#apagender aesthetic

[veronica-soysauce]

I'm not ashamed of being apagender but I am ashamed of this UGLY ASS BROWN ON THE FLAG

[rockingpow3r]

Broken but girly for the day...

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[kawaiicow10]

[kaycode1999]

I am staring at this matchup thing you got going, Im a little nervous but I'd like an LMK matchup!

I'm an Aries INFP-T personality type, I'm nervous when it comes to conflict, but when I get to know people I tend to be a mix of hyperactive and chill. I don't really know how to hold conversations so I tend to be quiet most of the time. I'm also pretty indecisive so someone that can help me make decisions would be nice.

I go by They/Ero/Thy/Astro/Bruh/Void pronouns, I'm a sorta Fem Apagender Fictosexual/romantic AceAro so this'll mostly be a platonic matchup.

I tend to dress casually in over-sized clothes because I only like specific textures and don't like things being too close to my neck, I'm around 5'1 or 5'2. I love the color purple, and I'm the type to have a lot of purple items. I also enjoy space themed aesthetics!

My hobbies are mainly playing video games and drawing while listening to music! Sometimes I write ideas and stuff for OCs and AUs and stuff along those lines!

My preferences are specifically either Sun Wukong, Macaque or Red Son but I don't mind getting someone else

Extra info is that I have ADHD, Anxiety and Depression so someone who enjoys me holding onto them when I have breakdowns and comforting me when I'm anxious would be nice!

Hope you have a nice day!

You're in luck

I match you with

Red Son

The besties ever I fear

Seriously, you two are the best of friends

He's pretty quiet too (When he isn't yelling at MK or Mei or someone whose annoyed him) so that makes it easy to just sit comfortably and enjoy each others company

I think we all know he has strong opinions so I don't think him helping you make decisions will be a problem

Playing video games CAN get a bit spirited, but always a fun time

You're both artistic/creative so you both bounce ideas off each other and help each other

I think he also struggles with anxiety and depression so you both help each other through that

Though if he senses you are headed toward a breakdown he will try to make sure you get somewhere more comfortable to you as soon as possible

Fun fact- your zodiac sign is a fire sign so getting matched with Red Son works well😂😂

P.S I thought I was the only one! I can't stand to have anything touching my neck or I feel like I'm suffocating

[pkmn-bah]

Say "Yo!" to Gigantamax Alcremie, the Creme Pokemon!

General stuff:

1. Name: Alcremie, G-Max Alcremie, Alca, Creme, Al, Giga, Maxie, Max, Mawhip, Whip, Sweet, Sweetie, Aroma, Eton, Mess, Messy, Cake, Alche, Maho,  Creamy, Hoippu, Charmilly, Charm, Milly

2. Pronouns: it/its, they/them, strawberry/strawberries, 🍓/🍓s, cake/cakes, 🍰/🍰s, heart/hearts 💕/💕s, heartcake/heartcakes

3. Species: Alcremie, G-Max Alcremie, whipping cream, wedding cake, giant,  human

4. Source: Pokemon, Pokemon Sword/Shield

5. Gender identity / sex: transneutral, apagender, strawberryheartcakegender, cakefrilled

6. Sexual / romantic orientation: polyamorous, bisexual, quoiromantic, dessexual, mellow-oriented

7. Gender expression: dressing feminine

8. Role: emergency frontier, caretaker, pacific, soother

9. Sign-off: 🤍, 💖, 💮, 🎂, 🧁, 🍰, 🍓, 💕

10. Face claim:

🤍_🤍_🤍

Additional stuff

11. Alterhuman Identity: alcremiekin, gmaxalcremiekin, giantkin, creamkin, cakekin, weddingcakekin, dollhearted

12. Aesthetic: weddings, romantic academia, lovecore, angelcore

13. Voice claim

Be aware that headmate could form not exactly as described!

[lurkofyourlife]

Not to pop in your asks, BUT, just answering your q, as a trans person (non binary but still trans), about not wanting to seem like a chaser. Obviously, this might change from trans person to trans person. But all in all, basically you want to care about the person too.

Like yeah trans folks (both binary and non binary) are hot af, but like if all you care about is their transness that's going to come across as wrong. Because we're not a monolith. There are some shitty trans folks out there, and some great ones. We all have different interests. Some of us like gaming, or sports, or fashion, or books, etc.

So as long as you're interested in our personality, history, our core being outside of us being trans. Then you're aokay! Of course, again, this opinion changes from person to person (because trans folks can also be chasers, it's rare but it can happen), but that's how I view it tbh.

