#also TERFS DNI!

[jamiesinverguenza]

Love to come here after a feminist theory study group meeting and find a message from a p0rn bot spammer who’s using some young girl’s abandoned legit account to send strangers s*xually explicit videos

[lesbianjudasiscariot]

[aishabellasbigblogofeverything]

I love it when women hate men. I love it when women are allowed to vent to each other about how horrible and creepy men are. I love it when women form friendships with and prioritize each other over relationships with men(whether they're attracted to them or not). I love it when women put men dni in their bios and on their nude photos and on posts on their blogs. I love it when women refuse to mollycoddle and accommodate entitled male feelings with "but this doesn't mean I hate all men, I know a few men who are great, I love my father/sons/brothers/uncles/male cousins/guy friends" I love it when women complain about men WITHOUT "not all men" being a disclaimer. I love it when women avoid socializing with/refuse to be around/befriend/get close to men because they know men can't be trusted. I love it when women make "kill all men" jokes. I love it when women offer absolutely no concern or care for men's feelings and if their misandry offends men whatsoever because why should we, men are the oppressor class who have raped and killed and abused us and kept us as subjugated as second-class citizens for millennia, they regularly mistreat us and the women in their own marginalized communities still every single day and make this world so much harder and more awful for us to be in, and if we choose to hate them and not spare them any sympathy then so be it, and I don't just mean "men as a class" either, you can be a woman who doesn't want to have anything to do with any man on an individual basis and completely cuts off men from her personal life too and ykw I will love and fucking support you in that because men deserve absolutely NOTHING from us. If they're so tough and strong then they can handle it just like they can handle being lonely. If you are a woman who hates men, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE A LESBIAN AND/OR A TRANS WOMAN, then just know that I love you. I love you, I support you, and you are safe here.

[cloudboundcritters]

what it feels like when you see "MEN DNI!11!!! LESBIAN MEANS NON MEN LOVING NON MEN!!!11!" in a post

[bat-kidsarebi-kids]

I love you transfems I love you tall transfems I love you short transfems I love you fat transfems I love you thin transfems I love you hairy transfems I love you transfems who shave I love you butch transfems I love you femme transfems I love you it/its transfems I love you transfems who don’t use she/her I love you transfems who exclusively use she/her I love you transfems who pass I love you transfems who don’t pass I love you transfems who don’t want to pass I love you transfems who are on HRT I love you transfems who aren’t on HRT I love you transfems who don’t want to transition I love you transfems who are still closeted I love you if you have a penis I love you if you have a vagina i love you if you are intersex you are not a sex object you do not exist for other people to use you up you are worthy of love regardless of your relationship to sex & you deserve to be backed by your community 100% of the time. transfems you are always safe on my blogs. i see you transfems I love you transfems you are more than enough exactly as you are transfems

[awesomewithoutme]

I don't wanna generalize an entire website because there's some really nice people on here, but sometimes it's reeeeally scary and obvious how much most of tumblr hates women. (It's definitely not just tumblr, but that's the only website I use.) People constantly make gross violent threats towards Taylor Swift because apparently she's the devil herself, and Swifties are just brainless npcs who couldn't possibly be Real People, right? People on tiktok or wherever the hell were mad at Chappell Roan because *checks notes* she doesn't want to be stalked or harassed. Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber haven't been together in like, 12 years or whatever, but people are STILL pitting Selena against Hailey Bieber. Not to mention the bodyshaming and endless fakes nudes made without consent that get posted and reposted all over. Maisie Peters was on the Eras Tour, but people started bullying her about her voice. It was all fine and well to like Sabrina Carpenter, but only up until she got popular. Because popular = bad, right? Apparently choosing to wear more makeup than other people is a punishable crime on tumblr.com. People are trying to find "acceptable" ways to be awful because they can't get away with calling women sluts or whores anymore, but I literally see right through it, and it's not cute.

[milkandhoneyfemme]

The radfem view of most/all men being inherently disgusting sexual deviants is just “boys will be boys” from a different angle and that’s not nearly as progressive as y’all think.

[winterweary]

Hey if you're a person who menstruates and isn't on hormones I highly recommend you start taking a prenatal and magnesium. Most medical studies being done on cis white men means that a lot of female body needs are NOT served in current recommendations. Prenatals contain a lot of good stuff that your body needs and may be deficient in, but if you don't want to do that, at least do the magnesium. ESPECIALLY if you suffer from irregular or rough periods.

But also while I'm here a reminder that PMS shouldn't make you feel suicidal and if it is you might be suffering from PMDD.

[hobiebrownsluver]

gonna go deconstruct every radfem/terf argument i've seen against dylan mulvaney's new song "days of girlhood":

"she should have said MY days of girlhood !!" tbh i have a feeling dylan released the song expecting us to have some type of media literacy out here but ig not, also it is HER experience, not yours. also it is sung in first person. note, it is HER experience after transitioning, it has NOTHING to do with you. (if you don't relate that's fine, we don't relate to everything, just don't make it her problem), days of girlhood is also based off of her series's name btw, that is focused on her and her transition.

"she mentioned drugs!" those "drugs" are most likely Estrogen, testosterone blockers, and progesterones, common meds that trans women take.

"she'll never know what motherhood was like!" you're seriously saying that she isn't a woman bcs she'll never know the 'true' experience of motherhood? seriously?

"I don't like the song." that's fine! just don't be a transphobe abt it.

anyways this song gets better every time a transphobe gets mad, stay safe y'all :3

[sapphiclysexual]

Hi do you own boots and can we see low perspective shots of you in them? Asking for sapphic pervert reasons.

Oh I suppose you mean like this ? Of course I have boots. I'm an Agriculture Major.

Maybe you'd like to be a doll and help me polish them?

[jesse-pinko]

Me: Most people only hate this female character for misogynistic reasons

Most annoying person Ever in the tags: Exactly!! Misogynists hate her bc they hate women 😔👎 whereas I hate her bc she’s just so annoying 😌💅 we are NOT the same!!!!

[wings22sky77]

joining a community founded and centered around hatred of another community will ALWAYS make you miserable. this is why terfs are always miserable like as people, bc they use hatred of trans people as a way to gain validation and connection from their community. like as if they hate trans people hard and loud enough they'll become a respected member of their community. it's a horrible way to live i think because it rewires your brain to make the act of being miserable a good thing because it's what makes your friends like you.

anyway that's why you see former anti endos talk about how much better pro endo communities are.

[the-sparkling-diamond-satine]

just a reminder (since some of you need it apparently) that the person who runs this blog is non-binary and loves + supports trans people. terfs and transphobes not welcome here, nor on my fanworks. find something better to do with your time. get a hobby, or a life.

[reinedeslys-central]

when it's been so long since you've read a fic that you forget about it and you find it in the search tags and start reading it again

and it's great, if a little familiar, but you've read a lot of these sorts of fics bc you like this tag a lot, so you assume it's nothing

but then the deja vu starts adding up and you start to wonder

and then moments before the great big Plot Twist Reveal happens you're suddenly like ah hell this is the bloody sundial fic again isn't it

smh this has to be the fourth time yet

[arcanemoody]

Just got back from seeing Lisa Frankenstein and am no longer interested in films about women’s sexuality or sexual awakening that don’t include women in the writing process.

(Looking at you, Poor Things.)

[puppyudderly-dreamy]

bragging abt hating the status quo on your blog while centering your rhetoric around transmisogyny does not, in fact, make you a status quo hater, it just means you're another reactionary trying to make being reactionary look progressive and i don't have sympathy left in my body for you