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Do you have any tips on writing a character that can be a bit quiet and weird/quirky yet confrontational and loud. She bites and picks her fingers when very anxious but sheâs also a confident, and brave character who fights for whatâs right and what she wants. I have a difficulty mixing a characterâs personality sometimes, and wondered if you had any tips to help? :)
On Creating Beautifully Contradictory Characters â¨
Hey writer friend! Rin here.
I LIVE for these questions! đ
Here's the thing about characters (and people). we're not single-note beings who fit into neat little boxes. The most real characters exist in the in-between spaces.
Let's talk about how to make this work...
The secret to contradictory character traits
What makes a character feel REAL isn't consistency. it's coherence.
⢠Your character doesn't need to be the same in every situation
⢠What they need is an emotional core that makes sense of their seemingly opposing behaviors
⢠Think of their personality as a constellation, not a straight line
When I'm developing characters like this, I always start with their wounds and values. What do they care about SO DEEPLY that it would make a normally quiet person raise their voice? What hurts have they experienced that make them bite their fingers when anxious?
Some practical ways to blend these traits
⢠Give her specific triggers for each mode. Maybe she's quiet in casual social settings but finds her voice when someone's being mistreated.
⢠Create physical transitions between states. How does her body language shift when moving from quiet observer to vocal defender? Does she take a deep breath? Square her shoulders?
⢠The finger-biting anxiety habit is actually perfect. it can be the bridge between her quiet and loud states. Maybe it's what she does while gathering courage before speaking up.
⢠Show us moments where BOTH traits are present at once. She can be nervously biting her fingers WHILE confronting someone.
What NOT to do (because it's boring)
Please don't fall into these traps:
⢠Don't make her "usually quiet except when..." That's not a complex character, that's just situational behavior.
⢠Don't explain away her contradictions with trauma (unless that's genuinely part of her story). Not every character trait needs a tragic backstory!
⢠Don't make her self-conscious about her contradictions. She doesn't need to apologize for being both quiet and loud.
Let's make some word magic happen
Try writing a scene where:
We first see her in her quiet, observing mode
Something happens that triggers her sense of justice
We witness her internal thought process as she decides to speak up
She exhibits her anxious behavior (finger biting) while ALSO stepping into her confrontational mode
Afterward, she returns to quietness, but it feels different now
The magic happens in those transition moments. That's where readers will fall in love with her complexity.
Remember this always
The most memorable characters aren't the ones who are consistently anything. They're the ones who surprise us while still feeling true to themselves.
Your character's contradictions aren't flaws to fix or explain away. they're what make her human. They're what make readers say "I KNOW her" even if they've never met anyone exactly like her.
So embrace those contradictions. Let her be quiet AND loud. Let her be anxious AND brave. Let her be fully, messily human.
I hope this post helped you
-Rin T.
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Friends. After 4.5 years of querying and over 300 rejections. I just signed with an agent.
What does that journey look like? Well I knit a cowl. The colors separate the years, and the stripes divide the rejections by month.
I call it âPersistence.â

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A Philosophy Behind Writer's Block: Valuing Despair
Unfortunately, it happened again where I went a little over a month without writing anything I was happy with. I would attempt to get some words down, remembering that even a little bit is progress; but, no matter what I did, everything just felt so dry and dull. Not only that, my stories felt like they were boring or just not worth it anymore. It was awful.
I tried everything that normally helped with getting over writerâs block. Iâd try out different times to write, read other books for inspiration, focus on another hobbyâstill, it all felt like I was banging on a brick wall. Thatâs when I turned to my philosophy studies, as if there was some sort of deeper consciousness of an answer that would aid my issues.
Well, there was. The infamous Kierkegaardian Despair.
The Sickness unto Death
The Sickness unto Death is a book written by Danish philosopher Søren Kierkegaard in 1849 under the pseudonym Anti-Climacus. A work of Christian existentialism, the book is about Kierkegaardâs concept of despair, which he equates with the Christian concept of sin, which he terms âthe sin of despair.â
In Kierkegaard's work, despair arises from a fundamental disconnection from oneâs true self and from God. He distinguishes between different forms of despair, including the despair of having a self and the despair of not wanting to be oneself.
