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[bi-sapphics]

I’m a lesbian and I really don’t care if bi people say dyke or not. I’m not trying to be all “not like other lesbians” but a bi woman is going to be called a dyke by a homophobe, a homophobe will not care if you correct them and go “um ACTUALLY im bisexual.” Also why would I go up to every sapphic using the word dyke and go “ARE YOU LESBIAN????” Idk I’m only like one lesbian out of a bajillion so maybe it doesn’t matter what I say

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[falesten-iw]

To Those Who Still Hold Onto a Shred of Morality and Humanity - Stand with Us and Don’t Forget Us.

Over 40,000 lives have been lost, with 70% of them being children and women. Among these numbers are my own family members—many of whom I’ve already lost.

My family, my cousin, aunt, their children, and grandchildren were all directly targeted by Israeli airstrikes. I’m sharing a video of my aunt and cousin to reveal the harsh reality we are facing in Gaza. In this video, my aunt bravely shares her story about how the Israeli army airstruck them along with their children and grandchildren. Even if you don’t understand Arabic, just watching her speak will help you grasp the immense suffering we are enduring in Gaza. You can see the vedeo in this post.

The few family members who remain are in grave danger, and I’m terrified of losing them too. We have a chance to make a real difference and give my 24 surviving family members a chance to live.

In Gaza, jobs are non-existent, and nonprofit organizations like the UN have drastically reduced their work on the ground. Basic necessities such as milk, food, and medicine are almost as expensive as gold. My family is struggling to afford even the essentials, and my mother urgently needs medication that we simply cannot afford.

I’m also sharing another video that shows the daily struggle people face just to get clean water. The suffering here extends far beyond my family; it’s a genocide affecting every aspect of life in Gaza.

Thanks to the generosity of those who have already donated, we’ve raised $535 toward our goal of $190,363- august 17th. I’m deeply grateful to each of you, but we still have a long way to go, and I need your help more than ever. Imagine if it were your family—how would you feel if they were in this situation?

For those who have created special posts or reblogged to amplify my voice, thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your support means everything to me and to my family. If you haven’t yet shared our story, please take just one minute to do so. Your voice could be the lifeline my family desperately needs.

You cannot continue to treat human lives as mere numbers. This is a genocide that demands immediate action. How many more should be killed before you all wake up? Will 40,000 lives be enough to stir us to action? 50,000? 100,000? 150,000?

Asking for donations and charity is something we never imagined having to do in Gaza before the war, and it’s heartbreaking that it has come to this. But if everyone who saw my last post donated just $10 or $20, we could reach our goal in no time. If you’re looking for a way to contribute, consider giving up your coffee, tea, or other “cup” for one day, one week, one month, or anything in between. Then, donate what you would have spent to help me. Please help us and donate now!

This is about more than just donations—it’s about preserving human lives and upholding our shared moral values. Your contribution can make a world of difference in our survival and ensure I don’t lose more of the people I love.

Demanding an end to this suffering is a matter of basic humanity. You cannot remain neutral in the face of such genocide. Please, let’s stand together. Enough is enough.

Every donation, no matter how small, brings us closer to hope and healing. Thank you again for your kindness and support. I will never forget it.

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[transandrobroism]

an observation from several posts/conversations that could really help in avoiding a lot of misunderstandings: often when people talk about 'transmisogyny', they are using the term 'transmisogyny' to mean at least three different things simultaneously and conflating different meanings of the term in discussions. in general usage i've seen 'transmisogyny' used to mean:

transmisogyny-as-phenomena - i.e. 'transmisogyny' as a term for the intersection of transphobia and misogyny, a common feature of transfems' experiences;

transmisogyny-as-framework - in which transmisogyny is elevated to the level of a conceptual framework for understanding all transphobia. under this meaning everyone is encouraged/expected to conceptualise their experiences of transphobia through the lens of transmisogyny and run it through a filter of "how does this relate back to transmisogyny as the primary driving force for all transphobia"

on top of this both uses of the term are also conflated with the TMA/TME framework that divides people into two neat categories of those affected or primarily targeted by transmisogyny (transmisogyny affected, or TMA) and those exempt from transmisogyny and only accidentally impacted by it (transmisogyny exempt, or TME).

conflating all these meanings with each other is how you end up with soggy takes like "rejecting the label of TME is denying transfems the right to define and discuss their own oppression" which is a real thing that someone (transmasc) said to me. treating these concepts as all interchangeable meanings of the term transmisogyny contributes to a lot of the discourse and (frankly) animosity about discussions of transandrophobia, because when someone says something like "idk i just don't think transmisogyny is adequate as a robust framework for understanding how all transphobia works" or "dividing the world into TMA/TME is a flawed way of viewing transphobia and replicates the gender binary we're all trying to dismantle", that's a critique of transmisogyny-as-framework, but is read as a rejection of transmisogyny-as-phenomena, and thus is viewed as invalidating transfems' experiences.

add to that the fact that i've seen some people insist that transmisogyny is not just an umbrella term for the ways transfems experience transphobia but just means the intersection of transphobia and misogyny - but at the same time people insist that AFAB (trans) people are all exempt from transmisogyny by default and that our experiences should be discussed as 'misdirected transmisogyny'. which renders the de facto meaning of the term 'transmisogyny' an umbrella term for transfem experiences from which anyone not transfem is exempt.

the conflation of terms and definitions means any critique of transmisogyny or TMA/TME is taken as a denial of transfems' experiences. it also means that when transmascs propose a term like 'transandrophobia' - meaning the intersection of the identity positions of 'trans' and 'man', or more broadly a term for commonly-shared experiences of transmascs - that's read as an argument that all men are systemically oppressed for being men (it's not) and/or that transmascs are proposing transandrophobia-as-framework (again, not the case). but because 'transmisogyny' can refer interchangeably to both transphobic phenomena and experiences and a proposed conceptual framework for transphobia in general, the term 'transandrophobia' is misconstrued as a conceptual framework. we say "we've come up with a term to describe our experiences as transmascs" and people hear "you need to conceptualise all your experiences with transphobia in terms of the oppression of transmascs and centre our experiences in your discussions about your own marginalisation".

the reality is that most people discussing transandrophobia are not denying that transfems experience transphobia or denying that transmisogynistic phenomena happen. objections to the TMA/TME distinction are objections to a conceptual framework that treats all transphobia as just transmisogyny in a trenchcoat, and not a denial that transfems experience transmisogyny or are 'not oppressed' or whatever else.

for the record, i have no beef with transmisogyny either as a term for the intersection of transphobia and misogyny or as a term for shared transfem experiences. my critiques of transfeminst thinking are theoretical, namely:

transmisogyny-as-framework presupposes that the major driving force of all transphobia is a desire to target/punish trans women and that everyone else is caught in the crossfire. i don't think that's adequate as a conceptual framework because transphobia is better understood as a result of a gender-essentialist society punishing all non-normative performance of gender. it also relies on a lot of faulty assumptions about the transphobia that transmascs experience. transphobia experienced by transmascs is treated as a category-typical experience of transphobia (i.e. trans men get the 'just transphobia' version, whilst transfems get the 'transphobia plus' version)... but also transmasc oppression must be framed in terms of 'misdirected (trans)misogyny'. you can't treat trans men as having the most typical, 'basic' experience of transphobia whilst also insisting all transphobia is actually a form of transmisogyny misdirected at other trans people. those two positions are mutually contradictory. if all transphobia is actually about transmisogyny then transfems are getting the default transphobia experience and transmascs/trans nonbinary people/etc are all getting variations of that, not the other way around.

if you want to use transmisogyny as a framework for understanding all of transphobia, you cannot label anyone as exempt from transmisogyny. if transmisogyny is the proposed framework for understanding all transphobic discrimination of any trans person of any gender, then you are saying we all exist in a system of transmisogyny. therefore none of us are exempt from it. and if you're proposing transmisogyny-as-framework for all trans experiences, then all trans people get to weigh in on it, because you're applying it to all of us. i get to disagree with the framework being coercively applied to my experiences and i should be able to do that without being called transmisogynistic, because critiquing a framework you're asking every trans person to submit to is not synonymous with hating on trans women or denying their lived experiences or saying they're not oppressed. you can't insist that transmascs are TME by default whilst also insisting we only ever discuss our experiences as 'misdirected transmisogyny'. and you definitely can't label all transmascs as exempt from transmisogyny whilst simultaneously insisting we use transmisogyny as the conceptual framework within which we understand our oppression. that's trying to have your cake and eat it.

the TMA/TME framework is just reinventing binary gender but with extra steps. especially since in practice determining whether someone is TMA or TME seems to involve an awful lot of focus on people's assigned gender and what genitals they were born with.

a lot of this theorising follows a very radfem pattern of dividing everyone into two gendered categories, labelling one of those categories to Privileged Oppressor Class, and then heavily policing who gets to belong to the Oppressed Victims Class based on their genitals and socialisation. at which point you're just doing TERFism from the other direction. any framework that proposes we can understand gendered experiences in terms of a strict binary is automatically throwing intersex and nonbinary people under the bus. a comprehensive theory of trans experiences must have space for nonbinary identities and intersex experiences otherwise it is incomplete.

i'm making this post in good faith and i'm not denying the impact of transmisogyny on transfems. but i do think theorising around transmisogyny and TMA/TME as a framework have a number of flaws and i'm not going to use those frameworks to talk about my own experiences because they are theoretically inadequate. a robust theory of transphobia and trans experiences must have room for all trans experiences within it, as well as overlapping experiences of gendered oppression such as intersexism, misogyny, butchphobia etc. TMA/TME ain't it.

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The Portrait Zone in the Matrix of Destiny represents how others perceive an individual and the external image they project into the world. It reveals the outer persona, the way people relate to the individual, and the impressions they create based on their actions and behavior. This zone highlights qualities that are easily recognizable by others, such as charm, authority, wisdom, or unpredictability. Understanding the energies in the Portrait Zone helps individuals become aware of how they are seen by others and can provide insight into how they can enhance or refine their external interactions and relationships.

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1 - The Magician

The 1st Arcanum in this position manifests itself as the energy of a "Pioneer" or "The Magician," reflecting how others perceive the individual as someone who possesses immense potential, leadership, and the capability to create and inspire. This energy radiates authority, confidence, and a pioneering spirit, making others see the individual as someone who can push boundaries and lead new initiatives. They often appear as people who hold the fire of creation, ready to take on challenges with courage.

However, this external perception of power might not always align with their inner reality. While the world sees them as bold and innovative, internally, they may struggle with doubts and the fear of failure. If this energy is negatively expressed, it can lead to overcompensation, where the individual might act overconfident or harsh, while feeling deeply insecure beneath the surface.

