#Well-Intentioned White People
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I'ts like there's a rope attached to my chest and it keeps pulling me towards you. And it feels so right. - Red, White and Royal Blue (2023)
"On purpose. I love him on purpose." - Red, White and Royal Blue, chapter 13, by Casey McQuiston
#rwrb#rwrbedit#red white and royal blue#firstprince#it's a different place in the book but rewatching i felt the expressions on henry's face show this description by bea from the book so well#and yeah im a bit sad we didnt get this quote directly in the movie but all the intention alex felt was there!#he was already in love. on purpose!!#and henry is panicking bc he worries about everything but cares too much for alex too#im just rlly happy we get to see more scene's from henry's POV bc that was rlly missing in the book and we only caught glances#from people around him but now we can actually see it and it was done so well#rwrb book#rwrb spoilers#rwrb movie#prince henry fox mountchristen windsor#alex claremont diaz#henry x alex#mine#gif:rwrb#gif:movies#lgbt#lgbtedit#lgbtq
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Broke (2016): BBC Sherlock is a phenomenal piece of media and anything that seems like a flaw just hasn't been fully explored yet
Woke (2020): BBC Sherlock is an incredibly flawed series run by an egotistical writer, it never deserved the hype and is actively bad on so many fronts (especially representation)
Bespoke (2024): BBC Sherlock is flawed and bogged down by increasingly poor writing, which many fans refused to see while it was airing, leading to hugely misplaced expectations (particularly for the final series), AND it has the seeds of some compelling characterizations and portrayals, some genuinely solid performances, and touches--albeit imperfectly--on complexities that are still being discussed today (particularly as it relates to the relationship between Sherlock and John). The huge cultural impact of the show has created a massive pendulum effect in its public perception, leading to most people today remembering a caricature of the show (whether positive or negative) rather than appreciating its nuanced merits and failings...that being said Season 4 sucked
#these just sum up my personal takes at the years in question and also what i'm seeing on tumblr/other social media#bbc sherlock#sherlock holmes#and i actually have a lot more thoughts to share on this series#specifically relating to the cultural impact#there is SO much about the show that goes unappreciated in hindsight because of how public perception of it has soured#and i totally fell into this as well--i still regularly rewatch hbomberguy's video absolutely dismantling the series and he isn't wrong!!#but what i'm saying is that i think it's easy for us to look at a piece of media (especially one so massively popular) like sherlock...#with very black-and-white lenses. it wouldn't have become so popular if there wasn't something inherent in it that resonated with people#and that's being buried (and i totally forgot it) because 'sherlock is cringe and problematic. can't believe i liked that'#which again it IS full of issues and those are well-documented as they should be. future portrayals should not repeat those mistakes#BUT being able to impact so many people is a merit in itself. and that's only possible because of other genuinely good things about the show#yes the way they handled the relationship between john and sherlock was riddled with problems YES it was often queerbaiting#AND the way they portrayed that relationship had a deep effect on me. i saw a lot of myself in sherlock and the complex way he loved john#the nuanced feelings he had about john's marriage to mary. the part (in s4!) where john calls him inhuman for not feeling romantic love#there was genuine intention and care put into some parts of this show and it comes through in scenes like those. they impact people.#and because of this realization i'm going to (eventually) do a rewatch of the show. i'm much older and i want to see how i'll view it now#but i want to go into it--and i want everyone who engages with it still--to have an open mind and evaluate it for what it is#not what we expected it to be (secret episode anyone?) or what the cultural drift has turned it into (the tiktok of sherlock's mind palace)#but the messy problematic somewhat-heartfelt massively significant and ultimately meaningful piece of media it actually was#anyway that's my thoughts would love to hear y'all's perspectives#funny how after all this time making a sherlock post still feels like i'm poking a bees' nest lol please be kind!#kay can i just catch my breath for a second#kay has a party in the tags
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the fact that most of the people in this fandom don’t even seem to like the books😭if you didn’t enjoy canon why the fuck are you here. fandom is for nerds. this “fuck canon, canon doesn’t matter, well sirius and remus were ~straight~ in canon so i hate it!” shit is actively anti nerd. deeply annoying and also not even technically true.
