#agender masculine

[midwestemokilledmygrandma]

they/them is not an all-inclusive pronoun that you can use to refer to anyone just because it is gender neutral.

the very basic sentiment of "don't misgender people" seems to go over even the heads of trans people and cis people alike when it comes to they/them pronouns.

not everyone wants to be called they/them. if someone strictly uses she/her or he/him or she/he or neopronouns etc. anything that is not they/them.... using they/them would still be misgendering. in the same way calling someone who doesn't use any other pronoun that pronoun would be misgendering.

You don't get a free pass to call people whatever pronouns you want to call them rather than the pronouns they use just because they them is a gender neutral pronoun.

also not all nonbinary people use strictly they/them pronouns or they/them pronouns at all.

i feel like this is very simple yet is misunderstood by a lot of people

[sad-leon]

(good future) Finding Home Pride edition <3

Trans Leo pride is something I see a lot, but personally, FH Leo wouldn't celebrate his gender. He grew up around Gali, who went through a lot of gender struggles, especially in his younger years, and with the brothers being so accepting, it's just another part of his life

But his lack of romantic attraction? That's something that stands out to him. He sees the brothers with their own attractions and crushes and such and realizes he stands out. He's different. But that's okay because he's still him and he's still valid

anyways~ it's pride month, which means i get to be even more annoying about aro pride ^-^

that final shot without text:

[bizarreaizen]

*trans girl getting misogynistic comments instead of transphobic ones*

trans girl: . . a win is a win.

trans guy: what-!?

non-binary person: girl no-

agender person: absolutely not.

trans girl: i don't care what y'all say, a win is a win >:( /lh /hj

[jaygubz]

Sameeeeeee

TW Eye Strain

[intergalacticgoose]

I wish there was a way someone could diagnose your gender.

Like I wish you could walk into an office and be like “ay doc, I’m AFAB but I have a phantom kibbles and bits, I cried watching ‘Stand By Me’ and relish the anonymity of the internet but when I pick up a romance novel I’m One Of The Girls, I think ‘I wanna be like that guy’ frequently, I want to smell like mesquite and oh, I’m also a raging lesbian. What’s going on” and the doctor goes “hmm, hmm, ah yes” and hands you like a flag or something

[agendercryptidlev]

[Image Description: Meme of Miya Chinen from SK8 The Infinity with the Trans Masculine, Trans Feminine, and Non-Binary flags around him that reads "If your feminism doesn't include all trans people, you're still a TERF!"]

[sapphicslut777]

had an absolutely fantastic care team yesterday <3 i couldn’t have asked for a better top surgery experience! i’m at home n recovering now.. only a bit of pain, but i’m starving all the time!! can’t wait to get my drains out and see my chest! 😱❤️

[snowwhitemarshmallow]

Someone on Twitter asked "'She'? I thought you're non-binary?"

Need, need, need people to understand (and I mean this in a non-negative tone) that pronouns are not 1 to 1 with gender identity all of the time.

My being non-binary isn't negated if I only use she/her pronouns, someone using they/them doesn't mean they aren't still a man if they identify as one, and so on and so forth. I can be a man and only want masculine address but also use he/she/they, someone can be agender but have specific gendered pronouns they want to be referred by.

You can have whatever pronouns you like and whether that matches the common ideas of your gender and presentation or not doesn't invalidate your identity.

She/her doesn't always mean female, he/him doesn't always mean male, and they/them doesn't always mean non-binary.

[pupsmailbox]

Genderfaun ★ ❭ A fluid gender which never encompasses feminine genders.

Genderfaunet ★ ❭ Similar to genderfaun, however encompasses everything except being a binary woman.

Gendergilen ★ ❭ Similar to genderfaun but masculinity is amplified.

Genderfrect ★ ❭ A fluid gender that encompasses masculine, feminine, and unaligned genders. Feels unaligned and feminine genders either very weakly, very vaguely, or very rarely, while the amount of masculinity they feel is amplified.

Genderfrithet ★ ❭ A fluid gender between genders that are in some way connected to masculinity or femininity, but they are never completely female.

Genderfloy ★ ❭ A fluid gender which is primarily male or masculine, but can encompass all genders.

Gendermirn ★ ❭ Similar to genderfaunet but masculinity is amplified.

Boyflux ★ ❭ Someone whose male gender fluctuates in intensity. This typically involves feeling strongly masculine sometimes and weakly masculine at other times.

