#actually aegosexual

[booloocrew-blog]

its gay pride and 2am so fuck it, cant escape this forever

Ok. So. I just heard of this franchise called I Expect You To Die, right? It's like a James Bond parody VR game series that is known for their graphically impressive movie-styled openings. 

Well, after watching said openings as a part of my writing inspo playlist, I got recomended a trailer for the bad guy of the newest game, and...clears throat...WOMEN.

LIke, all jokes aside, she's such a cool character! I have next to no knowledge about the series apart from the fact that some narrator mission control guy named John Handler(?) sounds a lot like Lord Tippet. But I mean...I'm tempted to find out. Her and Robulter have so much potential to be both engaging, comedic, and a threat due to Roxana's former agent status and mad-science esque plan. Plus she reminds me of a certain evil villain duo in my Magical Robodoki series...and also Yzma and Kronk from The Emperor's New Groove (which is one of my favorite Disney movies of all time mainly due to those two, and I was tempted to title the piece "Pull the level, Robulter" for that very reason!)

Color me intrigued, and call me hyped!

And so, since I can't sleep, and it's 2:34 am as I'm writing this, fuck it, here's a drawing of Dr. Roxana Prism, as best as I can draw from the few non-holographic, non-oddly colored images of her in the trailer!!!

Trailer itself: https://youtu.be/vz7BqJtPk0g

[popcorn-plots]

someone: do you like sex?

me, an aegosexual human:

[filenameghost]

it's asexual awareness week. be aware of me

[aego-culture-is]

aego culture is having crushes on ships, not people

That it is!

[whatsacrush]

Some Aego inspired doodles:

In order: aegosexual, aegoromantic, aegoaroace (sunset), and aegoaroace (green and purple)

Feel free to use use these if you want, just tag me I guess.

You don't have to be aego to use these (you can use them for aro and/or ace pride as well), the triangle design was just inspired by the aego flags

[ace-n-thehoe]

Aegosexual represent 💥

[fallen-vixen]

[2023]

Dumb thing from back when it was Ace Awareness week lmao

[wanderingmind867]

I hate the kids on this bus. One sits in front of me, talks about trains and seems to love Thomas the Tank Engine. He seems to stutter and his clothing smells really weird. Like a bad, musty quality to it. Still, he's the nicest kid on the damn bus.

Then there's the one who loves joking about sex and/or 9/11 and Nazis. He made me definitely realize I was asexual/aegosexual, because he loves talking about how the girls wear short clothing, how he's seen their breasts, etc etc. And then I realize… beyond maybe feelings of arousal from reading things or watching things, i have never felt these disgusting urges to brag about or even care about sex things. Also, his jokes are always so dark and unkind. Sex and morbidity, that's his style.

Finally, we have the kid who behaves like he's got Tourette's or something. He sat next to me in the library today, and it sounded like he was constantly muttering stuff like: fuck fuck fuck goddamn it fuck fuck oh my fucking god. Apparently last year he said the N word on the bus once, but I never caught him saying it. Even compared to the other kids, he's a special kind of awful. I was already struggling to read today, but he made it harder. Who can read past the sound of someone saying the f word over and over and over again? Certainly not me.

[maluron]

today's scarves: triangles & chevrons! because the designs slap? (heee my pics are not well centered but if i wait for good lighting conditions to try & do better i can wait forever and actually get even worst-centered pics, so--here)

[popcorn-plots]

I do, in fact, headcanon Billy as aspec. Give me my demisexual homoromantic Twink of a witch

[insertmeaningfulusername]

Tagged by @loverboy-havocboy and @aerjnn 💙💙

Imagine you met some clones and befriended them (the dream, I know!) What name do you think they would come up with for you? As much as I love them, I don’t mean pet names like cyare, mesh’la, or sarad. I am wondering about the kind of crack names they make up for themselves and each other.

Oh no I have to perceive myself. Ah well here goes nothing.

Beanpole - because I'm tall and thin and people keep remarking on it (yes thank you I happen to have noticed that I'm tall, no I don't play basketball, yes the air up here is actually better).

Skittles or the space version of it - because my friends associate me with rainbows (probably because I'm very open about being queer) and once assigned me skittles in a game of if-I-were-a-dessert.

Grammar or rather, Orthography - the former suggested by havoc, because I'm particular about making spelling mistakes and I notice them in other people's texts, but actually it would have to be the latter because grammar refers not to spelling rules but to syntax etc. Very fitting because just yesterday I found two orthography mistakes in an edition of Fahrenheit 451.

