#Trans??

[sockkllyy]

the two of ‘em

[thepiratefish]

Quick Question for the Fellow Lgbtq+

Do I count as trans if iam fine with my gender but not my body?

Like iam good with my name pronouns and identifying as the gender iam now but like I want the Other genders body.

Idk if it Nesiscarily counts as Trans or something else like Nonbianary or Bi-Gender but it's kinda something I've been Questioning for awhile but alot more recently.

[breadcrimesprevention]

tonight i sang for two hours in a church with forty other men and the entire time all i could feel was the worst and most pointed dysphoria of my life. i have never felt more like i’m not supposed to be a man (in a positive way, not in a “i don’t deserve to consider myself in the ranks of men” way or a “i didn’t earn this” way) than i did while learning/singing the second bass parts to carmina burana. i’m super freaked out by this because i’ve never had to seriously think to myself “wait am i really trans” because THAT is one of those things where i feel like i haven’t earned the right to feel that way.

but while i sat there in the pews, with jesus’s stained glass eyes watching me belt out the low notes which fuel my crisis of gender identity, i had never felt more like i’m supposed to be a woman :/

[idekrnyall]

I've been questioning my gender a lot recently. I know I am not cis I understand my profile pic has a nonbinary flag in it. I kinda grabbed that thinking ok this works kinda. I don't know what to associate my gender with because sometimes I want all the gender sometimes I want none of it. I have what would be considered a more masculine hair cut and I've heard people question if I'm a boy or girl. I've been called sir or gentleman multiple times and I haven't minded it. I'm afab btw. I don't care how people perceive me I like having them wonder. But sometimes I wish I knew what my gender was myself. I wish I had a label for it. I dress more masculine or feminine stereotypically exchanged but mostly masculine I feel like. I know I don't particularly like having boobs and I get dysphoria sometimes. Basically I don't know what my gender is and I like having labels. I don't have a label and I'm just confused. I want to know who I am. If anyone has any thoughts from this please tell me. Sometimes I wish I had no gender and sometimes I wish I did have gender. I just wish I understood.

[draconym]

My tattoo artist told me his teenage son came out to him as trans by giving him a bunch of blue cupcakes and a greeting card that said "it's a boy!"

"That's cute," I said.

"It was NOT cute!" he snapped. "I thought he was pregnant."

[talisidekick]

A while back my pharmacist saw my deadname on my profile and accidentially called it out, he corrected and deleted my deadname from the system so only my preferred name shows up now. There was a crowd of people behind me, so as he hands over the pills he apologized, in equal tone and volume as when he called my deadname and lied saying it's been a long day and he didn't mean to call out -his own- name. I quietly told him it was fine and he didn't need to do that for my sake.

His response: "No, it's my name now."

I went to the pharmacist yesterday, his nametag is my deadname. He informed me he's immigrating and in the process he's changed his first name to my deadname to have an English sounding name. That's why he's now able to get a reprint of his nametag to be my deadname. And repeated, with the intense seriousness of someone who is going to die on this hill: "It's mine now. Not yours. I'm taking." His tone indicated that decision is final.

Bro literally deadnamed me once, and has committed to flat out stealing my deadname. It's his now. Legally. Officially. I over heard his co-workers call him by the name.

[nattousan]

*doom music starts to play* I actually kindof like scheduling these kinds of appointments now...

but seriously Fellas, don't forget to schedule a pap smear every couple of years just in case. If you still have a cervix you can still get cervical cancer. ilu

this has been a psa

[mostly-funnytwittertweets]

[thinkspam]

[boy-gender]

To all the trans people who see this tonight, no matter what happens, we will survive. Trans people will still be here 4 years from now and 10 years from now and 100 years from now and tomorrow. We have always existed and we always will. The world cannot unlearn about us; we are too public, too loud, too beloved, too present. Ill be here tomorrow. Please stay here with me.

[d4rkerthanbl4ck]

This will never not be funny to me.

[donnieisaprettyboy]

“what if kids identify with something and it ends up just being a phase-?” good. stop teaching and expecting kids (and adults honestly) to formulate permanent traits and ideas of themselves. everything in life is a phase. that doesn’t make it any less legitimate while you experience it. let people explore themselves and know it’s okay if what you think about yourself changes.

[raqualswonderfunblog]

[ohtransarchon]

thinking about that one moment when I was about to get top surgery

[giuliadrawsstuff]

You are loved.

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