorry, couldn't find a gif of him hugging that fit)

Ewan is a tease and he simply loves hugging you from behind. He'll slide his hands from your hips to wrap around your waist and pull you into his chest.

He'll probably also sneakily press a kiss to your temple, cheek, neck or shoulder as well.

Matt Smith

Matt just loves to hug you tightly, wrap his arms around your shoulders and whisper sweet nothings into your ear.

This man is a gem and he would just lightly rub your back and tell you he loves you and all that.

Joseph Morgan

It's almost as if the world would end if he were to let go of you. At least, that's what he'd make it feel like.

In public he usually will stick to more of a small hug or a side hug, but among close friends, family or just the two of you, he will hold you as if his life depended on it.

He'll just wrap his arms around you, put one hand in your neck or on the back of your head to keep you close and sink into you.

Daniel Gillies

Much like Joseph, Daniel likes to just hold you close, but what mostly differs them, is that Daniel is more of a tease and more sneaky.

While he'll have one hand on the back of your head, cradling your neck or somewhere on your back, his other hand will most definetely be on your ass. It's just a little thing he likes to do, remind himself that you were really his and he was the only one who could hold you like that.

Paul Wesley

No matter how much of a jokester or tease Paul normally was, he was not about your hugs.

He would take you into a big bear hug, his arms around your shoulders, and just squeeze you close, swaying from side to side.

Don't get me wrong, he likes the occasional tap on your butt, but he preferes your hugs to be something special. As an actor he has to do a lot of intimate things with other women, which is why, when it comes to you, he likes to show his affections through the simplicity of a good hug.

Ian Somerhalder

Ian is very protective of the people he loves, and it shows through in the way he hugs.

His arms will wrap around you and he'll rest his chin on top of your head, holding you close, but not too tightly.

He likes to just have you close, make sure that you know he's there and how much he loves you, and his hugs really show that.

Chris Wood

Chris isn't much of a hugger, apart from the occasional ones, he usually sticks to just putting his hand on your shoulder or on your hip.

What he is, is a cuddler.

Whenever one of you are sitting or laying around somewhere, he'll find an excuse to cuddle.

If he's sitting on the couch, he'll nod for you to come over with a cheeky grin and then just pull you into his side, let your arms wrap around him and stroke your back, or play with your hair.

If, let's say, you visit him on set and are seated in his chair, he'll simply pick you up, earning lots of giggles as he sits down with you in his lap, his arms around your waist.

Jensen Ackles

Jensen gives more of a classic type of hug. His arms wrapping around you before he moves his hand up to stroke through your hair and cradle the back of your head.

He would be a little stiff at first, but after every hug you notice him growing a little softer, more comfortable.

Jared Padalecki

I know the gif is with Jensen, but I felt like it best captured Jared.

This man is as goofy as goofy can be. Look it up in the dictionary, you'll find his name.

Jared would just wrap his arms around you, locking you in his embrace and lift you up, teasing you that you're so small (most people are small compared to him).

It's silly, but he knows that it always makes you laugh, and that's his goal.

Especially when either of you have a bad day, he knows his sillyness will cheer you up, as the sound of your laughter does that for him. It's his little way of showing you he cares and that he feels comfortable enough with you to be his goofy self.

Matthew Daddario

Matt is a simple, affectionate man.

He loves having you near, wrapping a casual arm around your shoulders.

His hugs would be different depending on the reason for the hug. If it's just a hug, he'll wrap an arm around your shoulders and pull you into his chest. If it's because either of you is upset about something, he'll slide his arms around your waist and draw you in like that and if it's out of happiness or excitement, he'll wrap his arms around your waist and give you a small spin.

Dominic Sherwood

(Sorry, couldn't find a gif of him hugging that fit)

Dominic is an affectionate man and he doesn't shy away from showing you how much he cares about you, even through little things such as hugs.

He'll put his arms around you and just give you a big, good hug, whether you're alone, with friends and family, or out in public, he doesn't care. He knows you're his (and he's yours) and he's not afraid to show it.

Dylan O'Brien

If there was any possible way to hug you tighter, he would.

He's silly and goofy most of the time, but he's also very much in touch with his emotions and a vulnarable man. He won't always say it, but your hugs are his favorite thing.