In its positive manifestation, the 1st Arcanum brings out a strong sense of innovation, leadership, and the drive to bring new ideas into reality. People are drawn to their magnetic energy, seeing them as trailblazers capable of making significant contributions to any field. The challenge for the individual is to balance this outward projection of power with an inner belief in their abilities, rather than relying solely on external validation.

2 - The High Priestess

The 2nd Arcanum in this position manifests itself as "The Secret" or "The High Priestess" in the Tarot. It reflects how others perceive the individual as someone mysterious, enigmatic, and deeply intuitive. They are often seen as keepers of hidden knowledge, possessing an air of wisdom and secrecy that draws people in. Their ability to understand the unseen and their natural inclination toward spiritual or mystical matters makes them appear insightful and almost otherworldly.

Internally, however, these individuals may feel detached from reality, lost in their own world of thoughts, illusions, and spiritual contemplation. They might struggle with balancing their inner truth and the external world, sometimes feeling misunderstood or isolated due to their deeper understanding of life's mysteries. When negatively expressed, this energy can manifest as secrecy, mistrust, and emotional distance. They might become withdrawn, overly secretive, or lost in illusions, unable to connect with others.

When positively aligned, the 2nd Arcanum enhances their intuitive abilities, allowing them to access deeper truths and guide others with their wisdom. They are seen as trusted confidants who can help others unravel life's mysteries. Their key challenge is to stay grounded while embracing their intuitive insights, ensuring they don’t lose touch with reality while navigating the spiritual and the mystical.

3 - The Empress

The 3rd Arcanum in this position manifests itself as "Femininity" or "The Empress" in the Tarot. It reflects how others perceive the individual as someone embodying nurturing energy, beauty, and creativity. This energy often gives off an aura of fertility, warmth, and caring, making the person seem naturally maternal or supportive. Others may view them as a source of comfort and inspiration, someone who has the ability to foster growth and provide emotional support.

Internally, these individuals might feel a strong connection to family and heritage, particularly the feminine lineage. Their sense of identity often revolves around caring for others, creating beauty, and cultivating harmony in their surroundings. When negatively expressed, however, this energy can manifest as feelings of inadequacy or self-neglect, leading to issues with self-worth or the inability to express their nurturing side. They may also struggle with rejecting their femininity or overburdening themselves with responsibilities.

When positively aligned, the 3rd Arcanum enhances the individual’s ability to create abundance, support others, and cultivate an environment of love and care. They are seen as graceful and harmonious, able to create beauty in both their personal and professional lives. Their key strength lies in their capacity to nurture, whether in relationships, creative endeavors, or even business.

4 - The Emperor

The 4th Arcanum in this position manifests itself as "Masculinity" or "The Emperor" in the Tarot. It reflects how others perceive the individual as strong, authoritative, and someone who embodies leadership. This person is seen as a protector, a figure who takes responsibility for others, and someone who provides structure and stability. Their presence exudes a sense of command, making them natural leaders in various aspects of life, including family and work.

Internally, these individuals may feel a constant need to control their environment and take charge of situations. They have a strong sense of duty and responsibility, especially toward their family or close circle. However, when negatively expressed, this energy can manifest as excessive control, harshness, or even authoritarian behavior, pushing others away or creating unnecessary tension. They might struggle with accepting help or relying on others, leading to frustration or aggression when things don't go their way.

When positively aligned, the 4th Arcanum enhances the individual’s ability to lead with wisdom and strength. They become reliable pillars in their communities, offering support and guidance. Their actions are driven by responsibility, and they create an environment of security and order, both at home and in professional settings. The key to their success lies in balancing their need for control with the ability to trust and delegate, ensuring they don't overwhelm themselves or others with their strong energy.

5 - The Hierophant

The 5th Arcanum in this position manifests itself as "Knowledge" or "The Hierophant" in the Tarot. This energy reflects how others perceive the individual as a wise figure, a source of knowledge, and someone who upholds traditions and faith. People often see them as educators, spiritual guides, or those who inspire others with their deep understanding of life, ethics, and higher truths. They tend to be regarded as mentors, transmitting wisdom and helping others find their path.

Internally, these individuals are driven by a desire to learn and spread knowledge, always seeking to understand the deeper meaning of existence. They are devoted to a mission of learning and teaching, often feeling a sense of responsibility to share their insights with others. However, when this energy is negatively manifested, they can become rigid, overly critical, and preachy. Their need to instruct others may turn into an obsession with being right, leading them to impose their views and stifle those around them.

When positively aligned, the 5th Arcanum enhances their ability to inspire and guide with compassion, using their knowledge to uplift others. They become figures of authority in matters of faith and learning, embodying a deep connection to tradition while remaining open to new ideas. Their energy flows when they strike a balance between being teachers and learners, continually evolving while helping others along their spiritual or intellectual journeys.

6 - The Lovers

The 6th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as Love or The Lovers in the Tarot. In this position, this energy shapes how others perceive the individual as charming, graceful, and attractive, both in appearance and demeanor. People with the 6th Arcanum in this position are often seen as very charismatic, easily able to engage with others, and naturally drawing people toward them. Their ability to form connections and communicate harmoniously is their key strength, making them appear as peacemakers and social butterflies.

Externally, they are viewed as individuals who value beauty, relationships, and emotional connection. They are often admired for their sense of style, their ability to create harmony in their environment, and the grace with which they interact with others. People see them as magnetic, with an aura of elegance and warmth that makes others feel comfortable around them.

When negatively manifested, others might perceive them as overly concerned with their appearance or with what others think of them. This can lead to superficiality or a tendency to seek approval and validation from their social circle. On the other hand, when positively aligned, the 6th Arcanum enhances their ability to form genuine, loving connections, bringing beauty, love, and balance into all aspects of their life, both in their relationships and within themselves.

7 - The chariot

The 7th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as Movement or The Chariot in the Tarot. This energy shapes how others perceive the individual as dynamic, driven, and constantly in motion. They are seen as people who are always on the go, with a clear sense of direction and purpose. To others, these individuals often appear unstoppable, focused on their goals, and willing to push through any obstacles that come their way. Their swift, decisive actions and leadership skills make them seem like natural-born achievers.

Externally, they are viewed as highly energetic and capable of motivating others, often taking the lead in moving things forward. They seem to thrive in competitive environments and are admired for their ability to stay one step ahead.

When negatively manifested, others may see them as reckless or too aggressive, rushing forward without fully considering the consequences. In contrast, when this energy is positively aligned, they inspire admiration for their determination and ability to turn ideas into action, making them seem like people who always know where they’re going and how to get there.

8 - Justice

The 8th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as Responsibility or Justice and shapes how others perceive the individual. People tend to view them as extremely reliable, disciplined, and principled. These individuals are often seen as figures of authority who bring order and stability wherever they go. They are recognized for their fairness and their commitment to doing what is morally or ethically right, even when it’s difficult.

Externally, they may be perceived as people who naturally enforce rules and maintain balance, whether in their personal relationships or professional settings. Their approach to life appears structured, thoughtful, and purposeful, and they often inspire respect due to their strong ethical stance.

When negatively manifested, others might see them as overly rigid or judgmental, enforcing rules without flexibility and becoming harsh in their pursuit of justice. However, in their positive form, they radiate wisdom and the ability to make impartial, well-considered decisions that benefit everyone around them.

9 - The Hermit

The 9th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as The Hermit in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as deeply introspective and wise, often seeming distant or detached from the hustle of everyday life. They come across as highly reflective and mature, someone who contemplates life's deeper meanings rather than focusing on surface-level interactions. Because of this, they can seem mysterious, reserved, and even somewhat cold to those around them, though their wisdom and insights are undeniable. They often act as advisors or quiet observers who provide profound knowledge when asked.

While others might admire their wisdom, they may also find them challenging to connect with on a personal level, as they tend to retreat into their own world of thoughts and reflection. Their solitary nature can create a perception of aloofness, but it also generates respect for their depth and intelligence.

When negatively manifested, these individuals can appear overly distant, arrogant, or self-absorbed, convinced that their understanding surpasses everyone else's. Their solitude may turn into loneliness or isolation, causing difficulties in forming meaningful relationships. On the positive side, however, their energy draws others toward them as guides or sages, as they are able to offer invaluable advice and understanding in complex situations, encouraging others to explore deeper truths.

10 - The Hermit

The 10th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as The Wheel of Fortune in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as adaptable and fortunate, often experiencing highs and lows in life but seemingly always landing on their feet. They appear to have a natural connection to the cycles of destiny and are seen as flexible, able to navigate change and uncertainty with ease. This gives them an air of unpredictability, yet also resilience, as if life’s twists and turns work in their favor more often than not. People may view them as lucky or blessed, even when they seem to face difficult situations.

Internally, these individuals feel deeply connected to the flow of life, understanding that both positive and negative experiences are part of the same cycle. They often possess a calm acceptance of life's unpredictability and have faith that things will eventually turn out well. However, when negatively manifested, they may become passive, overly reliant on fortune, or fail to take responsibility for their circumstances. This can lead to others perceiving them as lacking direction or control over their own lives.

When positively aligned, individuals with the 10th Arcanum in this zone inspire others through their ability to embrace change and remain optimistic. They show how to ride the waves of fate gracefully, encouraging others to let go of excessive control and trust in the natural ebb and flow of life. Their light-hearted approach and belief in destiny often lead to remarkable success, as they seem to attract good fortune at just the right moments.

11 - Strength

The 11th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as The Strength card in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as strong, both mentally and emotionally, with an impressive ability to overcome obstacles and handle challenges with grace. They are often seen as resilient and determined, possessing an inner power that radiates outward. This energy makes them appear courageous and capable of handling difficult situations, often inspiring others to draw upon their own strength. People are naturally drawn to them for guidance, seeing them as capable of bringing calm and order even in turbulent times.

Internally, these individuals are driven by a deep sense of personal power and confidence. They have a quiet but profound belief in their ability to endure and persevere, even when faced with significant difficulties. However, when negatively manifested, they may become overbearing or attempt to control situations and people too rigidly, mistaking force for strength. In this state, they can come off as domineering or inflexible, pushing others away with their need to assert control.

When positively aligned, individuals with the 11th Arcanum in this position shine as natural leaders, demonstrating how true strength lies not in brute force but in inner resolve, patience, and understanding. They are able to gently guide others, creating an atmosphere of stability and trust, and are often seen as protectors or advocates for those who need support. Their ability to balance power with compassion makes them pillars of strength in their communities.

