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[peppermintmochafem]

From one femdom to another: tips on domming folks who like to feel objectified? Love your work 💋

yes!! I will try to list from more to less objectifing

I think the main thing is remembering and reminding them that they are there for you. They exist in that moment for your needs and desires not their own. They are an object for you to use. Use them!! Focus on what you want. As long as you are focused on yourself and getting what you want from them, as you deserve, they will be naturally objectified

♡ literally using them as an object (footrest, table, etc)

♡ giving them tasks to do for you. Especially ones that you could easily do yourself! There is no reason for you to do menial tasks when they are there to use.

♡ making them ask permission for basic nonsexual things. Objects don't think for themselves. You know their needs more than them.

♡ making them show off their body for you. Inspect them like you would a ripe piece of fruit. Openly ogle at them

♡ loudly complain and call them useless when they aren't doing things for you. Make them thank you for giving them a use or even a purpose.

♡ remind them they are a toy for you. Tell them how good they are to use. Tell them they were made to used, that it is all they are good.

♡ make them work to be used. Have them show off their skills. Have them touch themselves in front of you. Touch yourself in front of them and tell them you don't even need them. Make them thank you for letting them be used.

♡ Ignore them when they aren't serving you.

♡ remember to praise them for being able to do basic things!

[suntails]

[sharing/rb appreciated 💛]

my silver artbook is FINISHED and will open for preorders on 8/31 at 12pm EST!! it's been almost 3 months of work and i'm so excited to finally be able to share all the art i've worked on, PLUS a small bonus charm!

if u know silver fans,,, tell them

[jinkamuraisqueen]

@karmablacks requested this but i figured some of you guys might want to see it too, that's why i'm posting this here! so here's alan, leo, and ren's casual / pajama fullbody!! ft. kaito.. in his boxer.. (under the cut)

it's actually so fun to play around with their expressions since the range of motions on their face are so many! i personally love to make them blush (by them i mean my husband, jin HAHAHA)

but moving their body parts?? that's pretty hard for me, at least manually (it looks awkward). praying that when i have the time, i can play around some more because currently i'm being beaten by life

[blue-eyed-moon-child]

FUCK YEAH!! ILL DM IT TO YOU SO YOU CAN KEEP IT

There are two versions though, a fancy way and a lazy way

IM SORRY WHAT

Now I'm absolutely kidnapping you so I can make you garlic bread.

(I'll send you the recipe that I do cause it's super duper easy)

@thurio-edau

[chaggiehearts]

An offering for the fallenwings tag 🤲🏻 I love them sm

I always draw Lute with the softest expressions ever whenever I draw her looking at Vaggie pre fall :') the sweeter the love, the more painful the betrayal ig

Bonus because I've made a couple more frames for the animatic and I loved how this one looked :D (and it kinda looks like the continuation of the doodle since I basically redrew this old doodle for the animatic lmao)

[i-like-forcefem]

hi i have a question. my boyfriend is obsessed with lolita fashion and is constantly saving dresses and skirts and sending them to me saying "i would wear this if i were a girl" ...i told him he can wear them without being a girl but he said he doesn't want to, and i said "so you want to wear hoodies and jeans for the rest of your life?" and he hesitated before saying yes and looked visibly upset after... should i say something or just start dosing him with eatrogen

Awww, that's adorable :3 Here's what I'd do: Do whatever you can to give him plausible deniability to wear the dress, maybe do a bet where the loser has to get dressed up by the winner, or maybe say that you really want to BOTH go to comic con wearing lolita, maybe do something for Halloween! (do give her time! Don't force it too much, but if she's anything like me she'll jump on the first chance you give) Cuties like that are always day-dreaming about being allowed to be a girl, to be feminine without judgement, so give her that excuse she craves!

[as-an-asexual]

Hi, I've been questioning my sexuality for a while and I think I'm asexual, but im only 15 so I don't know if maybe I'm just young and will feel sexual attraction when I'm older.

When and how did you find out that you were asexual?

Hey there, thanks for the question! I want to preface with this: if you don't feel sexual attraction, you are asexual. There are plenty of people who identify as ace, realize that they do feel sexual attraction, and then stop using that label. Or maybe they only sometimes feel sexual attraction, so they choose a more specific label like graysexual, for example. And all of that is completely okay!

I am also a teenager. So back in 2020 was when I really discovered queer spaces online. I did a lot of research because I realized I really liked the idea of these labels and I felt like I belonged with one of them, I just didn't know which. At that time, I decided that I was aromantic lesbian. Some time later, I also decided that I was asexual. However I had that same doubt that you do, thinking "oh but I'm so young maybe I'll feel that later." But obviously it's been almost five years since then. I no longer identify as aroace; now I'm asexual and biromantic.

So even I have seen that labels change. And that's normal! You don't have to feel pressured to find something that fits immediately. Questioning your sexuality is a long journey and everyone's story looks different. I wish you luck with yours!

[arsenicflame]

Hornigold's Izzy was the worst, of course. A version of himself that never escaped that terrible place, who lived his life as little more than an object. He still has nightmares about all the things Baz told them, about all the things he didn't.

It doesn't really surprise him, after the first ones, not at its root. To be Izzy Hands is to be someone's after all, though seeing his own face on someone so fundamentally different to him never gets less weird. The people who these other Izzys attached themselves too often left him with more questions than answers. Jack's Izzy, he can understand, from a certain view, though the man himself felt like a fever dream. The less said about Stede's Izzy the better, he's never going to forgive him for the ideas he put in his Stede's head.