He especially loves it when you are the one to initiate the hug as to him it's a sign that you want him around and that you like holding him as much as he loves being held by him.

You'll put your arms under his shoulders and his arms would lock around you as he'd pepper the side of your face and your shoulder with kisses, all to convey his love for you and show how much he cares about you.

Tom Holland

He likes to hug you from behind, let you know that even though you don't always see him, he loves you and he wants to hold you.

His arms would wrap around your shoulders and he'll press a kiss to your cheek before burying his face in your shoulder.

He especially loves it when you put your hand over his wrist and reach your other hand back to move through his hair as he finds the simple touch very comforting.

Josh Hutcherson

Random hugs are his favorite.

No reason behind it other than wanting to have you in his arms.

His arms wrapped around your waist, his chin on your shoulder. Short, but sweet.

As he would pull away, he'd give your ass a small tap or press a quick peck to your cheek.

Really, just short and sweet.

But also often.

VERY often.

If you come to visit him on set and they're looking for him, he'll most likely be off somewhere with you in his arms.

Tom Blyth

As stated before, Tom is a very affectionate person, so he will not miss up on the oppertunity to hug you.

When he comes back from filming, when you visit him or when you simply see each other again, he would practically tackle you in a hug.

His arms would wrap around your waist and being quite tall, he'd just pick you up in his arms, probably earning giggles and laughter.

Except when you're feeling down or having a bad day.

Then he'd wrap one arm around your waist and another around your shoulders, holding you close and hugging you tightly until you're feeling at least a little bit better.

[prplocks]

Oi, vc poderia por favor fazer locks da série the vampire diaries. Obrigada

<3

[countrymusiclover]

1 - Coming Back Home

Part 2

Eclipse of the Heart

Tag list ( just ask to be added ) @melvia-ito @kmc1989 @tallrock35

Opening the backside door of my truck eyeing the objects laying in the seat in front of me. Yanking the zipper of my duffel bag open I sighed seeing wooden stakes, wooden arrows and some vervain darts inside of it. The only double life I have ever known.

"You cock the barrel like this, point at the heart and shoot." My mother explained to me by cocking a handgun in her hands right in front of me.

My father was watching my younger sister Caroline at home allowing her time to take me down to the firing range and no one would question because she was the town Sheriff. "Why isn't Caroline learning this too, mom?"

"Because she's far too young for it, Jaid." She answered my question tucking some loose strands behind my ear that had come out of my ponytail.

I nodded understanding her response. "Do I have to do this?"

"It's the only way I know you'll be able to protect yourself when I can't always be there." She said back to me offering out the handgun in her hands for me to take from her.

Sucking in a breath I picked it up feeling the cold metal touching my fingers. Wrapping my fingers completely around the gun I aimed it at the target down the range. "One…two…three." I muttered to myself doing my best to keep my eyes open when I fired it off.

"That's fairly good for your first time." The target paper came up with a push of a button so we could both see the end result. My mother grasped a hand on my shoulder when I lowered the gun looking at her, the small smile gone in an instant. "Now do it again and again until you don't miss."

Slinging the duffel bag over my shoulder I closed the truck door and headed up to our front door. Walking upstairs to my old bedroom I knew I had a whole backseat to unpack but it didn't matter right now. I couldn't stay at college knowing that our mother had probably already been teaching my sister about the supernatural like she did me.

I loved my mother, don't get me wrong. But the day I turned sixteen she decided to tell me the truth about what the council was hiding from the rest of the town. The truth that vampires still existed.

Stuffing the bag in my closet I heard someone coming so I slipped a small stake underneath my pant leg and a heart necklace with some vervain inside hanging around my neck. Shrugging a red leather jacket on I hid the jewelry underneath my shirt before someone entered my bedroom. "Jaid-o-raid, I can't believe you're home!"

"Care Bear!" I squealed, spinning around on my feet seeing my sister standing in the doorway. We both ran over to one another and embraced in a tight yet warm hug after being apart for so long.

She finally broke the hug holding onto my forearms. "I can't believe you're home. Wait, did I miss family weekend so you came all this way to see me?"

"No you didn't miss anything. I just felt that I needed to be home. Plus I've missed you bunches." I shrugged my shoulders through part of a lie. She didn't know that I was terrified that our mother had already turned her into a hunter.

