#ask bloggers

[prettyboyprettyeyes]

✨soft asks✨

What song makes you feel better?

What is your go to comfort show?

Reading or writing? Why?

Whats your favorite feeling?

How do you like to take care of yourself?

What’s your favorite candle scent?

Who do you feel most like yourself around?

Whats a fabric/texture that’s nostalgic for you?

Best childhood moment?

When was the last time you laughed so hard you cried? (or just felt really good afterwards)

Do you have a comfort item? Tell us about it!

What calms you down?

Bath or shower to relax?

Whats something upcoming that you’re excited for?

Comfort food?

What’s something you want to create soon?

How do you feel best loved?

What age in life do you think you’ll feel most yourself at?

Have you ever written or received a love letter?

Tell us about a memory you hold close to your heart.

Tea, Coffee, or hot cocoa?

Name of your favorite playlist?

Have you ever received flowers?

Who is your bestfriend?

If your soul was a color, what would it be?

If you could live anywhere with anyone you want, where would it be and who would you bring?

Do you like to garden? Have you ever grown something?

What are you proudest of?

Are you a kind person?

What do your hobbies look like?

[fauxunraveling]

my heart is too delicate

[missdollcouture]

can you make a really nice, smooth, productive morning routine please!!

p.s i love your blog sm!!

thank uuu! 💗

CREATING THE ULTIMATE MORNING ROUTINE

having a good morning routine starts with having a good night routine. none of this will be possible without a sustainable night routine

WHAT TIME SHOULD I WAKE UP?

the time you wake up depends on the time you go to bed. it is advised for you to get 7-8 hours of quality sleep each night. for example, if you wanted to wake up a 5:OOAM you would have to be in bed by 9-10:00pm, figuring out what time you would like to be up in the morning is all up to you and your preference

WHAT TASKS SHOULD BE COMPLETED IN THE MORNING

having a perfect balance of tasks in the morning is key to having a beneficial morning. things i recommend doing in the morning includes; movement of some sort, journaling, making sure your space is clean, doing some sort of activity to stimulate you mind, and making yourself look presentable.

MOVEMENT: implementing some sort of movement in your morning routine has several benefits. you'll notice it will increase your productivity throughout the day.

JOURNALING: adding journaling to your daily routine will boost your mood and energy throughout the day. starting your day with gratitude will overall improve you view on life.

CLEAN SPACE = CLEAN MIND: starting off your morning with a clean room ultimately gives you a clear head space for the day ahead. whether you decide to clean your room the night before or in the morning, it is super beneficial to have a clean space.

MIND BUILDING ACTIVITY : starting your day off with a mind building activity leads to better concentration, reduced stress, and an overall better mental state.

LOOK GOOD FEEL GOOD: getting ready in the morning and making yourself feel presentable ultimately boosts your confidence leading to better performance in daily activities, including: school, sports, etc.

[caturnmoon]

🪐Saturn & Insecurities: How does it show up for you?🪐

✨through the houses✨

⚠️potential trigger warnings⚠️

���We all know that Saturn rules many things. Such as time, fears, traditions, karma and work ethics but depending on where it’s placed and aspected in your chart, it can identify what your insecurities are as well. It shows where/how you’re insecure and thus giving you tools necessary to acknowledge and be aware of this in order to grow and heal. 🪐

Saturn in the 1st house:

There could be insecurities surrounding your body image and looks. Insecurities involving physical vitality and health too since this could affect you physically and how you appear to others. There could be insecurities involving matters of independence and self sufficiency as well and relying on others. You could fear being seen as weak or incompetent as well. Appearing vulnerable to others could make you feel insecure.

Saturn in the 2nd house:

Insecure in your values and how you value yourself. Could rely on others to give you said value and as a result struggle with low self esteem. “I’m not worthy of xyz…”. This is a common placement for food restrictions/ED’s as Saturn restricts here and the second house can represent the mouth and food. Insecure worth tied to food and possessions. Could feel insecure about what you lack or don’t have materially. Insecure about how you make money.

Saturn in the 3rd house:

You could have been made to feel insecure about your intelligence especially growing up since the 3rd house rules early life experiences and siblings. Bullies could have made you feel insecure in school. There could be insecurity in how you speak too and possible speech stammers/stuttering. You could have felt insecure based upon the neighborhood you lived/grew up in.

Saturn in the 4th house:

Your home could’ve been a space that exacerbated your insecurities when younger or your mother made you feel insecure. You feel insecure in small restrictive spaces/rooms; cutting off your ability to feel secure and comfortable. There could be insecurities surrounding home ownership or lack thereof. A lack of privacy could enhance insecurities and a feeling of safety.

