#WOMEN DO NOT HAVE TO BE PERFECT
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every time i hear someone say camilla was the only charter they liked i lose my mind BECAUSE THATS NOT CAMILLA THAT WHO RICHARD WISHED SHE WAS WE NEVER!! KNEW!! CAMILLA!!
#can you tell me one thing about camilla?? her favorite color her birthday anything?? can you tell me her flaws and her strengths??#this applies to francis too btw#HE TOOK ADVANTAGE OF CHARCLES AND RICHARD LIKE I LIKE HIM TOO BUT DONT IGNORE THAT??#LET CAMILLA BE A BITCH GUYS PLS#WOMEN DO NOT HAVE TO BE PERFECT#camilla macaulay#the secret history#donna tartt#hot take: camilla is as flawed as the rest of them
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The peach tree beams so red, How brilliant are its flowers!
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#jiang yanli#jiang cheng#wei wuxian#The maiden's getting wed; Good for the nuptial bowers.#I *know* she's not actually pregnant here and her request for WWX to name her son is more of an honourary thing.#But there is something so funny to me about the idea of JYL breaking the news of her pregnancy in such a casual way.#In my heart she did pounce on that peacock boy before the wedding. Ripped him to shreds and sewed him back together.#I think JYL should have a moment of not being the perfect society women and daughter.#She has been stuck in this role for her whole life! But dear god do I love to see her make small defiances.#Her role is to be a good daughter/sister. Then a good wife and good mother. But she did that on *her* terms!#She never took the 'easy' way out. Her reserved nature concealed someone who chose to be covert in doing what she felt was right.#I love you JYL and your kindness and generosity despite her status. I love you for pursuing your first love with tenacity.#I love you for sneaking out and showing off your wedding dress to the brother who wishes he could be there to see it.#Perhaps I think she deserves a few moments of being a true older sibling and inflicting psychic damage.#The sibling reaction shot in the final panel is very much inspired by my own horrors of learning too much about my siblings.#It's not about being a prude or sex negative. It's 100% about “I don't want to know!!! Untell me that shit right now!!!”
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persuasion, jane austen / simone de beauvoir / dirge without music, edna st. vincent millay .
#yes jack & bobby were great but without these women? they wouldn’t have gone very far and i mean that#they have been stereotyped and stashed away in the background but they were so vital to the success & longevity of the kennedy family/legac#not saying they were perfect#by any means#. however the dull lazy and misogynistic lens they’ve always been placed under is annoying#and none of the kennedy’s were perfect anyway so#still fuck joe senior though!#and i do feel like their stories do deserve to be recontextualized#men wrote about these women first and we’ve stuck with their preconceived notions ever since.#despite being made to believe that they were accessories to the men -> so much of their hard work service and efforts have had#so much impact and the ripple effects are felt to this day#kennedy web weaving#kennedy women#jackie kennedy#rose kennedy#eunice kennedy shriver#jean kennedy#ethel kennedy#pat kennedy#joan kennedy#women#web weaving#womanhood#jane austen#simone de beauvoir#kennedy family#jfk#rfk
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idk how exactly to word this exactly but in the same vein that homestuck fans demonize jane they put roxy on this pedestal of being the perfect angel. except roxy is.. just as much of an asshole as the rest of the alpha kids? obviously her alcoholism effects her in her earlier depictions but like. she still pushes her friends boundaries. she sents that virus to jane that blows up her computer. she constantly hits on dirk despite acknowledging his sexuality and his lack of interest, telling janes secrets to jake with minimal pushing. i love roxy, dont get me wrong, but ignoring her flaws and acting like shes incapable of acting selfish, mean or hurting her friends (JUST LIKE THE REST OF THE ALPHAS DO) is stupid. you dont like roxy if you only like the idea of her as a flawless person.
#homestuck#alpha kids#hating on main again!#sorry i have. gripes#roxy lalonde#it pisses me ooooffffffffff#its a disservice to her character#honestly id say its just as misogynistic to portray roxy as a perfect angel as it is to portray jane is a vindictive evil demon#because like. youre still stripping these girls of their actual personalities and nuance even if in completely opposite directions#like you say you support womens wrongs but.. Do You Really
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the phenomenon of taking guy characters and turning them into women in mcyt and mcyt-adjacent fandoms due to a shortage/lack of well-written and engaging female characters needs to be studied i think. this isnt a gripe with transfem hcs i love transfem hcs but im just wondering. why go out of ur way to take a male character and slap she/her pronouns on him when you could instead read or watch something with good prevalent female characters that are very well written already? like. there's a fucking Pattern with the characters ppl hc as transfem. its always the kind and loving level-headed voices of reason that get the transfem beam. why do you think the soft and kind male character who's meek and mild and folds easily under pressure is the one who's a woman. why is that. huh. why. answer quick.
