#TY FOR THE ADVICE ANON
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Take some antihistamine when you eat your throat-swelling shrimp and maybe have an epipen handy and you'll be fine ✨
love is real! me and my throat swelling shrimp will never be separated ! till death due us (maybe i shouldn't say that..)
#TY FOR THE ADVICE ANON#i love the sparkle too LOL maybe if sparkles were allowed in emails the world would heal#i appreciste this <333 sounds so professional too !!! i feel comforted#I SHALL EAT MY THROAT SWELLING SHRIMP SOME MORE 🗣‼️‼️‼️
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my college roommate.. who i have some gay tension with.. told me if we were characters in ouran, she'd be tamaki and i'd be harhui. thoughts? reading too much into it?
Important question: how hard does she ship Tamaki and Haruhi?
#this is an excellent anon to receive ty#don’t take my word for relationship advice tho I’ve only been with one person for 8 yrs by some miracle#anon#asks#I wish you the best anon!!!
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How did you get your job on sunny? I really wanna go into the entertainment industry.
iv told th story b4 but i got onto th show bcuz i just happened to b n th right place @ th right time
was working on smthn completely different nd drunk on th camera truck during one of our wrap days me, the DIT, nd the loader wer talking abt fave tv shows nd when i said tht always sunny was mine th loaders just like "oh lol funny im the 1st AC on that. i can get u some days if u want" ???
so i...did some days...then i did a season...and now im core crew i guess
#FUCK this just reminded me that i ghosted him a week ago after starting the conversation OOPS ty anon#but yea the entire industry is CONNECTIONS and luck. i never know how to give advice on that. its who u know.#college is a waste of time nd money but also one of th best places to make industry connections. hellish conundrum#working as a grip or a PA is a good way to get in on stuff bt doesnt always provide a ladder upwards or into specifics if u have an end goa#its honestly...a terrible industry....i wdnt actually recommend it to people lmfao its a super unstable way to exist theres no job security#im unemployed for most of my life and just gotta pray i work enough hours to keep my health insurance#newsflash! havnt had that in years!#but yea its....idk man. im lucky for my opportunities but overall its really dire out here#and its just ben getting worse and worse#the motto in the industry going around right now is 'survive until '25' bcuz of just how few job opportunities there are#literally everyone is struggling lol.....do something else#ask#ramblings#anon
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Hey dizzy! Do you have any advice on how to write George dodging questions?
The best thing about George is that honestly, anything can come out of his mouth. I think if he's being put on the spot on stream he'll opt for silence or just saying "no" to something he doesn't want to answer but in a more private conversation I think he'd just go off the wall trying to distract whoever he's talking to first.
"George, what's your favorite color?"
"Colors are a societal construct. Idiot."
"Yeah, but what color do you like most?"
"You're being ableist. I'm color blind, remember?"
"But what's your favorite color."
"Wow, I'm being interrogated. He's going to arrest me, your honor. Lock me up and throw away the key."
etc etc
because there's really never any predicting what comes out of George's mouth, you can kinda just have fun with it, basically?
i hope this in any way helps!
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Hi. I’m struggling a lot and I was wondering if you could write a Eddie comfort fic?
Im sorry if that’s too deep. My dad died a year ago and the holidays are really hard. Anyway. I’m sorry this is awkward lol i really like your writing.
hello! first off i am truly deeply sorry for your loss, i hope you are doing well and finding your way through the grief. second of all, thank you so much for this request and for your kind words, and for trusting my ability to at least attempt to do this request justice — i really hope i do. third of all, i'm so sorry you've had to wait and thank you for being patient with me, i wanted to make sure i was in a good headspace to tackle this but also wanted to make sure i got to it before the next holiday. i hope, again, that i do your request justice and that you find comfort in this fic. this is for you, sweet anon!
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you turn your head at the squeeze of your shoulder, meeting a soft gaze that regards you carefully yet sweetly, big doe eyes that manage to catch your attention and pull it away from your cloudy thoughts. a smile just for you, and you do your best to return it, but eddie’s expression twists a little more into sympathy when it falters on you almost immediately.
