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be critical of yourself in a way that lifts you up, which means: catch yourself when you're thinking mean things about yourself / correct yourself when you're imagining what negative opinions others might have about you / encourage yourself to do better next time in a gentler and more optimistic way / never strive for more without acknowledging how far you have already come. it's okay to be nice to yourself.
#why does nobody ever talk about how very difficult it actually is to genuinely be nice to yourself?#we are so often taught to be humble and to strive to do better#that it blurs the lines between being critical of ourselves and discrediting our efforts#we all want to be considered kind and pleasant people#but completely tend to remove ourselves from that equation#be nice to you! consistently! always!#mental health
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Send this to ten other bloggers that you think are wonderful!! Keep the game going, make someone smile!💖
SURPRISE
-Lexi Sun ☀️
FOUL BEAST, STAY BACK /J
Very much so kidding, but I will throw affection at your head for this one /pos
#PK Answers#Can't believe we're out here sending love and admiration /j#Won't fight you but I will send you a strongly worded paragraph /hj#You're so incredibly lovely and I'm glad we met because you're such a silly goose#And you make me smile just as much#You better be nice to yourself#This is a threat /lh
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who's afraid of the big bad wolf?
#brace yourself everyone. he's been trying to adapt his artstyle again#wolf link#loz#twilight princess#tp#tloz#tp link#zelda#legend of zelda#eye strain#artists on tumblr#my art#i had fun here . i think. i have GOT to get some better ideas at backgrounds but usually i just dont care... sad#but i have been told many times the shapes here are fun to look at so. i hope you enjoy. we will be twilight princess posting for a bit#so. be ready for that. maybe some non-loz stuff too depending on how im feeling#anyway have a nice day everyone ^_^#link#link legend of zelda#sorry. forgor to tag him
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🎵Talk me down!🎵
#Until I get better....#an art#sdr2#super danganronpa 2#fuyuhiko kuzuryu#danganronpa 2#hajime hinata#kuzuhina#A little winddown for me... completed some commissions#Much to think about. How nice to have someone to chill you out while you pick yourself up#Its a great song! Really got to me at the right time
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I hate to be that one person who’s like when ur so busy ur not consumed by other people or being in a relationship blah blah blah …. But truly when u have ur hands full you could fucking care less and it’s so liberating
#Like the moment you get busy the desperation to be seen by other ppl#Both platonically and romantically#Goes away so fast#I’m very dangerous when I’m in these moods bc it’s easy to push good ppl away when you’re too#Focused on yourself#But also I like not being that anxious about anyone#Like it’s not that deep#It’s its own kind of nice even though ik it’s such a slippery slope#Also the obsession to be in a relationship or the being scared of being alone goes away so fast#It truly sucks that the “have hobbies/goals” advice works so well but it DOES#Not that I’m advocating for anyone to be a hermit like ofc human connection still matters#The desperation is just not there so it’s much less high stakes if it’s not in ur life rn#Like how can you be wasting time if ur getting to know urself better
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#dimension 20#dungeons and drag queens#brennan lee mulligan#dropout#like yes of course the intrepid heroes one is exagerating but lol watching d&dq you can see such a difference#he's so nice and helping them in their first quest and explaining everything and accepting all their suggestions#but with the intrepid heroes it's “you better pray” and “explain yourself hilda hilda” and “real life take a test in the middle of a battle#🤣#my posts#also if someone has made this before i'm sorry i swear i haven't seen any posts like this#but it seemed like an obvious meme lol
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I'll take awhile before I can make this into a full proper post with explanation (and sketch illustration) of each segment, as well as the bird view from the market, entrance and a better view of the smithing corner buuuut have this for now~!