(I'm so sorry if you weren't actually asking, I just love your tags on my post lmfao 💖 from a fellow 90s pansexual)

(For context: the post/tags in question)

This is a really useful answer! Tbh as someone who’s actually super picky about the Person side of things (I’ll be honest: I’m far more attracted to personality than looks, sexual attraction has come and gone and come back at different times of my life, but then I have an insane libido and interest in kink) I have no doubt that irl I’m *very* much more into the person than the identity and/or body, but as a kink blog it can feel a little odd, since posts are pretty quickly divorced from who made them through the web of reblogging.

(More chatter below the cut)

As someone aesthetically attracted to a wide variety of gender and body types, though, but self-IDing as cis [given how much trans stories make me cry, I have had a lot of intense internal consideration on this, tbh, cause every time I’m in tears over trans joy part of me is like ??? is this egging? And then I consider it for a long time and nah, if anything I more relate to apagender/agender stuff but being a girl is fun for various story reasons lol— is that weird to say? I’m rambly, and I’ve thought about gender a LOT, given how many trans and enby friends I have, I frequently look critically at myself to check if I still ID as cis, and I do xD] I do feel a little unsure about how best to tell trans folks “hey you’re hot, I’m thirsty for you” without coming across as weirdly fetishy. To be clear: I’m thirsty for cis folks and trans folks (and enby and neogender stuff included); there’s a lot of pretty people in the world, and my kinks are gender-neutral! 😅

For now I’ve mostly just liked allll kinds of posts from all kinds of peeps, and then reblogged the thirsty posts about trans folks from trans folks rather than making my own (idk, feels like I’m just agreeing rather than shouting out over other people; this is an ABNORMAL AMOUNT OF THOUGHT to put into hornyposting lmao, I am so very tumblr-coded, I have been here too long ^^;) but like, admiring all the hornyposting by trans folks about trans bodies and I’m just like yeah, same, yes, I agree, you are 100% correct, I too would like to be bullied by flirt with ftm puppyboys and mtf puppygirls, yknow? (or the cool butch with the carabiner on her belt buckle, or the hot masc in his mesh crop top, or the genderqueer knife collector willing to put it to my throat— I am WEAK, okay, I am DEHYDRATED, my body is FIGHTING for MOISTURE—)

Anyway. Rambly as hell. But yeah, I promise it’s not based just on the transness, it’s all a draw to the kinks/powerplay/vibe 😅

….i’ll be honest, I’m not sure if this clarified ANYTHING, or if it’s just me over here like “👉👈 I’m just a bottom” OOPS.

But yeah, thank you for reaching out! And it made me happy you enjoyed my tags >< especially cause I tend to, as you can see, ramble. 🩷

Oh god and now I have to figure out how to tag this…

[revenant-coining]

Hi! Could you find some genders relating to the abyss, space / stars or royalty? Thank chuuu! >w<

here ya go !

Abyss:

Genderabyss (link): a gender system where one’s gender is the abyss, abyss-like, etc. Can be a gender in and of itself. Used as a prefix (abyss-something) when paired with other genders.

Abyssium (link): a mythologender straight from the abyss. It has no qualities to it other than that it purely exists, similar to apagender. This gender eventually will dissolved or grow, just like the engulfing void of an abyss.

Space:

 Spacealfosic (link): a gender related to having an extreme attachment to space!

Spaceial (link): An undefinable, vaguely space-like gender.

Spacething (link): a thing subtype. a gender connected to being connected to space / space-aligned / from space / etc and a thing; a spacething.

SPAN / Spangender (Space-in-Nature) (link): a non-xenic umbrella term for all Space-in-nature genders, meaning genders that primarily related to space and/or have a space-like quality. It can be used as a gender on its own.

radiomogai theme: space tag (link)

radiomoga span ( space in nature ) tag (link)

Star:

Astralexic (link):  a gender that is/is related to the word ‘star’!

STARIN (link): Starry in nature / Star-related in nature

Starthing (link): a gender connected to being a star / starry / star-like and a thing; a starthing.

Starling (link): a genderling subterm; a gender connected to the word ‘starling’ and / or being a starling.

radiomogai theme: stars tag (link)

radiomogai starin ( starry / star in nature ) tag (link)

Royalty:

Royalcoric (link): a gender related to the royalcore aesthetic.

pupyzu's royal gender role system tag (link)

Royalgalaxic (link): a gender connected to being space royalty; this gender is connected to space, galaxies, stars, everything in space, space aesthetics, royal aesthetics, and being non-binary!

