#WHABAM! now safe for endos

[londyn-slays]

LITERALLYYYYYYYYYY (NO SYSCOURSE)

email written by the author of the DSM-5

taken from SAS(@\sysmedsaresexist)'s post

i have no comments

Edit 30/7/24: added link to the post in question

[turnitsysclusive]

reminder that fictives struggling with missing people from source that they have memories with are valid and deserve space and time to process their situation !!!

[themoonlitesys]

Having DID, we still don't entirely understand "traumagenic" or "endogenic" systems.

Why can't we all just ignore what we don't like? If you don't like what someone's doing, turn the other cheek or go cry in your own corner. Can't you learn to be nice? We're all people, whether you want to treat someone that way or not.

Endos, if you see this, we don't care who you are. We're still not entirely sure whether we— for lack of a better word—support you, but we will never disrespect you. You're safe here.

- 🏨 Anya

[rawr-systemotes]

hi and I’m here to kindly correct some people :)

(small tw as SA is implied in a part of this post) I have recently seen posts about endos that say stuff like

‘I wonder how an endo would react to REALLY being a system, all the stress amnesia ect’

well buddy let me tell you as a pro-endo traumagenic system, this argument SUCKS.

I have been taken advantage of because I literally could not get anyone to front due to the stress of the situation. I was too blurry to do anything but react the way my abuser pleased. I know what this is like and I hope you know as a traumatized system it’s kind of cool people aren’t dealing with plurality for that reason.

The way you have to make other people feel like shit because you had something shitty happen to you is disrespectful and really sad, man

I know my system came from trauma but do I sit around and say I don’t want people to experience the positive parts of my issues? Of course not!

if somebody could have the ability to hyperfixate when they wanted how they wanted would I complain that they’re faking my ADHD? No.

I want people to be happy even if my version of that thing wasn’t happy for me, quit trying to make people miserable because you’re miserable, everyone deserves happiness y’all :>

[reveriestarsystem]

I can't find the original post that inspire this but it doesn't mater if you view trauma as not bad enough to justify having a system

Stfu rn

trauma is trauma, and trauma is valid

*aggressively sends good vibes sent your way*

-jayke

[turnitsysclusive]

"im really exciteds to rotates these characters in my mind" i says with excitements

"in your brain, u say ?" says my brain, whos was actually the FUCK YOU guy and ready to split AGAIN

[turnitsysclusive]

here's a virtual hug for our fellow Endogenics and supporters yall deserve one after all the trauma and harassment you may have had to go through, and sysmeds spreading misinformation and being toxic when you're trying to find a safe space. i love yall, don't give up. have a virtual hug 🫂

[turnitsysclusive]

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fakeclaimers when alters act like source: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when alters dont act like source: 🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when high headcount: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when low headcount: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you dont remember ur trauma: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you DO remember ur trauma: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when an alter dates someone with a different source: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when an alter dates someone with the same source and ISNT dating just bc of said source (guys this CAN happen btw...): 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you tell them that no matter WHAT fakeclaiming does more harm than good: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when factives: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when fictives: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when brainmades: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you tell them there is more to the disorder than just alters: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you act traumatized because you are: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you are publicly talking abt being a system: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you AREN'T publicly talking abt being a system: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you dont tell them everything abt ur system: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you trauma dump to them bc they asked for proof: 🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you dont wanna talk to them: 🤬🤬🤬

[turnitsysclusive]

low headcount? COOL

high headcount? COOL

lots of fictives and introjects? COOL

lots of nonhuman alters? COOL

none? COOL

ur still a system ur still allowed to exist ur existence is not invalidated by how ur system presents

[turnitsysclusive]

”I want to know your headcount” “I want to know who’s fronting” so do I, get in line

[turnitsysclusive]

Alters can be separate people.

No, you thinking alters can't be different people does not change that.

Alters can be you.

Alters can be your alternate states or they can their own distinct personalites.

Alters can be different parts of you.

Or Alters can be headmates.

Alters can be people.

Alters are not always separate.

But it's up to you and your system to decide that.

[turnitsysclusive]

"Source trauma" and "exo trauma" is real btw.

You can have trauma from something that didn't actually happen because trauma is a reaction to a distressing event, regardless of the actual event happened. Both are comparable to real trauma, so for the love of god stop acting like introjects can't be traumatized from source.

Fictional introjects can be IN their source, they can come from their source. They are no different from other alters.

They can have real experiences as being that character because they're can be that character and if they genuinely believe they do/are, that's not a bad thing and whether source separation is needed, the alter will come to their own conclusion some day.

[turnitsysclusive]

sometimes being a system is like having a twitch chat in your brain but sometimes its like banging your head against the wall in the dark to find a switch that will send a working-but-very-dim bat signal to the other side of the world and just praying they’ll see it and understand

[turnitsysclusive]

When you get to comfortable using "We" pronouns and accidentally use it in front of someone you probably shouldn't:

[turnitsysclusive]

system protip: if trying to keep track of your switches and fragments feels impossible and is driving you crazy, stop doing it. or at the very least dont put as much weight into making it perfect. you dont need to track every switch, you dont need every fragment logged. sometimes its easier to just exist as a system than drive yourself up the wall trying to micromanage everything about your system

[turnitsysclusive]

me a few years ago: why do i feel like i just came into existence when i was 12 or 13? why do i not really remember my childhood very well? why do i have such a horrible memory in general? why do my identity and behaviors vary so drastically?

me now: oh