#marauders era#anti marauders fanon#anti marauders fandom#harry potter#Post#vent#“Sirius and Remus were straight in canon” show me the paragraph where it says that🤨 oh you can’t#Just because our heteronormative society wants you to assume everyone is straight until proven otherwise doesn’t mean you have to#🫢#shit jkr said on twitter long after all the books were published doesn’t matter guys what are you people on about#“Death of the author” until it means you can say “well jk meant for all the characters to be cishet and white so we can fundamentally#Mischaracterize the marauders and co all we want”#Use your own goddamn brain and come up with interpretations for yourself please#Fandom started because of love of canon why are you so intent on denying that
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More corroboration from my screenwriting course:
I always say check your predictions against the themes and guess what motherfuckers. I was told to come up with a story idea based on the theme I want it to execute and that it would likely change over the process everything but the theme.
So basically if you don't know what story you wanna tell, start with what message you wanna communicate. Everything is flexible but that.
Bitches, we knew this, but credible confirmation for the win.
#themes#byler themes#stranger things#byler#straight white man beats all odds of oppression by having girlfriend out of his league#anti milkvan#“there's more nuance than that!” yes in the CHARACTERS#because it is a well written story.#not to mention that would literally by counteracting the entire message of dustin's romance which is don't date people because they give yo#a sense of value#so not only not consistent but contradictory#that would be one thing but i literally would not (and did not) fucking comment on it if they hadn't written in an alternate option for him#you would here nary a peep from me because i love things on purpose...but they went on wrote an alternate love interest. who was better in#the scheme of the work's intention as a whole
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im begging people to turn on the post dates for your feed bc sometimes i see ppl rb advice with good intentions but the advice is from 2010-2017 and therefore is WILDLY outdated!!!! and that's not good!!!!!
#personal#like well intentions are one thing#but advice from that time period esp abt very important things like healthcare finances homelessness etc is VERY outdated#as someone who lived thru some of the shit recently that ppl rb this stuff abt#like please please please i am begging#this information/advice is not timeless! nd changes CONSTANTLY#and PLEASE READ THE POSTS CRITICALLY????#i saw someone rb a homelessness advice post recently that suggested hitchhiking to the midwest or south which is TERRIBLE advice-#-if u arent a thin white cis (passing) str8 (passing) able bodied person!!!!#which lbr the ppl most affected by homelesness are queer & trans & mentally/physically ill black & brown ppl#ive seen posts being shared saying that homelessness isn't THAT bad if u just shop cheap - whcih is ALSO not true??????#im harping a little on homelessness bc thats admittedly some of the biggest shit ive seen w/ this issue#but yeah just. please turn on the dates and use criitcal thinking b4 rbing any and all “advice” posts#there Are people out there who write well intentioned advice that is extremely dangerous#there are people out there who wrote advice that was good for when it was posted but not now#there are even ppl out there who write fake advice that is legitimately dangerous for people to do#just. please
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See, I think the thing about deranged, toxic relationships in fiction, is that everyone involved has to actively choose to walk into or keep coming back to this relationship. That's the interesting part for me. What would make someone, against every single ounce of reason, decide that being in a relationship like that is genuinely worth it for them? Why would someone willingly put themselves in that situation? What has to be going on in their psyche? What do they get (or think they get) out of it?
If the toxicity is one-sided or one party is completely railroaded into the relationship at every turn until they finally cave, or there's some outside force trapping both of them in the relationship and they don't actually want to be there, that's not particular interesting to me, personally.
(Obviously, other people can disagree with this; people have a wide variety of opinions and ways they engage with fiction, which is good, actually. I'm simply talking about my own thoughts.)
