#We all grieve in different ways

[the-muppet-joker]

Are you doing okay now ? how’s the grieving process ?

Mostly thinking about getting various old men pregnant

[themoonandtheseafarer]

Considering buying a metric fuck ton of yuri on ice doujinshi since I can't buy merch for a movie that doesn't won't exist. Send me recs so I can make a list!

[s-lycopersicum]

In lieu of lamenting about my phone's not-so-sudden move to that big farm upstate, I will be reblogging cute girls.

Surely you understand.

[tinylilvalery]

Jokes on you I actually think Connor visiting his dead dad is really healthy. He's finding peace. He's doing what he needs to do in order to completely come to term with Logan's death. If that means spending time with his dead dad in order to accept things and move on and live for himself (rather than whatever the fuck Ken, Rom, and Shiv are up to) then good for him.

[backpackofposts]

One time my sister and I brought a deck of Uno cards to the cemetery and we lost to our Dad

The man is fucking dead! Me and my sister had to take turns playing his cards for him! How did we lose!?

don't y9u think it's kind of fucked up and immoral that you go walking around dead people's resting places for fun

do i think going for a walk in a cemetery that's open to the public 24/7 with a footpath and garden and everything is fucked up and immoral? no??? what the fuck???????????

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

I want it back / I drag its dead weight forward.

[sirlancenotalot]

the fact that people still use the "no one would talk to a friend that way" "no one would grieve for someone like that if it was just platonic" etc arguments to prove a ship is canon is so annoying to me. yes i get it, we got queerbaited hard but where does it say that romance has to be higher than a friendship or no one said friends couldn't also be lovers or vice versa....? i normally say "popular media tropes that usually are for romance" when i talk about fiction but pulling a blanket statement like "NO ONE talks to a friend that way" is so invalidating to so much of our queer experiences. the beauty of queer friendship literally lies in the emotional fulfilment we get from our friends in a way that i don't normally see in cishet friendships for whatever reasons. so idk it's just been bothering me to see these kinds of posts every now and then. "you wouldn't do [x] for your friends" i would actually. i would sell my soul for them. i would kill for them and kill myself for them. i would do anything for my friends that i would do for a partner. the "proof" for a ship doesn't have to be by invalidating their friendship. also like aren't most of the ships so powerful when they're also each other's closest friends? do y'all not think of your partners as your best friends?

[toadstool32]

Au in which Danny dies visibly in public but bc he's a half ghost he doesn't like, die *die* he comes back but people saw so whoops guess I'm dead for real and he hides away for a bit until like a week later or whatever comedic timing is better he just appears back at his house and if someone ask he's not Danny the guy who died last week he's uh Jonny the newly adopted Fenton kid

[stagefoureddiediaz]

Currently feeling a bit feral over the fact that Natalia means Christmas Day - as in the birth of Jesus Christ and Bucks story is so heavily leaning into the birth death and resurrection of Christ - the saviour - as a central part of his narrative arc. Her presence is literally about the birth of buck - as in processing his grief about why he was born - as a saviour baby.

[uncanny-tranny]

I think as we grow up, we have to be really conscious of romanticizing the world we grew up in in order to scorn how the next generations are growing up.

Nostalgia isn't inherently bad, but especially in political spaces, be very wary of this idea that there is an Ideal Past we must Harken Back To.

It sucks to feel left behind, but such is the human condition. It isn't bad to feel nostalgic, but that doesn't mean that these new generations are inherently "lost" and "need to be saved (by you)", and I think that is very important to remember and try to be conscious of.

[ificouldflytotheclouds]

There are so many thoughts.

I can't imagine being asked to make a statement when you are just beginning to navigate news yourself.

Grief is a funny thing. It shows up in so many ways. It pops up when you least expect it, and sometimes, you're numb when you think you should be sobbing. I think grief, to a degree, lasts a lifetime. It's a love, a heartbreak that will always be a part of the tapestry of your life.

If feel like this will become a thread, because thoughts, opinions, emotions, morph and evolve over time and I want to honor that.

Also unlike childhood, time is limited in ways that make grief inconvenient, where there isn't enough time, even though sometimes what we need is to sit in it.

[the-muppet-joker]

make a fleshlight out of the ashes fukkkkk so hornytyyyy fuuckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

Bitch I might I'm craaaaaaaaazy 🤪 Ha Ha Ha L O L!

[curiosity-killed]

i love my sister and for the most part, we are very close and genuinely like each other a lot but the one place where i'd just really, really, really like to see inside her brain is the part where she is still incredibly comfortable and cheerful—and even thinks it's really funny—talking about how much she didn't like me as a child while I'm like. yes. I am and was aware. and it sucked so so so much

[carefulfears]

thinking about tena taking the photos of her children out of the frames and burning them before she died and mulder’s first reaction being “this is all she had left of us”

and how he could’ve said “this is all she had left of her,” but he didn’t, and he’s right. it is all there was left of them. all there was left of two kids playing baseball and arguing over a board game. all there was left of him before he was walking into the same room every day, before he was chasing ghosts, before no one talked about it.

all there was left of there being nothing to chase, of being still, of being a whole person to someone, knowing where you stand in the world.

it’s all she had left of her children, together and complete for some of the last times, and it’s crime scene evidence to cover up.

[drumlincountry]

Today I did something for palestine and then I went to a car boot sale and got a 🚨€15 book case 🚨. Then I built some planters to plant my courgettes in and I fed the birds and I cooked raspberry brownies and broccoli and egg fried rice. I listened to my audiobook and went for a walk. And the whole time I was dwelling more than I should on old friends I don't speak with anymore (for good reason). Feeling lonely and in pain and also judging myself for feeling so lonely and in pain. Because of the good reason. But what does judging myself achieve! Loneliness and pain can be tools we use. I used mine to make brownies which i'm bringing to a friend who could use them. And to sing with my partner in the kitchen. and to bring the bookcase in from the car.

[longagoitwastuesday]

I actually like the last chapter. I think the ideas are very good. I have my qualms on how some things were managed, as I always do, but I think shonen authors get tangled in the expectations of a shonen to the point it jeopardises their writing, often even when they're not lacking in skills