Then there was Sam's Izzy.

The first thing anyone noticed about him was that he was happy. He smiled and laughed without thought, and went through life with an ease Izzy didn't think he had ever felt. The crew took to him immediately, accepting him in a way they never did the other Izzys, and certainly not their own. They prodded him and asked him endless questions, and he took every touch without a flinch and answered every question without a hint of a grumble. This Izzy was free. He was open, unburdened, trusting. He was happy.

Sam's Izzy was the one that hurt the most to see. He could accept the worst that Hornigold could've offered, that he would have suffered and been broken. It was infinitely harder to see that he had a chance to be this happy. That it slipped through his fingers.

He's never looked back before, but now? Seeing what might've been? He can't stop himself from considering the possibility that maybe he made the wrong choice back then, going with Ed.

[17magpiesinatrenchcoat]

if you've played outer wilds, have you heard the lost reels yet? they're sort of like extra outer wilds songs...some reference the dlc if you haven't played that yet though

Ohh you mean the songs on the ost? I have played the dlc and seen the reels !! Yes yes the songs are very cool and so is the whole OST <3 my favourite songs are traveler’s encore (it made me cry my eyes out how could it noy be my favourite) final voyage(!!!!!!!!), sun station(the vibes. reaaaaaally adds to the moment) , the river(just. preeeetty), echoes of the eye (that entire sequence is incredible) and the search (aka the “I just found 10 minutes’ worth of information with 2 minutes left in the loop” song)

thank you for the asks!! also guys. you gotta play outer wilds.

ooooh you guys wanna play outer wilds so bad ooooh don’t look anything up about it just do it ooooh you wanna do it so bad

[sunbunnyyy]

i know i just got here, but seeing all of the laughably bad takes from both sides of the spectrum is convincing me that no, i don’t actually need to be on social media again.

[melit0n]

Just letting you guys know I agree with you all 100%. Vessel is so some little creature puffing himself up to look bigger and ii is just looking for a hole to hide in because he's shedding (peeled) or something. My favourite little crypids :D

[tio-trile]

This is about GOS2 but not quite -just wanted to tell you how refreshing (and calming) it is to see someone dislike something, or disagree with something, or someone (Neil, in this case) while being completely polite and respectful to people who do like it (the show, the ship, this season specifically, whatever) and not doing personal attacks or being insulting or downright hostile or aggressive. Just... Liking what you like, not liking what you don't like, and being in your own "bubble" so to speak. I adore the first season, and some moments in this one (not the season in general), and I've had to see and start avoiding absolutely wild stuff since 2019, from haughty superiority from book first fans calling people who liked the show absolute idiots, people directly attacking fanwork creators or even Tennant, Sheen and Gaiman themselves, to even worse stuff I'd rather not think about. As you can probably already imagine, that specific kind of dumpster fire has only gotten worse since the release of S2.

My take on fandom has always been to enjoy what you enjoy and ignore the rest unless it's something serious with real-world implications or consequences. It's always stressed me out how people can get, to the point that for several years I stopped engaging with fandom entirely, and I just wanted to say this, I guess, because it's been a breath of fresh air. I wish more people engaged with fictional material and fandom the way you do. Cheers, hope you have nice day and that this wasn't too weird of a message to get

This is really beautifully put, thank you for the nice message! Yeah all-in-all, these are just a show/a book/content made for people's entertainment, and there's absolutely no reason to get to the point of attacking the cast and crew or fans personally.

[fluxweeed]

hey. hope this message doesn't bother you. I love you. I love your work. you are one of my favorite fic authors, I am absolutely obsessed with everything you write. reread everything ten times over, drarry or not, fluffy or angsty - even when it absolutely shatters my heart (e.g. for lack of wanting, SUCH a great fic btw i'm so obsessed with it). the four doors? life changing. two to lie and one to listen? engraved into my brain for eternity. what's mine is yours? what a ride holy shit, im VERY normal about it. wrapped? my comfort read. and so it goes.

if I could aggressively smother you with kudos and love I WOULD!!!

awhile ago you said that there's no such thing as "big deals" in fandom and I 100% agree but at the same time you are a big deal TO ME!!! not in the sense of any kind of hierarchy but purely based on the fact that I think you are such a cool person and your writing is amazing and poignant and your presence in fandom makes it so much better. it's been a pleasure following you here on tumblr and just reading your tags and posts.

idk I just think you rule. that's it. thank you for hanging with us. MWAH 💛

ahhhh anon sorry for leaving this message sitting in my inbox for a couple of days but !! i have zero idea how to react to this!! you're so kind!! thank you!! please discard any and all inclinations u have that i am a cool person bc i can assure you i am NOT!!

[xejune]

hey, did you know? if you want me to draw something, you can pay me to do so!

my commissions are currently open (and likely will be so year-round!) and you can find the price sheet for them here -> commissions

[bluebellhairpin]

How come I always get an influx of certain messages from blogs that don't follow me after I make certain posts.

[slashersweethearts]

every time i ponder the meliwes orb i get a little emo out of guilt. i am so sorry white boy wes n i say this as melina’s #1 defender she did NOT deserve that boy 😭