Now, take what you will from the Christian existentialism part (Iâm pagan, so I already had mixed opinions on many classic texts on God), but it doesnât erase how the concept of despair can shed light on the underlying struggles that writersâat least, myselfâmay face.
Itâs Never Just a Phase
Writerâs block can be seen as a manifestation of existential despair in which we feel disconnected from our creative essence or authentic self. This disconnection may stem from various sources, such as self-doubt, fear of failure, or a sense of alienation from oneâs creative impulses. We may experience a profound sense of emptiness or meaninglessness, unable to access the inspiration and clarity needed to write.
Moreover, Kierkegaardâs notion of despair as a failure to align with oneâs true self suggests that writerâs block may arise when our creative endeavors are driven by external motives or expectations rather than genuine inner inspiration. The pressure to produce work that meets societal standards or fulfills commercial demands can lead to a sense of existential disorientation and paralysis.
Donât Just Overcome it. Value it.
If you resonate with Kierkegaardâs work, you will agree with his observation that we are always going to despair over something. Itâs not about waiting for the tide to roll over or for the dry spell to ease up, but to examine our own selfâs relation to what we are lamenting over. He writes:
âDespair is an aspect of the spirit, it has to do with the eternal in a person. But the eternal is something he cannot be rid of, not in all eternity⌠If there were nothing eternal in a man, he would simply be unable to despair⌠Having a self, being a self, is the greatest, the infinite, concession that has been made to man, but also eternityâs claim on him.â
Letâs break down the quote and explore how it can inform our approach to overcoming writerâs block:
Despair as an Aspect of the Spirit: Kierkegaard suggests that despair is not merely a psychological state but an aspect of the spirit, rooted in the eternal dimension of human existence. Kierkegaardâs conception of despair invites us to recognize the creative process as a site of existential tension and struggle.
Writerâs block is not merely a technical or practical obstacle to be overcome but a profound existential challenge that confronts us with the limitations of our finite selves and the aspirations of their creative spirit.
The Eternal in a Person: Kierkegaard asserts that despair is linked to the eternal within individuals, suggesting that it arises from a tension between the finite and the infinite aspects of human nature. The finite aspects encompass the temporal, material, and contingent dimensions of life, while the infinite aspects involve the eternal, transcendent, and spiritual dimensions. This tension is inherent in human consciousness and manifests in various forms of despair, such as the despair of weakness, the despair of defiance, and the despair of not willing to be oneself.
This tension between the finite and the infinite can be understood as the conflict between the limitations of our creative faculties and the boundless possibilities of imagination and expression. Writerâs block often emerges when the writer feels constrained by external pressures, self-doubt, or perfectionism, inhibiting their ability to access the infinite reservoir of creative inspiration within them.
Moreover, Kierkegaardâs concept of the finite and the infinite highlights the paradoxical nature of creativity. While the creative process involves the manipulation of finite materialsâwords, images, soundsâit also taps into something transcendent and ineffable, something that exceeds the boundaries of ordinary experience. Writerâs block can be seen as a manifestation of our struggle to bridge this gap between the finite and the infinite, to give form to the formless, and to articulate the inarticulable.
Having a Self as Eternityâs Claim: In Kierkegaardâs philosophy, the concept of âhaving a selfâ refers to the capacity for self-consciousness, self-reflection, and moral agency that distinguishes human beings from other creatures. It involves the awareness of oneâs own existence as a distinct individual with thoughts, feelings, desires, and responsibilities. âEternityâs claimâ suggests that the existence of the self is not merely a temporal or transient phenomenon but is imbued with profound significance that extends beyond the confines of earthly life. The self, according to Kierkegaard, is intimately connected to the eternal dimension of human existence, reflecting the divine spark within each individual.
âHaving a self as eternityâs claimâ suggests that the act of creative expression is not merely a personal endeavor but is also a manifestation of the eternal striving for meaning and significance. Writers, as self-aware and self-conscious beings, bear a profound responsibility to give voice to their innermost thoughts and feelings, to explore the depths of human experience, and to contribute to the ongoing dialogue of humanity.
