#as an adhd person it pisses me off

[thenerdytomboy]

Lunar is to the TSaMS fandom as what Papyrus is to the Undertale fandom

[nero-neptune]

this is gonna sound Crazy, i know, but i think there's a difference btwn someone assuming every single little symptom on the planet is an adhd thing And someone with actual adhd posting about their personal frustrations with living with the damn thing.

[mainfaggot]

how do you cut someone off

[milfbrainrot]

I think if I do have adhd it's funny that spending so much time on tumblr where shitty executive dysfunction is the norm has convinced me that everyone is just like this so of course I struggle so badly rather than the "ur self diagnosing from the internet!" effect everyone thinks it has.

[zoeyserpentluck]

So I went to get an ADHD assessment today. That went like shit. Because the woman focused on anxiety way more than ADHD. She didn’t even give me a proper ADHD test. And said at the beginning “because you think you have focus problems I’m going to mix the kinda things we do so you don’t get two questionnaires or verbal questions one after another so you don’t get distracted or tired”. That is the stupidest thing she could have possibly done because all her tests (and that was like 1/2 kinda ADHD test out of like 15) came out that I had no deficit in attention. That is the complete opposite of the results I have previously gotten with a logopedic specialist that after hearing I have doubts of ADHD purposefully arranged tests in a way that would tire me out and make me bored to see if I would keep my attention or loose it and become sloppy. I very quickly started being sloppy and loosing focus. This is a team evaluation by the way so they are in communication and know all this. Idk what this woman is trying to do or why she went in a completely different direction than the one requested. She don’t even ask my mum (who had to be there because for 3 more months I’m a minor) any questions that would reveal ADHD symptoms in childhood. And no questions on the hyperactivity were anywhere to be seen. I still have a psychiatrist appointment in 3 weeks that’s when I’m getting a final diagnosis but I will defo be going to someone else for a second opinion (a specific ADHD test and not a team evaluation) in a different clinic or even over public healthcare and see what they say. This woman was sketchy and didn’t really seem interested in what I had to say but more with fitting me into a square she wanted to diagnose. She also asked my mum if I ever had any you know thoughts that she knew of but didn’t ask me the same question in private (she would have gotten a different answer but ok it’s not really anything important rn it was in the past I’m fine now).

[butchlifeguard]

spiraling is so wild first im pissed that my drawing didnt look good now i dont think ill ever forgive my family for their treatment of me

[goingnearlyinsane]

something ive learned over the past 2-3 years: health and wellness classes absolutely were not meant for neurodivergent people

[theeeveetamer]

I love being ND guys, it's really fun I promise

[inutaffy]

i'm seeing this "adhdxautism" ships and it's like. i don't . see any proof lmao.

[waytoomuchanalysis]

??? I come out of the bathroom and the laundry room door is just sitting wide open (we always keep it closed since there's chemicals and unattended plastic packaging in there) so I send a picture in the group chat and I'm like hey who left this door open? And my mom responds "shrug" and I come upstairs and my stepdad is saying "I left it open, my hands were full." Just staring at his phone, totally casual. My mom asks where the cat is and he says he doesn't know, still staring at his phone, and she gets up to go find the cat?? And sees me, coming around the corner into the room, and asks if I know where the cat is and if I closed the door or if she needs to go close it??

The cat was nearby anyway so that's fine but when I pressed stepdad about what the deal was he repeated that his hands were full, got immediately got pissed at me, and left the room. Like okay, your hands were full and then what happened in between whatever task you were doing and being upstairs glued to your phone and also not apologetic in the slightest about the door situation?? Just like casually letting your wife get up to go solve a problem you might've caused not even looking up from your phone and then getting mad when I'm confused about the whole thing? Dickhead.

[orcelito]

Bro my apartment people Did send a message and I hadn't noticed it bc I was too focused on the one they sent after about the lease renewal 😭😭😭 so not only is my apartment a mess but I also was fully told they were coming. I just didn't notice it bc I have Shit Brain Disease!!! Funnily enough, it's the thing I'm supposed to be getting medication for, but! Guess I can't get it just yet!!!!!!!

[marxstradamus]

If you:

title your social media with "The ADHD ____" or "The Autistic ____"

post about "neurodivergent urge" or "that AuDHD feel when"

try to schlep shitty stim crap or "autistic products"

You have failed your fellows.

Not only are you allowing yourself to be put in a neat little capitalist box, you are so proud to be there and you encourage others to join you in your self-made prison. You have given selfish, manipulative people another path to trivialize the struggle with their blissful ignorance.

You are a traitor to your own freedom, and you wear your shackles with great pride.

[lyriumsings]

inside me there are two wolves. one wants to draw everywhere all day all the time the other one wants me to 3D print all my art out of my ass and call it a day

[dabihawksluvr]

I Have Started Drama (Again)

So, this is going on right now.

I had posted on Gaia about a recent argument I had with my brother, and for the first few responses it was just me and another person. This other person gave me sound advice, and treated me like an actual person. It actually helped me think through a lot of things, and I was able to calm down my emotions enough to actually think clearly.

^ BUT THESE TWO FUCKERS ^

These two just came into all this, and started going off. It really upset me, and in my anger I did respond to both (I also apologized to the one who helped me because they're now in this mess too).

Honestly, I'll keep updating this becuse what in the actual hell is wrong with these two?

[lunarsapphism]

btw if i only see people talking about mental disabilities for disability month im going to be fucking livid <3

[arwentrow]

"Can I give you a comic book for one of your figurines?"

So. I have this dipshit neighbor-

ugh....I'm not going into it.

but no...I will never trade my DBZ statues for anything especially worthless comic books you found in a dumpster half a decade ago.

This was 11 at night btw