“hey. you with me? we can go, if you wanna-“
“i’m alright,” you assure him quickly, resting a hand over his and returning the comforting squeeze. “promise.”
you turn your head away, looking back towards the commotion. steve had put together quite the party, everyone in attendance; you watch him and robin bicker over something likely not that deep, yet both are firmly planted in their views, exchanging exasperated expressions and words that are tinged with humor and desperation. robin sees you watching, waves, and when you only manage a quirk of the corner of your mouth she falters slightly, glancing at eddie and then smiling at you again before turning back to steve.
eddie, who’d kept his eyes on you, meets eye with robin and you feel another squeeze before he leaves your side to approach them. they talk quietly, trying to make it not obvious they were talking about you, but steve’s worried glance your way spills the beans. you can’t help a soft sigh, lowering your head a little.
there’s a moment of guilt. you didn’t want them to feel bad for you. you didn’t want them to worry, least of all eddie; whether you wanted him to or not that boy was going to worry for you. you hold yourself at the middle, can’t help that shrinking feeling, heaviness in your gut.
the three share smiles and nods, and then eddie turns away and heads back to you, keeping his touch light and easy as he fixes a little bit of your hair, “think i’ve hit that time, sweet thing. mind if we head out?”
your heart beats a hard pump and your throat clenches. he so badly doesn’t want to make you feel bad, wants you to feel like it’s on his terms, wants you to feel okay with leaving early. eddie can read you so easily, and you’re both thankful for that and pained by it. you want to tell him again that it’s okay, if he’s really having fun you didn’t mind staying a while longer. but words die on your tongue as he pulls in closer, makes sure his eyes are all you can see, wants you to really hear him.
“it’s okay. i promise.”
just as your eyes start to water, he pecks your forehead and wraps an arm around your shoulders, leans you into him so you can hide yourself there.
“sayonara, goblins!” eddie throws up devil horns and wags his hand, the party bid their goodbyes joyfully behind you as eddie leads you out the front door, helps you up into the passenger seat of the van before driving you to the trailer.
he’d taken you right down to his room, laid down on the sheets and let you lay yourself on him, petting your hair while you hid your face in his neck and vented tears and frustration. when talking becomes too hard he rests lips against your temple and gives soft pecks, murmurs to you gently, reassuring words.
“you’re okay… i’m here… just let it out, baby, that’s it… i’ve got you…”
his love is present in everything he gives you, and even though you feel so empty, eddie is adamant in helping you feel more full with that love. you didn’t have to be okay for him, eddie would always take you as you were; there was never any pressure to put on that mask around him, because to him the mask was glass. he’d learn to see you, through and through, and you him. when everyone else heard ‘i’m fine,’ eddie could hear the ‘please help.’ and eddie would always help.
after a while you’re both sat up on the bed, cheeks since dried and now you were dressed in one of eddie’s baggy old corroded coffin t-shirts and a pair of his ratty plaid sweatpants. you have his headphones over your ears, holding the muffs firmly against you to let the music envelop you. eddie watches with a warm smile and shining eyes.
you see his gaze flit up to something behind you, a grin spreads, but before you can react there’s a light tap on your shoulder. pulling away the headphones and turning, you see wayne standing at the bedside almost shyly, looking right at you and smiling as he holds something behind his back.
“know it’s pretty early but, uhh… seemed like you could use a pick-me-up… thought i’d give you this now…”
from behind his back he procures a small-ish, colorfully wrapped box, offering it to you.
you crack a genuine smile, carefully taking the box and looking up at wayne who nods at you to say ‘go on now, open it up!’
you tear into it with a light giggle, eddie and his uncle watching with bright eyes as from within the box you pull out… one of wayne’s mugs, from the wall. your favorite one.
looking back up at him you swallow another growing knot in your throat, smiling wide but it trembles.
"now you, uhh... you c'n use it here, if you like. that's your special mug now. or-or if you'd wanna bring it home..."
“th- … thank you, wayne.”
he rubs the back of his neck, relieved you like the gift.
“don’t mention it, kid…”
#i really hope it's alright wayne is here too!! i thought of him giving you the mug cause he's not good at words but wants to make you happy#anon i truly hope this is comforting for you and that i did your request justice; i hope you’re doing okay!!!#ty to knucklehoagie for giving me some advice and reading my ramble 🥺🥺#eddie munson#wayne munson#eddie munson fic#eddie munson fanfic#eddie munson fanfiction#eddie munson request#eddie munson drabble#eddie munson comfort#wayne munson comfort#eddie munson x you#eddie munson x reader#mine
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i do not mean to alarm you but "blood and soil" is a nazi slogan 😭😭😭 (originally "blut und broden")
Oh dear! Thanks for letting me know, as I was unaware!