No pressure tagging @unexpectedtechnicality @adhd-coyote @brokenphoenix99 @lightningbig @alicentrasers

@aurathebardwife @king-chaos-world @wackylurker @captaindogma @rooksunday

[aego-culture-is]

aego culture is reading smut and lowkey wondering what that would feel/taste/etc like but then remembering you'd probably be too disgusted to try in real life

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[gordontheengineswifenirmal]

From ur big old Aego/aro housemum here -

Asexual and aromantic people can face prejudice and hate crime, which service providers and criminal justice agencies have a duty to tackle. The information below aims to assist services to better understand and serve the needs of ace people who experience hate crime.

Prevalence of acephobia

Whilst social awareness is growing, asexuality and aromanticism are still not widely recognised, and prejudice against asexual and aromantic people remains largely unexamined.

The little (but growing!) research that there is in this area has uncovered strong bias against ace people. Relative to cisgender and heterosexual people, and even to cisgender lesbian, gay and bisexual people, asexual people were found to be the target of more prejudice, avoidance and discrimination.

Of all the sexual minorities studied, ace people were the most dehumanised, viewed as “machine-like”- cold and emotionless. This demonstrates the need to address anti-asexual bias and that ace people are at risk of experiencing violence, abuse and discrimination.

Recognising anti-asexual prejudice

Acephobia is a prejudicial attitude toward asexual and aromantic people based on negative stereotypes. It can include believing that ace people:

are less than human or against human nature

are deficient or broken; that it is a result of mental illness or sexual abuse

have just not met the “right” person

are confused or ‘going through a phase’

cannot experience love and have relationships

are just “prudes”; that asexuality is a choice rather than an orientation

don’t face oppression and are damaging the LGBT+ cause.

What is anti-asexual hate crime?

Any offence should be treated as an anti-asexual hate crime if the person who experienced it or anyone else feels it was an expression of acephobia.

Anti-asexual hate crime can include verbal abuse and violence from neighbours or strangers, in person or online. Because people’s ace identity is not always visible to strangers, anti-asexual abuse can often be concentrated in settings where the targeted person and perpetrator know each other. That can include verbal abuse or unwanted sexual touching from acquaintances and anti-asexual domestic abuse from family or partners. This also includes actual and threats of so-called “corrective” rape, to “fix” the person’s orientation.

These crimes can be less often recognized in mainstream services, but it is equally important to record and address them in a manner that addresses their motivation of hostility.

To qualify to be recorded as a hate incident, a report needn’t include anti-asexual language. It is enough for a reporting person to perceive that it was motivated by acephobia. Police guidance states that any crime or non-criminal incident should be recorded as motivated by sexual orientation hatred if the person reporting it feels it was motivated that way. Courts will need evidence to record a hate crime.

Tackle anti-asexual prejudice within LGBT+ communities

Asexuality is a part of sexual diversity, and aromanticism is a valid romantic orientation. Therefore they belong within the LGBT+ community.

However, ace people can face prejudice from within our community, such as being refused entry to LGBT+ spaces or inappropriate treatment by LGBT+ services. Some LGBT+ people argue that asexuality shouldn’t be included under the LGBT+ umbrella. Similar reasoning was employed to object to bisexual and trans inclusion in lesbian and gay movements historically – and still results in failings in full inclusion and support of these groups today.

LGBT+ people working as service providers can also sometimes oppose asexual inclusion. It is important for LGBT+ services to raise awareness of ace identities and acephobia, and work towards welcoming all sexual and romantic minorities to their service.

Demonstrate that you take acephobia seriously by speaking out against it.

Ace people also face homophobia, biphobia, transphobia, ableism, racism, etc.

Sexual orientation is distinct from romantic orientation; asexual people may have heteroromantic, homoromantic, biromantic, panromantic or aromantic attractions and so may face homophobia or biphobia

Asexual and aromantic people may also be trans, non-binary or have a non-conforming gender presentation, so may face transphobia.

Therefore acepeople may face anti-LGBT hate in addition to acephobia, and often these prejudices are linked. Determining how it should be recorded should be done together with the service user.

Additionally, many people face hostility rooted in multiple types of hatred, for instance both acephobic and racist. They are entitled to ask police and other safety services to record it under several hate incident categories. Ask open questions about motivation, support service users in determining their own account of events, and bear in mind that a crime or incident may have more than one hate motivation.

The CATCH Partnership can help you ensure you get appropriate support after an incident that targeted several of your identities.

Make a positive impact and recognise the gap

Service are increasingly familiar with hate crime against lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans people, but ace people have their own distinct needs, which can be overlooked or underplayed. Build your knowledge, policies and systems to address this important issue.