#also. and I had a conversation about this a while ago with a friend: the versions of this I gravitate toward tend to be ones that...aren't#well-loved by fandom. there are some examples of Complex Toxic Dynamics that ARE praised and popular and end up as examples of#Love Stories Of All Time. but those are...even if it wasn't necessarily INTENTIONAL. those relationships become palatable in some way#to the wider audience. and. I think you all know by now: I am not interested in being palatable#(obviously there are some exceptions to this: like people really like The Fucked-Up Soulmates from one of the movies of all time di revenge#*do. I'm on mobile & I'm lazy I'm not retyping all that)#(and dr/master has a fair amount of love--even if I wouldn't say it's The™ ship of the fandom at large)#but I think...idk. there are some examples of this where it seems like the creators are trying SO hard to make the toxic romance somehow#palatable or relatable to the audience. or like...done in a way to try and make the audience actively root for it.#and again part of the appeal TO ME. is that the people are allowed to be deranged in ways that AREN'T accepted or (how many times can#I use this word) palatable. or 'likable'. the appeal is that they're on the fringes of society and usually that includes 'within#the fandom/audience of the media they're from'#(I think...also. I just see so many toxic '''conventionally attractive''' white men irl. I'm a lot more likely to enjoy a dynamic if it#involves at least one character who isn't that demographic)#okay I need to go to BED#GOOD NIGHT
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Alien Romulus was cool but I have to say the dynamic between the white girl main character and her Black synthetic brother was like. Idk. That was definitely a choice the writers made
#personally it kind of seems like making the main character a black girl would have been more interesting#especially in a franchise where like. it’s always a white woman alive (even if in danger) at the end. idk.#I get that most characters die in Alien movies but like. idk#film#oh also this is definitely the third or so Black android character who was like#the innocent little brother type. one of the others being in BBC Humans.#which is also reflective of other tropes about Black men characters who are like. more or less managed by a well intentioned white mc 😐#which is DEFINITELY a choice#idk being critical of media is not saying that it’s bad nor is it saying that people who enjoy it are bad people#but pointing out choices the writers made and asking why those choices were made!#alien#OH and the fact she was going to (spoiler) abandon him 😀 what a choice!!!#JUST to be clear I love Andy the character it’s just… everyone else?????? idk#and yes I get that he’s autistic coded but my point stands
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i think it's a little concerning that ppl watch dune 2 and don't realize that paul is a villain
#is it not obvious what he is when he makes the fremen attack the emperor under the atreides house banner?#the fremen just want to not have their planet exploited for a valuable natural resource and be able to terraform it as they wish#wtf do they care about paul's stupid egomaniacal war#he's not trying to destroy the empire he's becoming the emperor hello?#it's cleanly exposed in the first movie that the bene gesserit purposefully fomented religious myth about the 'messiah' so the fremen#would fall under the control of the kiswatz haderach which is a figure they created#i'm sorry i just lose my mind when people call dune a great movie (it's just good) and then seemingly don't even understand#what they're seeing#he's not even a well-intentioned 'white saviour' who's doomed to fail ala lawrence of arabia#(now that's a great movie and herbert's inspo for dune)#he's just using the fremen to achieve his goals which is control of the imperial machine#he's not liberating anyone lmao
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on reflection the term WASP ie white anglo saxon protestant is kind of strange to me given that the anglo saxons were invaded and colonised by the normans
#i understand the intent is to signify white english speaking people of european origin who are not catholic irish scottish or welsh#but like. anglo saxon?#and then it’s like ohh but the norman’s were french and and. well it all becomes a bit silly then
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Hey so I doubt anybody cares about this given that my blog has like, 50 followers and half of them are inactive or old friends, but if anybody's been wondering why I have so few posts on here about Israel compared to other political issues it's because I'm not putting anything on here that isn't credibly sourced. I noticed quite a few posts containing misconceptions and some straight up hoaxes early on and I've just really not noticed anybody start to think more critically since then, so I'm just not posting anything unless I can take the time to verify it.