Boyfluid ★ ❭ Type of genderfluidity where one changes between male, neutral, androgynous, and genderless identities.

Boyfluix ★ ❭ Which one's gender is both boyfluid and boyflux.

[ganondoodle]

okay, bc i have seen this argument alot now (and it also seems to be the view point of aonuma himself..) is that "zelda cant do everything link does bc whats the point then"

and i take personal offense on that bc its a stupid argument (in. my. very. personal. opinion.- not judging people for liking it. its a ME thing)

whats the point? its that its her. its still a different character, different in story, background, personality, but i WANT to play zelda and she can do everything link does, why does she have to be so restricted and be bend over backwards to find some new way to make her 'useful' when link gets to do basically everything no questions asked (the only thing thats hers is like .. sealing power and sacrificial maiden, which i find a little underwhelming to say the least), if theres no point to it why are there always modders that model swap link with someone else, and in that case it has even less impact bc its an artificial model swap with no changes to the story (which can and should still be different when its the vanilla game with a different protagonist... its still a different character), clearly theres joy in just the model being a different one- and that isnt even to mention the story possibilities, since, again, its stil a different character

if we ever (never ... i know who we are talking about here) get to play as ganondorf i want to him to be just as versatile and active as link is, if we got a point and click adventure game for him instead bc 'whats the point' id be disappointed too- you can find any sort of excuse/explanation for zelda to be singled out but the fact remains it tracks with how female characters are often treated, and that hits a very sore spot for me

i guess i am unfortunately one of those annoying people that want to see female characters be treated exactly the same as male characters, possibly bc i am myself afab but identify as agender and have a deeply personal dislike for anything 'traditional' feminine bc i cannot and never will be able to truly live as myself in real life, it influences all of my work, my work is as just as much as my opinion on this, very personal

and in line with my point about modding, i see theres joy in just beign able to play as her even if its like this, i get that, i also get it for the creative aspect (though that mechanic worries me even more for the future bc it really seems to be the path now that -freedom = good, linear anything = bad-) it is a different idea and its not like i cant see that value- im not trying be "right" either, just bc i have that opinion doesnt mean i need everyone to agree, its a very personal thing, if you like it good for you! not for me though, and i think both of that is equally valid

i just personally wish she was allowed to be just like link, fight just like him but be different bc its still her and not him in the end- to be physically/playstyle like jsut like him, but you know ... as her, i dont think shed stop being zelda if she could wield a sword just like him

i dont really know how to get my point/feelings across, i dont want to step too much into personal stuff nor spam people with something that ultimately doesnt interest me alot, im just saddened by it really

(EDIT: bc i forgot to add this on here again; this isnt as much of a problem as it might sound like here, just the main topic i wanted to talk about; why im so uninterested in it is MAINLY bc i dont trust them to write anything interesting/care about lore anymore after totk, im always on the more pessimistic side that thinks its most likely worse than id hope and i know even the past games arent perfect or super interestingly written, but now its much more just a general distrust, together with everything like the price ... im just much less hopeful and cant get excited until i see more of it, like im waiting for the game to get out and reveal that its just as much of a mess and money i regret spending- kind of fear)

[unknown-error-exe]

I'm WAY to horny for how lonely I am

This needs to be fixed, someone turn me into their fucktoy slut, or let me use you as a fucktoy for whenever I'm horny. Please please please

[midwestemokilledmygrandma]

the biggest hinge red flag is ur political views being listed as "not political", especially with the crowd I attract (trans & nonbinary people) because why are you, as a trans person, NOT political?? 🤨🤨

[hibernating-disaster]

my gender is gender confusion. not that *i* am confused by my gender, but that being confused about my gender is the desired effect. “what is your gender?” correct. +100 points. no notes.

[im-just-a-random-trashcan]

Amascfem

Definition: A label for where you're mostly or fully agender and masculine leaning, but also don't mind being seen as slightly feminine or androgynous. A masculine agender individual with feminine traits. Agender with a complicated relationship to masculinity and femininity whether due to feelings connected to agab or otherwise.

Not intersex exclusive, anyone can use this label if it fits them.

[ieatkids0666]

Bigender agender man

Being Bigender and Agender man

Bigender: is someone who have 2 distinct gender identities. in this case male and agender

Agender man: is someone who is agender and a man or man-aligned. 

[sapphicslut777]

favorite thing to do post op is flash myself every time i see myself in a mirror. it’s like a lil treat to remind myself that i have no tits :3