Embracing Existential Depth
So how do we value despair and overcome writerâs block in light of Kierkegaardâs insights? Writerâs block often extends beyond mere technical or practical challenges and can be rooted in deeper existential concerns. This involves grappling with questions of identity, purpose, and meaning in the creative process. By recognizing writerâs block as a reflection of these existential concerns, we can approach it as an opportunity for self-exploration and growth. Rather than viewing it solely as a barrier to productivity, we can use writerâs block as a catalyst for deeper introspection and self-discovery. This might involve journaling, meditation, or engaging in conversations with fellow writers or mentors to uncover underlying psychological or philosophical issues that may be contributing to the blockage. I have previously posted a blog on writing soliloquies. Embracing existential depth allows us to transform our struggles into sources of insight and inspiration, ultimately enriching our creative work.
There is a large aspect of accepting what you cannot control, another widely-known philosophical concept. Swimming against the current, after all, may prove to be more tiring than itâs worth. Instead, be kind to yourself and practice self-compassion during these moments. Understand that experiencing creative struggles is a normal part of the writing process and treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would offer to a friend facing similar challenges.
Seek social support. Reach out to fellow writers, friends, or mentors for support and encouragement. Sharing your struggles with others can help you gain perspective and feel less isolated in your creative journey, because, trust me, we have all been there.
Ensure that you are also setting realistic goals. All I would want to do was upkeep my 3k word/day momentum, but I would feel even worse about myself for being unable to do so. Break down your writing goals into smaller, more manageable tasks and set realistic deadlines for yourself. Celebrate small victories along the way to maintain motivation.
Finally, what has helped me the most, is to read widely. Immersing myself in diverse genres, styles, and voices provided so much insight into what I could be missing in my own work; or, it simply sparked my love of story-telling all over again.
Closing Words
Remember that writerâs block is a temporary obstacle that can be overcome with patience, persistence, and, apparently, a bit of philosophy. Where there is frustration, we will find insight.
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Cursed Dreams of the Shadow is my debut fantasy novel.
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Too stubborn to stop!" "A little rebelâs big lesson." "Will they ever listen?" "Stubbornness meets adventure!" "One child, endless mischief!" "Lessons learned the hard way!" "Determined, daring, unstoppable!" "A fun fight of wills!"
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Whispers of the Past
In the heart of the ancient castle, where the walls whispered tales of glory and despair, Lord Aric sat at the head of the grand banquet table. His eyes, sharp and unyielding, surveyed the opulent hall with a gaze that had seen too much. The air was thick with the scent of roasted meats and spiced wine, but an undercurrent of tension lay beneath the facade of festivity.
At his side, kneeling in humble supplication, was Elara, a maiden whose delicate features belied the strength within her. Clad in a simple dress that spoke of her servitude, her eyes held a glimmer of defiance, a spark that had not yet been extinguished by the weight of her chains. Her head bowed, she did not meet the gaze of her master, but she felt the heat of his scrutiny nonetheless.
Standing nearby, her posture rigid with silent resolve, was Seraphina, the warrior whose loyalty to the lord was as unyielding as the steel of her armor. Her presence was a testament to the battles fought in distant lands and the secrets buried in the castle's dark corners.
The hall, adorned with tapestries depicting the lineage of Lord Aricâs family, seemed to pulse with a life of its own. Each thread, each woven image, carried the weight of centuries. As the lord lifted a spoon to Elara's lips, the gesture was both tender and cruel, a reminder of the power he wielded over those within his domain.
The guests, nobles, and dignitaries from distant realms, feigned indifference, their conversations a mere murmur in the grand scheme of the evening. They knew better than to intervene in the affairs of Lord Aric, for his wrath was as legendary as his hospitality.
But within the confines of the castle, beyond the watchful eyes of the courtiers, lay the true story of the realm. A story of betrayal and loyalty, of love and sacrifice, of dreams crushed and reborn. And as the night wore on, the echoes of the past began to stir, whispering promises of change and the unraveling of fate.
The banquet was but a prelude to the saga that would unfold and test the bonds of loyalty and the limits of power. In the heart of darkness, where shadows danced, and secrets thrived, destiny awaited those brave enough to seize it.
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To My Followers
Hey everyone! I've got some exciting news to share. I'm currently working on a brand-new murder mystery novel that I can't wait to share with all of you. This story is going to be a real page-turner, filled with twists, turns, and enough suspense to keep you on the edge of your seat.
I'm pouring my heart and soul into crafting a gripping tale that will have you guessing until the very end. From complex characters to intricate plot lines, this book is going to have everything that makes a great mystery truly unforgettable.