12 - The Hanged Man

The 12th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as The Hanged Man in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as people who approach life from a different perspective, often appearing unconventional or detached from the material world. Their energy gives off a sense of sacrifice, surrender, or patience, as though they are willing to wait or let go of control to gain deeper spiritual or philosophical insights. This can make them seem mysterious or enigmatic to those around them, as they often resist the norms of society in favor of their inner truth.

Internally, these individuals are reflective, searching for meaning beyond what is easily visible. They are willing to endure discomfort or delay gratification to achieve a higher understanding or a deeper sense of purpose. When negatively manifested, they can come across as passive, stagnant, or even as martyrs, trapped in indecision or a state of inaction. They may struggle with moving forward, feeling stuck in their own thoughts or awaiting external change that never comes.

When positively aligned, the 12th Arcanum reveals a person who has mastered the art of surrender and trust in life's natural flow. Their patience, resilience, and ability to see things from alternative perspectives often inspire others, helping them navigate difficult circumstances with wisdom and grace. These individuals can guide others in finding peace amid uncertainty and in recognizing that sometimes, growth requires letting go.

13 - Death

The 13th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as Death in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as transformative forces in life, often symbolizing profound change, renewal, or endings. They may come across as intense, mysterious, and even unsettling, as their energy often signals a break from the past or an unavoidable transition. People with this energy are seen as catalysts for transformation, able to bring closure to old situations and pave the way for new beginnings, though they might also be perceived as harbingers of sudden or unexpected changes.

Internally, these individuals are deeply connected to cycles of death and rebirth, understanding the necessity of letting go in order to grow. They are often reflective and accepting of the impermanence of life, recognizing that transformation is a constant. When negatively manifested, they may appear destructive, obsessive, or stuck in a cycle of loss, unable to release the past or move forward. Their energy can be experienced as overwhelming or disorienting to others, especially when they resist the changes they themselves need to undergo.

When positively aligned, the 13th Arcanum embodies a powerful force for renewal and regeneration. These individuals are capable of navigating life’s transitions with grace and insight, helping others accept change and embrace new possibilities. Their ability to bring closure and initiate rebirth makes them a guiding figure for others during times of upheaval or transformation, inspiring growth and resilience.

14 - Temperance

The 14th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as Temperance in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as balanced, calm, and composed, often seeming to embody harmony and moderation in all they do. They come across as peacemakers, able to blend opposing forces or perspectives with ease, and are often seen as patient and wise, someone who naturally promotes equilibrium in both personal and social situations. Their presence is soothing, as they are known for their ability to handle conflicts with grace and to maintain a steady and controlled demeanor.

Internally, these individuals strive for inner balance and a sense of unity between their emotional and rational sides. They are constantly working toward self-improvement through careful moderation and restraint, always seeking to find the middle ground. When negatively manifested, they may appear indecisive or overly passive, unable to take bold actions for fear of disrupting the harmony they seek to maintain. This could cause them to miss opportunities due to a tendency to avoid confrontation or significant changes.

When positively aligned, the 14th Arcanum allows these individuals to act as natural mediators and healers. They have the ability to inspire others through their example of patience and moderation, fostering a sense of peace and cooperation. Their energy encourages others to find balance in their own lives, as they skillfully navigate life’s challenges with poise and thoughtful deliberation.

15 - The Devil

The 15th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as The Devil in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as intense, magnetic, and sometimes overwhelming. They may be seen as possessing a powerful, even dark, allure that draws people toward them, though often with a sense of caution. People might interpret their energy as dominant or controlling, leading to a perception of manipulation or hidden motives, especially if these individuals are focused on their personal desires and ambitions. Their intense presence can make them appear seductive, charismatic, or dangerously captivating.

Internally, these individuals are driven by a strong desire to break free from limitations, both external and internal. They may constantly wrestle with material attachments, power dynamics, or primal instincts, seeking to satisfy deep desires or gain control over their environment. When this energy is negatively manifested, they can become consumed by their own impulses, leading to unhealthy relationships, addictive behaviors, or an overemphasis on materialism and self-gratification. This can make them appear obsessive or manipulative to others, creating toxic dynamics in their connections.

When positively aligned, however, the 15th Arcanum allows them to use their inner strength and magnetism to empower themselves and others. They learn to harness their deep desires in a constructive way, transforming challenges into opportunities for growth. Their energy then becomes a source of empowerment for those around them, helping others break free from their own limitations and fears, and encouraging them to face life’s darker truths with courage and honesty.

16 - The Tower

The 16th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as The Tower in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as catalysts for significant change or disruption. They often appear to challenge the status quo, either consciously or unconsciously, which can lead others to see them as unpredictable or even destructive. People around them might feel uneasy or unsettled by their presence, as they have a tendency to bring about shifts that force those in their environment to confront uncomfortable truths or face sudden upheavals.

Internally, individuals with the 16th Arcanum are often undergoing deep personal transformations. They may experience sudden revelations or abrupt changes in their own lives, which can feel like a collapse of old structures or belief systems. These individuals are driven by a need to rebuild their lives on more solid foundations, even if it means going through painful or difficult periods of destruction first. This energy can lead to profound personal growth, but it also comes with the risk of chaos and instability.

When negatively manifested, these individuals may become agents of destruction, causing unnecessary chaos or harm in their relationships and surroundings. They might tear things down without considering the consequences, leaving others hurt or confused. On the positive side, when aligned with their higher purpose, they serve as powerful forces for renewal, helping themselves and others break free from old limitations and create stronger, more authentic structures in their lives. Their role becomes that of a transformative force, pushing for the necessary changes that lead to deeper understanding and growth.

17 - The Star

The 17th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as "The Star" in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as beacons of hope, inspiration, and renewal. They often come across as calm, serene, and deeply connected to their higher ideals, projecting a sense of optimism and healing energy. People are naturally drawn to them because of their ability to uplift others and provide guidance in times of difficulty. They may be seen as dreamers or visionaries, possessing an inner light that inspires those around them.

Internally, individuals with the 17th Arcanum are often driven by a deep sense of purpose and a desire to bring about positive change. They have a strong connection to their spiritual or creative sides, seeking to manifest their dreams and ideals in the physical world. This energy provides them with clarity, allowing them to remain focused on their goals despite any challenges they face.

When negatively manifested, these individuals may become overly idealistic or disconnected from reality, placing too much emphasis on dreams without taking practical steps to achieve them. They might struggle with feelings of disappointment or frustration if their high expectations are not met. However, when positively aligned, they serve as sources of inspiration and guidance, helping others to see the potential for growth and renewal in even the most challenging situations. Their ability to maintain faith and optimism in the face of adversity makes them true symbols of hope and perseverance.

18 - The Moon

The 18th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as "The Moon" in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as deeply intuitive, mysterious, and often enigmatic. There is an aura of complexity and depth around them, as they seem to operate on a different wavelength, guided by their inner feelings and subconscious thoughts. People might see them as dreamers or those who dwell in realms of fantasy and emotion, but this also makes them intriguing and captivating to be around. Their intuition often leads them to insights others might miss, though this can also make them appear unpredictable.

Internally, these individuals are highly sensitive and deeply connected to their subconscious mind. They may frequently experience emotional highs and lows, navigating between reality and illusion. The energy of the Moon drives them to explore the hidden sides of life, such as dreams, fears, and the subconscious. This can result in powerful inner guidance but may also lead them down paths of confusion or self-deception if not carefully managed.

When negatively manifested, the energy of the 18th Arcanum can lead to fears, anxieties, and a tendency to get lost in illusions or deceptive situations. These individuals may struggle with clarity, allowing doubts and insecurities to cloud their judgment. However, when positively aligned, they can tap into their intuition and emotions to help themselves and others uncover hidden truths. Their sensitivity allows them to guide others through emotional and spiritual challenges, making them empathetic and insightful companions.

19 - The Sun

The 19th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as "The Sun" in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as radiant, optimistic, and full of life. They often seem to light up the room with their presence, exuding warmth and positivity that draws others toward them. These individuals are seen as confident and inspiring, often serving as a beacon of hope or a source of motivation for those around them. Their energy is uplifting, and they are perceived as people who bring clarity and joy to every situation.

Internally, these individuals are driven by a strong sense of purpose and self-expression. They seek fulfillment through their ability to shine and to be recognized for their talents and contributions. The energy of the Sun within them fosters a sense of abundance and success, allowing them to face life's challenges with confidence and resilience. They are naturally inclined to pursue goals that allow them to share their inner light with the world.

When negatively manifested, this energy can lead to arrogance, an inflated ego, or a need for constant attention. They may become too focused on external validation, leading them to neglect deeper connections or overlook the needs of others. However, when positively aligned, these individuals embody true leadership and a generous spirit, capable of bringing joy, positivity, and growth to everyone they encounter.

20 - Judgment

The 20th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as "Judgment" in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as transformative and awakening forces in their lives. They often carry an air of destiny, as if they are here to bring about change or guide others through pivotal moments of self-realization. People around them might see them as catalysts for growth or spiritual renewal, as they naturally bring others to confront deeper truths or decisions. They are often recognized for their wisdom in matters of karma, fate, and life’s ultimate purpose.

Internally, these individuals are constantly evolving, driven by a deep need to align with their higher purpose. The energy of Judgment pushes them to reflect on their past actions, decisions, and experiences, often leading them to life-altering revelations. This inner quest for renewal helps them guide others through their own personal transformations. However, they may also carry a burden of responsibility, feeling called to help those around them achieve clarity and purpose.

When negatively manifested, they may become overly critical or judgmental, both of themselves and others. This can lead to unnecessary pressure and feelings of inadequacy. However, when this energy is positively aligned, they serve as powerful guides for others, offering insight, wisdom, and support in times of great personal change and awakening. They embody the energy of rebirth, helping people rise to new levels of understanding and spiritual growth.

21 - The World

The 21st Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as "The World" in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as complete, whole, and fulfilled. They are seen as people who have a strong sense of achievement and harmony, often exuding a sense of accomplishment and mastery over their lives. People around them may view them as a source of balance and stability, seeing in them the embodiment of someone who has successfully navigated life’s challenges and reached a state of inner and outer success.

Internally, these individuals are driven by a desire for fulfillment, unity, and integration. They have a deep connection to their life’s journey and often feel a sense of purpose in bringing things to completion. The energy of "The World" signifies a natural flow of cycles, where they understand the importance of endings and new beginnings. This understanding allows them to navigate life's transitions gracefully and with a sense of acceptance and peace.

When negatively manifested, they may struggle with feelings of incompletion, fearing that they have not reached their potential or that something is missing in their lives. This can lead to a sense of restlessness or dissatisfaction, even when they have achieved much. On the positive side, however, they bring harmony, completeness, and fulfillment not only to their own lives but also to those around them, guiding others toward personal wholeness and satisfaction.

