#aduse

[okaywavesentertainment]

Jesus Aduse (Jesus has visit you) by Mma Omodot

Fast rising and anointed Nigerian recording and performing gospel music Minister, Blessing Willie popularly known as Mma Omodot drops a brand new single titled “Jesus Aduse”, a soul-lifting and heart-touching song. It revives! ABOUT THE SONG “Jesus Aduse” produced by Kemzy Kem is a powerful and high danceable praise hit song. Its not just a danceable song, it is highly prophetic. The spoken words…

[korshrimpski]

I kind of forget that not all hockey fans share the same opinion as me because I just saw multiple people saying dylan cozens getting kicked out was dumb and immature by him, while I’m in the corner over here thinking it was kinda iconic

[kittenkes]

The best way to scare off fake doms who make it their whole personality to exploit your trauma is to tell them you're working on healing and loving yourself. It works every time and shows how scared they are of strong women.

[francisforever2014]

“i hate children but—“ is honestly such an annoying fucking way to start a sentence . even if it’s saying that you’re still kind to them etc etc it’s still so weird to me that people constantly have to express their hatred for a group of people that have no control over being “annoying” or whatever makes people “HATE” them. like that is just such an unnecessarily strong word to use against the most helpless people among us imo. you can dislike children you can think they’re a bit much sometimes you can not want to be around them bc they stress you out . its good for people to know their limits so they’re not in situations where their stress would harm children !!but to say you hate them is so??? like obnoxious to me idk. also maybe it’s just bc i was an observant kid and am around observant kids but i feel like if you profess that you hate children constantly but “act nice” around they probably feel that hate . bc children know when they’re not wanted and guess what . it fucks them up like why would you add to that even minutely. maybe work on not hating vulnerable small beings instead of being so proud of it . it’s just unnecessary and annoying to me like okay . good for you ig

[never-forget-viva-la-pluto]

just so you know, you can be sued for stealing a cat, especially if its collared and microchipped. dont be a vile human being. have some compassion. maybe that persons cat is just an escape artist.

maybe if someone stole your pet, youd be fine with it, idk if you just let your pets go when youre tired of them. idk you.

but not having compassion is actually disgusting. do better.

Ok let's break this down since I'm going to, probably incorrectly, assume that your intentions are good and you are just woefully misinformed. For the sake of clarity, when I say indoor cat, I mean 100% indoor, and when I say outdoor cat, I mean a cat that is regularly let outside without a leash and isn't a feral or working barn cat.

1) "You can be sued for stealing a cat, especially if it's collared or microchipped".

Okay, so if you microchip an outdoor cat, you have wasted your money. Microchips are for finding your cat should it go missing. If an outdoor cat goes missing, you better hope someone picked it up and took it in bc 9/10 if your outdoor cat goes missing it's dead. Full stop. Hawks, coyotes, dogs, other cats, cars, eagles, wolves, cougars, etc all see that cat as food and cats may be OP for their size but a pack of coyotes whose territory is being shrunk by the day will find that cat very tasty. And in case you are confused, coyotes don't care if you sue them, they will eat the microchip and leave the bloodied collar with the bones.

But let's say you are worried about me getting sued, my response is: ok????? You seem to be under the impression that I am taking cats for a selfish reason and i am definitely not. I would do this for the cat's benefit, with no worries for my own. I'll get sued, I'll gladly take the court case if it means they keep their pets inside. But how would they know I took their cat? They wouldn't because I don't let my cats outside ever. They won't see the cat again and it won't be because a coyote ripped it to peices while it was taking a shit. And it would be a lot harder for them to sue a coyote, so I've done them a favor once again.

2) "Don't be a vile human being. Have some compassion. Maybe their cat is just an escape artist."

Ok, that's on me for not making myself clear. If a cat is missing, and there are posters, online posts, text psa, etc I will see them. I actually follow a local missing pet group that alerts me to every pet in my area that's gone missing, and each includes the info about the pet and if they are indoor or not. When I have time I go and look for them around my town. But again, not far from the feral cat colonies is where the coyotes run so I have yet to be successful. If a cat owner has stated that their cat has escaped and are indoor cats, then I am on the streets, in forests, marshes, behind malls, etc, to return that missing family member. But cats are the equivalent of a toddler in terms of ability to navigate life, and it is definitely neglect to leave your toddler outside unattended.