Royalgender (link): a xenogender where you have a strong connection towards Royalty.

Royalstaric (link): a gender connected to being star royalty; this gender is connected to stars, star aesthetics, royal aesthetics, and being non-binary!

radiomogai's theme: royalty tag (link)

[mood-lgbt]

💀 Apagender with Soul Eater themes for Anon 💀

[palatteflags]

Goblincore based Apagender moodboard~ ^^ For @pichuxox c: Hope you like this~

Want one? send an ask -mod Jay

[rainbow-hotline]

Hello! I'm bisexual and I love this page! While I know a little about the gender part of LGBT+, I don't know all. Your blog has helped me understand it better, and my friend was wondering if I could teach her ALL of it. I'm asking you for a brief summary of all genders. Sorry if this insults anybody. Thank you!

That's not insulting at all! @genderfluidsupport made this really neat list of nonbinary genders:Gender Master ListThis is an ongoing list of gender identities. If you see an identity with a confusing or wrong description, feel free to message us about it and we will answer as soon as possible. Feel free to mix and match your own prefixes and suffixes to create the identity that best describes you.Any gender named _gender may be made into _boy, _girl, _nonbinary, etc.(example: demigender, demiboy, demigirl, deminonbinary)Abimegender: a gender that is profound, deep, and infinite; meant to resemble when one mirror is reflecting into another mirror creating an infinite paradoxAdamasgender: a gender which refuses to be categorizedAerogender: a gender that is influenced by your surroundingsAesthetigender: a gender that is derived from an aesthetic; also known as videgenderAffectugender: a gender that is affected by mood swingsAgender: the feeling of no gender/absence of gender or neutral genderAgenderflux: being mostly agender except having small shifts towards other genders making them demigenders (because of the constancy of being agender)Alexigender: a gender that is fluid between more than one gender but the individual cannot tell what those genders areAliusgender: a gender which is removed from common gender descriptors and guidelinesAmaregender: a gender that changes depending on who you’re in love withAmbigender: defined as having the feeling of two genders simultaneously without fluctuation; meant to reflect the concept of being ambidextrous, only with gender Ambonec: identifying as both man and woman, yet neither at the same timeAmicagender: a gender that changes depending on which friend you’re withAndrogyne: sometimes used in the case of “androgynous presentation”; describes the feeling of being a mix of both masculine and feminine (and sometimes neutral) gender qualitiesAnesigender: feeling like a certain gender yet being more comfortable identifying with anotherAngenital: a desire to be without primary sexual characteristics, without necessarily being genderless; one may be both angenital and identify as any other gender alongsideAnogender: a gender that fades in and out but always comes back to the same feelingAnongender: a gender that is unknown to both yourself and othersAntegender: a protean gender which has the potential to be anything, but is formless and motionless, and therefore, does not manifest as any particular genderAnxiegender: a gender that is affected by anxietyApagender: a feeling of apathy towards ones gender which leads to them not looking any further into itApconsugender: a gender where you know what it isn’t, but not what it is; the gender is hiding itself from youAstergender: a gender that feels bright and celestialAstralgender: a gender that feels connected to space(POSSIBLE TRIGGER WARNING) Autigender: a gender that can only be understood in the context of being autisticAutogender: a gender experience that is deeply personal to oneselfAxigender: when a person experiences two genders that sit on opposite ends of an axis; one being agender and the other being any other gender; these genders are experienced one at a time with no overlapping and with very short transition time.Bigender: the feeling of having two genders either at the same time or separately; usually used to describe feeling “traditionally male” and “traditionally female”, but does not have toBiogender: a gender that feels connected to nature in some wayBlurgender: the feeling of having more than one gender that are somehow blurred together to the point of not being able to distinguish or identify individual genders; synonymous with genderfuzzBoyflux: when one feels mostly or all male most of the time but experience fluctuating intensity of male identityBurstgender: and gender that comes in intense bursts of feeling and quickly fades back to the original stateCaelgender: a gender which shares qualities with outer space or has the aesthetic of space, stars, nebulas, etc.Cassgender: the feeling of gender is unimportant to youCassflux: when the level of indifference towards your gender fluctuatesCavusgender: for people with depression; when you feel one gender when not depressed and another when depressedCendgender: when your gender changes between one and its oppositeCeterofluid: when you are ceterogender and your feelings fluctuate between masculine, feminine, and neutralCeterogender: a nonbinary gender with specific masculine, feminine, or neutral feelingsCisgender: the feeling of being the gender you were assigned at birth, all the time (assigned (fe)male/feeling (fe)male)Cloudgender: a gender that cannot be fully realized or seen clearly due to depersonalization/derealization disorderCollgender: the feeling of having too many genders simultaneously to describe each oneColorgender: a gender associated with one or more colors and the feelings, hues, emotions, and/or objects associated with that color; may be used like pinkgender, bluegender, yellowgenderCommogender: when you know you aren’t cisgender, but you settled with your assigned gender for the time beingCondigender: a gender that is only felt during certain circumstancesDeliciagender: from the Latin word delicia meaning “favorite”, meaning the feeling of having more than one simultaneous gender yet preferring one that fits betterDemifluid: the feeling your gender being fluid throughout all the demigenders; the feeling of having multiple genders, some static and some fluidDemiflux: the feeling of having multiple genders, some static and some fluctuatingDemigender: a gender that is partially one gender and partially anotherDomgender: having more than one gender yet one being more dominant than the othersDemi-vapor (term coined by @cotton-blossom-jellyfish): Continuously drifting to other genders, feeling spiritually transcendental when doing so while having a clear -slightly blurred- inner visual of your genders, transitions, and positive emotions. Tied to Demi-Smoke. Demi-smoke (term coined by @cotton-blossom-jellyfish): A transcendental, spiritual gender roughly drifting to other genders that are unable to be foreseen and understood, shrouded in darkness