I think a large part of this is just that I'm on the English side of the internet and most people are not able to read Hebrew and Arabic so there's just going to be more misinformation than American current events. But ngl, there's been some stuff that I really can't understand why anybody would not immediately flag as a hoax unless motivated by anti-Arab racism or antisemitism of the conspiratorial variety.
Also I just have complicated feelings because I grew up very involved with Judaism and my first Rabbi was a hardcore Israeli Zionist, and I also spent a lot of time at Chabad which was also quite Zionist. So while from a logical & moral standpoint I am, as far as I can tell, quite anti-Zionist, there's just some personal feelings in the mix that are hard to let go of. So I'd rather not invite conversation unless it's with people I trust to be understanding because I grew up with an extremely biased view on this and there might be some ideas I still hold without realizing they're motivated by my upbringing and not the reality of the situation.
Again, I can say with 100% certainty that Israel's actions since October 7th have been reprehensible and that it is their actions in the years before that led things to this point, and that I wish Israel had at the very least not had such heavy British colonial influence in its' founding, if it was ever possible to found a morally good Jewish state in the first place.
#uh if you absolutely most know my exact opinion on things to follow me you're always free to message me#I just don't want other people's posts on here unless it's literally just a link to an article that I can go read & verify#After that whole Israeli troops are stealing Palestinians organs things I am just kind of. Not very trustful anymore#Or all the nonsense about Palestinians IQs or stuff about beheading babies that as far as I can tell is totally unfounded#Or the all the Jews need to go to Europe/New York/Just kill them all stuff#Just. There's a lot of random Americans with zero stake in this saying fucking whatever online#And when you've positioned everything as like. You need to have an opinion on this or you're a bad person#When there's also massive amounts of misinfo that also conveniently creates black and white narratives#It's just. Not a good combination! And a lot of well intentioned but ill informed people will blindly fall for it#So just. Trying to stick to stuff that I know can actually directly help people
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@yukeet 🥺🥺!!!
#nice things#yukeet tag#okayokay a lot of people think it’s a Ghostbur reference but it actually *isn’t* :0#not intentionally at least#I really just chose the username because I liked all the individual words & I liked how they sounded together :)#I like ghosts & the color blue & sweaters quite a bit!!#the fact that it doubles as a Ghostbur reference is AMAZING AND MAKES ME SO HAPPY but it wasn’t intentional XD#haunted but not in the evil way… 🥺#that’s so freakin pretty and I really like that <33#okayokay YOUR URL IS VERY NEAT#I don’t#really know what it means :0 ajsgajsgkagskag#but it’s fun!!#yukeet :)#it matches your pfp very well in my opinion#like Yes yukeet is a little doodle on a white background yes yes#polls
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I’m 15 minutes into S3 and it’s already started off strong. A random Rumple wardrobe change lampshaded by Hook, great moments between the Charmings, and our first look at the uncaring childish cruelty of Neverland.