I know how much you all love a good whodunit, and I promise to deliver an experience that will leave you craving more. Whether you're a die-hard fan of the genre or simply looking for a thrilling read, this book is sure to captivate you.
I'll be sharing updates and teasers along the way, so make sure to stay tuned! I'd love to hear your thoughts, theories, and any burning questions you might have about the story. Let's dive into the mystery together and create an unforgettable journey.
If you're as excited as I am, don't hesitate to drop a comment below or give this post a like. Your enthusiasm fuels my creativity, and I can't wait to embark on this adventure with all of you. Get ready for a wild ride, because this murder mystery is going to be one for the books!
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So, I guess I'm back after a long hiatus. What have I done in the years since I last posted on this app, you ask. I'm happy to tell you.
I raised 3 boys into adulthood, moved across the country twice and published another 11 books. I finished the Praetorian series (under my real name) and switched to writing spicy contemporary romance after the world went to shit in 2020. (I'm not sure if you noticed the switch in my name, but it used to be different.)
The pen name isn't so much for anonymity as it is for clarification. The Praetorian Saga is distinctly a different genre than the one Isla writes in. And I'm not sure if anyone even noticed when that series was quietly pulled from publication. I have plans for it, but I'm not sure when they'll happen. For now, I'm happily writing smut and enjoying the community of readers and fellow authors I've found online.
If this post is confusing, I'm sorry. It probably only makes sense to people who were here back when I was writing urban romantasy books. Don't worry, Bree and Declan are still very much alive in my heart and my head. And I still plan to bring them back to life for my readers one day.
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Romantasy: Where Magic Meets Swooning (And Why Readers Can't Get ENOUGH) â¨
Okay, let's talk about the genre that's absolutely DOMINATING the shelves right now: ROMANTASY.
If you've been anywhere near BookTok, Bookstagram, or even just wandered into a bookstore lately, you've seen these books taking over. You know the ones. gorgeous illustrated covers with gold foil, promises of spice levels that would make a dragon sweat, and worlds where magic and kissing are given equal importance. (Why is this actually hilariously accurate?)
But what exactly IS romantasy, and why has it exploded into the mainstream? I wanted to make a post breaking this genre down, and why it's been constantly filling the shelves in recent years lately.
What the heck is romantasy anyway?
Simply put, romantasy is the beautiful marriage of fantasy and romance where BOTH genres get equal billing. This isn't just fantasy with a romantic subplot or romance with a sprinkle of magic. It's a true genre hybrid where:
⢠The fantasy worldbuilding is rich and immersive
⢠The romance is central to the plot (not just tacked on)
⢠The stakes of both the romantic and fantasy elements matter EQUALLY
⢠The relationship development is given as much page time as the magic system
⢠Neither element would work without the other
Think of books like "A Court of Thorns and Roses," "Fourth Wing," "The Bridge Kingdom," or "These Hollow Vows." In these stories, the romance isn't just there to give the main character something to do between fighting monsters. It's an essential part of the narrative.
Why is romantasy EVERYWHERE right now?
I've been thinking about this A LOT, and here's my take on why romantasy has taken over:
1. It's filling a gap readers didn't know they had
For YEARS, fantasy and romance were kept separate like warring kingdoms. Fantasy was supposed to be "serious business" with maybe a chaste kiss at the end of book three. Romance was often confined to contemporary or historical settings.
Romantasy said "nope" to those artificial boundaries. It recognized that readers want BOTH the escape of fantasy AND the emotional satisfaction of romance. We want dragons AND kissing. We want political intrigue AND pining. We want magic systems AND mutual pining.
2. It's unapologetically centered on female desire
Let's be honest... a lot of romantasy is written by women, for women, about women's experiences. And it doesn't apologize for that!
In a publishing world that has historically prioritized male perspectives in fantasy, romantasy carves out space where female desire, both for power AND for partnership takes center stage.
3. It offers double the escapism
In times of stress (hello, past few years!), readers crave escape. Romantasy offers TWO forms of escapism in one package:
⢠The fantasy element lets us escape to another world entirely
⢠The romance element lets us escape into the emotional high of falling in love
It's like getting two dopamine hits for the price of one book!
