#aroace men

[queer-polls]

Since there's not a lot of love for aro and/or ace and bi men, I thought that I spread some love on my blog cause all of you are great, you should be proud of who you are. You don't have to fit society's stereotype of men, just because you don't want sex/romance or you like men and women doesn't mean that you're weird in any way. Loving masculinity, no matter if it's your own or another man's, is good. You shouldn't see masculinity as a threat to society because that's not true. Not liking sex and/or romance is okay, don't listen to people telling you that you should be obsessed with sex and women. I'm so proud of every single one of you, you go guys

[arlosworld91]

If you are an asexual man, aromantic men or an aroace man.

You’re awesome <3

[heartstopper-lover123]

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[igotadigbickandureadthatwrong]

To all aroace/ace men out there, I just wanna say

I feel seen. Society (and especially the patriarchy and allo men) has always made me feel that I'm not "man enough" because Im not having primal sexual instincts of a bonobo 24/7. I've had cishet men say disgusting things about women when they were giving examples of what a "real man" should be like, or act like. Made me really feel like being a man and an asexual can never mutually exist. Jesus Christ. I genuinely thought I was alone in this.

But I'm not. There are others like me as well, and that really makes me happy. In fact, I have two moots who are exactly like me! Yall have no idea how much that makes me feel seen. I'm so glad yall are here. I love all of you.

Also this is another proof about how awful patriarchy is to not just women, but also men, especially those who are not hetero and/or allonormative.

[yourfavisanaroman]

Luffy from One Piece is an AroAce Man

Requested by anon (the admin of this blog is AroAce and personally uses the sunset aroace flag, all discourse about this flag is banned, thank you!)

[nouverx]

Louise never heard about puppy love, cause they don't know that term in France 💔

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Lyrics are from Louise by TV Girl ! I was listening to it yesterday and that specific line on the second page screamed Alastor I just had to draw something about it

[greykolla-art]

My favourite thing about Alastor is his hoard of gal pals!

He’s just a cool and charming dude that women feel comfortable around…And is also a power hungry eldritch horror.👌👌👌

[hum-tittle]

Am I aroace: Yes

Am I a lesbian: Also yes

Are all my fictional crushes nonhuman men???: For some reason also, yes??

Do I need help: Probably?

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

Spotted at my local market

[gigifluidcat]

How I feel scrolling down the Queer tags only to find out it's mostly just porn:

[textk4kira]

I love you aro men, i love you aro transmascs, i love you aro sapphics, i love you aro enbies, i love you heterosexual aros, i love you cishet aros, i love you aro fems, i love you butch aros, i love you gray-aros, i love you demi-aros, i love you aros who have treated as predators by the rest of the queer community, i love you aroallos, i love you aromantic people 💗

[knifearo]

this year my challenge for everyone is to unlearn the association between love and morality. love is not something that is inherently morally good, and the absence of love is not something that is inherently bad. sex without love isn't morally bankrupt, it's just an action. people without love aren't less kind or less good, they're just people. when we can get past this false (and often unnoticed) dichotomy of good love/evil lovelessness then i think we are going to be able to take leaps and bounds in sex positivity, aro advocacy, certain discussions of mental health...

[bizarreaizen]

aromantic and asexual cis men seriously need more recognition, they've been told that being a virgin above the age of 18 is weird and that all cis men are p0rn brained and they've seen that romance and sex is very important to a man and you need to have it or you're confirmed "lame" "boring" and a "virgin loser" /gen

[noagskryf]

It's not homophobic for someone to not want to be called gay by the way. Many transhet people or aspec or arospec people or multisexual (bi, poly, pan, etc) people don't like being called gay and that's ok.

For example. I'm not a gay non binary person. I'm a straight non binary person. Maybe it doesn't make sense to you, and maybe you don't care, but i care, so stop calling me gay for fucks sake

I'm also asexual fwiw, and that doesn't make me gay either. I'm queer or part of the LGBTQ community, but please do not call me gay!

[laomelettedufromage]

One of my pet peeves after having gotten very into swing dance as an aroace is seeing videos of people swing dancing or really doing any type of partner dance and over half the comments just being stuff like “how are they not in love😳” or “friends🤨” like please free yourselves, you can have a lot of chemistry and fun dancing with someone and it doesn’t have to be anything more than that!! Just fun!!! I’m not saying a little bit of lighthearted friendly love can’t be involved but it’s not always that deep, it’s just having fun!!

[gdsplicer]

Happy pride month to everyone but especially to the aro men, like all of them. This month is for you too

All for us in all our shapes and experiences are deserving of aro joy and being allowed to be unapologetic, and further without belittlement and shame. We are human, we are whole and we are radiant!

I see you, I am you and I treasure you. I am so proud to share this community, be it the overall queer one or our aro one, with you my brothers.