#WHABAM! now safe for endos

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low headcount? COOL

high headcount? COOL

lots of fictives and introjects? COOL

lots of nonhuman alters? COOL

none? COOL

ur still a system ur still allowed to exist ur existence is not invalidated by how ur system presents

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i love you systems who call your alters "headmates"

i love you systems who call your alters "voices"

i love you systems who call your alters swears

i love you systems who call your alters things that are silly, weird, or normal

dont let anyone tell you what to call them <3

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a reminder that the host isn’t the only person in the system who should be respected and made to feel comfortable.

the host is not ‘the important part’, we are all completely conscious and capable of our own thoughts, feelings and our own boundaries. our brain created us because it decided that we are all important and needed.

the host is not the only member of a system you should care about.

Note: this includes "Cores" or "The Original"

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Do people forget muscle memory exists

"Why do you and all your alters write basically the same way?"

Perchance because our hand has been writing that way since we learned how to write. Just a thought though

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Idk if others relate. But alters all have a vibe™

Like a lot can factor into the vibe. Their gender, their role in the system, their personality.

But each of those factors make a vibe till the point you can tell who it is. Alot of times it's about eliminating first. Like "this is the vibe of a girl. Out with all the men"

Telling which alters is fronting is playing a subjective game of guess who.

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bitch with DID said they didn’t quite feel like themselves and i said oh im sure

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It'd be such a shame if more pro endos posted a lot more in the syspunk tags to counteract the amount of gross fakeclaiming using our tag.... Such a shame.....

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Calling alters: "those bitchass motherfuckers" ✅️✅️✅️

Calling alters "alters, parts, headmates, pieces": 🚫🚫🚫🚫

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system culture is having a million drafts because different headmates will save drafts and then totally forget about them so they never get posted

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introject conversations are always fictives this and fictives that, but where are my factive bitches? my irl sourced homies? my doppelganger pluralgang?

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Plural culture is is so many people thinking you're fake, but not in a system way

People thinking you're two faced because different alters don't act the same and have different opinions

People thinking you're fake because they don't know about the system

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'Tis not a crime to like being a system sometimes. There's a lot of good things that would've never happened if I weren't a system. I'd be a lot worse off right now if I weren't a system actually. The amnesia doesn't actually bother me that much. I've dealt with it for as long as I can remember and I just assumed it was normal. I think being a system is pretty cool sometimes

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I'm not sure who needs to hear this, but i know i need to here it so

It was not your fault.

it was never your fault.

take care of yourselves, y'all

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"Why are you acting differently??" I'm not. I'm acting like I always do. I'm not the host. I will not act like them. I have told you this. I'm gonna eat your skin if you ask me that one more time. /j

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Having DID or really any memory loss issues makes being sick extra hellish because we've only been sick for abt 3 days and I already forget what it feels like to not be sick

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having DID is like when you're dealing with the worst of the worst you are permanently stuck in a warm fluffy hug. at times you really don't want to be hugged and it's hard to be part of the hug but other times you're so appreciative of the hug and you feel so safe and so lucky to be hugged.