4. Community and conversation
Romantasy has thrived in online spaces because it gives readers SO MUCH to talk about:
⢠Debating spice levels and content warnings
⢠Creating elaborate fan theories
⢠Discussing favorite tropes (enemies-to-lovers in a magical setting? YES PLEASE)
⢠Sharing fanart and aesthetics
The community aspect has turned romantasy from a genre into a lifestyle.
What does this mean for writers?
If you're thinking of dipping your toes into romantasy waters, here's what you need to know:
⢠Don't half-commit to either element. Your fantasy worldbuilding needs to be solid AND your romance needs to be compelling.
⢠Understand tropes and how to subvert them. Readers come for familiar comfort but stay for your unique twist.
⢠Balance your pacing. Romantasy readers expect both action sequences AND emotional development scenes.
⢠Consider your heat level intentionally. The market has room for everything from closed-door to explicit, but know where your story fits.
⢠Don't just copy what's selling. Find the romantasy story only YOU can tell.
The beautiful thing about romantasy is that it's still evolving. We're seeing more diverse pairings, more unique magic systems, more subversions of traditional fantasy structures. There's room for YOUR voice in this space!
So, are you working on a romantasy? What's your favorite blend of magical and romantic elements? I'm currently writing a Romantasy trilogy and it's been getting me more hyped about writing lately! If you want me to make a Romantasy Series, where I give you all my tips/tricks and advice and research on the genre! Let. Me. Know.
-Rin T.
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Writing a book series with the same characters is a gift and a curse!
You know them better than anyone. You know how they like, what they fear, the way they react to the smallest things. You've spent so much time in their heads, you sometimes forget they aren't real.
But keeping their story alive? Making it matterâagain and again? Thatâs the real challenge.
Itâs easy to fall into the comfort of themâtheir familiar habits, the patterns youâve built. But with each new book, the question looms: how do you keep it from going stale? How do you make their journey feel fresh, earned, meaningful?
You donât want to repeat yourself. You donât want to throw in conflict just for the sake of drama. And you definitely donât want to change who they are just because the plot demands it.
It becomes a delicate balancing act: growth vs. consistency, surprise vs. authenticity. Youâre always chasing that line between who theyâve always beenâand who theyâre still becoming.
Sometimes, you get stuck. Sometimes, it feels like there's nothing left to say. But then something small happensâan image, a line of dialogue, a sudden thoughtâand suddenly, youâre back. Not because you forced it, but because you listened. Because deep down, their story wasnât over. It just needed time.
Writing a series isnât about reinventing the wheel every time. Itâs about deepening the characters, letting them evolve naturallyâeven when it feels uncomfortable.
And yeah, itâs hard. But itâs also kind of magic. And maybe thatâs what keeps us goingânot the pressure to top the last book, but the quiet hope that thereâs still something left to discover. Something true. Something real.
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Fear: Using Stoicism to Shape Characters
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Introduction
Like many people, I suffer from severe panic and anxiety attacks. My heart races at what feels like a thousand beats per minute, I get a cold sweat, and my thoughts do not have a filter. The latter of which, I find the most dangerous and disturbing, especially when said attacks get triggered by something so small or nothing at all.
A lot of the time, they boil down to not feeling safe. I feel like Iâm vulnerable, that the worst things that happened to me will happen again tenfold, or Iâve become the worst person in existence. Fear, as a lot of us know, can have us assume the worst.
Iâm still working on managing my fear, if it can be managed at all, but a lot of what Iâve been practicing is essentially Stoicism. Epictetus, a Greek Stoic philosopher, often highlighted that it is not events themselves that disturb people, but rather their judgments about those events. One famous quote attributed to Epictetus that reflects this idea is: âPeople are not disturbed by things, but by the view they take of them.â
This sentiment suggests that fear and other negative emotions stem not from objective reality but from our interpretations and perceptions of reality.
I thought, âWhat a wonderful way to get to know our characters!â Not only do we have to have a grasp on the world around them, we have to understand the extent of how they perceive said reality and how it leads to their own fears as well as their ambitions, passions, hate, love, etc.
Amor Fati
One of my favorite phrases is âamor fati.â Itâs what helped me most in navigating my own fears and, as a result, writing some ways in which my characters handle theirs.