#hollow knight#fanxtended : colosseum of fools#fanxtended project#my art#like damn I really wanna work on this but in the same time#I wanna draw other stuff too#but no time#eventually I'll get to it *clinging to this so tightly I don't let go*#you would think the entrance might not be that important#but that's where most sponsors and betters hang out#as well as the prep zone#you want to find yourself a nice noble sponsor you wanna hang out there for a bit#as long as you made yourself known in the fights#also the gambling is all sorted there
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I wrote a long ass anecdote about how people may not be ready (for any reason) to talk to someone and set boundaries and how we should respect the courage it takes for some people to be able to do that and if it boils over into a fight then that’s ok too because people fight when they care and it gives both parties an opportunity to say things they wouldn’t normally say and then they both have a better insight into the other person and can start rebuilding their bond stronger than it was before because good friendships can withstand yelling and screaming at each other
But I couldn’t say all that and say “haha yes I’m sharing this personal experience from my life because of shuro dungeon meshi”
#I couldn’t do it#but anyways I understand you pathetic Asian man#I’m Asian too#you make me want to be better at self expression and setting boundaries#I was already do that#but it’s nice to see yourself in a character and see that character change for the better#it’s just nice#shuro#toshiro nakamoto#dungeon meshi#delicious in dungeon#*DOING dangit typos
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i dont know if this is a strange compliment but the way you dissect art is so amazing and something i can only aspire to do one day. you pick up on every little symbolism its wonderful! hope youre having a good day btw!
Oh, thank you! It's so nice to hear you think so!
I don't know about picking up on every little symbolism, but I really like art and I like talking about art. I'm just trying to look at it thoughtfully and (in some cases) do my best to let the artist know I paused to appreciate and ponder the piece.
#answered#anonymous#if dissecting art is something you're actually hoping to get better at you could try reading about analyzing art#it's not hard at all once you know the terminology and what parts of the piece you should pay extra attention to#you don't have to by any means but it can be very helpful if you're a visual artist yourself and there's tons of free guides online#have a nice day as well!
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it’s 2024 can we stop complaining about fanfics not following your headcanon just because the writer doesn’t view your favorite character the way that you do? what happened to scrolling away when you don’t like something
#or better yet write a fic yourself!#might get hate from this#if i get attacked it was nice knowing you all
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still stuck on porjai, visibly pregnant, flirting with night
who fucking goes for it
i only know the asian culture i grew up in, obviously, and not thai culture. but the social stigma of being unmarried and pregnant? and having the nerve to still be flirting?? that's not the Good Girl thing to do, and i remember the way the Not Good Girls were treated and talked about where i grew up
so porjai actively trying to get dates? night finding out she's pregnant with her ex's kid and just. being fine with that? big deal to me
#last twilight the series#am i stating the obvious? maybe i'm just stating the obvious#because if you 'fucked up and got yourself pregnant' then you'd better hang your head in shame#flirting? with a nice boy? when you're in *that* condition? shame on you he deserves better#can't say i've ever given much thought to this type of scenario popping up in my gay little shows but#shocked to see it happen#i know moonlight chicken had a pregnancy storyline but those two were already together. and planned to get married#this is a different thing#and it genuinely makes me emotional#wow i sound VERY bitter huh#oops
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"your eyes, Soran. your eyes are cursed."
#a tale of crowns#atoc#atoc if#interactive fiction#art#mine#*23#crown soran#i replayed atoc (its so good) bc i got the sudden urge to draw more 'historical' clothing. which im gonna go do now but this just appeared#you ever feel like yourself suddenly level up while drawing? yeah#tbf i did use a reference for this. man is surprised when shit looks better referenced than not < im man#but i've been feeling like my art is boring bland garbage lately so. its nice to draw smth and be pleasantly surprised
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oh hey a friend got me a dragon age pre-order as a late birthday present. I actually will get to experience the fandom in real time for once.