22- The Fool

The 22nd Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as "The Fool" in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as free-spirited, unconventional, and spontaneous. They come across as people who move through life without fear, embracing adventure and the unknown. This energy gives them an air of unpredictability, often making them seem carefree or even reckless, but also charming and open to life’s endless possibilities. People see them as unburdened by the constraints of society, norms, or traditions, which makes them appear youthful, exciting, and full of potential.

Internally, these individuals are driven by a desire for freedom, exploration, and new experiences. They often feel disconnected from the concept of rigid structures, choosing instead to follow their intuition and embrace the moment. This gives them a unique ability to adapt to changing circumstances and see the beauty in life's mysteries, allowing them to view life through a fresh, almost childlike lens.

When negatively manifested, these individuals can appear irresponsible, directionless, or naive, making impulsive decisions without considering the consequences. Their lack of foresight may lead to chaotic situations, where they feel lost or overwhelmed. However, when positively aligned, they bring inspiration, creativity, and a zest for life to those around them, encouraging others to embrace uncertainty and take bold steps toward their dreams.

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Yamen: A Light of Hope in the Darkness"

Meet Yamen, our beautiful nine-month-old son, born into a world of chaos and conflict. His arrival during this war is a bittersweet reminder of both our struggles and our unwavering hope. Each day, he brings a glimmer of light into our lives, and with every smile, he inspires us to dream of a future that feels almost unattainable.

Yamen doesn’t understand the fear that envelops us or the shadows of uncertainty that loom large. To him, the world is still a place of wonder. He giggles and reaches for me with his tiny hands, each laughing a fragile melody that cuts through the noise of destruction. In his eyes, I see the innocence that we desperately want to protect.

But I often find myself asking: How long can we shield him from the harsh realities of this war? How long can we maintain his innocence in a world that threatens to steal it away? As parents, the weight of these questions is heavy. The thought of him growing up in fear is a pain I can not bear.

This is why I am reaching out to you. We are embarking on a campaign to create a future for Yamen that transcends our own difficult experiences. We believe that with the support of a compassionate community, we can turn our dreams into reality. By contributing, you are not merely donating; you are actively participating in the shaping of his world—a world filled with love, security, and opportunity.

Imagine a life where Yamen can play freely, learn joyfully, and grow without the shadow of conflict hanging over him. Your support can help us build that life for him, ensuring he experiences the joy and potential that every child deserves.

Yamen may be just a baby, but in his laughter lies the power to inspire change. Let us work together to create a brighter future, where his innocence is cherished and nurtured. Join us in this fight for hope and resilience so that one day, when he looks back, he sees a life full of love and possibility—a life untainted by war.

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I cackled everytime I see JJK content creators with 'Proship DNI' in their bio and those yapping how yucky and degrading it is for many of allxyuji ships (when they are literally fictional characters that you could tweak however you want) but then seeing them making contents from weakly jjk leaks, supporting leaks, tagging their contents based on leaks publicly when those acts are legitimately illegal and literally threaten and are harmful to the livelihood of many real people behind jjk's production...can't help but think how fucking silly they are like gurl your morals are backwards at best, thinking they are better and thus okay being racist and insulting to Japanese creators who contributed to make allxyuji swept most of the 20 popular jjk ships? They can't even stop and think why Japanese artists are so enraged w/ the act of leaking chapter and the act of supporting leaks in whichever form (including making fanarts, memes, posts, tweets based on leaks), before it is officially released that made those available everywhere due to these dumb content creators who can't even hold back few more days to not publicly support leaks...Bcs it is literally illegal and highly disrespectful to Gege and all those working in JJK and most of all, stealing actual profits that are supposed to go to them.

Still wanna act all high and mighty when you're supporting in real crime? Oh. You think if those ppl working on Weekly Jump magz got fired then it's none of your business bcs you're just a fucking leaks reader? You just happen to make contents abt it before official release bcs everyone else also does it. Could care less abt the fact that it's illegal bcs you dunno those real people working for JJK. But you 'care' more abt your fictional blorbos being shipped with another fictional character in what would be unhealthy according to real life standards?

At least im not a hypocrite and have actual functioning brain and morals that can separate reality and fiction and understand which thing is actually harmful and wrong IRL and which isn't. Get your brain to actually work first before running your mouth and preach about what's wrong and right in fiction.

The idea of proship doesn't even exist in Japan because they are the people who actually know how to mind their own business and not judging people based on preferences for fictional works...and not downright being rude to strangers online...unlike some people from the other side of the world, obviously.

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Fear: Using Stoicism to Shape Characters

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Introduction

Like many people, I suffer from severe panic and anxiety attacks. My heart races at what feels like a thousand beats per minute, I get a cold sweat, and my thoughts do not have a filter. The latter of which, I find the most dangerous and disturbing, especially when said attacks get triggered by something so small or nothing at all.

A lot of the time, they boil down to not feeling safe. I feel like I’m vulnerable, that the worst things that happened to me will happen again tenfold, or I’ve become the worst person in existence. Fear, as a lot of us know, can have us assume the worst.

I’m still working on managing my fear, if it can be managed at all, but a lot of what I’ve been practicing is essentially Stoicism. Epictetus, a Greek Stoic philosopher, often highlighted that it is not events themselves that disturb people, but rather their judgments about those events. One famous quote attributed to Epictetus that reflects this idea is: “People are not disturbed by things, but by the view they take of them.”

This sentiment suggests that fear and other negative emotions stem not from objective reality but from our interpretations and perceptions of reality.

I thought, “What a wonderful way to get to know our characters!” Not only do we have to have a grasp on the world around them, we have to understand the extent of how they perceive said reality and how it leads to their own fears as well as their ambitions, passions, hate, love, etc.

Amor Fati

One of my favorite phrases is “amor fati.” It’s what helped me most in navigating my own fears and, as a result, writing some ways in which my characters handle theirs.

The idea of “amor fati” is closely associated with philosophers like Epictetus and Marcus Aurelius, even though they didn't use those exact words. However, it was Nietzsche who made it a key part of his philosophy. He believed that true greatness comes from embracing fate and wanting nothing to change, not in the past, present, or future. In simple terms, it means loving and accepting everything that happens, rather than just enduring it.

When considering the relationship between “amor fati” and fear, several key points emerge:

Acceptance of the Uncontrollable: Fear often arises from the unknown or from circumstances beyond our control. “Amor fati” encourages individuals to relinquish their resistance to such uncertainties and to accept that life is inherently unpredictable. By embracing fate, individuals can find solace in the realization that some things are simply beyond their power to change or influence.

Facing Adversity with Resilience: Rather than viewing challenges as threats to be avoided or overcome, individuals can approach them with a sense of equanimity and resilience. Instead of succumbing to fear or anxiety in the face of challenges, one can choose to see them as opportunities for growth and self-discovery. By embracing adversity as an integral part of life’s journey, individuals can cultivate the strength and fortitude necessary to navigate difficult times with grace and composure.

Gratitude for All Experiences: Fear often stems from a sense of insecurity or dissatisfaction with one’s circumstances. “Amor fati” cultivates gratitude for all experiences, both positive and negative, recognizing that each contributes to the richness and depth of life. By embracing fate with gratitude and appreciation, individuals can mitigate the fear of the unknown and find peace and contentment in the present moment.

This idea is what helps form a “baseline” for my way of thinking and perceiving fear, which is what many people, fictional characters included, tend to mix up.

You don’t need to adopt the same mantra, of course, but I believe that having this Ground 0 in your own personal philosophy will add further depth and characterization in writing. It provides a deeper perspective on why your characters think the same or why they may deviate.

Distinction Between Events and Perceptions

Let’s go back to what Epictetus said: “People are not disturbed by things, but by the view they take of them.” Stoicism teaches that events themselves are neutral; it is our interpretation of those events that shapes our emotional responses. This concept is often referred to as “cognitive appraisal” or “judgment” in Stoic philosophy.

In practical terms, this means that two individuals may encounter the same external circumstance, yet react to it in vastly different ways based on their subjective interpretations. For example, consider a person who loses their job unexpectedly. While one individual may perceive this event as a devastating blow to their self-worth and security, another may view it as an opportunity for growth and new possibilities. The event itself—the loss of a job—remains the same, but the emotional response varies depending on the individual's perception of the situation.

Epictetus’s insight invites us to reflect on the role of our perceptions in shaping our emotional experiences. It suggests that our judgments, beliefs, and attitudes about the events we encounter play a crucial role in determining how we feel and behave in response to those events. By recognizing this distinction between events and perceptions, individuals can gain greater agency over their emotional lives.

Moreover, understanding this distinction empowers individuals to practice what Epictetus called the “dichotomy of control”—the Stoic principle of focusing only on what is within our power to control, namely our thoughts, attitudes, and responses, rather than becoming consumed by external circumstances beyond our control. By directing our attention inward and cultivating a mindset of resilience and rationality, we can navigate life's challenges with greater equanimity and inner peace.

Applying this to character development, particularly in relation to crafting a character’s fears, can add depth and complexity to the character.

Understanding the Character’s Perception of Fearful Events:

Explore how the character interprets and perceives the events or situations that evoke fear. What underlying beliefs, past experiences, or personal values shape their perception of these events?

Consider whether the character’s fear is rooted in the objective reality of the situation or in their subjective interpretation of it. For example, is their fear based on genuine physical danger, or is it driven by irrational beliefs or past traumas?

Revealing Character Traits and Beliefs:

A character’s response to fear can provide insight into their personality, values, and beliefs. For instance, do they confront their fears head-on with courage and resilience, or do they succumb to anxiety and avoidance?

Consider how the character’s fear reflects broader themes or conflicts in the story. For example, does their fear stem from a desire for control, a fear of vulnerability, or a struggle with existential questions?

External Manifestations of Fear:

Consider how the character’s perception of fear manifests in their actions, behaviors, and interactions with others. Do they exhibit outward signs of fear, such as trembling or avoidance, or do they mask their fears behind a facade of bravado?

Pay attention to how the character’s response to fear influences their relationships with other characters. For example, do they push others away in an attempt to protect themselves, or do they seek support and connection during times of fear and uncertainty?

Symbolism and Subtext:

Use the character’s fears as a vehicle for exploring deeper themes and subtext within the story. What do their fears symbolize in terms of larger narrative themes or character arcs?

Consider how the character’s perception of fear parallels or contrasts with other characters in the story, providing opportunities for reflection and exploration of different perspectives.

“Personal Truths” Are Not Necessarily Lawful

No matter how much a character is afraid of something, there is a line to be drawn on how valid that fear is when justifying a character’s actions and self-proclaimed motives. A person can say that they are afraid of someone else and that they are acting to protect others, but does that truly evade them from the law? In other words, a Villain can be completely convinced that what they are doing is noble and right, or that it stems from their own trauma, but, at the end of the day, they’re a murderous liar.