The idea of âamor fatiâ is closely associated with philosophers like Epictetus and Marcus Aurelius, even though they didn't use those exact words. However, it was Nietzsche who made it a key part of his philosophy. He believed that true greatness comes from embracing fate and wanting nothing to change, not in the past, present, or future. In simple terms, it means loving and accepting everything that happens, rather than just enduring it.
When considering the relationship between âamor fatiâ and fear, several key points emerge:
Acceptance of the Uncontrollable: Fear often arises from the unknown or from circumstances beyond our control. âAmor fatiâ encourages individuals to relinquish their resistance to such uncertainties and to accept that life is inherently unpredictable. By embracing fate, individuals can find solace in the realization that some things are simply beyond their power to change or influence.
Facing Adversity with Resilience: Rather than viewing challenges as threats to be avoided or overcome, individuals can approach them with a sense of equanimity and resilience. Instead of succumbing to fear or anxiety in the face of challenges, one can choose to see them as opportunities for growth and self-discovery. By embracing adversity as an integral part of lifeâs journey, individuals can cultivate the strength and fortitude necessary to navigate difficult times with grace and composure.
Gratitude for All Experiences: Fear often stems from a sense of insecurity or dissatisfaction with oneâs circumstances. âAmor fatiâ cultivates gratitude for all experiences, both positive and negative, recognizing that each contributes to the richness and depth of life. By embracing fate with gratitude and appreciation, individuals can mitigate the fear of the unknown and find peace and contentment in the present moment.
This idea is what helps form a âbaselineâ for my way of thinking and perceiving fear, which is what many people, fictional characters included, tend to mix up.
You donât need to adopt the same mantra, of course, but I believe that having this Ground 0 in your own personal philosophy will add further depth and characterization in writing. It provides a deeper perspective on why your characters think the same or why they may deviate.
Distinction Between Events and Perceptions
Letâs go back to what Epictetus said: âPeople are not disturbed by things, but by the view they take of them.â Stoicism teaches that events themselves are neutral; it is our interpretation of those events that shapes our emotional responses. This concept is often referred to as âcognitive appraisalâ or âjudgmentâ in Stoic philosophy.
In practical terms, this means that two individuals may encounter the same external circumstance, yet react to it in vastly different ways based on their subjective interpretations. For example, consider a person who loses their job unexpectedly. While one individual may perceive this event as a devastating blow to their self-worth and security, another may view it as an opportunity for growth and new possibilities. The event itselfâthe loss of a jobâremains the same, but the emotional response varies depending on the individual's perception of the situation.
Epictetusâs insight invites us to reflect on the role of our perceptions in shaping our emotional experiences. It suggests that our judgments, beliefs, and attitudes about the events we encounter play a crucial role in determining how we feel and behave in response to those events. By recognizing this distinction between events and perceptions, individuals can gain greater agency over their emotional lives.
Moreover, understanding this distinction empowers individuals to practice what Epictetus called the âdichotomy of controlââthe Stoic principle of focusing only on what is within our power to control, namely our thoughts, attitudes, and responses, rather than becoming consumed by external circumstances beyond our control. By directing our attention inward and cultivating a mindset of resilience and rationality, we can navigate life's challenges with greater equanimity and inner peace.
Applying this to character development, particularly in relation to crafting a characterâs fears, can add depth and complexity to the character.
Understanding the Characterâs Perception of Fearful Events:
Explore how the character interprets and perceives the events or situations that evoke fear. What underlying beliefs, past experiences, or personal values shape their perception of these events?
Consider whether the characterâs fear is rooted in the objective reality of the situation or in their subjective interpretation of it. For example, is their fear based on genuine physical danger, or is it driven by irrational beliefs or past traumas?
Revealing Character Traits and Beliefs:
A characterâs response to fear can provide insight into their personality, values, and beliefs. For instance, do they confront their fears head-on with courage and resilience, or do they succumb to anxiety and avoidance?
Consider how the characterâs fear reflects broader themes or conflicts in the story. For example, does their fear stem from a desire for control, a fear of vulnerability, or a struggle with existential questions?
External Manifestations of Fear:
Consider how the characterâs perception of fear manifests in their actions, behaviors, and interactions with others. Do they exhibit outward signs of fear, such as trembling or avoidance, or do they mask their fears behind a facade of bravado?
