#and to all of my bi and pan friends

[grilledcheeseandguavajelly]

2H, 7H and 11H as well pleeeeease

Hehe your wish is my command 💋🔮✨

2H ⇢ do you have any object that you like a little too much? what is it and why?

I do indeed. It's a little pillow (aptly named "little pillow") that's about the size of a postcard. I think I got it for my baptism when I was a baby, and at that point it had a little ribbon attached so that you could hang it from the post of the bed and play the music box inside to help the baby fall asleep. When I was a toddler I decided that it was so soft I wanted to use it as an actual pillow, so my mom took the music box out for me. And now I still can't sleep without it, but it's been well loved and the ribbon and embroidery are all gone. I wouldn't say it holds any real sentimental value, in that I don't remember getting it. But it's special and sentimental and a part of me in the way that a baby's first blanket gets packed in someone's college moving boxes. My little pillow is just a part of me, it always has been and I hope it always will be.

7H ⇢ what do you consider green flags in a relationship?

In any relationship: good, healthy communication. Not holding grudges. Explaining to me why they are upset, what they need, how I can help. Respecting boundaries. Effort. God, effort is so important. And not just in the "I'm paying for half the rent" way, but in the "you seemed down today so I got you flowers on my way home from work" or "I know you're not feeling well so I vacuumed and did the dishes" way. I think the biggest thing is to feel like it's a partnership, that you're both as invested in it as the other person, and that you both treat it as a conscious living thing, tending it, helping it grow and thrive, and not giving up on it when the going gets rough.

In my current relationship: she never pushes me too far too fast, she is always always always incredibly respectful of me and my beliefs and my interests. She actively asks me about things that I'm interested in and doesn't mind if I ramble for hours about it. There are a lot of finicky things that I need or can't stand because my autistic brain says so, and she is incredibly patient with each and every one of them. She supports me, listens to me -- really listens to me. She remembers little things that I've mentioned in passing once. She loves my dog like he's her own. She got my grandma a birthday present and got my mother flowers the first time she came over. She sits quietly while I pray before I eat, even though she doesn't. She let's me choose what we watch on tv. She wants to know the name of every plant I buy. And she was absolutely perfect when she met my family. That was a huge one. I felt comfortable leaving her talking to my aunt for a few minutes while I helped my mom with appetizers. And I mean, she got thrown into the deep end with my family, the poor thing. But she was perfect. And to me, that was everything.

11H ⇢ describe your friends in 3 words

What friends? Nonexistent. 😂👏🏼🙈 (Alternately: lovely, loyal, lesbians)

[justaz]

pan merlin and gay arthur no one understands you like i do

[polaris-likethestar]

my mom saw a post that maybe señor scratchy is agatha’s “husband” (like she turned him into a rabbit) and my mom liked it and even said now much she actually thought that was true

…..idk how to tell her but the lesbians have claimed agatha as their own and they’re not giving her back anytime soon

send help pls 😀

[foreshvdowing]

it’s 1am :) hi

[isbergillustration]

Still funnelling all my post degree free time into Cyberpunk 2077 so here is my V. His hobbies include grappling with the fact that he's exclusively attracted to octogenarian millennial rockerboys who were in Samurai and also violent crime.

[agalychnisspranneusroseus]

Thank god Sasha was confirmed bisexual, otherwise people would hc her as lesbian solely and exclusively because she's kind of a bitch.

[supermarine-silvally]

✨be queer, fuck the World Government✨

my pansexual (and potentially polyam) One Piece pirate girlie Bravada Yara for Pride Month this year~ Happy Pride!!

tagging: @auxiliarydetective @oneirataxia-girl @daughter-of-melpomene @box-of-bats

[ninelivesastrology]

Y'all gonna hate me for this one, but you can't call it a homoerotic friendship if that woman was never into you. It's called lust, limerence and delusion.

[featherlouise]

Anyways if I had a nickel every time someone told me they forgot I had a bf in a tone that VERY heavily suggested I don't give off "attracted to men" vibes I'd have two nickels, w-

[koko-heads]

saiki k is my new comfort show fr

[skyler10fic]

I always forget that some people ship (movie) Carol with a man, which is so enlightening to me. Like when you discover people in the other hemisphere have different season associations with the months or don't see the same constellations. Or like when you realize there are people who have never eaten your staple foods. Just in awe that we all are here on the same planet living our lives in such wildly different ways, even things that seem so basic and normative

[aspeckof-stardust]

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[mariemariemaria]

I'm in a group chat right now with hundreds of women and I LOVE it the vibes are immaculate and it's soo funny but one woman said that she thinks she's pansexual bc she cares more about personality and then followed up by saying she was only physically attracted to men but more emotional with women which means that she's an "enigma"......girl that's called being heterosexual. Being only sexually attracted to the opposite sex but preferring friendships with people of your own sex is maybe the most common experience of earth. bffr

[xceanlynx]

Of course the ace girlie of the group (me) has to be the one explaining all misunderstood/misrepresented/misinterpreted sexualities to my queer friends

[arolesbianism]

I was abt to be like hey guys here's the clangen sprites for the main characters of spiraling upwards ^-^ but luckily I caught myself before I accidentally dropped some Massive spoilers by doing so lol. Anyways take Whimsygoose, Pumpkin, and Daisystar instead because they're so cutsies <3

[whiskeyswifty]

If it’s true that Taylor is dating Matty Healy that really says something about her as a person

Yeah but all it says about her is that she can excuse his shit in her life in favor of whatever else he gives her that she enjoys. Which is her choice to make. just because you date someone doesn’t mean agree with everything they say and do. It just means she’s one of those girls who dates shitty guys, and has bad taste, which sucks for her but doesn’t make her a bad evil person. If anything it just means she has kind of low standards because she’s willing to put up with shit these shitty guys do. Which none of us want to hear because we love her and want better for her. Have you never had friends date shitty guys?? This is a tale as old as time. at least one friend at any given time in my life is dating a shitty guy. Nothing you can do but shame her and hope it doesn’t last. Also she’s been dating shit men serially for a long time and keeps a few shit friends for company so idk this is just who she is. If you’re gonna love her, you gotta love her warts and all!