For example, in George Orwell's allegorical novel Animal Farm, Napoleon is a Berkshire boar who emerges as one of the leaders of the animal revolution against the human farmer, Mr. Jones. Initially, Napoleon is portrayed as a strategic thinker and persuasive speaker, working alongside Snowball, another pig, to rally the other animals and establish the principles of Animalism, which advocate for equality and freedom from human oppression.

As the story progresses, Napoleon’s character undergoes a transformation fueled by his ambitions for power and control.

Napoleon’s fear of losing control over the farm drives many of his actions. He becomes increasingly paranoid about potential threats to his authority, particularly from Snowball, whom he views as a rival. This fear prompts him to manipulate and eliminate anyone who opposes him, including orchestrating the expulsion of Snowball from the farm and later falsely accusing him of being a traitor.

He also utilizes propaganda and manipulation to maintain his grip on power. He gradually assumes control over the farm’s decision-making processes, consolidating power in his own hands and using fear tactics to suppress dissent among the other animals. For example, he employs the threat of the mysterious “Jones” returning to instill fear and obedience among the animals.

Napoleon’s lust for power leads him to betray the principles of Animalism that he once espoused. He progressively becomes more authoritarian and exploitative, engaging in corrupt practices such as trading with humans and altering the Seven Commandments to justify his actions. Despite initially advocating for equality, Napoleon begins to live a life of luxury while the other animals toil and suffer.

As his regime becomes more entrenched, he resorts to violence and oppression to maintain control. He establishes a reign of terror, using his loyal enforcers, the ferocious dogs he raised since they were puppies, to suppress dissent and punish any animal perceived as disloyal. Under his rule, the farm descends into a state of fear and tyranny, with Napoleon ruling with an iron fist.

Napoleon’s character serves as a symbol of totalitarianism and the corrupting influence of power. His transformation from a revolutionary leader to a despotic dictator mirrors the rise of real-life totalitarian rulers who exploit fear and propaganda to consolidate power and suppress dissent. There is not one moment of self-reflection, of him questioning that, perhaps, his fears are unfounded or his “personal truths” are not true at all.

Playing With Reality

Now, how can you utilize fear in order to create a character with as much depth and reflection (or lack thereof) like Napoleon?

Exaggerating a character’s fear involves manipulating elements of reality within the narrative to heighten the character’s sense of paranoia, insecurity, and authoritarianism.

Distorted Perceptions: Employ literary devices such as unreliable narration or distorted perspectives to amplify the character’s fears. By presenting events through the lens of the character’s paranoia, the narrative can create a sense of heightened tension and uncertainty. For example, descriptions of seemingly innocuous occurrences may be exaggerated or imbued with sinister undertones to reflect the character’s heightened state of fear.

Symbolism and Imagery: Symbolic imagery can be used to represent the character’s fears in a heightened and exaggerated manner. For instance, recurring symbols of oppression, surveillance, or impending doom can serve as visual metaphors for the character’s anxieties and insecurities. These symbols can be woven throughout the narrative to reinforce the character’s sense of paranoia and isolation.

Surreal Elements: Introducing surreal or fantastical elements into the narrative can create a sense of disorientation and unease, effectively amplifying the character's fear. By blurring the boundaries between reality and fantasy, the author can evoke a sense of psychological instability and existential dread. Surreal imagery, dream sequences, or hallucinatory experiences can all contribute to the character’s sense of dislocation and terror.

Manipulation of Time and Space: Playing with the conventions of time and space can further exaggerate the character’s fear and disorientation. Flashbacks, flash-forwards, or nonlinear storytelling techniques can create a sense of temporal dislocation, mirroring the character’s fractured mental state. Similarly, disorienting shifts in perspective or setting can contribute to the character's sense of being trapped or pursued by unseen forces.

Atmospheric Detailing: Careful attention to atmospheric detail can help to create a sense of oppressive dread and foreboding. Descriptions of the environment—such as gloomy weather, claustrophobic settings, or unsettling ambient sounds—can evoke a palpable sense of unease, intensifying the character's fear and paranoia.

Character Interaction and Dialogue: Dialogue and interaction with other characters can be used to reinforce the character’s fears and insecurities. Conversations may be laced with veiled threats, double entendres, or gaslighting tactics, leaving the character uncertain of whom to trust. Manipulative or menacing exchanges can heighten the character's sense of isolation and vulnerability.

Did anyone else get a little uneasy imagining all of that? I’d go rather mad if I had all of that happening to me, too. Now, what about the good guys? They are afraid of things, too, right?

Of course they are, and you can utilize the above methods for your heroes, as well! There might just be a little bit of extra work involved in ensuring that they don’t spiral into the villain role.

Establish Strong Moral Compass: From the outset, establish the hero’s core values and moral compass. Make it clear what principles guide their actions and decisions. This foundation will serve as a guiding light, helping to anchor the character and prevent them from straying into villainous territory.

Empathy and Compassion: Ensure that the hero retains their empathy and compassion towards others, even in the face of fear and adversity. By prioritizing the well-being of others and demonstrating empathy towards those in need, the hero reaffirms their commitment to noble ideals and reinforces their heroic identity.

Positive Support Systems: Surround the hero with positive support systems, including allies, mentors, and friends who can offer guidance, encouragement, and moral support. These relationships serve as anchors, providing the hero with strength and stability during moments of doubt and fear.

Consequences of Actions: Highlight the consequences of the hero’s actions and choices, emphasizing the impact they have on others and the world around them. By holding the hero accountable for their decisions and their effects, the narrative reinforces the importance of ethical behavior and reinforces their heroic identity.

Redemption and Forgiveness: If the hero does succumb to fear or makes mistakes along the way, provide opportunities for redemption and forgiveness. Allow the hero to acknowledge their faults, learn from their experiences, and strive to make amends. This narrative arc reinforces the hero’s humanity and resilience, emphasizing the possibility of growth and redemption.

Thematic Resonance: Ensure that the hero’s journey is thematically consistent and resonant, emphasizing themes of hope, courage, and resilience. By grounding the narrative in these overarching themes, the hero’s actions remain aligned with their fundamental nature, reinforcing their heroic identity and preventing them from veering into villainous territory.

Conclusion

Fear is a powerful and universal human experience that can shape both individuals and characters in profound ways. Drawing upon Stoic philosophy, particularly the concepts of “amor fati” and the distinction between events and perceptions, can provide valuable insights into understanding and managing fear. By exploring how characters perceive and respond to fear, writers can create nuanced and compelling portrayals that add depth and complexity to their stories.

“Amor fati,” or love of fate, encourages individuals to embrace and accept all aspects of their lives, including the uncertainties and challenges that provoke fear. By adopting an attitude of gratitude and acceptance towards fate, characters can navigate fear with resilience and courage, transforming adversity into opportunities for growth and self-discovery.

Furthermore, understanding the distinction between events and perceptions allows writers to delve into the subjective nature of fear, exploring how characters’ interpretations and judgments shape their emotional experiences. By depicting characters’ fears as rooted in their perceptions of reality, writers can add layers of complexity to their motivations and behaviors, enhancing the depth and authenticity of their characterization.

While fear can drive characters to make choices that lead them down dark paths, it is ultimately their moral compass, empathy, and support systems that determine whether they remain heroes or succumb to villainy. By emphasizing themes of redemption, forgiveness, and growth, writers can ensure that even in the face of fear, their characters' journeys ultimately lead to strength, resilience, and self-discovery.

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🌙Astrology Weather🫧

🪴Mercury in Virgo -good communication, much more stable and serious. There’s an emphasis on detail and effectiveness, as well as efficiency, cleanliness, and streamlining. You will start to delve more into things that are practical and good for you. Dealing with details is natural and comfortable now. Maybe you can become more critical of others or things. And you become more analytical about what you really want.

🛁Mars in Virgo-wants you to take control of your day-to-day expenses. This transit could push you to learn more about saving, as you attend to your spending habits. Mars will remind you of your passions and desires. This is also good for getting more organized or starting a routine. Virgo is a sign about learning patience, and Mars wants us to work hard to achieve success. You can start doing healthier things or start taking care of your body more.

🪻Neptune in pisces retrograde- pushing you deeper into the waters of your subconscious. This meditative five-month cycle can be a profound blessing. It can open a window to deal with core wounds and addictions (from liquor to love to limiting beliefs). Meanwhile, it can let you tap into buried realms of creativity. Neptune retrograde is a great time to tend to unfinished creative projects.

🌊Saturn in pisces retrograde- Saturn is structured while Pisces flows freely. Listen to your intuition, but rely on empirical data too. State your boundaries up front and ask people about theirs. Take a project management workshop to learn how to turn your dreams into reality. Explore your spirituality. Delve deep into an esoteric subject like dream interpretation or tarot. Reflect on how you share yourself with the world around you.

⭐️Pluto in Capricorn retrograde- Looking toward the past will play an important role in understanding how the future can be improved upon. If you start to notice a pattern that’s contributing to stress, tension, or discomfort, now would be a good time to finally address those issues so that you may overcome them. Just try not to pressure others into seeing things as you do, remembering that you can only control your own thoughts and actions. Pluto is the planet of transformation and rebirth. It helps you regain the strength you have lost and become strong again and even better than you were. Capricorn is a sign that is stable and many times brings lessons and things related to karmic relationships. So that during this time you can get to know relationships and things related to them better and finish everything you started and leave behind everything that confused you. Capricorns will be able to breathe a sigh of relief.

🩷August 1st is the full moon in Aquarius- this moon is also associated with Leo. It's time to reach full expression. The full moon is the most powerful time of the entire moon cycle. Enjoy the full expression of life. Be fully engaged. Let the light of the moon energize you. Enjoy the life you are creating. Celebrate. This is a powerfully healing time. Send healing blessings to others. The full moon in Aquarius allows you to bring your blossoming self-expression to full flower. Inspire feelings of joy within yourself. Leo teaches us about our individuality, while the opposite sign, Aquarius, shows us how we can come together in community. The full moon is good for letting go of everything that doesn't serve you and limits you, burdens you and to make room for new things. Play, sing, dance, draw. Celebrate your accomplishments. Share what you've discovered about yourself. Light a candle & cleanse your crystals in the light of the moon. Bathe in the moonlight. Allow the healing light of the moon to nurture and invigorate you. Meditate on your affirmations.