#if u want women...... find a media with women perhaps.......#and half the time when ppl make a character transfem *cough ctommy cough* they completely change their entire personality#if ctommy was a girl he would NOT be a cute soft flowery girl he would be covered in dirt and eating bugs#if ashe were a girl he would not be wearing perfect makeup and being pretty and girly he would still be a sulky antisocial gnc emo kid#if ur gonna make trans hcs DO IT RIGHT!!!#otherwise u should just make an oc at that point#sry. having a Moment#whiskey yelling into the void
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"Willoughby could not hear of her marriage without a pang; ... For Marianne, however, in spite of his incivility in surviving her loss, he always retained that decided regard which interested him in every thing that befell her, and made her his secret standard of perfection in woman; and many a rising beauty would be slighted by him in after-days as bearing no comparison with Mrs. Brandon."
I'm normally too focused on 'well, well, if it isn't the consequences of your own actions' to really think about how this sort of thing would affect Marianne, but I mean, it's quite creepy, right??
Imagine you're living your life, happy with your husband, healed and flourishing, and every now and then you find out your HORRID ex is insulting other young women (and they must be young, if they're a 'rising beauty') by invoking your name. Like leave her alone, Willoughby!! You hurt her enough. She was 17 (to your 25) when she was in love with you, she's grown up, seen you for who you really are, and moved on. There's something incredibly selfish about even after treating Marianne so horribly, he refuses to stop associating her name with his own. I wonder how many people would know of Marianne PURELY because Willoughby casually mentions (many times) a young lady has no resemblance to her.
No one wants their worst ex to keep haunting the edges of their life.
#at least the 'standard of perfection' bit seems to be kept secret#but i mean if the other women are slighted by him AS having no comparison to Mrs Brandon as opposed to slighted FOR it#then yeah he's saying it out loud since the ladies don't think the slight is him randomly dismissing their looks but the comparison#Marianne just living her life and a new acquaintance goes#'oh wait are you the Mrs Brandon who knows Willoughby? The one he considers far superior to Miss RisingBeauty?'#Even when the man can't do any active damage anymore because Marianne has moved on and he's out of her life he still lacks the decency to#actually leave her alone and respect her distance#i mean i'm not surprised but i still hate it#and it's such a real thing of manipulative exes regardless of the time period#sense and sensibility#jane austen#john willoughby#marianne dashwood#discourse#austen opinions#mine
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Can you do gender fluid bi flags thranduil?
Here he is!!! Back on my indigenous Sindar agenda hehe :D Thank you SO much for this request, I always love drawing him especially for Pride because I get to design the most fabulous outfits. I used the bi flag colors mostly in the crown, and the genderfluid flag colors in his outfit.
I finished this one on stream so if you'd like to watch me color and render it, here it is.
Pride Request Guidelines
#thranduil#pride#pride requests#bisexual#genderfluid#love me a bi thranduil#and genderfluid is also so perfect for him#if you guys are wondering his outfit is mostly based on traditional Nimiipuu dress for both men and women#though I pulled in a few things from the Yakama and Paiute nations as well#I tend to go with those three when thinking about the Sindar bc their inhabited areas on turtle island are similar climates and biological#environments as Greenwood the Great and the rest of Rhovanion#also they all three live in the same area of turtle island roughly and have cultural exchange with each other#and I tend to envision the Sindar not as a uniform group but as more of an umbrella term#for several different nations of indigenous elves#i was so excited to do this bc I haven't drawn him since last year#and my headcannons for him have changed quite a bit since then
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the pathologic Kin is largely fictionalized with a created language that takes from multiple sources to be its own, a cosmogony & spirituality that does not correlate to the faiths (mostly Tengrist & Buddhist) practiced by the peoples it takes inspirations from, has customs, mores and roles invented for the purposes of the game, and even just a style of dress that does not resemble any of these peoples', but it is fascinating looking into specifically to me the sigils and see where they come from... watch this:
P2 Layers glyphs take from the mongolian script:
while the in-game words for Blood, Bones and Nerves are mongolian directly, it is interesting to note that their glyphs do not have a phonetic affiliation to the words (ex. the "Yas" layer of Bones having for glyph the equivalent of the letter F, the "Medrel" layer of Nerves having a glyph the equivalent of the letter È,...)