I chose the name cause it has a lot of meaning for my story, (the blood had more relation to familial ties, as well as violence, the the soil was more about uncovering truth) but I guess I’ll have to think about changing it? I mean, the plot has 0 references to nazis, but if any Jewish people had some input that would be really nice and I’d appreciate it
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Was reading your get to know me post and it got to the part of nicknames. I was wondering if I could call you "bro"?
Yeah, that’s fine ^^
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How do you write so fast???? I want to become such wizard too...
One of my very first memories is sitting under the sink at a Ramada Inn with a notebook and pencil scribbling out a "story" and then getting up and "reading" it to the grandparents who'd driven to visit. I was 3 or 4.
I've just always written stories. A lot of the planning stuff just happens automatically in the back of my mind if an idea sticks around long enough. If an idea keeps up with me long enough I write it down, I tend to have enough of a plan to put a dent in the early part, which is the hardest to write for me. And once that part is down, the rest of it just keeps coming.
I wish I had some tips to share, but I really don't. I am, unfortunately, one of those annoying writers who has literally always written and can sometimes turn out huge word counts.
I've also dealt with all the negative aspects of writing: writer's block, story fatigue, not being able to really feel my fingers because I kept typing long after I knew I should take a break.
Enjoy what you're writing. That's the advice I have, I guess. Enjoy it, and that's what makes every other part of it worth it.
Oh, and take breaks and stretch for god's sakes. Learn from my mistakes.
#writing#ask#anon#advice sort of#also i think i type something like 120 words a minute at this point#so part of it is just tying speed
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sorry if this is oversharing but here's my two cents ! i dated someone for 3 years who never put in the effort, never was the first to call, left me on read, never texted me first etc. It makes you MISERABLE. and i always had this idea of if i just said the right words they would change. if I told them enough times that i was unhappy and wanted more effort from them, they would start treating me right. they would always say they would do better, and then did the same.
there's no magic word combination. some people are just built like that forever, no matter how much u plead. it really makes u feel worthless after a while. unfortunately she sounds just the same. after we broke up i realised i only tolerated all that shit because i found them SO SO SO physically attractive. and it made me feel so good about myself...like look at me i can pull this absolute hottie...and i realised i was in love with that feeling more than i was in love w them or their personality.
i hope this is even a little bit helpful ! best wishes !!
hi !!! that sounds really horrible i'm sorry you went through that! i'm so glad you're out of that relationship now though, i hope ur doing ok now !! (long answer so i'll put it under cut)
yh i def understand ! whenever i was in a relationship w smn who was inconsistent in replying etc etc even for a temporary period i felt absolutely miserable i can't imagine what it's like to go through that for 3 whole years...the situation w my crush however i think is a bit different bc we've gone on very few dates (3) and we're not even in a relationship yet, and also maybe in the past i would plead or look for the right combination of words, but fortunately i'm at a stage in my life where i'm ok w just. accepting it def won't work out and i'm moving on
u are right though i think a big aspect of why i'm entertaining this even to such an unserious capacity rn is bc of how she looks 😭 but ...idk how to say this without sounding rly arrogant but she also pulled...me? like i think i only tend to date ppl i find very hot and also i don't feel too bad abt losing her despite her appearance bc like...yh i feel lucky i pulled her but also it was the other way around too yk. she's the one who asked me out at the start 🤷♀️ (i say this but catch me weeping over lost potential in a few weeks) but also ur right as it stands rn its like . the ratio of how attracted i am to her looks:personality is wayyy off and if it doesn't change, i just won't see myself in a relationship w her
#ty for the advice ! i came to this realisation that like. she may just be...rly hot and i may not like her personality so much a few days#ago (i posted abt it) but i kinda forgot so ty for reminding me :) theres def lots of stuff i Do like abt her personality#(ambitious clever sharp kind appreciates poetry and culture and goes to therapy and is chivalrous etc etc)#but theres def a lot to think abt . for now im just having fun basically#also i tell her off quite easily? like i think im good at being blunt w her#only time will tell if shell listen to what i say tho. if she doesnt then ur right and i will let her go#asks#anon#ty anon !! ♡♡♡#crushposting
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idk if this will make you feel any better, but I too have been feeling blue these days. you’re not alone! and your writings actually helped a bit to put my mind off things, lol. I hope it’s the same for you, to be your own safe place.