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I'm convinced anyone who honest-to-god rages at that post is just someone who feels very impotent and useless off the computer, so they're hardcore compensating by trying to look and feel like they're doing as much "activism" as possible online. Either that, or they have zero understanding of how basic human psychology works and in turn, they don't realize that if people didn't have spaces where they didn't need to constantly be on guard about getting slapped with activism onuses, everyone would burn out. And be useless even if they were able, occasionally, to dive into that stuff before. Not to mention, everyone has a limit. Someone dealing with depression, a death in the family, MS, and the stress of a move has enough shit on their plate and they don't owe anyone an explanation re: "why they don't reblog that post, otherwise it means they're contributing to genocide". Hell, nobody owes anyone an explanation because Brenda, being stressed and pissy and raising your blood pressure about something does not mean you can actually help anyone, and also, half those mutual aid posts are scams.

I know a lot of people were tripped up (apparently) by how I worded it, which in hindsight was probably my fault because I did write it while I was pretty pissed off myself.

But yes, the general amount of people who read it and still insist on either bending over ass backwards trying to nitpick every single possible nuance or immediately launch into accusations and flag waving is just... Disappointing, really.

The whole world is never going to agree on everything, but it is actually very sad to see just how many people have been sucked into the cycle of forced activism, guilt manipulation, setting themselves on fire to keep others warm, ect.

I do hope in the future they allow themselves to let go a little and understand that mentally and physically we are simply not capable of being 'on' every single second of every single day. It helps nobody, and actually, a lot of today's activism is performative and signalling rather than actually effective or influential.

Its people loading up videos of candles on their phones instead of actually lighting real ones.

The unfortunate reality is that a lot of the online "activism" we see isn't.... Actually activism. Its not actually doing anything. There's no outcome from it. Spamming 'FREE PALESTINE' under cat videos and celebrity photos from their holidays doesn't actually accomplish anything. Its just making you feel like you've done something.

Especially activism on a global, actually at war scale like Gaza. It doesn't help anyone. People aren't being freed from hostage camps because user dontlookawayfromwar spammed a tagline under a baking video with an audience of 400 and called the content creator a cunt for not mentioning Gaza once while telling people how to bake scones.

Its likely an unpopular opinion; but modern internet culture has actually ruined activism, compassion and how we understand influence and real change. We are so out of touch with what is actually helpful and what is just virtue signalling and running on a hamster wheel of performative activism. The internet is a communication tool. You can't build a wall with a spoon and you can't stop a war with Tumblr posts telling people they're awful for having family dinners that don't revolve around dead bodies and human greed.

[villainsandvictimsalliance]

A quick analysis of AFO's origin, the world frame of bnha and the core themes of the story :

From reading other people's metas and reading the leaks when they came out, my only solid take about it is that you cannot talk about bnha and the core theme of the perpetuation of violence without understanding how the Hero Society and the hero vs villain culture came to be.

That's what AFO origin is for.

Let's see if I can explain it:

In stories where a group of people suddenly gains powers, you'll always see that authors worry to portray how a change like that would affect the world at the moment. What does it mean that part of the global population now has access to something that others don't? Does that make them "better humans"? Are they superior to the rest and therefore should control them? Are they a danger to society? Should they be repressed or eliminated?

The thing is that powers can be viewed as a metaphor to real life situations we face. People with disabilities deal with the whole stupid idea that they are less than the rest of humanity all the time. You have sexism and racism and a bunch of other problems that at heart are about how to deal with different existences. Should people with certain privileges rule the world? Etc etc etc.

For a second, think of having superpowers as having a ton of money. Those with more money can help others or totally ruin their lives, right? In our world, people with money are directly involved in how justice works. They can corrupt the system or make it work, you know how it is. Yet, people with money are only people. We are all just that. Humans. No matter the amount of privileges, you can't escape your own humanity.

The way a person looks, the amount of money they own, where they are from, how they identify as, none of that makes a person more or less human. Similarly, having powers or the nature of said powers... It doesn't make a person less of a person, you know?

When you apply that logic to superpowers, you get what MHA is trying to say.

AFO lived in these specific conditions that were a result of the violence of his time. He would have ended up bitter anyway, because since he was born he was marked as a threat. When you reject someone like that, when you reject their humanity and you make an enemy out of there, you're not asking for a nice ending. If you teach them that they have to fight for the right to exist, you are asking for a war. It's like that in our world, it's like that in bnha.

What I'm trying to say is that superpowers are just an added variable in the complex equation of human coexistence.

The moment superpowers start to appear, society has to adapt fast. People that are also weapons don't mix well with the world's problems, after all. If you want to prevent mass killings, you need to set a system that rules the allowed behaviors and balances out the board. It's a relief that humanity is both capable of great horrors and wonders, so to every criminal that's set to use their powers for evil, you'll get an individual that wants to use their powers to stop them.

That's how vigilantes were born.

Then comes the legalization of powers and the individuals who use it to protect the system. That is how you get villains (people outside the law) and heroes (people following the law).

Violà. You have the same set of problems with a new feature: quirks.

How does this connect to AFO, you ask?

AFO's origin explains the complexity of the bnha universe, comparing it to our own. It also shows that there is always a context, as in situational factors that contribute to a person being the way that person is.

That doesn't excuse who AFO became, tho. The general rule dictates that we are responsible for our choices and actions in the face of the reality we were presented with. Maybe not while we are kids, because we don't have the maturity to make those choices. However, the moment we become adults, we cannot blame our choices anymore in the world around us. If you have the frame of mind to stop hurting people and you don't, that is on you. You chose to perpetuate the violence.

Of course, simplifications don't do any good and bnha makes that clear too.

A tale of heroes that are always good and villains that are always bad is just that, fiction. When the bnha society started believing that said fiction was their reality, that's when the real struggle of bnha started. Villains and heroes stopped being perceived as such. The dehumanization went both ways. The heroes became untouchable gods and the villains unforgivable demons. The civilians all excused their apathy and lack of action by saying they couldn't do anything in such a world.

People ran away from their responsibility by putting all the weight on the heroes shoulders and ignoring whatever felt uncomfortable or mildly disturbing.

See how quickly we were able to analyze bnha?

That's what I meant when I said at the start that AFO's backstory is crucial to the story frame of the manga. If AFO had been a villain just because, then you'd have a story of evil without reason that would validate the idea of extreme moralities of black and white. Since that's not the case, we got more depth in general.

It all connects to the message Horikoshi is trying to communicate. If you compare bnha to other shonens, you'll get the feeling that they all have something to say about that violence, about the way the world is structured and how people move around it.

It's a basic of storytelling, sure. It's just that now you have the knowledge to properly study bnha, or something like that.

At some point I'll have to reread the manga and pay attention to AFO's origin... That's everything for now, tho. Hope you enjoyed it whdhjsbdjd

[gacha-incels]

“Isekai Pongongnam”, a work that falls short of standards and a red pen correction for Naver

published Oct 17 2024

this article is originally in Korean and has been mtl and edited into English here. it’s not going to be 1:1 but the basic info should be there, if you see any discrepancies though lmk and I’ll edit it asap. thanks everyone for your continued help and understanding.

This article is not a critique of the controversial webtoon Isekai Pongpongnam. Critique, even when highly critical, involves reading between the lines to understand the context. Such a process is unnecessary—more accurately, impossible—when it comes to Isekai Pongpongnam. The webtoon recently passed the first round of Naver Webtoon’s 2024 Grand Contest and is now available on “Best Challenge.” As the title suggests, it actively utilizes the concepts of the “dishwashing theory” and “Pongpongnam,” which were popular around three years ago. Here’s the premise: Park Dong-soo, a 39-year-old man who has devoted himself to his family as a husband and father for 10 years, discovers his wife's affair and prepares for a divorce. Despite having grounds for divorce, he is devastated to learn that, after 10 years of marriage, they must split their assets 50/50. During the custody dispute, his wife self-harms and falsely accuses him of domestic violence, leading to his arrest. Overwhelmed with regret, Park attempts suicide and is transported to a parallel world.

So, what is there to critique about this story? The issue isn’t with the repetitive narrative patterns or the convenient use of a parallel world, like in other generic fantasy stories. The webtoon has been criticized for its misogynistic elements, with a boycott campaign against Naver Webtoon gaining traction on social media, especially on Twitter (now X). While I fully agree with this criticism, it’s not the only issue. The creator of Isekai Pongpongnam hasn’t actually done anything of substance. He hasn’t portrayed any meaningful representation, structured a coherent narrative, or even developed any characters.

The webtoon merely cobbles together and regurgitates misogynistic internet memes, including the term “Pongpongnam,” without any coherent structure. For example, in episode 2, a character from the parallel world reacts to Park's story, exclaiming, “A person who didn’t contribute to the assets just because they were married for a few years gets to take more than half? And the law even protects the cheater? That’s ridiculous! There’s no way a world without a proper system like that exists! If it did, it would’ve collapsed by now!” This line, which some have praised as a “refreshing statement” on Namu Wiki, merely echoes the grievances often found on male-dominated online communities. The setting of Dongtan as Park's hometown, often referred to as “Pongpong City” in discussions about “Pongpongnam,” the lawyer’s line about how “the law favors women too much,” and Park’s monologue about the police taking his wife’s consistent (but false) statements about domestic violence seriously—all these elements are simply recycled memes about male discrimination that have circulated online for years.

In reality, testimony is significant in legal cases, and the credibility of statements is empirically proven through consistency and non-contradiction. However, after the controversial 2018 conviction in the “Gomtang Restaurant” sexual harassment case, the concept of “consistency in statements” was derided as a tool that could turn innocence into guilt, forming a kind of “alternative fact” that continues to circulate in these communities. As of now, three episodes have been released, listing various events, but the creator of Isekai Pongpongnam hasn’t expressed any original ideas or insights. If there’s an actual author behind this webtoon, it isn’t the person named “Pongpong” (the actual pseudonym), but rather the communities like DC Inside, Ilbe, or Femco.

Therefore, Isekai Pongpongnam is not something that can be critiqued as a proper webtoon submission. Instead, it would be more appropriate to mark it up with a red pen. First, the title itself deserves a red line. In response to the controversy over misogyny, the creator claimed, “I do not incite hatred. This story was created based on advice from a divorce lawyer and is based on real events.” If that’s the case, it’s close to an admission that the title was chosen without much thought. While it’s certainly possible that there are real-life cases like Park Dong-soo’s, using such a specific term in the title positions the story within a context of misogyny.