#'nice thing you couldn't really justify buying for yourself' remains one of the better use-cases of birthday/holiday presents#probably tmi
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actually. the specific phrasing that boy Kevin wants to kill older Kevin with "I must disassemble him, piece by piece, so that everything inside of the Old Kevin comes out. Only then can the New Kevin truly begin." is so incredibly the idea that to heal from trauma and "improve" you have to destroy every "wrong" part of yourself, that everything "tainted" by it has to somehow be replaced by something untouched (which isn't possible)
#reading back that phrasing I do think that'll be the way brinknor takes it#this arcs seeming like it'll be so. breaking the cycle of abuse and violence and coming to terms with yourself#and maybe understanding that you can never remove the parts of you impacted by trauma and start again completely ''pure''#but you can treat yourself with the kindness you should've been given#which i hope it is that because. and understand i am biased. but i'd love that direction for Kevin#it feels much more satisfying than any more. angsty way this arc could go imo#like he's been through enough!#because of the way Kevin is portrayed in fanon. not as frequently anymore but still pretty common. I worry about coming off as woobifying#by saying I want him to heal I want him to have nice things I think he deserves them#when he's also simultaneously Not A Good Person#yknow the poor little innocent cinnamon roll baby etc etc fanon#but. well for one im Not Like That about him. but my main point of bringing that up is. him not being a good person is why I want to see hi#get better and generally have a good life. why does someone have to be good to deserve to heal from trauma#especially when trauma is a big reason for the way they are#like its fiction yeah yeah i'm still tired of mentally ill people having to be ''good'' to ''deserve'' to get better yknow#i mean especially in fiction you tend to either see mental illness as the poor traumatized one who's allowed recovery because they're nice#or the insane psychopath who cant be ''fixed'' so ''deserves'' bad things-up to deserving to die!- for it#i didnt mean for this to be a rant erm. oops#wtnv#wtnv spoilers#joyousposting
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Hello trans girl with some belly fat. Please look at the image of Falin Touden with her tummy hanging down while she kisses Marcille you reblogged with the caption "She's so pretty!" With 7 different heart emojis.
Alright thank you for looking. Now will you please direct your attention to this Tummy Tuesday photo of yourself which you posted for 3 minutes and then deleted.
Alright please note the similarities between these. In detail please.
No you can't leave. I'll need this in writing from you before the restraints can be removed.
#its me#im the trans girl with tummy fat that is scared of showing tummy hang#been trying to get better with it#unironically falin helps#woman is built like a fertility goddess and baby im on my knees praying#im realizing as i type these tags that this post is structured like if jigsaw was a therapist#which like honestly some folks need that#wake up groggy in a basement and you cant leave until you say 3 nice things about yourself and no they cant all be about your hair
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It's deeply important to me that Loop kind of sucks
#they are literally awesome but they do kinda suck. just a tad#mostly as in i keep thinking about lucabyte's comics. they are critical to me#i love isat's postcanon as a space to explore recovery and communication#but sometimes you kind of have to drag urself through glass to get there. sometimes the glass sticks in ur skin and makes u prickly#i think constantly about like. loop being surprised by siffrin's kindness if u choose to be nice to them in certain dialogue options.#remarking about how time has made them jaded more than he is#loop is fundamentally kind. but they are scantly ever 'nice'#i think if loop joins the party it's inevitable that they are going to make each other bristle up#loop has a difficult time with all of the party members. between the guilt and the loss and them just not being capital s Siffrin#and to the party who only knows loop from one interaction and siffrin's apparent care for them i think loop would come off. abrasive at bes#like. like i dont think loop would act the same with the party that they do siffrin. their mask is very Piss Siffrin Off specialized#but how much of ur persona is an act and how much of it is yourself. or whatever. loop wouldn't want to be mean to their friends sure#but it's much easier not to hurt if you wedge some distance. no better way to get that distance by being offputting. i think isabeau esp#would get the brunt of this. poor man#plus there's just hte general fact that like. nobody likes the feeling of talking to somebody who clearly knows too much about them. who#will never show their own cards. added with the fact that there's just an inherent strangeness w loop. where they have a relationship to#siffrin thru the loops that none of the party members will ever grasp (and in a way they cant even guess frankly!)#i just have a hard time seeing loop's assimilation into the party as going smooth and nice. you know. i think the party members would think#that loop kinda sucks a little. i think loop would let them think this. all of this being said this is not irreconcilable or permanent#but i like there to be growing pains for the party's expansion. i won't even get into nille bc this aint abt her but yah#the lucky thing loop is you made friends with a lot of really nice people who would being willing to get to know you again.#isat spoilers
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