Pay attention to how the characterâs response to fear influences their relationships with other characters. For example, do they push others away in an attempt to protect themselves, or do they seek support and connection during times of fear and uncertainty?
Symbolism and Subtext:
Use the characterâs fears as a vehicle for exploring deeper themes and subtext within the story. What do their fears symbolize in terms of larger narrative themes or character arcs?
Consider how the characterâs perception of fear parallels or contrasts with other characters in the story, providing opportunities for reflection and exploration of different perspectives.
âPersonal Truthsâ Are Not Necessarily Lawful
No matter how much a character is afraid of something, there is a line to be drawn on how valid that fear is when justifying a characterâs actions and self-proclaimed motives. A person can say that they are afraid of someone else and that they are acting to protect others, but does that truly evade them from the law? In other words, a Villain can be completely convinced that what they are doing is noble and right, or that it stems from their own trauma, but, at the end of the day, theyâre a murderous liar.
For example, in George Orwell's allegorical novel Animal Farm, Napoleon is a Berkshire boar who emerges as one of the leaders of the animal revolution against the human farmer, Mr. Jones. Initially, Napoleon is portrayed as a strategic thinker and persuasive speaker, working alongside Snowball, another pig, to rally the other animals and establish the principles of Animalism, which advocate for equality and freedom from human oppression.
As the story progresses, Napoleonâs character undergoes a transformation fueled by his ambitions for power and control.
Napoleonâs fear of losing control over the farm drives many of his actions. He becomes increasingly paranoid about potential threats to his authority, particularly from Snowball, whom he views as a rival. This fear prompts him to manipulate and eliminate anyone who opposes him, including orchestrating the expulsion of Snowball from the farm and later falsely accusing him of being a traitor.
He also utilizes propaganda and manipulation to maintain his grip on power. He gradually assumes control over the farmâs decision-making processes, consolidating power in his own hands and using fear tactics to suppress dissent among the other animals. For example, he employs the threat of the mysterious âJonesâ returning to instill fear and obedience among the animals.
Napoleonâs lust for power leads him to betray the principles of Animalism that he once espoused. He progressively becomes more authoritarian and exploitative, engaging in corrupt practices such as trading with humans and altering the Seven Commandments to justify his actions. Despite initially advocating for equality, Napoleon begins to live a life of luxury while the other animals toil and suffer.
As his regime becomes more entrenched, he resorts to violence and oppression to maintain control. He establishes a reign of terror, using his loyal enforcers, the ferocious dogs he raised since they were puppies, to suppress dissent and punish any animal perceived as disloyal. Under his rule, the farm descends into a state of fear and tyranny, with Napoleon ruling with an iron fist.
Napoleonâs character serves as a symbol of totalitarianism and the corrupting influence of power. His transformation from a revolutionary leader to a despotic dictator mirrors the rise of real-life totalitarian rulers who exploit fear and propaganda to consolidate power and suppress dissent. There is not one moment of self-reflection, of him questioning that, perhaps, his fears are unfounded or his âpersonal truthsâ are not true at all.
Playing With Reality
Now, how can you utilize fear in order to create a character with as much depth and reflection (or lack thereof) like Napoleon?
Exaggerating a characterâs fear involves manipulating elements of reality within the narrative to heighten the characterâs sense of paranoia, insecurity, and authoritarianism.
Distorted Perceptions: Employ literary devices such as unreliable narration or distorted perspectives to amplify the characterâs fears. By presenting events through the lens of the characterâs paranoia, the narrative can create a sense of heightened tension and uncertainty. For example, descriptions of seemingly innocuous occurrences may be exaggerated or imbued with sinister undertones to reflect the characterâs heightened state of fear.
Symbolism and Imagery: Symbolic imagery can be used to represent the characterâs fears in a heightened and exaggerated manner. For instance, recurring symbols of oppression, surveillance, or impending doom can serve as visual metaphors for the characterâs anxieties and insecurities. These symbols can be woven throughout the narrative to reinforce the characterâs sense of paranoia and isolation.
Surreal Elements: Introducing surreal or fantastical elements into the narrative can create a sense of disorientation and unease, effectively amplifying the character's fear. By blurring the boundaries between reality and fantasy, the author can evoke a sense of psychological instability and existential dread. Surreal imagery, dream sequences, or hallucinatory experiences can all contribute to the characterâs sense of dislocation and terror.