Saturn in the 5th house:

There could be a crippling fear/insecurity in your self expression and how you draw attention to yourself. You could be insecure in creative endeavors and dating/interacting with romantic intention. There could be insecurities involving hobbies and sports. Could be very clumsy natured and super ashamed of this. You could have insecurities in the ability/inability to have children.

Saturn in the 6th house:

Your workplaces and coworkers could make you feel inferior and insecure. You could feel insecure in how you show up for others in their time of need. Health insecurities and struggles are a potential here too. Since the 6th can represent open enemies, you could feel insecure in confrontational issues/matters. There could be insecurities surrounding your every day structure and wellness routines.

Saturn in the 7th house:

You struggle with relationships making you feel insecure and could also attract partnerships that make you feel this way. There could be patterns of lack in how you give and receive love/affection within partnerships. Networking could also invoke insecurities and all matters of social networking with others closely on a one on one basis. Insecurities around relating to others closely and feeling understood or lack thereof.

Saturn in the 8th house:

Insecurities surrounding loss and death. You could struggle with being vulnerable in intimate relationships and this could make you feel insecure. Going into darker emotions and feelings could bring discomfort for you in how to process them. Inheritance debts and taxes could be sources of anxiety/stress leading to insecurity as well. Sexual intimacy could be a source of insecurity for you as well and expressing your sexuality.

Saturn in the 9th house:

Religions spirituality or faith in general could bring you feelings of insecurity. A lack of purpose in your life could also trigger insecurities and restlessness. This could be an area where you feel “stuck” and restricted as opposed to optimistic and abundant (Jupiter/9th house themes). This could indicate a propensity towards atheism with this placement as well with lack of faith in a higher power. Travel could also be a source of major insecurity for you and being in foreign cultures. Higher education and mentors could have been a constant source of insecurity for you as well.

Saturn in the 10th house:

Your father could have made you feel insecure growing up and patriarchal figures in general as well. People of authority and supervisors could also have made you feel insecure. Bureaucratic systems/organizations could also provide a source of oppression and insecurity. Theres also insecurity surrounding your overall public image and “ranking” in society. Traditions and responsibilities could also be viewed as burdensome and create insecurities for you here too.

Saturn in the 11th house:

Large groups of people/crowds could make you feel insecure as well as large friend groups. You could have been the black sheep that always felt left out of your friend group which made you feel insecure. Large organizations and communities could instill anxiety and insecurity as well. Being online, mass media, and things like expressing yourself via blogging could have resulted in insecurities for you and/or backlash from others on social media. Technology in general could make you feel insecure and progressive sciences. Sudden dramatic changes (Uranus theme which rules the 11th house) could bring about insecurity.

Saturn in the 12th house:

Endings in general could make you feel uneasy and insecure. Hospitalizations and being institutionalized could be a fear/source of insecurity. Not being acknowledged for your work ethic and accomplishments could also be a source of insecurity here since work (Saturn) could be behind the scenes or clandestine in nature (12th house theme). Darkness and solitude could make you feel uncomfortable and insecure as well as your dreams at night when sleeping. The unknown could also trigger insecurity.

Until next time!! 🖖🏼👽

[wifegideonnav]

lmao just saw someone say that they were 20 pages into gtn for the first time and felt a totally reasonable violent surge of envy. like imagine getting to read tlt for the first time again. hey ive got an idea why don’t we just kill the section of my brain that r

[angel-cryptid]

not to sound like a whore but I would really like you to explain me what you think of me in the most detailed way

[longlivetv]

The culture around creation right now is fascinating to me, because whether we’re talking a blogger with a couple hundred followers on a dying website or the biggest artist in a generation, huge groups of people seem to think that creators should mold their creations to suit the consumer and get angry when they do not. When in reality, the creator gets to decide the direction and it is on the consumer to let it go and find something else to consume if it isn’t what they want.

[a-little-revolution]

Photo ID: two screenshots, one of a past post titled "Please discontinue fantasy 'dwarves'" that can be found here, detailing why fantastical "dwarves" we know from myths and legends featured in media such as Lord of the Rings are problematic. The second is a comment from that post that reads "I doubt that real people care that much about naming cool fantasy creatures (I mean, who wouldn't like to be associated with tough dwarves who have beautiful deep singing voices?) and more about governmental institutions giving them better opportunities"

Hey there lovelies! I received this comment a while ago and I wanted to take a moment to delve into it further - because it really touches on why I started this blog in the first place, and what it's become since then.