She grinned brightly at me. "Well I'm glad you're home. And since you are, you should come to the back to school bonfire tonight."

"I technically don't think I'm allowed since I'm not in high school anymore."

My younger sister slightly rolled her eyes. "That doesn't matter. You're my sister. Plus they'll be booze and hot guys there."

"Hmm fine. But only for a little bit." I caved and she giggled before we spent a few hours before it would get dark and then we went out to the bone fire.

But this didn't last long and we ended up at the Grill for drinks. Caroline and Bonnie were sitting at one of the tables and I was sitting up at the bar sipping on a Bourbon.

"Are you sober yet?" The Bennett girl asked her friend.

My sister put her face in her hands. "No…why didn't he go for me?"

"Can I get another drink please?" I waved the bartender over with my empty drink cup before he came over and took it from me. Resting my chin in the palm of my hand I eyed my sister who looked like she was about to cry again.

Bonnie pushed water across the table to her. "Keep drinking. I gotta get you home. I gotta get me home."

"Why didn't he go for me? You know, how come the guys that I want never want me?" Caroline laid her head down on the table having a pity party over the new guy Stefan Salvatore choosing one of her best friends over her.

Bonnie held her hands up in surrender. "I'm not touching that."

"I'm inappropriate. I always say the wrong thing. And... Elena always says the right thing. She doesn't even try! And he just picks her. And she's always the one that everyone picks, for everything. And I try so hard, and... I'm never the one." My sister runs her fingers through her blonde hair.

Bonnie sighed at her. "It's not a competition, Caroline."

Caroline sniffed through some tears "Yeah, it is."

"Keep the change." I put some cash on the bar top, finishing the second Bourbon that I had ordered and going over to my sister. Touching my sister's arm I tugged her up from the chair. "Hey, we should be getting home. Bonnie, can you take her home? I'll follow behind you and try to sober her up before our mom gets back."

She nodded, holding onto her friends arm walking out of the bar. "Sure."

Heading out the door the wind blew my hair in front of my eyes. I could feel someone was standing behind me where I reached inside of my jacket drawing out a smaller stake spinning around on my boots. "Back off, buddy." I snapped at the guy who had bright blue eyes and black hair from the looks of it under the light of the moon.

"Hmm you're the first human I've come across who was smarter enough to be armed." They guy smirked down at me shoving me against my truck passenger door.

I nearly dropped the wooden stake on the concrete staring into his eyes. "I'm not a typical human. I know what the hell you are."

"Then say it if you're not afraid." He teased me.

"Vampire." I muttered back to him.

He revealed his fangs and I saw black veins appearing underneath his eyes. "Too bad I'm going to kill you now." He bent his head to the side, fangs fully extended out now getting closer to my neck until I knee him in the crotch.

The vampire groaned and fell down on his knees giving me the opportunity to bolt and run away from him towards Bonnie's car but I couldn't find it meaning she must've already left. "Shit!"

"Shit is right, bitch." The guy forced himself to his feet causing me to spin on my toes to face him. I reached down towards the other stake in my boot but he sped towards me, throwing me down onto the parking lot ground.

I grunted squirming under his hands but he was much stronger than I was. He moved one hand underneath the back of my shirt, finding the sleep dart I had tucked away in there. "I think that's enough fight you for a while." His grip loosened as my eyes got heavy and I passed out on the concrete.

Blinking my eyes open I groaned, twisting my neck feeling sore from whatever I had been injected with. Beginning to look around the room all I could see was mostly darkness except for the dime light in the corner of the room. "You've got to be kidding me...urgh!" I attempted to get up off the stone floor but I got yanked down where I winced.

My wrists were bound to the ground with metal chains keeping me trapped. Footsteps could be heard coming down the stairs where I whipped my head around before a large metal door creaked open. "I would've thought you would have been an easier grab."

"Typically when someone gets abducted they do fight back. Now who the hell are you!"

The figure kept walking until they reached me. The first thing I noticed about him was his bright blue eyes. "Well don't worry in a few minutes you won't remember how we met."

"You can't compel me. I have vervain - where's my necklace!" I gasped looking down to see it wasn't around my neck anymore.

He lifted his hand to tilt my chin up. "I already figured that out. Now I noticed that you're hanging around with that other blonde. Who is she?"