#i am so excited for the neverland plot i remember this part!#my thoughts on s2 were simple: it was great#a really intense focus on plot while still keeping everything intimately tied to the main characters and their arcs#i like this theme of choosing the easy path over the hard path#even though it seems like the right choice at the time#and interestingly rumple serves as the catalyst for those choices most of the time#he chooses the easy path—murder and violence—over the hard path of finding a compromise#and a lot of the time his intentions are good or at least understandable#and he guides people to make those decisions as well like with snow white and killing cora#but he can simultaneously give emma speeches about faith and belief and says some beautiful wise things even couched in his cynicism#and regina and hook serve as foils to this#they want to take the easy path but regina at least is (very slowly) learning that it will cost her the very thing she’s fighting to get#while hook had an entire somewhat random monologue about what happens after revenge? what will his life be? what has he spent it doing?#that shows he’s had plenty of thought already about his views on life#wow that was rambling and incoherent but i really liked s2! i watched it far more quickly than s1#ouat liveblog#ouat#muse watches
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i want more nuance to be entered into the discussion of the green girl sorority and how differently cynthia plays elphaba in comparison to those who came before her because while a lot of people are rightfully like "why was elphaba not black from the beginning" and celebrating that she is now being played by a black woman, i think we need to be careful in just writing off all the elphabas of the past as Random White Girls when the role was championed (and often followed/succeeded) by a jewish woman
the pop culture archetype of the Wicked Witch has deep roots in antisemitism stretching faaaar far back. there is a level of reclamation happening in casting idina menzel, a jewish woman, to play the Misunderstood and Maligned young girl who is branded as exactly that. and stage!Elphaba is also written and acted with jewish stereotypes in mind--she is loud, aggressive, no-nonsense, blunt. she is quick to advocate for herself and shut down the discrimination she faces. all of this is very intentional! her personality is abrasive from years of abuse, and that makes propagandizing her easy. this is literally the thesis statement of the musical--it's not about aptitude, it's the way you're viewed.
cynthia's performance of elphaba is fucking INSPIRED despite going in a completely different direction. she's much more reserved, analytical, one of her key character traits is how well she can read people (see her calling out Galinda as insecure/putting on airs in their first scene together, clocking that Fiyero is using his party guy persona as a shield for his own depression) elphaba's attempts to blend in and make herself smaller all fail simply because of her existence, if not that then because she feels empathy so strongly she often struggles to hold back from acting, protecting.
personality wise, though, cynthia's elphaba is very quiet and closed-off, not at all the bullet-to-the-face that she is in the stage show, and... she still gets propagandized and maligned. though this seems to contradict the other interpretation, it tells of the other end of the spectrum of propaganda, one that black women watching (and many, MANY other marginalized folks) are sure to identify with--it does not matter how "nice," how reserved, how small a black woman makes herself. a racist society will still scrutinize her every action for a way to parse ill intent from it, brand her as an angry black woman who is dangerous and wicked, and write off any humanity she has in the process.
these two very different interpretations tell of the lie of assimilation. the fact of the matter is, when you are marginalized, there is no way to sand down your edges enough to make the people oppressing you "accept" you. that is why wicked is a tragedy at its core. whether loud and aggressive or quiet and unimposing, there is nothing elphaba could have done to make the people of Oz see her as anything other than a scapegoat to blame all their problems on.
so while i definitely appreciate that people are excited for black girl era elphaba, i would encourage us all to still show appreciation for what came before--that was not white girl era elphaba. that was jewish girl era elphaba. two houses, both alike in dignity, two stories both worth being told.
#wordy wendy#wicked#wicked movie#wicked 2024#wendy rambles#wendy meta#honestly i get chills whenever im watching the movie#and it gets to 'her green skin is a twisted manifestorial of her true nature#' what a wham line. literally makes me sick to hear.
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Scrolling through the tags when I saw this and just sat with it for a bit. really well said, prev!!

dan live on australian morning show said: "we're the guys that made your daughters hair blue, we're the person that made them a boy, maybe theyre a them now but you gotta love them because if you don't we will and that is a threat"
#and god it’s rly beautiful how for such a long while they were kind of accidentally creating this community#just by being atypical themselves#they drew in a fanbase of people (4 gs) who saw elements of d&p that resonated#but now they’re nurturing that community and coveting it and calling it what it is.#the way the community formed was fully inevitable by nature of who they are#and they could've just let it stay a happy accident but instead because their identities and their fans’ identities became so inextricably#linked through their own coming out journeys and self expression coinciding with that of their fans'#now its intentional and embraced and named and seen and the way we map on to one another is made visible by d&p the blueprints themselves#but then it's like well no are they the blueprint or are their fans the blueprint in this situation#or let's be real is like marsha p washington the blueprint like shut up @me about these white gays#but i know you all know what i mean. VERY is it them or is it me energy. anyway. it's special to see them give shape and words to the thing#that was happening around them for so long by sheer inevitability
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I'm probably not the best person to make this observation bc I am White TM and not especially well-versed in rap music's history, but what is this phenomenon going on in my notes about Kendrick having the red/white/blue dancers stand in a trans flag formation?