within your inner visual. Elevating through mystery. Caused by a lack of inner interpretation and dark emotional states. Tied to Demi-Vapor.Duragender: from the Latin word dura meaning “long-lasting”, meaning a subcategory of multigender in which one gender is more identifiable, long lasting, and prominent than the other gendersEgogender: a gender that is so personal to your experience that it can only be described as “you”Epicene: sometimes used synonymously with the adjective “androgynous”; the feeling either having or not displaying characteristics of both or either binary gender; sometimes used to describe feminine male identifying individualsEspigender: a gender that is related to being a spirit or exists on a higher or extradimensional planeExgender: the outright refusal to accept or identify in, on, or around the gender spectrumExistigender: a gender that only exists or feels present when thought about or when a conscious effort is made to notice itFemfluid: having fluctuating or fluid gender feelings that are limited to feminine gendersFemgender: a nonbinary gender which is feminine in natureFluidflux: the feeling of being fluid between two or more genders that also fluctuate in intensity; a combination of genderfluid and genderfluxGemigender: having two opposite genders that work together, being fluid and flux togetherGenderblank: a gender that can only be described as a blank space; when gender is called into question, all that comes to mind is a blank spaceGenderflow: a gender that is fluid between infinite feelingsGenderfluid: the feeling of fluidity within your gender identity; feeling a different gender as time passes or as situations change; not restricted to any number of gendersGenderflux: the feeling of your gender fluctuating in intensity; like genderfluid but between one gender and agenderGenderfuzz: coined by lolzmelmel; the feeling of having more than one gender that are somehow blurred together to the point of not being able to distinguish or identify individual genders; synonymous with blurgenderGender Neutral: the feeling of having a neutral gender, whether somewhere in between masculine and feminine or a third gender that is separate from the binary; often paired with neutroisGenderpunk: a gender identity that actively resists gender normsGenderqueer: originally used as an umbrella term for nonbinary individuals; may be used as an identity; describes a nonbinary gender regardless of whether the individual is masculine or feminine leaningGenderwitched: a gender in which one is intrigued or entranced by the idea of a particular gender, but is not certain that they are actually feeling itGirlflux: when one feels mostly or all female most of the time but experiences fluctuating intensities of female identityGlassgender: a gender that is very sensitive and fragileGlimragender: a faintly shining, wavering genderGreygender: having a gender that is mostly outside of the binary but is weak and can barely be feltGyragender: having multiple genders but understanding none of themHealgender: a gender that once realized, brings lots of peace, clarity, security, and creativity to the individual’s mindHeliogender: a gender that is warm and burningHemigender: a gender that is half one gender and half something else; one or both halves may be identifiable gendersHorogender: a gender that changes over time with the core feeling remaining the sameHydrogender: a gender which shares qualities with waterImperigender: a fluid gender that can be controlled by the individualIntergender: the feeling of gender falling somewhere on the spectrum between masculine and feminine; note: do not confuse with intersexJuxera: a feminine gender similar to girl, but on a separate plane and off to itselfLibragender: a gender that feels agender but has a strong connection to another genderMagigender: a gender that is mostly gender and the rest is something elseMascfluid: A gender that is fluid in nature, and restricted only to masculine gendersMascgender: a non-binary gender which is masculine in nature.Maverique: taken from the word maverick; the feeling of having a gender that is separate from masculinity, femininity, and neutrality, but is not agender; a form of third genderMirrorgender: a gender that changes to fit the people around youMolligender: a gender that is soft, subtle, and subduedMultigender: the feeling of having more than one simultaneous or fluctuating gender; simultaneous with multigenderand omnigenderNanogender: feeling a small part of one gender with the rest being something elseNeutrois: the feeling of having a neutral gender; sometimes a lack of gender that leads to feeling neutralNonbinary: originally an umbrella term for any gender outside the binary of cisgenders; may be used as an individual identity; occasionally used alongside of genderqueerOmnigender: the feeling of having more than one simultaneous or fluctuating gender; simultaneous with multigenderand polygenderOneirogender: coined by anonymous, “being agender, but having recurring fantasies or daydreams of being a certain gender without the dysphoria or desire to actually be that gender day-to-day”Pangender: the feeling of having every gender; this is considered problematic by some communities and thus has been used as the concept of relating in some way to all genders as opposed to containing every gender identity; only applies to genders within one’s own cultureParagender: the feeling very near one gender and partially something else which keeps you from feeling fully that genderPerigender: identifying with a gender but not as a genderPolygender: the feeling of having more than one simultaneous or fluctuating gender; simultaneous with multigenderand omnigenderProxvir: a masculine gender similar to boy, but on a separate plane and off to itselfQuoigender: feeling as if the concept of gender is inapplicable or nonsensical to one’s selfSubgender: mostly agender with a bit of another genderSurgender: having a gender that is 100% one gender but with more of another gender added on top of thatSystemgender: a gender that is the sum of all the genders within a multiple or median systemTragender: a gender that stretches over the whole spectrum of gendersTransgender: any gender identity that transcends or does not align with your assigned gender or society’s idea of gender; the feeling of being any gender that does not match your assigned genderTrigender: the feeling of having three simultaneous or fluctuating gendersVapogender: a gender that sort of feels like smoke; can be seen on a shallow level but once you go deeper, it disappears and you are left with no gender and only tiny wisps of what you thought it wasVenngender: when two genders overlap creating an entirely new gender; like a venn diagramVerangender: a gender that seems to shift/change the moment it is identifiedVibragender: a gender that is usually one stable gender but will occasionally changes or fluctuate before stabilizing againVocigender: a gender that is weak or hollow