"My sister. We're the sheriff's daughters." I answered his question when his eyes dilated and I cursed in my head that he had just compelled me.

He clicked his tongue, introducing himself. "I'm Damon. Damon Salvatore. Nice to meet you, hunter Forbes."

"I didn't ask for your name but thanks." I sarcastically remarked attempting to once again break free from the handcuffs. "Now if you're gonna kill me get on with it."

Damon moved one hand to the side of my face while his Raven black hair slightly fell in front of his eyes. "Oh I do plan on killing you. But not until you help me with something first."

"I'll never help you, vampire!" I bared my teeth snarling at him.

Damon held my face in his hands compelling me for the second time where I parted my mouth opened having no choice but to listen to him. "You'll want to help me. You'll not hate me. You will find me attractive and have me be your boyfriend." He released my face where I lowered my gaze to the stone floor beginning to feel something different going on about myself.

[fuji09]

Funny story

So last night my husband was scrolling through videos and I was watching them with him. A video of a girl playing a pick who you would marry game and one of the choices was always Jensen Ackles.

So for a few I say Jensen, it shows like Ryan Gosling, Harry Styles, Micheal B. Jordan and then a couple of hard ones like Chris Evans, Ryan Reynolds, Ian Somerhalder, that ultimately I ended up still picking Jensen.

The last one though, the last one was choosing between Jensen Ackles and Dylan O'Brien. I said Dylan O'Brien way too fucking fast really fast that my husband turned to look at me shocked and asked, "you picked someone else?"

I didn't even think before saying his name 🤣

[generalallxsanjishipper]

Icon made by: me

Hi! Welcome.

This is Generalallxsanjishipper's blog

(A long ass nick, I know.)

*stares at the (not many) but 100% "Yes" votes that was in the poll* (How the hell am I supposed to introduce myself? I have no idea, but okay, whatever—)

Killian here! It's not my real name, but it's my art name. I can be called Isa or Bibi as well. My real name is Barbara.

I'm from Italy and I'm a 2001 girl, She/her pronouns, bisexual, introverted, Virgo (too much of a perfectionist sometimes. Ops)

I am a Writer, a Screenwriter and an Artist. I even went to an art school, but the only thing that I learned there is anxiety. Yey.

I love reading. Like tons of books, but for whatever reason I stopped entirely reading books written in Italian and now I'm constantly binge-reading english stuff.

As a Writer, I create tons of Own Characters, yes. I have honestly so many OCs that it's hard to keep track of them between Original Works and Fanfiction. I have to admit that I never wrote as much fanfiction as I'm doing during those last years, mostly for bad experience with criticism in my first fics. But apparently I got over it after randomly starting to write little One Shots of a few different fandoms. It excalated, now.

To read my stuff, you can find me in AO3, Efp and Wattpad under Killian44peeta's nickname. Even as an Artist, you can find me with that nickname on Instagram. I DO NOT have TikTok and I DO NOT intend to have it. If I change my mind, it's gonna rain for months lol.

I have many, many fandoms.

Listing them all is impossible, but my obsessions usually stuck the most when I have a "main crush" in said fandom. If not, they are fleeting at best... And usually the same main crush is the one that I ship with most people (Not always though).

Yep. I'm a multishipper, pro LGBTQ+ and I love polyamorous relationships.

When I hate a ship, I just hate it. No matter how hard you try to change my mind. Still, I'm of the "live and let live policy" because, damn, ship wars are boring and if you dislike something, YOU BLOODY IGNORE IT.

YOU DO NOT STUPIDLY FIGHT SOMEONE AND SAY TO THEM TO K*LL THEMSELVES BECAUSE THEY DO NOT SHIP YOUR PAIRING. THOSE PEOPLE YOU SHIP DO NOT EXIST. THEY ARE JUST A WRITER'S FANTASY. NO NEED TO BE SO STUPIDLY CHILDISH. JUST CALM DOWN.

*takes a deep breath*

Thanks.

A few examples of my main crushes:

Animated ones first.