The so-called “dishwashing theory,” which compares a marriage between a respectable man with a stable job and a woman with a promiscuous past to doing the dishes, isn’t an inductive theory but rather a baseless assertion aimed at justifying hatred toward women by creating an imaginary strawman. When the creator chose “Pongpongnam” instead of a more neutral title like “Divorced Man in Another World,” the work had already begun promoting hatred. Therefore, the creator should accept the criticism, not deflect it. The next red line goes to Park Dong-soo’s line about doing “almost all the housework, childcare, and earning money.” The webtoon portrays him as a perfect husband to highlight his wife's wrongdoing. However, the story shows him often away on long-distance business trips, nearly missing holidays with his family, which contradicts his claims of doing most of the childcare.

Similarly, the line about the wife “spending hundreds of dollars a month or overspending while managing finances” also deserves a red line because it conflicts with Park's earlier statement about doing most of the household work. How much of the household chores did this man, who was indifferent to household finances, actually think he was doing? The extent likely matches the narrow range of imagination from a creator who relies on male-dominated online communities and is oblivious to reality.

If this webtoon were a learning material, every line and scene would be marked with red, scoring zero. It mindlessly parrots misogynistic community slang, but in trying to recreate an entire world from such language, contradictions arise at every turn. The one transported to a parallel world isn’t Park Dong-soo but the webtoon’s own logic. Thus, the real target of this critique is not Isekai Pongpongnam itself, but Naver Webtoon for allowing it to pass the first round of screening.

In a Money Today article, a Naver representative said, “There are basic guidelines regarding issues like explicit content or violence. Since no guideline violations were found, it passed the first round.” In other words, despite past controversies over misogyny in webtoons like The Sound of Heart and True Education and the resulting criticisms and revisions, Naver has admitted it lacks guidelines to screen out discriminatory or hateful language targeting specific groups.

The creator of Isekai Pongpongnam argues that the term “dishwashing” is derived from stock trading rather than something as egregious as group rape, trying to suggest that terms like “dishwashing theory” and “Pongpongnam” aren’t expressions of hate. However, the origin of the term is secondary (though not unimportant). When a marriage with a supposedly “promiscuous” woman is likened to dishwashing, the woman is portrayed as something dirty and detestable. Furthermore, the idea that such a marriage is a losing deal disregards women’s contributions to household labor, labeling them as freeloaders. It’s not as though these terms are secretly trending—they were already highly controversial three years ago, with their problematic nature well-documented. How powerless and irresponsible is a guideline that fails to filter out hate speech and discriminatory discourse?

[youremyheaven]

Omg rahu-ketu post😳

I was actually discussing my struggles around having prominent swati in my chart and staying grounded in my own reality on a forum fairly recently.

I have a very rich inner world which I essentially live in most of the time, and sometimes I feel like I miss out of my own life because I’m so detached. Limerence is also a big struggle for me, I find it much easier to centre myself in the energy of someone else than to be responsible for my own reality, which I guess comes from the things you talked about like rahu being a shadow planet and the mythology of rahu and obsession.

I also spend a large amount of time on social media and playing games 😶‍🌫️ I’ve tried to make uses of the positives by channeling my imagination into something tangible like art, but I have a hard time actually putting in the work to develop skills since I’m so distracted all the time. I think I’ve spent too much time in my head and now I’ve forgotten how to be in my body lol (my ADHD isn’t helping either💀)

Swati I think is especially a difficult nak because the libra/venus influence is only enabling rahu’s indulgence, unlike saturn or to a lesser extent mercury.

Aside from my personal whinings- the thing you said about occult/astro kind of intrigued me. All of my close family (incl. grandparents, uncles, etc) have atleast one rahu or ketu nak in their big 3, usually being ardra, mula or swati.

My mother’s side has lots of psychics and we have a dream interpretation system that gets passed down the family, whilst my father’s side has many tarot readers. My dad himself is an occultist who is interested in Thelema, astral projection, etc. There’s some interest in astrology on both sides but not particularly in depth and my parents usually end asking me about the transits. Oh yeah and I guess I had that one psychic dream last November that came true the morning after.

In general, my family has a history of very eccentric characters who occasionally got exiled or imprisoned or some crazy shit 😭 I feel like that’s just average Eastern European family lore though. Do you think such isolation is nodal? I think it is but there might be other planetary influence.

That’s enough yapping for today though. Interested to see your post on the positives❤️

Your observation about Swati is spot on

I do think Nodal influence+ well placed/strong Rahu & Ketu are necessary for learning and immersing yourself in the occult. Someone who cannot channel it well will remain ignorant of it no matter how much they read or study it. In some ways the Nodes can be understood as layers of the subconscious and the unconscious. The nodes represent karma (Ketu does) and our unconscious mind is our accumulated karma, if we remain ignorant of it, we will let it guide all our actions and lead us to self destruction. Therefore to have strong/well placed Nodes means you're aware of the different layers of your mind as a result of which you can understand the different layers of reality. Nodal influence creates a fog/veil that cannot be lifted until we gain true gnosis. This is why Nodal people get lost in addictive substances/pass times/people/ interests because their own reality feels foggy/veiled to them so they can only access it from other things. Obviously this is another form of Maya or illusion and that's why even these natives struggle with it. You hate the thing even as you indulge in it because on some level you realise that you're losing yourself to it.

Immersing yourself in the occult requires a certain discipline and consistency that can be hard for Nodal natives (malefic influenced, badly placed etc) to master unless it's well aspected but those who do master it are able to perceive reality and understand the esoteric realm in a truly sublime way. It's rare and magnetic.

I do think Nodal influence can contribute to being exiled/imprisoned/being isolated. There is a reason why 5/6 Nodal nakshatras all belong to the Shudra caste which is the lowest. These natives live lives that are "unusual" or different from the norm. They are "detached" because their life experiences already set them apart from others. They don't belong to the mainstream because they've been put in circumstances where they've been deprived of what is "normal".

Like I said in my post, what is "unusual" can vary a lot and can mean sooo many different things. Majority of the "child star gone wild" type celebrities have heavy Nodal influence. Why? because it's "unusual" for a child to be working or attaining fame and wealth or for their family to use them for the same. When you're deprived of anything ordinary or real, you depend on substances/unhealthy relationships/habits etc to feel centred. This is why after a point these stars "go rogue or wild". They amass a lot of wealth/fame but ultimately they're unable to benefit from it or enjoy it. This is also unusual as these are things typically understood as blessings. Being in a position where you can't connect to or relate to others is a very Nodal experience. That's why a lot of people with these placements are so introverted and withdrawn. If you're a famous child actor, you can't quite go to school and connect to the experiences of other people your age so you feel "isolated". Being imprisoned/exiled is another such experience. It permanently alters you and you don't know how to connect to others who haven't been through it.

I do think isolation is a big theme in the lives of Nodal people. It can be literal or emotional. But it's also obviously influenced by the rest of the chart. Heavy 12h placements also make a native experience the same themes to some extent.

[reverieaa]

Hi! I'm the same anon as last one who read your 'Change of clothes' (can I be your anon? i'll take any emoji)

So I had a spiritual epiphany which was sparked this morning after going through my notes of states posts (yours as well as @neobora and @remcycl333) and I wanted to share. I think the non-duality concepts finally tied in for me.

This is my epiphany:

I think the true purpose of manifesting as humans is to realise our true selves as infinite beings. To remember & reclaim our limitless power and transcend from the limitations and illusions of the material world we were born into. When you truly understand the law and can practice it well, you are no longer a slave to the material world and its rules. You are unshakeable because you know you are far greater than this temporary shadow. You realised the truth that your reality is whatever you choose it to be, through your awareness. And the process of coming to this realisation, of reclaiming our power, is the awakening & liberation itself. The desire for material things was only the carrot on the stick that led us to learn to manifest, to exercise our power, never the true end goal. The true reward is knowing we are God. We always were and always will be but we needed to remember. And this is how.

Thank you again for your lovely posts. I never thought I'd finally 'get' states but I think I do now. I now read loa posts out of interest & as a reminder of my own power, no longer looking for *the* thing that's finally going to get me what I want. It's always only ever been within me. I can't look outside to fulfill it.

Funny thing is I actually manifested through states a year ago with a few things I didn't care about. I was like 'oh I'll give what I read a try" without any expectations and I realise now I executed it perfectly. The reason I overconsumed, spiralled and couldn't persist when it came to "big" desires is because I was still identifying with the outer man in the material world which falsely believed that it had to work hard to get "big" things it wanted (hence thinking I had to constantly be thinking or doing something about it like doing methods & routines to have it); I hadn't actually realised my true self and true power and identified with it.

Now I know it's accepting that state of being within you, identifying with your inner self (the infinite being) and dismissing the shadow that the 3D is. I also want to credit/give a shoutout to this reddit user Own_Ad7567 who is a shifter as they contributed to my eventual epiphany. I realised shifting is the same essence of what is talked about here, it was very fresh, interesting & eye opening to read about the law framed in yet another way. Their post 'For those who struggle with doubts and focus problems' in particular is really good but all their posts were fun to read! They said:

"Understand that your 3d, or physical reality (basically what you perceive around you) is the least real part of reality. It is just a projection of the 4d. Like a cinema: what happens on the screen is just a projection. If you want to change what's being projected on the screen, dont focus on changing the screen, change the film and the screen is quickly going to be showing something different

I know on loablr the most used analogy was the mirror & face but it never really clicked for me until I read that! And then afterwards I read @neobora's 'Through a different lens' post & it just solidified my understanding.

Wow I'm amazed at how long this post is. Maybe it will help someone else too. Thank you again for your writing all those posts and answering all the asks. I still haven't read most of it but that's just how impactful your posts are. I gained a lot of clarity just from reading a few. I am truly grateful to you, @neobora, @remcycl333, Own_Ad7567 and everyone who shares their understanding of the law. Thank you guys!

You are absolutely amazing, anon! Thank you for your kind and sweet words, and your wisdom. I hope this helps sb put there too and I'm certain that it will. I'm seeing it more and more everyday in this community, despite us having upset and downs. I'm proud that you've finally reached peace in your journey like this, and I'm honored that you let me be part of it, along with the other bloggers

You can be my anon is you wish, I'm not very active here but would it be ok for now if you went by an initial or nickname?