the leatherworks on the Kayura models', with their uses of angles and extending lines, remind me of the Phags Pa Script (used for Tibetan, Mongolian, Chineses, Uyghur language, and others)
some of the sigils also look either in part or fully inspired by Phags Pa script letters...
some look closer to the mongolian or vagindra (buryat) script
looking at the Herb Brides & their concept art, we can see bodypainting that looks like vertical buryat or mongolian script (oh hi (crossed out: Mark) Phags Pa script):
shaped and reshaped...
#not sure how much. what's the word. bond? involvement? not experience. closeness? anyone in the team has with any of these cultures#but i recall learning lead writer is indigenous in some way & heavily self-inserts as artemy [like. That's His Face used for#the p1 burakh portrait] so i imagine There Is some knowledge; if not first-hand at least in some other way#& i'm not in the team so i don't know how much Whatever is put into Anything#[ + i've ranted about the treatment of the brides Enough. enough i have]#so i don't have any ground to stand on wrt how i would feel about how these cultures are handled to make the Kin somewhat-hodgepodge.#there is recognizing it is Obviously inspired by real-life cultures [with the words;the alphabet;i look at Kayura i know what i see]#& recognizing it Also is. obviously and greatly imagined. not that weird for you know. a story.#like there is No Turkic/Altaic/Mongolic culture that has a caste of all-women spiritual dancers who place a great importance on nudity#as a reflection of the perfect world and do nothing but dance to bring about the harvest. ykwim...#like neither the Mongols nor the Buryats nor the Tibetans dress the way the Kin does. that's cos the Kin is invented. but they're invented.#.. on wide fundations. ykwim......#Tengrism has a Sky Deity (Tengri) with an earth-goddess *daughter* whereas the kin worship an Earth-Goddess mother of everything#+ a huge bull. Buddhism has its own complete cosmogony & beliefs which from the little I know Vastly Differ from anything the Kin believes#like. yeah. story. but also. [holds myself back from renting about the Brides again] shhh...#neigh (blabbers)#pathologic#pathologic 2
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Snoopy #35
5/11/2024
#peanuts#snoopy#art#35#isometric snoopy!#not really the angles aren't perfect 60/120 degrees#isometric + no lines was my A E S T H E T I C when i was like 15 lol#do u guys remember crossy road?#his ears look like chocolate bars or smartphones or something#fun fact: phones have several types of shape and one type of shape that older phones could have was called a candy bar shape#which refers to phones that are sort of like brick phones but slimmer#slim brick if you will. slim bricc.#remember when everyone was obsessed with the slim thicc body type and it was everywhere? and now i feel like i never hear anything about it#raise ur hand if you're sickkkkkk of women's body types being treated as a trend 🙋♀️
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The Hunger Games succeeds (and more so achieves sort of mythic effect) because it approaches dystopia through the timeless-- it (and Ballad) brings these universal ideas to a very personal lens and asks questions like "how do we begin to excuse evil in our lives" or "how do you hold on to goodness in the midst of oppression". And because it is so invested in the transcendent it lends itself to very powerful symbols, which give it that mythic feel.
Orwell's books (Animal Farm and 1984) both succeed through a very different approach to dystopia (Animal Farm isn't really a dystopia in the traditional sense but it has a lot of the elements). Orwell succeeds through real perceptive insight into the inner mechanisms of the subjects of his critiques. Orwell has vision that can cut deep into the way that things like propaganda or 'controlling the narrative' work and then, having dissected them, hold those tactics up for all to see.
And I think a lot of dystopias fall short because they get tangled up in the Idea of their story. The "what if" they've created. Either focused too much on the Issue-- too narrowly to be universal, too broadly to be revealing-- or too disconnected from anything genuine. And because they get stuck at that particular point they don't have much more to offer than "wouldn't this be bad?" And if you get a pretty good writer they can make that feel insightful but really it doesn't have much more to offer than whatever absurd YA book comes to mind first when you hear "bad dystopian novel".