Sanji, Corazon, Reiju and Vivi (One Piece), Douxie (Tales of Arcadia), Zuko (Avatar), Mika (Owari No Seraph), Levi, Jean and Yelena (Shingeki no Kyojin), Akashi and Kise(Kuroko no basket), Gwen (Total Drama), Megara (Hercules), Dark Bloom (Winx Club), Hijikata (Gintama), Hyoga, Eden, every Virgo Saint ever except Shun (Saint Seiya+), Shiro and Pidge (Voltron), Lust and Roy(Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood)

Not animated crushes (directly the person, not the role, because if not the list would be sooo much longer, ok)

Daniel Sharman, Danielle Campbell, Colin O'donoghue, Richard Armitage, Ian Somerhalder, Josh Hutcherson, Zoe Kravitz, Tom Ellis, Hayden Christensen, Bridgette Mendler

(am I forgetting someone? Probably. Sorry)

Welp. I dunno what else to say. Hope you have fun inside my blog? If you wanna be friends (chat here, on Discord, WhatsApp... ) and ask questions I'm okay with it? If you wanna talk with me about (my, yours) stories, I'm DEFINITELY okay with it.

:D I love to rant about fanfictions and original works. I love ranting about ocs and headcanon about characters. Yes.

(do not kill me if I don’t answer immediately, I have a life/I need time to draw/I need time to write)

Bye.

-Killian

[chloesreality]

https://www.tumblr.com/therealawkwardstarfish/190012017115/i-think-found-out-why-stefan-said-that-damon-is

Read it this. Much of that stuff is so bullshit.

Paul Wesley explained this line on one of the conv (damon is the better man) that’s REVERSED PSYCHOLOGY.

Stefan is the one who sacrificed himself made it clear that he is the better man.

And this one is also bullshit. Elena started to fall for Damon in season 3 but she was in „denial“ 😂😂😂

But I only remember this line from Elena : it’s NOT the TRUTH, Stefan. I NEVER stopped loving you

okay so I do agree with you on the last bit but to be completely honest (as a big stelena shipper to another) Elena definitely was in a little bit of denial. yes she loved Stefan. But she also had a spark of feeling for Damon. Damon wanted her to feel something for him as he did for her and made moves on her the whole of season 3 so I’m not surprised elena was in denial.

so let’s get on with it.

(the bold bits are @therealawkwardstarfish points and theory ideas and don’t get me wrong your post was really good it actually had some really good ideas and points that actually made me rethink a few of my viewpoints on Damon’s character, not much but still. remember, no hate whatsoever towards the creator and everyone has an opinion!!)

“He was still mad at his brother for what he did, but also in a way forgave him for what he did. He just wanted his little brother by his side.” Yeah, but you forgot to dive into why Stefan wanted him to turn in the first place. oh wait! because Stefan also wanted his brother on his side and didn’t want to live an eternity without Damon. and he regretted it deeply for it and apologised on multiple occasions but did Damon ever apologise for making Stefans like a misery? no. 🩷

“He was willing to give Elena the cure because he wanted her to live a happy life without him” when? when? he was so against it the whole time because he was scared he was gonna loose elena without the sirebond? Or scared of Elena becoming a human because he thought she was gonna go running back to Stefan meaning he didn’t have much faith in their relationship (fault of the sirebond) What I take from that is that he secretly loved the sirebond because it got him what hes always wanted. the only time he ever accepted her wish to be human was at the end of season 5. was Damon willing to give her the cure? he HID it from her?!??! Hm.

“he believed what everyone believed him to him be A monster and a bad influence on Elena.” he was a bad influence on Elena and everyone saw it. The sirebond was Elena making Damon happy and his traits were rubbing off on her meaning that there was somethings about Elena that he wasn’t completely comfortable with. her love for Stefan. So Elena starts being passive with Stefan, not caring what she says to him until after she’s said it and realised the consequences. that sounds like someone to me…d-d-d-d-word. It wasn’t just because of the sirebond because Damon changed her for the worst. She lost her compassion, her good morals. her respect for human life when it came to the people she cared about. sounds like someone I know from the show…

“To him, his brother didn’t care. No one did. So he thought “you know what? If that’s what they think I’m a monster then okay, I’ll be one. So he did” but his brother did care…and deep down I think damon knew that. Stefan never gave up on him. He always in some way cared for him no matter what like in the second episode in the whole show he said “how do I stop the monster without becoming one myself?” he wanted to save Damon from himself and he was always trying to inspire emotion in him.

he didn’t want Damon to be that monster so no matter how much it annoyed Damon, stef always tried to provoke emotion into him for damons own benefit. Don’t tell me Stefan didn’t care, when Stefan visited Damon in the 1900s because he wanted to apologise for his wrong doings. (evidence stef missed him and wanted to have that brotherly bond with Damon again) but then Damon messed that up didn’t he? he pressured stef to drink human blood again even though he knew what it would do to him. And Damon didn’t go after him and help him. he stood there and watched him become the ripper of Monterey. what about Stefan saving Damon from the fire in 1x22? “Stefan don’t go in there! The fire will take you out” - Bonnie “he’s my brother Bonnie…” - Stefan.