Moreover, there is a bitch who lives near me who buys kittens, doesn't get them fixed, and when they get out she doesn't even bother to look for them and I have rescued several of those and their subsequent kittens(many of which did not survive even after given professional care bc the mothers were still kittens themselves and can't care for their babies). That bitch has been reported many times and guess what the cops do??? That's right, what cops do best, which is jack shit. I have spent months doing tnr just cleaning up her messes so you have no right to tell me I am without compassion or that I'm vile. I had a cat who was an escape artist, but I at least made sure she was fixed in case she ever got out(she only ever got out once and after I reinforced the screens on our porch).

But again, if your outdoor cat goes missing, what good would returning them do? The cat will just go outside again and face the same shit that caused them to dissappear in the first place. It's actual insanity and those people shouldn't be cat owners(personally I think they should be charged with neglect but whose counting?).

3) "Maybe if someone stole your pet you'd be fine with it. Idk if you just let your pets go when you're tired of them. Idk you. But not having compassion is actually disgusting. Do better."

Okay here is where you lost me.

No one would be able to steal my pet unless they literally broke into my place, because again my cats NEVER go outside. And advocating for pet owners to keep their cats indoors only is something that is vital to the cat's health and the environment, so that is literally the opposite of letting your cat go when tired of them. I don't know where you got that from and honestly I don't care because, no, you don't know me and if your reading comprehension wasn't piss poor you would have seen in the tags you are referencing that I HAVE LITERALLY NEVER DONE WHAT YOU ARE DESCRIBING BC I LIVE IN AN APARTMENT WITH A PET LIMIT. ✨️ I've never taken a cat off the street and kept it!✨️ I can't, or I'll get evicted! Ive fostered for a short period but ive never taken in a cat from the street. But make no mistake I would if I could.

My compassion is why I try to remain educated and informed about why it matters to keep your cat inside. I am compassionate toward the 3 month old cat that it's owner let out in the dead of winter, unfixed, that gave birth to 4 kittens under our car, all premature and 1 was a stillbirth. She was too young to be a mother and her instincts never kicked in. She didn't know to lick away the umbilical cord, she didn't know how to feed them, she didn't know what to do and even with my sister, my mother, my coworker, a volunteer foster, and 3 vet techs and a veterinarian doctor, none of the kittens lived more than 2 days.

I am compassionate towards them. I am compassionate toward the owner of a cat I trapped, fostered, and took to the vet, who after adopting this cat, fell on hard times and when her card declined at the register, she put all of her human food back and just bought cat food(I offered to pay for it but she refused).

So maybe read what you have written and before you hit send, maybe do some research. Maybe think about how you would feel if some stranger just barely read what you put in a tag and decided to tell them they are vile and without compassion while in the same message saying that you don't know them or how they treat others.

Good on you for not turning on anon and saying what you believe with your whole ignorant chest, but still

Do better.

[plumbutch]

I'm begging steddie fanfic writers to download Bumble and talk to a man or two if they wanna be traumatized so bad.

[dissociatingbug]

Parents: you need to be independent from us!! You can't expect to rely on us for anything!

Me, becoming hyper-independent and distant from them, only contacting them every couple of months: okay

Parent: why don't you come to visit or ask us for help :(((

[never-forget-viva-la-pluto]

YES. If you go to therapy, this is what they should tell you. The language a medical professional should use is HSP or Highly Sensative Person. It is commonly associated with disorders resulting from prolonged trauma, ADHD, and Autism.

Your counselor should NEVER use the word empath.

Personally, my mother has called herself an empathy for ages, because she didn't have this term before. But she has acknowledged that this is the correct term to use. We still use empath though bc it's easier to say, but your medical professional should never use it.

Empaths are technically not real, but this term has been used before as a way of connecting with a real problem they didn't have the right name for. For context, the woman who coined it is only 78 years old.