[txttletale]

hello!! came across you recently and read a bunch of your posts, and I’m really impressed with the way you always keep focus on how [x subject] relates to material reality and action/goals. if you don’t mind answering, I was wondering what kind of actions (besides debating/critique, which is what I’m able to see from Social Media Site) do modern day communists do to build revolution? I’m sure this varies wildly, but it’s hard for me to imagine when imperial power is so strong. thanks!

yeah, so obviously--as you said--this varies. there's no universal answer to this one, because what tactics are effective and possible for a revolutionary organization vary immensely. like, there are places in the world right now where people are still fighting protracted people's wars--the EZLN in mexico, Naxalites in india, and the NPA in the phillippines, etc.

assuming, however, that you're talking about an imperial-core or a semiperipheral perspective--there are a lot of things that communist organizations can do. obviously, revolution isn't in the cards for the near future, any basic analysis shows that very conclusively. the main things that communist organizations can do in these circumstances is build class consciousness.

now, a lot of groups think that this means simply 'disseminating critique and newspapers', but i think that's an un-marxist understanding of class consciousness. you cannot persuade the working class into going from zero to revolutionary, no matter how effective your propaganda. you have to help people organize and help them fight for causes--people are only going to believe in the possiblity of mass action if they live class struggle, if they get actual experience of engaging in political struggle and making real change in the world.

alright, so what does that look like? first of all, it doesn't look like supporting bourgeois parliamentary parties. they are a black hole that sucks up working class organization and uses it to sustain a cottage industry of wealthy legislators, lobbyists and consultants.

things that i've personally seen happen include:

giving out free food/hygiene products/other necessities

contributing to and organizing mutual aid networks

rebuilding and renovating defunct community buildings

counterprotesting fascists trying to intimidate refugees

mobbing immigration police to prevent deportations

showing up to picket lines and anti-austerity/solidarity protests

scanning and uploading previously unavailable socialist writing

establishing and aiding copwatch networks

and to be clear--these are tactics! they are not an end goal--they are not part of the world we ultimately want to see--doing these things does not take us along a path to socialism. there is the difference between participating in reformist struggles as a tactic for building class consciousness and being reformist--the latter means seeing these things as ends, doing them with the belief that they can be permament solutions--the former means seeing this things as means, things people can get involved in and gain a genuine and personal understanding of class struggle.

ultimately i think the #1 job of any serious revolutionary organization is to build class consciousness and solidarity. and while i do think that leafleting and stickering and putting out pamphlets and newspapers and essays and yes, even silly little posts on my silly blog, can play a small role in that--ultimately most people will not become communists unless they see communists making real change in the world around them.

(addendum: in addition to all this, many revolutionary communist organizations often also do the sort of thing that it's not advisable to talk about online)

[systemclasificationpending]

Plurality and Telepathy

before we start this all started from a discord server @derinthescarletpescatarian server has the best and weirdest conversations we love it there (and we love @kim-poce and @moonfall-collective, also @skeletalprism and @stars-says-fuck are also wonderful) what happens when Plurality meets telepathy so many thoughts and these were our contributions:

ok cracks knuckles lets fucking GO so i really like the it depends on how deep into the mind you go thought, so if you're just going surface level thoughts aka front youll get whoever is fronting so if you check in later on and its someone else fronting it feels like a different person maybe even a slightly different mind and it could be incredibly disorienting for the telepath as well "hold up this??? is a different person??? but how???" angst potential there especially if the systems egg carton hasn't been cracked yet [meaning they dont know theyre a system], say a little deeper into a mind of a system and it starts to get noisy, overlapping voices, different volumes, different ages, different genders, its loud and overwhelming all coming from one mind you know the trope of going fully into someone's mind seeing the inner workings, like a mind palace or whatever structure they use in the setting? they see the inner world and the telepath is just shocked to see it having other people in it, full people not wisps of memories of people but people, people they've never met yet they can feel so familiar (have fronted around them before) people who wear the body's face but feel entirely foreign maybe theyre even a child version of the body and yet they have never felt this mind before yet this is the one that looks like the body (maybe doesnt front, maybe just hasnt fronted around them) and assuming theyve never heard of DID before and say are known for being good at mind shit, theyre confused, shocked have no idea how to handle this and for once theyre the ones being led around by someone else maybe they have a really well put together inner world and its the most put together mind they've seen and theyre shocked cuz "i thought you hadnt done any insert mind magic/telepathy shit here??? how can your mind be so ordered without having done any?" also id imagine it wouldnt be a "ive always had this power" but they trained to have telepathy and are still learning about the different ways minds can form and be however they dont think they are cuz well i have all this experience (in reality its maybe only a few years)

also maybe they know how to quiet their mind around telepaths who cant turn it off because well they know how annoying it is to have someone screaming in their mind and oh sorry about Tim he has a song stuck in his head we can have him go further into the innerworld so its quieter for you, they do this without help or training from the telepath, whos shocked cuz everyone needs a few tips to keep theyre secrets from them yet they can do it without any help at all, they have practice after all, hiding surprises from each other, (hiding pranks too) the first ever person to manage to surprise them with a gift, jaw dropping surprise they have no idea how the system did it but they did (just kept it locked away in the inner world, someone pointedly didnt know what it was or made themself forget presented it) they dont fear the telepath the first ever to not hold any fear of their powers not because they can hide without question (tho that does help with some things) no but BECAUSE they can hear their mind, because they can hear the other voices too the telepath can laugh at the jokes the others make that they cant quite explain to a non telepath because the joke wasnt made in words but vibes and pictures, because the telepath can understand them better because they have multiple thought types and communication is hard as fuck normally a telepath thats unsettled by the innerworld only because they know what it means they do know DID and they know how its most often formed but cant help but be impressed at the organization of the mind and feeling sick because of it all knowing they didnt put conscious work into it like non systems would have to do rapid switching is like whiplash and telepaths have no idea how the system is still standing??? but theyre still carrying on a conversation like nothing is happening (i just think this one is funny)

another into the mind: a system so excited to have their telepath friend/partner to dive into their innerworld so they can show them how everyone looks so they can see the differences proper and a system being able to still walk around and do things when the telepath dived into their mind where most would "go to sleep" and be down for the count until they re-surfaced but instead someone else just took front (we're specifically thinking of DC for this one and the Martian Manhunter mainly cuz i think there was a time they had to have him do a dive in on another hero taking them both out mid battle however that may also just be his memories and not actually canon im not bothering to fact check him rn) (unsurprisingly our in system telepaths have a lot to give on this topic) a system learning telepathy and they develop headmates that just steal the abilty and others find they just cant no matter how hard they try (Charles Xavier has submitted this and is laughing at Erik Lehnsherr so im guessing this is aimed at him) we have run out of brain cells to send more thoughts (for now)

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Anon wrote: Hi, I hope you are doing well. I have a question about Detachment.

(1) I’ve since gone through college and therapy. I love my therapist and feel like I don’t need her but shared a lot in common. I felt understood and she said I actually have an incredible amount of empathy. I don’t know if it’s useful. I’m an INFP, most likely. Im also asd, ocd, and potentially adhd.

I’ll miss her insights and the therapeutic relationship. It was detached but felt like mutual care without her breaking down all the time or anything when I said something sad. I wanted to understand the whole time, how was she so stoic yet so empathetic, compassionate, and insightful. It made me think of how brenee brown says shes always alone. We all are technically. But I want to keep in touch with this person. She said to keep her posted on my life updates. I understand what the therapeutic relationship meant but I want to see what she does for 2 seconds. I worry therapists are often lonely from having this perspective and I worried she’s an infj like my sister.

I want to be a therapist now, because I’m so interested in growing, helping, learning, and being like her. I wanted to be a farmer for a bit, because I had a mentor. And i know who I am now, and have tools and universal truths. And im easier on myself. But I deeply want to understand her. Is that ego?

(2) i read that INFJs are detached due to intuition at the front while INFPs are attached. Am I mistaken? Sometimes I’ll feel guilt over how a person wants to get to know me or if I’m seeming cold or stressed. But I don’t like everyone. I attach my feelings to people who are in my business or rude/annoying, instead of seeing it as their thing. People get to me.

(3) I can’t articulate it well, but if everyone is an individual with seperate values and needs, it’s unethical to feel attached to anyone. But there are rules like working, and contributing. So it’s like helping out of principle. I don’t fully understand because I can get friends and meet my other needs without wanting to bother my therapist. I still love her though. She played a big part in my life. I felt spiritually connected but could be projecting. It’s just I don’t feel a seperation. I felt merged, then seperated. I’m autistic and stuff, but I care lots. I just wonder if she sees the world like my sister whos an infj. I hope I can see their perspective because I want to feel detached if it’s reality.

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(1) I wouldn't call it ego. It sounds like you want to be friends with her because you feel a connection? Nothing wrong with that. Whatever professional relationship you have with someone, it is possible to make it into a personal one if you happen to click with them.

A relationship issue NFPs often run into is not defining their relationships well. This can be a problem because boundaries remain incredibly fuzzy, which makes it easy to inadvertently overstep them and cause messy and unpredictable interactions. If you want to have a proper relationship with someone, whether platonic or romantic, you both have to agree to what the relationship ought to be and set realistic boundaries that reflect the kind of relationship it is.

You haven't done this with her, so the relationship seems to exist in a gray area, a sort of limbo. If you want more from this relationship rather than just the occasional update, then you have to be more assertive in expressing your needs/wants and seeing whether she's willing to reciprocate in kind.

(2) You are mistaken because you are oversimplifying and perhaps stereotyping. Do people not use more than one function, and do individuals not express their functions in their own unique way?

INFJs might be detached until they care deeply through Fe, and they are capable of caring about many things at once. INFJs with healthy and mature Fe do not suffer from loneliness. INFPs might be quite oblivious until they get attached through Fi. Functions don't operate in a vacuum; context and circumstances matter as well.

I'm always warning people NOT to view each other as stereotypes, as it constitutes a misinterpretation and misapplication of type theory. If learning about personality type causes you to think of people in more simple rather than more complex terms, then something is awry.

Don't play guessing games unless you actually want to create misunderstanding and conflict. Speculation easily leads to assuming that you know what's in someone's heart/mind when you really have no clue. The best way to know the truth of someone is through clear and authentic communication with them.

(3) I'm not sure I understand this point you're making. I think your concept of "individuality" is flawed because you seem to hold contradictory beliefs. On one hand, you say every individual is unique. On the other hand, you seem to think that people are basically interchangeable to you because you can get your needs met from anyone. Which is it? Are people unique or not?

You also seem to imply that human beings are islands and that no real ethical connection can form between them, which is false. Humans evolved to be social creatures and we all have the same set of universal needs. We have more in common with each other than not, though people often forget this fact because they are too easily distracted by the differences. Commonality is one important way people bond with each other and form meaningful relationships.

Individuality comes into the picture when different people rank and express their needs differently and want to use different ways to satisfy their needs. Why do you think you get along better with some people more than others? You can be an individual but still share much in common with certain people if the both of you happen to rank your needs in a similar way and have a similar worldview.

There is something you're getting from her that you can't get from others because it is unique to her. That is why you feel the desire to get closer to her specifically. You can be a unique individual and still experience kinship with someone who shares a lot in common with you. Individuality and communion can both exist at the same time. Beware of either/or thinking and the way it limits your view of the world (it is something that those on the spectrum often struggle with).