“but he (Stefan) never realized why Damon was so mad at him until later.” he knew exactly why because you just said earlier that Damon told him he was gonna give him an eternity of misery? and I think Stefan had the ability to infer that he ment that because he made him turn him into a vampire. *he never realised why Damon wasn’t willing to put the past in the past* you mean. and that was because Damon thought it bad that Katherine wanted both him and Stefan to turn. but that wasn’t stefans fault was it? he was just compelled to not to be scared of her. that’s it. He didn’t ask for what happened to them. but Damon asked for it to happen to him.

“He tried to help his brother but ended up giving up after multiple tries.” Give me an example on when he gave up? when? and whatever example it is, it’s probably a worthy excuse to give up. Damon most likely pushed too hard. Too far. not knowing when to stop. the only time I can think of is when Damon and Bonnie are in the prison world and stefan is so broken by his brothers death that when Elena asks him what research has he done to help it’s almost like he’s fallen into a depression and tells Elena that he gave up because there is no way to do it. 🤷‍♀️

“Damon decided that he was going to sacrifice everything to save brother and everyone. For one last time, Damon decided to show his old self and sacrificed everything, just like he did when they were growing up. What Stefan saw was not the monster he created, but the brother before the monster” okay agreed. yes. He did. That one sacrificial move was indeed heroic and it showed the views just how far Damons character has come and how it has changed for the better. and deserves that recognition, but no one that I know of who ships delena or who is team Damon recognises that Stefan sacrificed his life and happiness to save Damon’s life too and Damon never thanked him for it but instead spent that time making moves on Elena to get her feelings for him to surface while Stefan was gone falling into the darkness again to save his selfish brother.

“And that person was the one that Stefan knew had to live.” facts. Spitting facts. yes. Stefan wanted to give life to this new found Damon. Or the old Damon he once knew in 1864. He wanted to give this Damon a chance to keep being a good person. even if he didn’t get to see more of it. A chance at a happy life even if it was without him. And while Stefan did this because he believed he ruined Damon’s life, Stefan didn’t really have much of a fulfilling life either. he was suicidal all his life and burdened with his addiction to blood. Stefan deserved the happiest ending there was!! And he deserved redemption just as much as Damon!!

“So he sacrificed himself and made Stefan human. To make up for that dying wish that Damon had for him back in 1864” yep and that’s yet the biggest and yet ANOTHER selfless thing done by Stefan. Both brothers deep down were caring people but only one of them showed that to others and that’s why everyone loved Stefan including Elena because Damon didn’t give a flying fuck about elenas friends or strangers just Elena. “I will always choose you”. - Damon and people think that’s sweet, it is I guess? it shows how much Damon’s willing to sacrifice for this one girl but Elena doesn’t want that. She wants to save everyone. she’d rather sacrifice herself than for others to die for her safety. and other people saw that and decided not to like Damon. (understandably)

anyway this persons theory ate and actually made me think about a few things but I look for development, actions and learning from mistakes. Evolving. Improvement from setbacks. atonement for wrong doings throughout the series not just once or twice in a lifetime to be able to call them the better man. I won’t lie to you in that scene when Stefan said “Damon’s the better man” I screamed into the TV haha I videoed myself watching the last episode because my friend suggested that I do and it was worth it 😭😭 my reaction was so funny but also so reasonable too lol

this is my take on this ask, what’s your opinion? 🩷

[andreal831]

You may be the first person to agree with me that Michael Trevino is more attractive than Joseph Morgan, so now I’m curious. Who are the most attractive (purely based on looks) cast members in your opinion?