[diversityinkidsbooks]

How Are You Feeling Today Baby Bear? Exploring Big Feelings After Living In A Stormy Home By Jane Evans

Baby Bear lives in a home with the Big Bears, and loves to chase butterflies and make mud pies - they make Baby Bear's tummy fill with sunshine. Then, one night, Baby Bear hears a big storm downstairs in the house and in the morning, Baby Bear's tummy starts to feel grey and rainy. How will such a small bear cope with these big new feelings?

This sensitive, charming storybook is written to help children who have lived with violence at home to begin to explore and name their feelings. Accompanied by notes for adults on how to use each page of the story to start conversations, it also features fun games and activities to help to understand and express difficult emotions. It will be a useful book for social workers, counsellors, domestic violence workers and all grown-ups working with children.

[techdirectarchive]

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[therapythoughtstogether]

I started drinking again

And I want to stop

TW alcohol, TW abuse

I was doing so well...but after finding myself constantly abused one way or another, I went back to drinking.

I feel so embarrassed to admit it, but I want to be honest because I know this can help someone else. And someone else can help me, just by encouraging me or telling me they have managed to quit after slip-ups.

I kind of hate my life now. I'm afraid this is going to be like this forever. It cannot be...I refuse to live like this forever.

[ohello0]

I’m calling it now: A lot of y’all bitches going to hell for finding Elvis hot in the new Priscilla movie

Like straight to burning and soon!

“Oh my god he’s so hot here…” and it’s a moment of him abusively controlling her

“I wish I was her—“ your ears will begin to bleed in the next 7 days

[seniordba]

Check Email Addresses Listed in Active Directory

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[ohghxst]

let  it  be  known,  he  had  warned  magnus.  it  was  no  secret  that  oskar  possessed  a  fiery  temperament,  which  was  only  exacerbated  by  his  limp  leg.  any  softness  he  once  had  as  a  child  his  father  had  made  sure  to  beat  it  out.  the  outcome  of  his  upbringing  was  a  formidable  figure,  a  veritable  monster  in  the  flesh.  it  was  no  wonder  that  people  quaked  in  fear  before  him,  cowering  in  his  presence  or  the  mere  mention  of  his  name.  

somewhere  in  the  recesses  of  his  consciousness,  oskar  was  aware  that  he  was  crossing  a  line.  or  had  already.  his  inner  voice  implied  him  to  cease  his  actions,  yet  he  was  heedless  in  his  rage,  flinging  magnus  out  of  the  exit.  the  commotion  had  attracted  the  attention  of  those  who  stood  outside,  who  gawked  at  the  pair.

“  don’t  be  afraid,  ”  he  intoned,  though  his  tone  was  laced  with  condescension.  “  go  on,  magnus,  show  everyone  how  brave  you  are. ”

perhaps he should have seen it coming. he knew oskar to be ruthless, raised a warrior in stark contrast to himself. both of them monsters in their own way, but magnus knew he stood no chance would sharp words amount to a physical altercation. his heart picked up pace as he found the man on the other side of the table now standing, the sudden difference in stances instantly stripping him of what little sense of authority he'd had to begin with. still, he did not move. too stubborn to let show how his mind was frantically searching for ways to escape.

and then, sudden pressure to his shoulder. as if something scorching broke his skin and embedded itself into his flesh. his eyes found the knife before his mind connected the dots, and before he could figure out what to do with it oskar had removed it - he heard a sound as the breath left his body, but he didn't recognise it as himself - and pulled him from his seat. he had one advantage, albeit a small one - two legs - he tried to remind himself as he helplessly stumbled after oskar, out of the tavern.

[amurg-cu-stele]

spune-i că-l adori. fă-l să-ți știe toate nuanțele tale, toate stările de care până acum îți era teamă să le dezvălui. arată-i adevăratul sens al cuvântului loialitate atunci când mintea lui e inundată de temeri, frici. strânge-l în brațe atât de strâns făcându-l să creadă că brațele lui au fost desenate și aduse la viață doar pentru a le simții pe ale tale. nu-ți fie frică să te lași condusă de toate simțurile pe care doar el ți le poate oferii - fiorii, siguranța, iubirea. inundă-i gândurile cu priviri sincere și jucăușe, fă-l al tău și arată-i cum tu ești cea pe care n-o s-o uite niciodată.

@amurg-cu-stele