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yaaa this did make me feel better 🥹 it’s nice to know im not alone, and you’re not either !!
im glad my little drabbles help you!! writing them helps me. thank you for this 💖💖
#if anyone has any advice or remedies for anxiety I will gladly hear you out#but ty anon!! i needed this ☺️❤️#asks
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Ok, this is gonna sound dumb, but how does one get motivation to write? Like, I have characters, scenes, etc planned out in my head, but I'm always stuck on how to start out. I was wondering if you had any tips on going about that? Do you have endings planned out first in mind, or just go with the flow? Any charts made, etc?
Oh no, not dumb at all! A very good question actually. Starting something is the hardest part, imo :). I think it's the question I see most people ask fellow writers.
Starting is hard! I totally understand. It took me YEARS before I finally posted, and that was because Rise of the Guardians was coming out and after watching the trailer I went "ah shit, people are gonna think I ripped Jacqueline off of Chris Pine Jack Frost. That's no bueno, better get this mofo OUT!" I am a notorious procrastinator and the thought of negative feedback actually renders me useless, so I needed a bit of a kick in the butt there 💀💀💀
I think it depends on the person, really. Everyone has a different thing that works for them! Some plan, some just go FUCK IT, WE BALL, and do just that! Here's my kind of. Idk if I'd CALL IT a system? Or a process? But here's what I do, and maybe it'll help you find what works for you?
So I don't really have the end planned right away. I don't usually have ANYTHING planned lol. Generally, most of the things I write start with a hazy concept or idea. For example:
Crystal Springs: What if Jack went through the same thing Zuko did in Book 3, since he thawed? What if someone had to reteach him how to find what powers his powers? Who would they be? How would that work? (this then proceeded to spiral out of control into CS as we know it today).
Frostmas: If Jack was Santa, who was Jack Frost? How did we get from the usual business to a THEME PARK?!?!
Sometimes they're srs like that, other times they're downright silly:
Frog Warning: Haha, I misspelled fog when telling the hubbers about the weather. That's some Crystal Springs ass shit. Jacqueline and Charlie are just minding their business when a frog comes bouncing down the street, the weather is FROG WARNING--oh. Oh, this could be fun!
Actually starting is the hard part, but here's my lil secret: I usually don't start things in order! If I have an idea, I'll go ahead and write it down--whether it be in hazy notes, or actually writing a rough kind of draft, I just get it down and go from there! It works for me for the most part, and then I usually go with the flow from there. Where does this scene fit? What happens before it?
This usually leads to the mess that is my onenote notebook for Crystal Springs, lol. Each story has a tab, and each page is usually a chapter, and I just launch into notes there and go absolutely crazy. Completely HAM. I don't worry about proper grammar or spelling, I just write what I think happens, and brainstorm from there! That's how I get gems like this:
Or like this (CS spoilers abound):
Where on the left is the outline, I suppose, of the work (Chapter 26 of CS I believe this is) and thoughts I have after reading them back go beside the section I thought them about!
Then after that, the actual writing part becomes a LOT easier: I have a sort of outline, and can just refer to it as I make it less messy notes, more actual story chapter. And then, a couple read throughs later, maybe some scene rewrites, and voila! I've got me a story >:)
Starting is hard. SO hard. You're so right, Anon! And before I get too ramble-y, here's my "advice", if you will (aka a tl;dr)
Everyone has something different that works for them, because everyone's writing styles are different. Here's what works for me:
Start wherever. Not at the beginning, not at the end. If a particular scene/part is on my mind, I get it down right away! You don't need to start at the beginning! :)
Get those ideas down! Write out the scene, the character, the idea, the plot point. Doesn't matter how: could be notes, could be writing the entire scene, could be a shitty doodle, just get it written down. Make it real! Put it on a page somewhere!
GET EXCITED ABOUT IT! Be your main cheerleader! give yourself the Fandom treatment and theorize about what happens next, what happens where, etc. And write anything that makes you go OH YO THAT'S GOOD down!
If something else crops up, don't be like "oh man, I gotta finish this scene, though, I can't jump into another thing". Jump into the other thing. Just write it down! Who knows? It may become part of your final story (this has happened to me often enough that I've lost count).
Once I've gotten the burning ideas down, it tends to grow from there. Sometimes going with the flow works very well (and it does for me, for the most part).
After that, I sort the ideas, place them where I picture them (beginning, middle, end), and write notes leading up to the scenes I've already got.
The notes then make it super easy to write the rest of the story, and suddenly I've got a 16k chapter and 20 more ideas to fill the other portions of the story!
