#delena is toxic and unoriginal dude 🤪

[chloesreality]

What do you think about some delena toxic fans?

impossible.

unrealistic.

unreasonable.

just toxic I guess 😭

all the toxic ones that come for me for just saying that I ship stelena just make stuff up I swear!! like one I saw the other week (all on tiktok ofc)

“Damon was the victim he was only portrayed like a villain because he loved his brother so much” like whatttt??? Did that even make sense to you? 💀

I commented on a tiktok on the wickery bridge scene with Stefan and elena and I said Damon’s name like once and all these toxic Damon fans replied to my comment

“Stefan fans always find a way to bring Damon into it 🙄”

“Stefan fans acting like he’s never done anything wrong in his life”

Stefan fans when they find out that Stefan isn’t a saint:”

“This is when Stelena ended and delena started”

“Damon would never do this to elena”

maybe I’m just salty but these comments make me wanna bitch-slap someone 😭

[chloesreality]

Relating to the first gif. Elena is sired.

Zalrb said in one of her posts. What she fought against is attraction mixed with confusion or something.

When she talked to her mum about Matt. “I don’t know what I feel.”

When she talked with Matt about Damon. She describes Damon as a person. That’s all.

“Elena is sired” yes. she is indeed. I know that. but what I was trying to explain with using that gif is that Damon was always trying to push some sort of feelings for him onto her, with his sexual jokes and inappropriate comments and behaviours, but yes at that point technically elenas actions weren’t really up to her but she wasn’t sired to him when Caroline made her admit she felt an attraction towards Damon and Zalrb and you are right, she was trying to fight against it in respect of Stefan and herself I guess.

and as for when she was talking to her mum about Matt and she says “idk what I feel” and then her mum says “yes you do” I feel like that’s the same sort of situation for SE aswell, like Elena being all “idk what I feel” but deep down in her heart knowing exactly how she feels and her feelings are for Stefan. she. loves. Stefan. Elena also says “I wish my mom was here to give me some advice” well that is her advice. follow your heart. and that’s exactly what she did at the end of s3. Elena followed her heart.

“The problems Damon” then elena thinks to herself (the confusion kicks in and she tries to make sense of it so she could explain it to Matt) “when I’m with him…it just, consumes me” the question is, what exactly does she mean by that? I think it means exactly what rose said earlier on: “Damon changes her too.” his traits (whenever elenas with him) rubs off on her and that’s down to his wit and his charm and his personality. and your right that’s down to the kind of person Damon is and how he uses that to get to Elena.

Elena talks about how she knows it’s wrong to love them both but when she chooses one then she looses the other. When I unpick this scene I get the feeling that she loves them both but very unequally and differently. Elena talks more deeply about Stefan. Longer. more heartwarmingly. and talks about Damon with confusion, shorter, more complex and less meaningful. like there’s no clear meaning to what she’s saying about him. it’s evident on who she’ll choose but there’s always that tick in the back of our minds when watching it going “wait IS she going to pick Damon? wait maybe she actually will” giving us the confusion and making us pick a side. Elena states she doesn’t want to loose anyone else and there it is. it’s the fear of becoming so dependent on these 2 brothers that she brings them together again but then she’s scared she’ll also be the one to drive them apart.