Many ace people feel pressured to pass as allosexual or alloromantic when talking to services, which can prevent people from disclosing important information about incidents. Make efforts to enable service users to be themselves in your service, and feel safe disclosing issues related to their identity.

For every acephobic incident or crime someone tells you about there will be many more unreported. Help people feel that telling you was worthwhile. An important way of doing that is by referral to ace and LGBT+ support, advice, advocacy and social groups, such as the Asexual Visibility and Education Network.

Enable people to consider a range of options including help from police, discrimination law, restorative justice, emotional support, or assistance complaining about acephobic attitudes from a provider of goods or services.

[thebe4ulog]

A Little Introduction

helloo :D i don’t really know how this works, i’ve been saying for 2025 i wanna start documenting my life a bit more and my friend kind of led me here

i’ve been STRUGGLING like HARD with my sexuality for a while now, i’ll probably go more into my experience in a later post but im tired of pretending im immortal and resistant to shame and internalised homophobia and even abuse like i thought

hobbies

that’s kind of been the talking point of a lot of conversations i’ve had about myself because it’s just constantly on my mind, which is why i’m trying to navigate myself to some more healthy habits this year, for example writing! i’ve always really loved writing and fiction and i’ve wanted to get into it for a while and i’m hoping this year will be the year i do. i’m also a musician, i’ve written a few personal albums and i’d like to release some songs to streaming services one day, but for now i’m okay with my little chord sheets and silly little lyrics. i play ukulele, guitar, banjo, piano and im picking up the saxophone! so that’ll be fun. i also really want to start getting into art and drawing and what have you too.

interests

most of my favourite artists are dead but i love jazz anyway. from frank sinatra to duke ellington, i love it all. some artists that might be more relevant to you though - i mostly listen to will wood and laufey (despite being aroace probably idk i just like the jazz and her music makes me feel pretty) i also on occasion listen to tally hall and lemon demon, so yes that confirms i am autistic. i also really love the muppets, im going to go back there some day makes me cry, gonzo my beloved. <3 games i like tend to be cosy games like stardew valley and minecraft and the like, but im a fan of pokemon too. the following are likely to die out in the next month or so but im currently hyperfixating on wicked and the universal theme parks, so if those tickle your fancy then tumble me or whatever

i mostly speak english but i’m really interested in foreign languages and cultures; i can carry most conversations in spanish. i’m from the UK but i like to pretend im not and rather that im from space or something, mostly because it makes more sense for my stupid little AuDHD self but also because i have absolutely 0 patriotism. and also because why not, space is pretty cool no?

buh bye

that’s a little bit about me and where i’m at at the moment! :) i’m hoping to make friends and share experiences and interests and maybe experiment a little with certain things. i have some general little notices and what have you in my bio, im 17 and really if you’re 20+ i’d probably avoid this blog. but mbti and star signs and all the other bollocks people seem to find relevant is there

i’m honestly not sure what i’m gonna do with this thing or how i should really end it, the latter seems too dry to end it on. do i say over? like it’s a radio communication? that seems humorous i’ll go with that.

[ihhfhonao3]

Queer puritans be using asexuals as their main anti-kink argument like “the aces don’t like this! Don’t expose them to it!” Which is not only treating us like children (because they use the same argument for the “kink is inappropriate for kids” talking point) but is also just. So fucking stupid.

Because not only are you making it out that we can’t think for ourselves and don’t know ourselves well enough to know our limits, not only are you only just now caring about us just to use us in your argument after unending aphobia, but you also don’t understand how many aces think and feel about sex.

Like. Literally. I’m aroace, right? Mf my first ever fanfiction was a gay smut. (Almost) all my ace friends love making sex jokes, and they also understand them when they’re cracked by allos. Many, MANY aces have (and enjoy!) sex and sexual activities. Many aces are a part of the kink scene since it allows us to explore sex in a different way than the “norm” and isn’t just vanilla. I have met asexual furries (as an acefur myself) and can confirm that we are some of the kinkiest and horniest little bastards there are around.

So stop using aces to defend your puritanical views. Chances are, the aces you’re trying to “protect” not only hate you, but also are way more raunchy and deviant (affectionate) than you think. We aren’t always the soft UwU innocent little babies you think we are. And the aces that are sex repulsed and uncomfortable with kink know their limits and can go to a more chill parade because, news flash, they are functioning and can think for themselves.

[anonymous-harpy]

Dear kami I was in the weirder spaces of undertale

And while I'm quietly thinking about writing a one off or two, I'm also DETERMINED to make use of one of the weird bits of knowledge from the trenches to make a hopefully unique SMUT scene

Random I know, but I guess I'm just in a mood