#wouldn't this be bad' books (in terms of concept) really hinges on how valid the concept is#as a reflection of actual problems#because like with divergent (divergent I love you. they could never make me hate you.) the probably is really that the concept is#A. ill-defined and B. pretty far divorced from any real problem#(even granting that in dystopias in general we're dealing with hyperbole)#So if you compare it to something like Uglies#as far as how good they are as a dystopia uglies is more effective because there is a much clearer more real critique present#(though I think overall divergent is at the very least a more enjoyable book.)#but anyway actually the core of this post is not about which ya dystopias work and which don't#actually this post is about why I think handmaid's tale doesn't work for me and actually has very little of value to offer#because deep down I think that all it has to say is 'wouldn't it be bad if we made all women sex slaves?#the hunger games#1984#animal farm#and the quality of the and. yeah dude. that would be bad#and none of this is to hold either hunger games or the orwell books up as like perfect books#i love hunger games but its flawed#and as a STORY I don't think 1984 is particularly effective#but as dystopias I think they are exemplary#and there's a reason they have the staying power that they do
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by the way female characters with no military training or experience actively assuming vital support roles while the experienced and trained soldiers who happen to be male because most of the soldier characters were cloned from a dude isn't misogynistic
i dont understand what the hell people want. did they want besany (who accepted a blaster and used it to start a siege in a hospital room to save fi's life) to go along on the mission to recover dar and niner from coruscant? for Diversity?? do they want her to magically gain combat skills instead of using her existing management abilities to take charge of what amounts to a small army when things go to shit and the typical leading figures are down for the count??
do they want laseema to take up marksmanship and provide covering fire?? was getting good with knives and gaining self confidence and a support network that allowed her to threaten a man who tried to hit on her not good enough? is her skill at being able to manage a kitchen and feed several dozen people multiple times a day, a skill highly valued by other characters, worthless to these people
do people want ny, an old woman, who is voluntarily assuming a LOT of risk to help both jedi and clones who are being harmed by this war, to like... kill somebody?? to not bake cookies as an act of love because that... idk somehow undermines everything else about her???
is it that rav and parja, the two female characters who grew up mandalorian, also aren't actively participating in shooting people??? why would it be misogynistic for them to be the ones who are building the safe haven to be used as an escape network for slave soldiers.
did they want etain to do MORE fighting than she already does?? like her entire character and arc is a complete landmine but you do have a woman involved in the military if that's the only benchmark for 'is it sexist' you've got
like why do people want the female characters to go help shoot people so bad. why is most of them finding a useful support role less valuable to people than the guys who go do the shooting. did you miss that a huge point of repcomm is that the war is like. Bad. and most of the characters would rather not be participating but have no choice. and it's having terrible effects on the people on the front lines. why do you want civilian women to get themselves voluntarily involved in that
#repcomm#repcomm meta#verp talks#like genuinely 'repcomm is misogynistic because the women are in the kitchen' makes me see red#also the men help in the kitchen#frequently.#i am way more concerned about whether female characters in a book are fleshed out and treated as people than whether they do some baking#i actually grew up in a culture where men were NEVER expected to do any kitchen work#i know what it looks like and whats shown in repcomm is NOT comparable#kt did a really really fucking good job at portraying a gender neutral culture#especially in the goddamn early 2000s#im not saying its fully perfect but she did a way better job than the people who complain about it would do#AND ANOTHER THING yall should read kilo 5 (also by kt). im dead serious#the kilo 5 squad is made of six people#three of them are female#the women are arguably carrying about 85% of the badassery on the team#AGAIN IF ALL IT TAKES FOR YOU TO CONSIDER A FEMALE CHARACTER NOT BEING A MISOGYNISTIC PORTRAYAL BEING IF SHES BADASS.#kilo 5 does have you covered there
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"We need more evil women" yall couldnt even handle anna angel
#pathologic#anna angel#sorry some of yall hate women and it shows#🤫 youll excuse everything the men do but the second a woman does something...#reminder that trauma survivors dont have to be perfect victims there arent “good” or “bad” survivors yall
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one of several moments in the series where percy is like "she would have been pretty but--" lol. sorry but who asked bro