[pkmn-bah]

Say "Sup!" to the Kalos Cap Pikachu, the Electric Mouse Pokemon!

General stuff:

1. Name: Pikachu, Pika, Chu, Chu-Chu, Pika-Pika, Pipi, Pulse, Vroom, Mouse, Shock, Zappy, Buzzy, Buzz, Sparkle, Chirp, Zap, Zoom, Lille, Bitten, Musling, Volt, Tesla, Electra, Electro, Dynamo

2. Pronouns: bi/bis, sun/suns, eerie/eeries, pika/pikas, chu/chus, mouse/mice, squeak/squeaks, spark/sparks, zap/zaps, cap/caps

3. Species: Pikachu, Electric Mouse, human

4. Source: Pokemon, Pokemon XY

5. Gender identity / sex: transfeminine, apagender, mousegender, sparkfem

6. Sexual / romantic orientation: polyamorous, light-grey ace, reciprosexual, homosexual, heteroromantic, riveflexible

7. Gender expression: dressing feminine

8. Role: nameless role, medic, gatekeeper

9. Sign-off: 💫, 💛, ⚡, 🌩️, 🐭, 🧢

10. Face claim:

💛_💛_💛

Additional stuff:

11. Age: 20-25

12. Alterhuman Identity: mousekin, pikachukin, demihuman

13. Aesthetic: happycore, Cuddle Party, arcadecore, animecore

14. Paraphilia: technophilia, ficto-robophilia

15. Favourite things

• Hobbies: chatting, fantasy sports, bullet journal, digital art

• Objects: robots, computers, pens, caps, french dictionary

• Colors: turquoise, violet, yellow, green

16. Random fact: prone to humming when bored

17. Voice claim

Be aware that headmate could form not exactly as described!