So many people are like "i doubt this was on purpose" girl. it's Kendrick Lamar. He is known for being extremely involved in his dancers' choreography, having multilayered symbolism in his performances- which this entire show was full of- being an activist, winning a fucking Pulitzer, being tightly in control of his own image and how he presents himself to the media, and has trans family members that he has not only openly spoken about but has an entire song about.
You think every single thing about his superbowl performance was intentional except this one thing? You think the dancers just happened to sort themselves out in the unique 5 bar gradient formation that literally only the trans flag has that no other flag has? Why? Why the fuck would that be? You think they all just did this by divine coincidence?

Why is it so unbelievable to y'all that a known activist, with known support for the trans community, would show the trans flag on purpose? Why is it so unbelievable to y'all that a Black man would care about trans people? I didn't see this "oh they don't care, oh all celebrities are fake" shit getting thrown at Lady Gaga or Chappell Roan two weeks ago at the grammys. Yeah they're both queer, but they arent trans. Why is the reaction to two cis white celebrities "omg they're so brave, this is so important" -which, btw, is the correct reaction- but to a Black dude it's just doubt, squabbling discourse, and crickets?
And I'm not even posting the vile racist filth I've been getting in my inbox, straight up confirming this pattern. Like someone please correct me if I'm overstepping but I am fucking flabbergasted by this reaction to Kendrick's allyship and it disgusts me.
#kendrick lamar#trans#transgender#trans pride#trans positivity#transblr#queer community#queer pride#queer#queer positivity#superbowl
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#I can't stop thinking about the parallels between Eden and Kalpas#Was it done on purpose? At times it doesn't feel like it#At times it feels more that instead of very conscious and intently weitten like that it was more a coincidence#derivative from the recurring themes and parallels in ideas roles character and situations that thread all the Flame Chasers together#and make of them a cohesive whole#But wow the parallels bwtween Eden and Kalpas specifically are so good#I've been thinking about them for days sometimes quite intensely#I haven't even reached that part of the story yet and still here I am#At this point the actual development of the story and the writing of these details is bound to disappoint me#It shines so beautifully in my mind and with such a particular glow#Like one of those cups or calices made our of seashells#I talk too much#I can't believe an idol and an alien are all I've been thinking of for hours now#Normally alien and idol are tropes I couldn't care less for#Yet somehow I'm invested#And somehow I am very invested in this lame ass man#I can't believe I initially disliked and found kind of disgusting then got very fond of a man with white hair with black details#and something over his face that has a lot of anger issues but is sort of very gentle in his way‚#fact that shows not only in his behaviour but even his preferences and hobbies#but nonetheless he is quite shy and detached from people with a few exceptions‚ a pink haired woman his closest most trusted person#and sort of friend but not quite but also deeper than that at the same time#And this has happened twice#I can't see Guzm.a without seeing Kalpas now and the other way round#They both sit the same way‚ wear short sleeved jackets over a t-shirt with a wide neckline‚ both are obsessed with destruction#and breaking things and the sound they make while doing that‚ both screan rude things all the time‚#both find pretty much everyone stupid and annoying both share a feeling of alienation and unbelonging#Both take care of a bunch of kids in a way#Guz.ma's ending in the manga may be my favourite writing in the whole history of Pokemo.n‚ and N exists!#Otto/Kalpas situation tbh I can't stand myself#Get a grip look at that very well written character with all the traits and thematic you most enjoy. What are you doing with this guy
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