#not sure where the “percy is a woke male feminist” stuff comes from honestly....... are you sure. I think he has some growing to do#you can do whatever you want to justify this but this is just straight up headassery. it's the freaking sphinx.#why are you even evaluating how pretty it is let alone thinking “she's wearing too much makeup”#and yeah this is rick's own bias shining through but let's be honest. is it absurd for a teenage boy to have a thought like this#and then he's fatphobic towards leneus in tlo </3 </3 percy you have to do some self-reflection#I shouldn't have to say this but I absolutely love percy he's one of the characters I write and post about the most#REAL percy fans can acknowledge that he's not perfect 🫵#and one shouldn't have to deny the existence of a character's negative traits in order to justify liking them#controversial but I wouldn't term most pjo characters feminists including most of the girls/women#partially because they're kids with limited worldviews + I wouldn't expect children to have well-thought out opinions on the subject anyway#and partially because /being/ a feminist isn't just having the safe and uncomplicated opinion “men and women are equal”#it's how you act it's how you think it's how you treat women it's how willing you are to actively be anti-misogyny etc etc etc#pjo fandom is highly misogynistic itself tho so I'm not putting this in any tags <3#baye.txt#pjo#percy jackson crit#<- out of necessity
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Everyday i wake up and think abouthow sad i am that lestat the musical is objectively a horrible musical because i really do think interview with the vampire would probably make the best musical ever
#TO ME#interview with the vampire#iwtv#the vampire lestat#lestat the musical#okay but like litterally the structure of the story would be perfect for a musical#perfect two act structure#the interview framing device would work SO WELL#a play is also like the only place i think you can actually do book accurate armand#because its theater so you can just have short women and youngish theater twinks play him#claudia works WAY easier in a play for pretty much the same reason of suspension of disbelief being different#like in a play all that works so much easier#or like anne rice style oppulance and sensuality would work amazingly in a broadway style production#literally you cant tell me it doesnt also have the exact same audience as the longest running show on broadway phantom of the opera#JUST THINK ABOUT THE THEATER ACTORS PLAYING VAMPIRES PLAYING THEATER ACTORS PLAYING VAMPIRES#it would specifically be my favorite thing ever#i just think theater is actually the only place you can truly make annes vision come to life#god how i long for lestat de lioncourt to sing showtunes to me
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clear sky’s fridged women polycule when
This man's victims need more than a polycule, they need a domestic abuse shelter
#I need a stiff drink after today's reading and also pamphlets to give to canon!Star Flower#Jesus christ#Bone babble#I cannot believe that someone unironically put OBEDIANCE as a positive trait for a perfect wife to have outside of a christian cult handboo#For the guy whose violent crimes are exclusively aimed at women#I feel dirty#Am I insane? Why am I the only one who consistently points out serious shit like this in this fucking arc#Does no one else see it???????????#Im praying to Patron Bumble PLEASE MRS BUMBLE CLEANSE ME#Micah and his wife are also coming into the shelter btw. Im counting them for completion sake. Micah and Snake.#The shelter is broad and has many beds#For context all im doing a read-thru on the side blog#It's REALLY bad#Im at the worst parts of an already rancid arc
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I've had an odd nostalgia for the Once Upon a Time series of mediocre short-novel-length fairy tale retellings. I've been wanting to read the retelling of "East of the Sun, West of the Moon" from that line.
The trouble is that there is no such book.
Which makes me want to write it.
Unfortunately, the only straightforward traditional retelling of that fairy tale I want to write doesn't fit with that style.
But thinking about it got me excited about that old idea all over again.
#adventures in writing#why do i get all my best and deepest ideas when in line for confession?#had the above train of thought while waiting#and it brought that story idea back vividly and gave me all sorts of enthusiasm for it#you see there's a strong thread even in the original of christianity vs. paganism#and it could be drawn out to make something very interesting#the heroine is brave and bold and wants to be a saint#recognizes the potential for heroism when she agrees to marry the bear (knows that the old ways hold him under a curse)#but the doubts that her mother introduces are the first time she truly faces fear and she fails#but she insists she can fix everything#and after going around the world and getting help from mysterious women and all four winds#earning treasures and sacrificing them for her husband's sake#she gets the nights alone with him and he won't wake#and she has to face that she *can't* make up for what she did and her best efforts *can't* save him#and finally has to admit that she did an unforgivable wrong#and it's her tears of remorse that finally wake him#(a parallel to the wax that woke him when she betrayed him)#and only *then* does she get the opportunity to wash out the stain (the wax on the shirt) from her sin#and it's not a perfect parallel but there's resonance and it could be lovely#unfortunately i feel like i'd have to do more research on nordic cultures and folklore and i don't really want to do that
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