Manipulation of Time and Space: Playing with the conventions of time and space can further exaggerate the characterâs fear and disorientation. Flashbacks, flash-forwards, or nonlinear storytelling techniques can create a sense of temporal dislocation, mirroring the characterâs fractured mental state. Similarly, disorienting shifts in perspective or setting can contribute to the character's sense of being trapped or pursued by unseen forces.
Atmospheric Detailing: Careful attention to atmospheric detail can help to create a sense of oppressive dread and foreboding. Descriptions of the environmentâsuch as gloomy weather, claustrophobic settings, or unsettling ambient soundsâcan evoke a palpable sense of unease, intensifying the character's fear and paranoia.
Character Interaction and Dialogue: Dialogue and interaction with other characters can be used to reinforce the characterâs fears and insecurities. Conversations may be laced with veiled threats, double entendres, or gaslighting tactics, leaving the character uncertain of whom to trust. Manipulative or menacing exchanges can heighten the character's sense of isolation and vulnerability.
Did anyone else get a little uneasy imagining all of that? Iâd go rather mad if I had all of that happening to me, too. Now, what about the good guys? They are afraid of things, too, right?
Of course they are, and you can utilize the above methods for your heroes, as well! There might just be a little bit of extra work involved in ensuring that they donât spiral into the villain role.
Establish Strong Moral Compass: From the outset, establish the heroâs core values and moral compass. Make it clear what principles guide their actions and decisions. This foundation will serve as a guiding light, helping to anchor the character and prevent them from straying into villainous territory.
Empathy and Compassion: Ensure that the hero retains their empathy and compassion towards others, even in the face of fear and adversity. By prioritizing the well-being of others and demonstrating empathy towards those in need, the hero reaffirms their commitment to noble ideals and reinforces their heroic identity.
Positive Support Systems: Surround the hero with positive support systems, including allies, mentors, and friends who can offer guidance, encouragement, and moral support. These relationships serve as anchors, providing the hero with strength and stability during moments of doubt and fear.
Consequences of Actions: Highlight the consequences of the heroâs actions and choices, emphasizing the impact they have on others and the world around them. By holding the hero accountable for their decisions and their effects, the narrative reinforces the importance of ethical behavior and reinforces their heroic identity.
Redemption and Forgiveness: If the hero does succumb to fear or makes mistakes along the way, provide opportunities for redemption and forgiveness. Allow the hero to acknowledge their faults, learn from their experiences, and strive to make amends. This narrative arc reinforces the heroâs humanity and resilience, emphasizing the possibility of growth and redemption.
Thematic Resonance: Ensure that the heroâs journey is thematically consistent and resonant, emphasizing themes of hope, courage, and resilience. By grounding the narrative in these overarching themes, the heroâs actions remain aligned with their fundamental nature, reinforcing their heroic identity and preventing them from veering into villainous territory.
Conclusion
Fear is a powerful and universal human experience that can shape both individuals and characters in profound ways. Drawing upon Stoic philosophy, particularly the concepts of âamor fatiâ and the distinction between events and perceptions, can provide valuable insights into understanding and managing fear. By exploring how characters perceive and respond to fear, writers can create nuanced and compelling portrayals that add depth and complexity to their stories.
âAmor fati,â or love of fate, encourages individuals to embrace and accept all aspects of their lives, including the uncertainties and challenges that provoke fear. By adopting an attitude of gratitude and acceptance towards fate, characters can navigate fear with resilience and courage, transforming adversity into opportunities for growth and self-discovery.
Furthermore, understanding the distinction between events and perceptions allows writers to delve into the subjective nature of fear, exploring how charactersâ interpretations and judgments shape their emotional experiences. By depicting charactersâ fears as rooted in their perceptions of reality, writers can add layers of complexity to their motivations and behaviors, enhancing the depth and authenticity of their characterization.
While fear can drive characters to make choices that lead them down dark paths, it is ultimately their moral compass, empathy, and support systems that determine whether they remain heroes or succumb to villainy. By emphasizing themes of redemption, forgiveness, and growth, writers can ensure that even in the face of fear, their characters' journeys ultimately lead to strength, resilience, and self-discovery.
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