I mostly started posting to spread awareness for little people through means of real world education, but due to the nature of tumblr, I was quickly picked up by the fantasy and writing community. I now break down dwarfism representation in media because that's what there's been a demand for (I've now been a consultant on several published written pieces). And we know that the ways marginalized communities are represented in shows, movies, books and even board games affect the way people see them in the real world - it creates stereotypes, bias, and sometimes hatred or disgust. It matters that most of the media out there depicts little people as non-human, burly, labouring creatures. It matters that most films make a laughing stock of bodies like mine. These depictions are the remnants of a world that enslaved little people, that put us on display, owned us as pets, made us entertainment.

Activism is fought at many fronts - whether it be legislation, public access, human rights, or representation. On this platform I reach over 1800 people, many of whom are authors, artists, creators and character designers. I do my part to change some minds, and in the real world I do public speaking, community outreach, and sticker graffiti (I'm also writing a book). There are lots of other little people fighting for all kinds of things - I'm doing what I can with the spoons that I have, and hopefully that inspires some progress.

[malusokay]

‧₊˚✧[Little life update]✧˚₊‧

my mum sent me this while I was shopping for stockings since I ripped my favourite pair… I feel like this is some information SERIOUSLY worth sharing lmao <3

[sarcastictissy]

Get to know your QSMP mutuals!

Who's your favourite streamer that speaks the same language as you?

Who's your favourite streamer that DOESN'T speak the same language as you?

Who's your favourite egg?

Who's your favourite egg duo?

Who's your favourite couple?

Who's your favourite duo?

Who's your favourite roleplayer?

What's your favourite house?

What's your favourite build?

Who's your favourite cubito?

What's been your favourite arc so far?

What language would you like to see next?

Who has the best lore in your opinion?

Who do you want to see log in more often?

Who do you mainly watch?

Who do you want to watch more of?

Who's your favourite family?

Who's streams do you most watch outside of their QSMP streams?

What's been your favourite event/ holiday?

How long have you been watching QSMP for? :D

Feel free to add a question if you think of one! :D

[dribevoli]

Hi dribevoli it’s me borzoi.. I still think about your dirkjake piece to this day that piece is in my mind constaaantly Thankyou.. for the food it will feed me 100 years

asdgdggdf bruh thank YOU for opening my mind to the beauty of “hilariously fucked up” dirkjake. I originally wasn't gonna post this follow up but your nice message has given me strength. Thank you!!!

Part 1 (@borzoilover69)

[missdollcouture]

hi lele!! Please provide me tips on how to get through a slump ✌️💕🙈

Hi lanny!! ofc!

HOW TO GET OUT OF A SLUMP

So first off, to get out of a slump, it's important to acknowledge that it's a common experience that most people go through at some point in their lives. Feeling unmotivated, uninspired, or stuck can be difficult.

TAKE A BREAK: Allow yourself to take a step back and rest. Taking time off to relax and recharge is essential for your overall well being. Try to do some activities that bring you joy and help you de-stress.

START SETTING GOALS: By setting little goals at a time it makes your tasks less overwhelming and more manageable for you to complete. As you complete these smaller goals, you'll regain a sense of accomplishment and motivation. No matter how small the goal is, you're still making progress.

ENCOURAGEMENT: Try to find encouragement and motivation to do things like watch someone influential that brings you good vibes and positivity to get your stuff done.

SWITCH UP YOUR ROUTINE: This step really works for me when I'm in a slump, sometimes, a change in routine can help break the monotony and stimulate your mind. By introducing novelty into your routine, you may find yourself feeling more inspired and motivated.

SELF CARE: Another thing that works for me is having a moment (or a few moments) of self care, mentally and physically. Taking care of yourself physically, emotionally, and mentally is crucial when you're in a slump.

Getting out of a slump is a process, and it's okay to have ups and downs along the way. Focus on progress, not perfection. With time and effort, you'll find yourself gradually emerging from the slump and regaining your motivation and inspiration.

I hope you gain more motivation and get back on your it girl grind lanny 💝

[caturnmoon]

Astrology Mini Observations #️⃣8️⃣♦️♣️♥️♠️🃏

🎲Having many placements in your chart at 0 degrees could mean that you embody the characteristics of the sign or ruler of the planet it’s in. You’re most likely a young soul meant to start your journey.