I am the worst person to ask this. My friends hate talking about celebrities with me or even sending me pics of people they find attractive because I have a very specific view of what I find attractive. I identify as pansexual and demisexual, meaning I do tend to need to emotionally bond with someone to find them attractive so I struggle to focus purely on looks. Like I can tell if someone is objectively attractive but sometimes everyone will be obsessed with an actor and I just don't get it. I can understand that Nate Buz is objectively attractive, but because I can't stand him as a person, I just don't personally find him attractive. I also tend to find women way more attractive than men. As you will see by my lists.

It also really depends on what you mean by "based purely on their looks." There are people who are "scientifically" attractive, but I just don't find them that attractive. It's impossible to be completely objective when talking about attraction. Everyone is attracted to different things.

I will say, I typically don't like light haired men, which explains the Trevino over Morgan opinion. It's not that I can't recognize Joseph Morgan (Klaus) is attractive. He's just not in the top for me. I also feel like people tend to find him more attractive because of his accent. Although, I will admit I liked him more with his longer, curly hair. But that also could just be because that's when his character gets more tolerable for me.

I also want to remind everyone that these are my opinions. Everyone has their own opinions and it doesn't mean your fav isn't attractive. These are just who I think is most attractive. Let's be honest, the cast is stacked with extremely attractive people. If they are not on the list, they are still attractive, it is just a very competitive field.

(This does not include Legacies cause I haven't really watched it)

Most Attractive Cast Members in My (un)Biased Opinion

It's going to come as no surprise who I consider to be the most attractive in the show. They also happen to be my favorite ships from each show. I swear I am trying to be objective but they seriously were the stand outs to me the first time I watched the shows. I mean just look at them. There is a reason that both Kat and Phoebe do modeling on the side. As for the men, you may say I have a type, but it's hard to deny that Daniel and Michael are not at least in the top, if not the top, for men. But if that's not objective enough for you, here's my top lists excluding them:

Most Attractive Men

We can't have a list of most attractive men without Charles Michael Davis topping the list. Marcel is one of the most attractive men in this series. I won't hear any arguments against it. His smile is just top tier. I don't feel like I need to say anything else to prove my point. Just look at that man.

I feel like Michael Trevino (Tyler) and Collin Woodell (Aiden) have very similar vibes. This is maybe less objective than not, but I just found them more attractive than some of the more popular characters that usually top the lists. Also, I thought it would be inappropriate to put them without their shirts on, but... I mean, come on.

Yusuf Gatewood is not talked about enough. I was not a huge Finn fan in TVD, nothing against Casper, but I was just never drawn in by that character. But Yusuf as Finn really pulled me in. I also just have a thing for smiles. He has such a captivating smile.

I can see that they are objectively attractive but not at the top of my personal list:

Ian Somerhalder as Damon. I know this may anger some people, but I just have never been an Ian girl. I get what people like, but his eyes always freaked me out a little bit. He just doesn't rank high for me, sorry! Joseph Morgan as Klaus. Joseph Morgan just doesn't top the list, but I just don't find light haired men that attractive. I'm not saying he's not, he just isn't in my top. Paul Wesley as Stefan. I loved Stefan and he has the stereotypical "good looks." He is pretty high on the list still, just not in the top. Chris Wood as Kai. I don't have much to say on this one. He's objectively attractive but again, just not at the top of my list. David Alpay as Atticus Shane. I know he was awful but objectively he is very attractive. Steven McQueen as Jeremy. He definitely had a glow up from the emo teen to the vampire hunter.

Most Attractive Women Spoiler alert, it's all of them

Like, my god, even actresses with the smallest screen time carried the show. These aren't really in order but I tried. I can't even begin to rank them against each other. I hated Monique's character but my god, Yasmine Al-Bustami is beautiful. Nishi Munshi (Gia) is just a gorgeous human being. I didn't like Antoinette, but I would do anything for Jaime Murray. I'm obsessed with everything Nathalie Kelley (Sybil) does.

This is not to say that the other actresses aren't beautiful. Again, everyone is gorgeous. These women just felt next level gorgeous to me, whereas, actresses like Candice and Nina felt more girl next door, if that makes sense. Like Inadu (Blu Hunt) was killing all of my faves and I was still somehow rooting for her (jk, mostly).

I know most of my list is from The Originals, but that tends to be the show I rewatch the most. I also feel like they tend to have more actors. TVD had the same actors playing like 20 different roles.