So, yeah! Long post, sorry for your dashes, I can stick a readmore somewhere in here if everyone wants, but there's my process. The takeaway?
JUST WRITE! WHATEVER IDEA YOU HAVE, WHETHER IT'S BEGINNING, MIDDLE, OR END, WRITE IT DOWN! :D
Once you've got something, it's a lot easier to start. And when you just go with the flow, and write what you have in mind, it becomes fun, and worrying about starting? Not a problem anymore because holy shit am I having fun, and wow! I've got so much to go off of now! (Also I hate deadlines and self imposed goals, they only make me feel pressure and then the writing isn't fun anymore, it feels like a chore, or a project, or an essay, or a work task. I'm going to be a terrible profesh writer one of these days)
ANYWAY I have no idea if this is what you were looking for, or if this helps at ALL. I hope it does a little bit! I'd strongly encourage you to write the concepts you have in your head right now, and don't worry about putting it all together just yet. Go with the flow, have fun with it, and see where it takes you! :)
And, uh, if any of my other writer friends have any tips and tricks, @lmelodie and @kscribbs and @shittyelfwriter (if u take a breather from kingdoming those tears lol), feel free to add! :)
#long post#dani answers#anonymous#writing#writing advice#SORRY THIS IS SO RAMBLY? I had to really think#I was like hmm. How DO I start?#it can be very hard i will say#these are all things I've done to help get the ball moving#maybe something here will help you anon!#maybe someone else has tips and tricks for starting too!#i will book club this shit i s2g#and ty for asking! seeing someone ask me this??? had me feelin ALL SORTS OF FEELINGS#I was like. I am HONOURED#then immediately went oh no. i hope this does not disappoint#also sorry for all the WEATHER TYPOS#i have since fixed them. weather is on my mind today#frost warning in may lmao
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Look into epiloderm wax. It’s much gentler. It truly doesn’t hurt as much.💗
Okey :) i think i will😇 thank you for the reccomendation 😇💕
Also cause the epilator hurt soso much🥺 that i havent used it since�� also it left little pink/red bumpies where it pull out my hairs. Very unenjoyable😖😖😖
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What can someone do to stop feeling like it's better not to live? What if life is just so tiring?
omg anon..
#first of all ty for reaching out to me when you are feeling like this#but ngl I dont have a proper answer for your question#like idek how I make it through those days too.....#maybe uhm.. distract yourself? ik this is like not effective when you feel like that but you still gotta do it somehow#ahhh idk ;-; but please anon dont give up no matter how tired you are of life ;-;#please dont#if ya need to vent or anything talk to me off anon#or you can vent on anon too#i suck at giving advices but am here yeah? ;-;
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i did some calculations and you wrote 220 thousand words of homestuck fanfiction in a year which works out to more than 600 words a day on average. girl. how. i'm so impressed.
Wow holy shit, really? That is a frankly ludicrous amount of writing productivity. I mean, one should discount like, First Few Months or so Eden who wrote like 20k fucking words in a week, she shouldn't be counted. But yeah. Also I think the actual draft of Early June (not counting the golden mile) is edging up on 200k at the moment which. Damn.
#word of advice kids take your time and don't burn yourself out#also its because EJ is basically All I think about#less so recently just because ive been taking a short brain/writing break but Still#also with hs fanfic its a biiiit less impressive since every dialogue tag counts as a word but still#also all the other tangentially related EJ sequels and side projects which probably total up to around at least 20 or 30k#anyways ty for the ask!#anon#asks
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Hey have you looked into a local food bank? My food bank donates frozen and rrfridgerated food to people who need it. Idk if this is for wvery food bank but mine soes this: You go to drives on a certian day annd just tell them your income and give them a utility/water bill and they'll tell you if u apply. Id look into a local one if you can. I hope you get more donations im in a similar situation so i hope this helps
Hugs 🫂 I live in ontario and our food banks are so packed that it's not even worth the trip.
#i dont have a car either so id be paying $15 to go there just for some canned food#when i could use that 15 to get better stuff yknow?#also#i dont wanna take it away from homeless people or big families#but ty for the advice qwq#asks#anon
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it’s nothing special i’d skip it at that price
yeahh this is why i’ve been putting it off because i saw some reviews and i don’t think it’s an essential product 😭 i saw some girlies on tiktok saying it’s amazing and it smells so good but it’s almost 40€… i’ll just keep using my cheap perfume from zara
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