🎲Heavy Uranian influence in your chart could indicate potential for owning your own business and carving your own original path in life. Especially if it’s in houses like the 2nd, 6th, or 10th.

🎲Everyone labels Sagittarius as the jokesters and “life of the party” optimists of the zodiac (which they can be) but it isn’t emphasized enough how ambitious and driven they can be when they finally commit to a goal or ideal they believe in. Jupiter rules morals and philosophy so if their goals align with their values, the greater benefic Jupiter will light the way for them to accomplish anything they set their minds to. They are after all, a fire sign.

🎲Your part of fortune shows where you’ll experience fortune and blessings in life but also look to where your Ceres is placed too. Asteroid Ceres could also shed light on to where you both nourish and experience nourishment in life.

🎲12th housers could experience sleep paralysis/nightmares more commonly than other placements. Especially Pluto, moon, and Neptune in the 12th house.

🎲I honestly see Saturn in the 12th house as a, “there’s nothing to fear but fear itself.” placement. Since Saturn can rule fears and restrictions and with it being in the 12th, there could be struggles with more anxiety around phobias than others.

🎲Sagittarius Venus gets a bad reputation for being the “commitment phobs” but other than this observation, this is an extremely underrated beauty placement. Jupiter literally expands upon everything it touches, so with it blending with Venus here it could mean you’re quite beautiful and stand out for this reason. This could also mean you’re also blessed with a lot of options romantically.

🎲Everyone I’ve known with significant Mercury dominance in their chart loves podcasts and/or has one themselves. Mercury loves communicating and exchanging ideas/information.

🎲If you have cardinal dominance in your chart, you have strong potential for leadership roles and initiating great things into being. Cardinal signs (Aries, cancer, Libra, Capricorn) are the great leaders of the zodiac being the first of each season. This could also signify entrepreneurship potential too.

Until next time!! 🖖🏼👽

[girlbossagenda]

Hi! I love your posts! Can you do one on: how to stop fawning over pretty more “seemingly” confident and educated women our age? I tend to do fawning and it’s embarrassing because I want to have more successful and confident friends but I end up being a pushover or weirdly admire them wayyyy to much and I become nervous speaking to them. Thanks so much!

HOW TO STOP FAWNING OVER OTHER GIRLS AND BE YOUR N°1 FAN

Omg, this is such and underrated topic!! Thanks for asking, we usually see the beauty and the light in other people, to the point that we stop seeing the true beauty inside of us, sometimes we ever become doormats to our own friends, Time to change! So here's how:

౨ৎCREATE CLEAR BOUNDARIES౨ৎ

Girl stop showing up for every single little thing, especially if they won't do it for you too!

౨ৎDON'T SPEND TIME WITH THE SAME PEOPLE ALL THE TIMES౨ৎ

Try to enter in different rooms with different people and found in which roon you are more appreciated, maybe you shine more in a place full of alternative people or in a place with the classic ig influencer!

౨ৎDON'T BE EASILY ACCESSIBLE౨ৎ

People are going to take you fro granted if you're the one who always shows up, especially if the plan it's last minute, ofc, I'm telling you to not skip every meeting or people will start to not invite you, but take in consideration to live more for yourself.

Sometimes saying "No sorry for this day I can't" or "sorry maybe next time" can help you gain more appeal and make you feel more confident.

౨ৎPUT THEM DOWN OF THE MF PEDESTAL౨ৎ

Why bow to them and not bow to yourself? What makes them so special? Are you not the main character of your life? So act like it! take space, act like the leading role!!!

౨ৎTIME FOR A GLOW UPPP౨ৎ

If you are bringing down your looks, I suggest to actually practice some for of selfcare along side with putting in practice some glow up tips, starting from the basics to then reaching the top level!!(I might post a glow up guide soon!!)

౨ৎGET TO KNOW YOURSELF౨ৎ

When you know yourself, you know how much you are worthy, do it for your younger self, once you get to know how you are inside, you'll start to idolize your own self

౨ৎEDUCATE YOUR SELF౨ৎ

If it's education the proble, gain more knowledge, get educated, but don't always talk about it randomly ofìr people are gonna take you for a show off, instead try to share that knowledge by going to acculturated places, or inviting them out somewhere like a museum, a book review meeting, a festival etc...

Sorry for the late answer, you know In middle school I hed your same problem, but I solved it by simply avoiding this type of girls and focusing on myself, so every single time whe had some type of conversation I could handle it with my brain(I wasn't that much of a beauty back then lol). I hope you have a great day, and I hope I helped xoxo gougeous

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